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Culture › Re: Amazing Yoruba Lady Who Speaks Igbo Language Fluently And Has Never Been To Igbo by femi4: 9:43am On Jun 21, 2024
Bulldozer90:
no. You learn a language by living with the speakers. You could learn another language in your own state for the simple reason that speakers live close to you.

Sort your comprehension deficiencies.
The chances of living around the speaker is high when you travel to their cities . This shouldn't be a rocket science
Culture › Re: Amazing Yoruba Lady Who Speaks Igbo Language Fluently And Has Never Been To Igbo by femi4: 8:58am On Jun 21, 2024
Bulldozer90:
She is "amazing" because she speaks a Nigerian language for her own good. Igbos who speak several languages must be gods then.
Comprehension = zero

Most Igbos who speak several languages do so cos they have opportunities to travel or live in those cities
Foreign Affairs › Re: Niger Republic Is Transforming Its Desert To Farmlands by femi4: 5:30am On Jun 21, 2024
BossGerald:
Credit: African Report Files


While tinubu led Apc government folds arm and watch bandits sack farmers from their farm lands, thereby causing high food inflation never seen in decades.
Damn expensive...I hope it's sustainable
Crime › Re: Mob Overpowers Police, Kills Yunusa In Bauchi For Alleged Blasphemy by femi4: 5:23am On Jun 21, 2024
10mobile:
Religion is evil.

Many of us care so little about God but so much about religion in both Christianity and Islam. Then, we deceive ourselves with the blasphemous thinking that 'Religion = God'.

Let's go back and address The Tap Root Of Nigeria's Problems. Otherwise, we can keep complaining forever because we are our own problems.

You just proved me right by insulting me in defense of Christianity. You're actually doing the same thing those Muslims did.

I was once at a Christian prayer ground in Enugu where a group of 'holy' people were banding together to attack me physically IF NOT THAT I GOT REALLY VIOLENT TOO. It was all because I said that IPOB sit-at-home wasn't good for South-east economy. So, for you to tell me to shut the fcck up shows what you would have done if we were physically close.

Jesus Christ didn't teach you to insult people, even to use dirty words like 'shutt the fckk up', in his defence. You shouldn't be the one defending your God. Your God should be the one defending you.
You just wrote nonsense

You were talking about IPOB....Is IPOB a religion sect.

2. The South isn't like North where one religion is dominant. There is freedom to practice whatever you believe or don't believe here

You can get killed for ethnic, political, cult/ritual related reasons but not religious blasphemy
Travel › Re: Photos Of Some Borders Across The World by femi4: 5:16am On Jun 21, 2024
ZIAZI:
Guy! I'm happy to see that someone shares my view. Nigeria is sweet ooooh, just get money.
It's the "just get money " that made people leave
Romance › Re: Is Snoring Enough To End A Relationship? by femi4: 5:12am On Jun 21, 2024
RealSolution001:
I have this girl that I'm sincere with and everything being equal, I would like to take her to the next stage - marriage.

The issue now is, she snores so badly.

Right now she's lying down in my apartment sleeping while I'm still active working with my system. Guess what? It's as if the building would collapse by her snores

And I'm wondering, is this something I would be able to cope with? I hate snoring with passion.

So how do you judge this now? Is it enough to end it since if we marry, I wouldn't want something to disturb my night rest with snores. Terrible snores. I hate the sound. Hearing it wants to make me run crazy.
It's controllable...tell her to always sleep on her sides
Fashion › Re: Lady Denied Seating At Lagos Restaurant Over Outfit (photo) by femi4: 9:48pm On Jun 20, 2024
Namaster:
Not one but TWO leg chains and a GIANT nosering.

That is a HOOKUP girl.

The restaurant did the right thing. You can't advertise your business inside another person's business.

Hustle for your own customers and stop trying to steal the customers of another business.
Jazebel disciples
Crime › Re: Lady Confronts Man For Allegedly Offering N500 To Little Girls To Touch Them by femi4: 9:44pm On Jun 20, 2024
10mobile:
So many randy sex-deprived men.
Even with his condition, e dey feel horn.y
NYSC › Re: Lady Cries As She Salutes Brother For Helping Her Graduate And Complete NYSC by femi4: 4:48pm On Jun 20, 2024
Yugoslavia247:
Thank God.

Women always appreciate help rendered them if their pussy is not involved.

If you want a woman to respect you and appreciate you. Make sure you do things for her and never have sex with her.

The moment you put your prick inside or ask for pussy. You have been paid. Even if na 1 billion dollars.

Know this and know peace
Not always true especially when the sex is good. The thank you will be in capital letters
Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Sells Roasted Corn In London (Video) by femi4: 4:38pm On Jun 20, 2024
officialwdhtv:
Nigerian man goes viral after been spotted selling roasted corn in London.

Anything to earn legally is welcome.

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappentv


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bsEvJZeVQpw
Something they can do themselves with electric oven

Back then in KD, I used electric oven to make Boli n roasted corn
Sports › Re: Osimhen Not Banned From Super Eagles – NFF by femi4: 12:59pm On Jun 20, 2024
YoungLionken:
Why should he be banned in the first place (according to rumours) undecided??

Finidi's poor managerial skills took the Super Eagles to the backseat in the world cup qualifiers, yet he was quick to point accusing fingers without thinking of the consequences..

Nigerians could care less with people toiling with their destinies. But you see religion and so called respect (we carry these two for head with little or no impact), they don't joke with it as they could go berserk on you if you dared. That's why elders here always think they're right no matter what..

Is Osimhen supposed to be quiet when someone is trying to tarnish/ruin his career subtly, just because he's (Finidi) an elder??

As a logic person, when you see how things are going, you would understand why Africa is still very much behind...
He should be banned. He attacked not only Finidi but Fans as well. Can he do that in Napoli? His inclusion wouldn't give us a WC ticket anyway

Four years ago, he was there against Ghana and we lost the WC ticket
Travel › Re: Naira Crash Makes Lagos, Abuja Cheapest Cities For Expatriates by femi4: 11:17am On Jun 20, 2024
SoNature:
With or without Naira crash, Nigeria and most black African countries have relatively low cost of living due to poor disposal incomes. If you work for Americans from Nigeria, they tag you people from low-income countries.
It's not their fault, it's as a result of the exchange rate....
Health › Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by femi4: 10:58am On Jun 20, 2024
Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?
Tell them before you regret your actions later in life
Sports › Re: Rasheedat Ajibade Named Atletico Madrid Women’s Player Of The Season by femi4: 10:56am On Jun 20, 2024
Vipro:
Assisat Oshola made the biggest mistake of her life, just like Neymar's move to PSG.

The fear of being overshadowed has led to her decline in fame and popularity.
She can't reign forever. We need fresh names as Africa player of the year
Music/Radio › Re: Eedris Abdulkareem Tackles President Tinubu, Adeboye In ‘Emi Lokan’ Single by femi4: 10:38am On Jun 20, 2024
helinues:
Wack song

Lyrically, it was zero
Rhythmically, na pure nonsense
Consistent of the beats , Akuna
The video itself, even upcoming artist would do far better than that.

Bob Marley, Lucky Dube Etc are just shaking their heads in the graves .

The music doesn't sound like a freedom fighter song but instead hungry fighter

Ojude Oba glamour celebration knocked the assertion of Ebin pawa generalization
Sorry that it doesn't sound like your pangolo songs with no substance
Politics › Re: MKO Abiola's Children Who Couldn't Afford Drugs Have Died In Last 30 Years by femi4: 12:50pm On Jun 19, 2024
santaclaws:
MKO obviously didn't groom his sons for leadership... This is why succession planning is very vital. The concept of "first born" controlling everything has done a lot of harm to families as well, cos what if the first born isn't responsible?

Imagine how the entire family's wealth went down the drain after the father's demise. Na wa ooo.
Over 54 children....I don't think he even knows what was going on in their lives. The man was just scattering his seeds without supervision
Education › Re: The Amount Someone Spent To Graduate In Uk by femi4: 12:44pm On Jun 19, 2024
meobizy:
It was 2.5M Naira in my time 12 years ago. The school was affordable compared to top universities. The topic is incomplete. Where is his picture and the graduation event? A moderator created the topic out of his backside or stole a random write-up off X (I don’t care for the old name).
No UK school is affordable again. 12yrs ago, they came here begging us to come and study there but from 2020 or there about, the japa syndrome shoot up the number of applications they are getting and hence the increase in their tuition fee
Education › Re: The Amount Someone Spent To Graduate In Uk by femi4: 12:39pm On Jun 19, 2024
Justiceganduje:
What did he achieve at last? That should be the question.
Working in the UK. In few years to come, he would have recovered all working with UK min wage
Fashion › Re: Ojude Oba Sunglasses Edition (Pictures) by femi4:
Esama:
What is the meaning of all this nonsense you are posting.
Vanity
We deserve the kind of leaders we have.

Ogun State has one of the poorest Road network in the SW yet these grownups are more concerned with spending heavily on eye glasses.

We are wrongly wired in this part of the world
Crime › Re: Endwell Ahuize Ejindu: Gunmen Murder Students Leader In Rivers State by femi4: 11:36am On Jun 19, 2024
Righthussle:
Mr Endwell no endwell.
They prefer to be the political statistics instead of facing their studies
Sports › Re: NFF To Punish Victor Osimhen Over Improper Conduct by femi4: 8:25pm On Jun 18, 2024
fuckingAyaya:
When he was racially abused in Italy, he never made a live video to rant. Try that shit with a foreign coach nd kiss ur career goodbye
e no fit speak Latin grin
Politics › Re: While My Father, MKO Abiola Was In Jail…Kola Was Dating IBB’s Daughter - Abdul by femi4: 8:16pm On Jun 18, 2024
Emu4u2c:
Ibb gave Samuel doe money to the abiola's... after everything with the Samuel doe'a coup in his home country..His family came to Nigeria and ibb asked kudirat for the money in her care which she couldn't account for...
See naration as if he was there

Tomorrow, he will be the first to criticise gistlover for fake news
Politics › Re: While My Father, MKO Abiola Was In Jail…Kola Was Dating IBB’s Daughter - Abdul by femi4: 8:10pm On Jun 18, 2024
sleek214:
It was Abacha that imprisoned your father not IBB.
Indomie generation

Who annulled June 12 election
Career › Re: Which Of These Shifts Do You Prefer? by femi4: 5:09pm On Jun 18, 2024
burp18:
Which would you rather take?
9 to 5 is king. That's when the brain n body work best
Family › Re: Happy Father's Day From A Wonderful Wife by femi4: 5:07pm On Jun 18, 2024
LordReed:
I am shouting out to my wonderful wife, our in house world class chef who cooked me a marvelous father's day lunch.

To all single guys I hope you find a wife like mine.
The plates in the first tray go harvard for design
Family › Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by femi4: 5:03pm On Jun 18, 2024
Magicalsineros:
Before, once a young woman is going into marriage, it's a subconscious believe that her body is strictly for her husband alone, but over the years, the narrative has changed. Most husbands have abused this grace and so many men have pushed Their women to the wall, that today, the consciousness and sanctity of matrimonial bliss is gradually going into extinction.

In as much as I am not supporting cheating in a marriage where the man is good to his wife the following are my opinion

1. Lazy husband
When a woman is married to a lazy man who can't provide, always giving excuses and manipulative. He keeps pushing her to handle all the responsibilities. She has to pay all the bills all in the name of the man is jobless,
this particular wife will likely cheat on her man, because women generally love to see their men being the head that provides for the family.

2. Se.xaul Need
Some men are so clueless. You don't care about her feelings, during se.x, once you're satisfied, that's all. You don't even want to know if she is satisfied too.
This particular wife will definitely be longing for a day someone will make her feel it to the fullest. The person might not be you.

3. Companionship
It's generally proven, once you have someone you can tell everything to without feeling ashamed or scared, the possibility of you comfortably having se.x with him is very high and if that person is not your husband, then you have cheated.

That's why most people ended up sleeping with their bestie or childhood friends.
When there's too much empty space in a marriage where the both parties don't experience that companionship, once she find it in someone else, either at work or anywhere, she will cheat on her husband.

4. Ungrateful human
This particular wife, does not keep record of any good thing her man do to her. She's an ungrateful human, she's selfish and a bad person. No matter who you are to her, no matter what you do, she will always focus on herself alone.

5. Revenge
The man is cheating and hurting her. So, to have her sanity back, she cheat back.
Some women cheat on their husbands to feel better from feeling of hurt and bitterness from their husband's bad behavior. Some will go as far as sleeping with your best friend, house boy, gate men, your Boss at work to make you feel disrespectful.
Evil they said brings evil. Good beings good as well

Add yours, so we can keep learning
Satisfied too? Is it food? Sex is like snacks, you don't eat till your belly is full

Harder, faster, don't cum yet.....have sent many men to their early grave.
Family › Re: Is 700k Per Month Too Small? by femi4: 4:53pm On Jun 18, 2024
ruffhandu:
Hello people,
Please I need some advice.
We live in PH, and have 4 kids. The oldest is 10 while the youngest is 6. I give my wife 700k every month, and this includes general upkeep and maintenace and fuelling of our car (Lexus 330). I don't drive the car (I dey leg, while she uses it to run around, which includes school runs and her business).

I no dey chuk eye for her business. Bu I am getting frustrated as she still makes me believe that the money is not enough. I pay electricity bill (band A) and house rent (3m pa) yet every now and then she puts bills on my head. It is driving me crazy.

When I tell her to list out her expenses so I plan with her, she picks offence. I am really tired of the whole thing and don't know how else to approach the issue without causing too much problem. I know some men whose salaries are 250k-300k in PH, yet they are surviving.
Oga, teach your wife accountability. Don't let her blackmail you fake tears
Politics › Re: Cholera Outbreak: Provide Water, UNICEF Urges Lagos by femi4: 6:40pm On Jun 17, 2024
Melagros:
COMRADES, let's hope that the state government listen to the advice
water cooperation is dead. Boreholes everywhere
Romance › Re: Woman Confronts A Slay Queen Who Used Anal Sex To Snatch Her Husband by femi4: 6:32pm On Jun 17, 2024
Gistmedia10:
In a dramatic public confrontation, a distraught married woman accused another lady of using anal sex to lure her husband away from home. The incident, which quickly drew the attention of onlookers and went viral on social media. shocked

The confrontation began when the wife tracked down the alleged "side chick" at a shopping complex. Overcome with emotion, the wife approached the woman and began accusing her of engaging in anal sex to "snatch" her husband. The heated exchange, filled with raw emotion and tearful accusations, was captured on video by bystanders.


In the video, the wife can be seen breaking down in tears as she confronts the other woman. cry


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YEulgz-joTQ
Madam, go n learn manual, leave the girl alone
Events › Re: My Sister Turned +1 Today by femi4: 6:27pm On Jun 17, 2024
fergie001:
June 16 hurray!

My younger sis, a lifelong United fan, turned +1 today and decided to celebrate it at the home of our 'noisy' neighbours.

Wishing you many more blissful years ahead.. "Mama"
...It takes a full CHEST Man U fan to celebrate at City ground
Christianity Etc › Re: Ebuka Obi Zion Ministry Allegedly Buys Property Of Mountain Of Fire In Lagos by femi4: 6:25pm On Jun 17, 2024
ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
Awon Ashiere gbogbo
Honestly, well said
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn’t Respect Or Love Me Any More And I Think I Caused It by femi4: 6:03pm On Jun 17, 2024
ScotHarvath:
I have been noticing this things for the past couple of months. She even said recently in a fight that I disgust her and she hated me, I wanted to call for a separation after hearing such strong words but she pleaded and I acquiesced.

We have two kids.

Yesterday which was Father’s Day, she woke up at 10 o clock, before she did, I had slept the house and prepared breakfast because I felt she needed to rest.


I went out to with my friends around 6pm and came back around 10pm and asked her to help make toast for dinner and she boldly told me to go the kitchen and make it myself.

I really blame myself for this situation now, I made myself to accessible to all. I barely keep friends. So I made her my best friend, tell her everything about my finances and all. I treat her as an equal.


Is it wrong to treat a Nigerian woman well this days?


Everybody is advising me to get a side chick but I’m not that kind of man, I’m not sneaky or crafty enough to maintain two relationships.

I have been told to stop spending time with her at home but I’m an introvert, I don’t like frolicking with other people unless it’s absolutely necessary and besides I work from home.

I have also been advised to treat her like a stranger in her house and not talk to her for days but once again I don’t want that kind of life. I feel truly trapped.
First thing first...do away with your bad advisers, I can see that you have so many of them. Respect is EARNED not DEMANDED, you need to start communicating better and showing love to your wife. Hate is a strong word, look inward and see where to adjust to know why your woman can use such strongwl word to address you. Treat her with love and she ll respond with respect

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