Ayokequeen: I was coming from work 2 says ago and I saw two bunches of plantain displayed for sale, I quickly packed and told my wife to go and confirm if it would be affordable but to my surprise my wife came back with the bigger bunch for just 7,500 Naira.
Some things are still cheaper here in Ado-Ekiti but not always like that.
BluntCrazeMan: There is something that you do not understand here.
After the Accreditation,, the work of the BVAS Had not ended. It just started.
So, it was you and me who believed INEC’s lies that the BVAS works only at the Polling-units.. The BVAS Machines was supposed to also travel all the way with the Results as the results are being tallied and collated...
HOLD THE INEC RESPONSIBLE FOR NOT DOING THE RIGHT THING.
We are saying the same thing. INEC will not allow technology to work
I am married for five years now and I love my marriage.
I have an issue and I need your advice on how to detach myself from being emotionally connected to my wife.
She mostly have mood swing and I use to have issues attending to her emotions, I want to always at each time check what exactly as gone wrong and how I can fix.
Most often I apologize because I want peace(she picks fault easily and gets angry)
The worst is that we do have sex but we mostly don't make love;
My wife hates being romantic, I can't play with my wife's breasts or buttocks, 90% of the times I tried she says she doesn't want.
I do ask the following questions
1. Am I not attractive? 2. Don't you have emotional attachment to me? 3. Why did you marry me if 1&2 are yes? 4. Is there something I did wrong? 5. Are you thinking about something? 6. Is there something i need to do?
In all she will Only say she doesn't just want it.
It happened that this evening, she was on the couch and I tried touching her best in a romantic way, she immediately changed her mood and said I should leave her as usual.
I asked her why she did that and she said that doing that will turn her on and she doesn't want to be turned on. I then asked if it was a crime for a married woman to be turned on, she said she doesn't want to be turned on because she doesn't want it to lead to sex because she doesn't want sex.
Again I have still not understood how a married woman who claims not to be having any emotional/phycological issues and no offense from the husband will avoid being romantic or being sexual with her husband.
If I need sex she gives as a duty, but I need more than sex, I need a romantic contact mind you i dont have extramarital affairs.
I feel very stupid, I feel like a fool, I feel I am too emotionally connected to her.
How can I stop having feelings for her? As in including sexual feelings for her? I wish I can also give her sex as a duty any day or year she needs it too.
Please I need help on how to do this.
I will appreciate mature responses without insults.
Thanks
Before you jump into conclusion, have one to one conversation with her especially on all the questions you put up there. This is looking like a forced marriage and she's kind of regretting ending up with you
Exousiang01: At what point did you read that he was refused access please tell us or give us a link to the aource that says he was refused access to a lawyer
LoL…. Slowpokes
Someone that claims to be anonymouse goes missing and everyone knows immediately…. He is so anonymouse that people know him so well they noticed his absence…
Use your brain, if he was, his people would have known his whereabout. When VDM was arrested, his lawyer made it known to the public first before anyone else.
BluntCrazeMan: Osita Chidoka was a guest on Prime-Time on Arise-TV, where he gave more details about the research he carried out about the off-cycle elections in Imo, Kogi, and Bayelsa States.
He said that the research was not aimed at criticizing the off-cycle elections, but for them to identify any possible gaps and to make suggestions on how to improve on them..
HIS METHODOLOGY: They downloaded all the results from the INEC’s IREV. And then wrote a Freedom of Information Request to INEC and got their BVAS-Report of the Accreditation Data on the election day, as well as the Ward Collation Results, LG Collation Results, State Collation Results, as well as Report of Polling-units where elections were not held or were cancelled. They digitized all the information and used them for their research.
They obtained all those VERY FEW Polling-Units that were not Compliant with the provisions of the Electoral-Act for the collation of results, and cancelled the results of all those such non-compliant Polling-units. They then recomputed the results again with only the compliant Polling-units.
He said that when a non-compliant Polling-unit is cancelled, all the parties will loose votes that were cast in that cancelled Polling-unit. It is not only one party that looses votes, but all the parties.
HIS FINDINGS FROM THE RESEARCH HE DID: 1. The research revealed that the INEC’s election technologies have impacted positively to the Conduct of Election in Nigeria.
2. The research revealed that our votes count. He said that the research showed that results were not already pre-rigged by the INEC.. The INEC did not present pre-written results in vast majority of the Polling-units, and that in the few manipulations which happened, they only did them at the Polling-units after the elections had been concluded at the Polling-units. Therefore, people should have to come out on the election day and vote, and also make sure that they prevent the manipulations which usually happen after the elections.
3. The research also revealed that the adhoc staff who served as presiding officers and collation officers are not CORE INEC STAFF, and that most of them are people from the immediate localities of the candidates, and therefore, most of them were even willingly manipulating the results in favour of their favourite politicians.
HIS RECOMMENDATIONS: 1. The INEC should immediately upload all the BVAS Accreditation Data to the IREV during election.
2. The BVAS should have an E-Collation Module where the Presiding Officers enters the Election Results into the BVAS with their hands, and then the Party Agents would sign the entered results there on the BVAS, and the same results electronically sent to an E-Collation system. This would be done before the results are entered manually into the Polling-units results sheets. The manually filled Polling-units Results-Sheets can also be snapped and uploaded to the IREV too.
3. INEC should also use the BVAS-like collation technology to collate the various Polling-unit results at the Ward Collation Level, and then transmit it through the E-Collation System, then manually copy out the collated result from the BVAS-like collation technology into the appropriate results-sheet, and then snap and upload the written Collated Results onto the IREV.
Not again BVAS failed us the last time, and it's bound to fail again
Exousiang01: What do you mean by arrest without public information, what do you do in schools these days because most of you went to school but have zero education The police is supossed to make a broadcast or radio announcement of every arrest? Please tell us which country in the world that is done. Brainless citizens everywhere. Or you are saying that the police should make a public announcment notifying the public that they are going to arrest a particular person… Some dogs have higher IQ than many of you Nigerians….
Just go back to jumping trash cans like the raccoon you are.
Your IQ is low. Is he a kidnapper or terrorist? Why are they making it public now if they are not guilty.
Why have they refused him an access to his lawyer, he would have known his whereabout and made it public. That's how its done in a saner clime.
Lifestone: Sincerely I used to respect your opinions, but this one, you missed it. Police has no obligation to make public announcement when an arrest is made
You are wrong It's the duty of police to make it public and give the alleged offender an opportunity to get a lawyer
How can someone be your custody since 5th of August without public knowledge. That's unprofessional
Racoon: Imagine law enforcement agency just abduct someone without public information. Imagine if they were kidnapper disguising as policemen? Lawless country!
Imagine, since 5th of August. What happened to professionalism
officialwdhtv: Evangelist who was blasted by a man for preaching at 4am gets N1m from a good samaritan who said his mum did the same thing many years ago ♥️
Henry2405: You mistakenly picked the wrong luggage at the airport, you got home and found this, what is your next step?
ME:- As a good citizen and a Christian it is wrong for me to take what isn’t mine. So I will empty the money from bag in my room and return the empty bag to the airport
davinchi101: I seriously need your advice on this issue. I'm a guy of 31yrs, and my girlfriend is 29.
She's a very religious and strict lady, and she has the features of a good wife.
The issue I'm currently having with her is that whenever she does or says something against me that I don't like, she will never accept her errors and apologize. She will always stand her ground that she didn't offend me, and can't say sorry.
Often times, I get angry and refuse to talk to her for days, and she won't also make attempt to call or resolve the matter until I later reach out to her for peace. it's really weakening me as a man to always be the one apologizing even when I'm the one being offended.
Last week, while we were on call, she ended the call abruptly on me which really got me pissed off. She claimed it was because I was singing while on the call, and was not listening to what she was saying. This is not really true because we've talked for almost an hour, and at a point their was silence and I was just singing hymns.
When I reached out to her about how offended I was about her action, all I expected was a sorry, rather, she was claiming her right on how she has not offended me.
From that last week up till today, iv not called her, and she hasn't reached out to me for peace. This is a woman we're already making plans on having our wedding by next year.
My main issue with her is the ego, and never ready to apologize unless she feels she's wrong.
I'm seriously tired of all these and I think sorry should be the easiest thing to say for both a man and a woman. I really need your advice.
In marriage, it's all about forgiveness and not who's right or wrong.
2. Respect is earned not demanded. If you don't demand for it, until you earn it, you won't get it by force.
3. Give room for communication even when she hurts you. Malice destroys relationships if it continues for days
GanagiBitrus: Chelsea never picked Europa spot. The rules are clear & explicit. Europa spots are 5th position & FA Cup winner.
Oga , everyone know this rule and its subjective, stop trying to be mischievous. I know you understand the context of my post was just before Man U won the fa Cup. If city had won, your attached would have been irrelevant Mr ITK
SmartPolician: I don't want to believe that ladies' obsession with court marriages is to get 50% of their husbands' assets. This is the same thing that destroyed marriage institutions in the west. And Nigerian ladies with yahoo mindsets have been its biggest beneficiaries in the west.
GanagiBitrus: You are actually the one that is ignorant. Let me educate you.
Chelsea finished 6th & that's not an Europa League spot. Europa League is reserved for 5th position & FA Cup Winners.
Chelsea finishing 6th is Conference League Qualification spot. Chelsea will only stand a chance for Europa League if another team does Chelsea a favor by winning FA Cup & also finishing in Top 5.
In any case, I was only comparing Chelsea's present status with their glory era of finishing top 4 & playing UCL.
My English is clear, you can read it again this time slowly. I said Chelsea picked "Europa spot", I deliberately didn't use number positioning because of ITK people like you
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