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So I was wondering why our Queen are throwing in the towel for white man. I stumble on this interesting write up. Hope we black men can learn one or two.

Why? You don't get the bullshit some Black men give.

White men who are like-minded (educated, articulate, open minded, etc.) will not do the following:

Down your beauty while they uphold White women as the sole standard of it.
Call you Bitches, Hoes or Thots (Thot means “That hoe over there.”)
Make asinine distinctions between dark skinned and light skinned Black women. The idiotic phrases “Dark skin or light skinned girls be like” sickens me to my core.
In addition, having gainful employment is NORMAL. Attending college is NORMAL. No unemployed, uneducated Pookie from the corner living off of a woman types of situations.

Growing up and seeing this sickened me.

Yeah Brothers go to school. They play sports. But what do they forget about once they reach that success? Black women. Then what they do? Talk down about us worse than bigots.

Some of us (raises hand) ME and more Sisters like me could care less. I wouldn't have them in my bed so have at it.

I'll say the non MoC (men of color) I've met throughout my life have treated me MUCH better. They're not ashamed of our melanin. They love it. I LOVED my college years!!

When I stopped dating Black men many moons ago, that's when I began to be loved and respected for who I was.

I wasn't expected to live up to a stereotypical image Media conjured out of thin air.

The non MoC in my life weren't jealous that I was educated or expected me to be ignorant and ghetto.

They didn't laugh at how I loved JRR Tolkien, Charlotte Bronte or James Steinbeck.

I wasn't accused of trying to be White.

I wasn't called bitter when I spoke up about disrespect.

They didn't try to hold me down or back or make feel unworthy.

Do you have assholes in every race? Sure. Do you have some that will fetish us just for being Black? Yes, and I steer clear of them. They're sick.

However, I prefer not to be with Black, Jamaican, Hatian, African, etc men. And won't be.

Does it offend? Sure. Do I give a Bleep? Not at all.

I notice some get REALLY bitter and jealous when we date outside of our race.

Since they perceive Sisters as ugly and second class animals, they attempt project their asinine bullshit onto non MoC.

Nah. Save it.

They can't abide seeing us be treated with kindness and dignity, yet these are the same ones who are laid up with Becky with the good hair. *stirs tea* Yeah. Okay.

Why do we date White and other Non MoC?

We've grown weary of Black male antics.
We refuse to be labeled as inferior to White women due to their own self-hatred.
We've become desensitized to just about everything about them.
We will not be treated like trash, called names and disrespected.
We want to live good lives. Not in poverty.
We date them because they treat us like the Queens we are. Who wouldn't want that?

Now some Sisters will hold on to Black men no matter how much they dog them. They'll go to the grave being cheated on and exploited. Well, they can have all of that nonsense.

I've often been accused of hating Black men. I wouldn't go that far but *shrugs* I certainly don't care what they think of me nor do I allow my self confidence to rely on their limited perception.

If that's hate, they'll get over it. So yeah. I'm team Interracial. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

1) the answer is in the question

(They are educated)

2) are you joking? The average black man is racist to his own race

9 times out of 10 a black man will choose a lighter skinned black over a darker skinned black woman

To us, its not the same. Beautiful is beautiful darker or lighter

Grow up and see the flaws in your nationality of men and stop cherry picking

Ilamina:
Lots of Scandinavian blood there
I love Scandinavians
I had the opportunity to meet two Swedish girls and a Finnish girl when I travelled abroad

Some of the most gorgeous people in the world.. Scandinavians and east Africans

Scandinavians gorgeous with their blonde hair
And Yea, Iceland people are the most beautiful

I like Danish people also, just watched a Danish royal movie..

I never knew a Scandinavian will live in Nigeria lol

Common mistake
Technically Finnish are Scandinavian but they dont actually consider themselves Scandinavian

I was born on spitsbergen though, when you were a child you have to had to worry about being kidnapped on the way to school

I had to worry about being eaten alive by polar bears, visit the place its beautiful
Just dont wander off without a guide with a rifle

phoebelove:
_ Maths teacher teaching during break time after double period
Add more

Getting shot
Getting stabbed
Putting up with the mind rotting lies about culture and traditions from the men in this country

Sunnyrado:
What is this one even saying sef, can't you read what you are trying..

Yes, of course
But im not Nigerian and I dont care

Ilamina:
and you are Scandinavian


Your signature looks Swedish

Multiple times ive said

Dad's side im Norwegian/Swedish
Mum side Norwegian/Danish

My last name is Åberg
A Swedish name because my grandfather on dad's side was Swedish
From Täby

But im Norwegian but I live in Nigeria

Cousin9999:
Another point, even though this is a troll thread:

-- Imagine getting up every day to work 8-12 hours, and you bring that money home to a white. Do you have any idea how ridiculous that is?

Wow, these women are so lucky to have you fella
No other countries or race outside Arab countries have domestic abuse levels this high or even close to it

And all studies and research done by all countries that can show that black men and African men are THE MOST PRONE to wife beating and domestic abuse

Cousin9999:
Another point, even though this is a troll thread:

-- Imagine getting up every day to work 8-12 hours, and you bring that money home to a white. Do have any idea how ridiculous that is?

Do white actually even ask a woman to work?
Do Asian men?
Does any race except black men directly a woman to work and help pay bills?

Its utterly shameful that most of you men are lacking the necessary nuggets needed between your legs to actually provide for yourselves and your families without asking your women to help pay the bills

In this world what race of men are in the majority category of asking women what they bring to a relationship?

Thats mainly a black man phenomenon not a global one

Ilamina:
are you white

Hes not, thats why he won't do a video call to prove he is

Cousin9999:
I know this is a troll thread, however:

-- No confident, well-adjusted black person finds white people attractive. Only people who internalized racism, or have some other issue.

-- Black people from "good" families don't get with whites. It's usually poorer and less educated people doing it out of ignorance and/or desperation to escape poverty.

-- There's no need to debate attractiveness of black people. No other group of people on earth is sexier than us. And it's absurd to pretend as if a white finding you attractive has any meaning or value. Whites are not normal. You don't even want to know how they think.

-- Creating a half white child is just birthing another racist or washing away your lineage or someone else's. You clown yourself every time you step out the door with a child that looks nothing like you. Other groups of people are clowning you too.

-- Some people need to stop and think about their actions. Actually allowing a white person to touch your beautiful body...no. No.

-- I've said it before, and I'll say it again. Dark skinned people look better naked. Let's be real. Men, do you really want to look at zombie boobs? Ladies, do you want to look at a bunch of veins and pinkness? You don't.

But just to be safe lets get all the naija queens out of here and keep you men in a celibate quarantine here for 200 years

That should be long enough

Cousin9999:
I know this is a troll thread, however:

-- No confident, well-adjusted black person finds white people attractive. Only people who internalized racism, or have some other issue.

-- Black people from "good" families don't get with whites. It's usually poorer and less educated people doing it out of ignorance and/or desperation to escape poverty.

-- There's no need to debate attractiveness of black people. No other group of people on earth is sexier than us. And it's absurd to pretend as if a white finding you attractive has any meaning or value. Whites are not normal. You don't even want to know how they think.

-- Creating a half white child is just birthing another racist or washing away your lineage or someone else's. You clown yourself every time you step out the door with a child that looks nothing like you. Other groups of people are clowning you too.

-- Some people need to stop and think about their actions. Actually allowing a white person to touch your beautiful body...no. No.

-- I've said it before, and I'll say it again. Dark skinned people look better naked. Let's be real. Men, do you really want to look at zombie boobs? Ladies, do you want to look at a bunch of veins and pinkness? You don't.

The sad thing is that its people like you that spread the hate

Its people like you are the racists

And the hilarious thing there is only 1 race, THE HUMAN RACE!

everything else just a social construct
110 different skin tones and real biological differences at all or we wouldn't be able to interbreed with each other

There is only 1 race

Everything else is

Different ancestors
Different ethnicities
Different nationalities
Different cultures
Different perspectives
Different histories
Different paths
But same biology

Cousin9999:
I know this is a troll thread, however:

-- No confident, well-adjusted black person finds white people attractive. Only people who internalized racism, or have some other issue.

-- Black people from "good" families don't get with whites. It's usually poorer and less educated people doing it out of ignorance and/or desperation to escape poverty.

-- There's no need to debate attractiveness of black people. No other group of people on earth is sexier than us. And it's absurd to pretend as if a white finding you attractive has any meaning or value. Whites are not normal. You don't even want to know how they think.

-- Creating a half white child is just birthing another racist or washing away your lineage or someone else's. You clown yourself every time you step out the door with a child that looks nothing like you. Other groups of people are clowning you too.

-- Some people need to stop and think about their actions. Actually allowing a white person to touch your beautiful body...no. No.

-- I've said it before, and I'll say it again. Dark skinned people look better naked. Let's be real. Men, do you really want to look at zombie boobs? Ladies, do you want to look at a bunch of veins and pinkness? You don't.

🤣🤣

Someone feels inferior

luminouz:
Bro...I originally type something to reference you and mch but it was deleted by the bot. I just want to say, I agree with you. Many of them seem to be on pills for one reason or the other like the resident male on this thread who has been dissing naija men since yesterday but he intentionally killed a black man and went to jail for it. I have friends who actively run away from the women oh...saying it's not worth it but guess what, these women still run after black men.😁

But who said I killed the man? I said i snapped his spine

No more and no less

luminouz:
Bro...I originally type something to reference you and mch but it was deleted by the bot. I just want to say, I agree with you. Many of them seem to be on pills for one reason or the other like the resident male on this thread who has been dissing naija men since yesterday but he intentionally killed a black man and went to jail for it. I have friends who actively run away from the women oh...saying it's not worth it but guess what, these women still run after black men.😁

Thats just lack of opportunity for better
Check all over international news once women have an opinion for someone better they take it

Your marriages when you leave Africa fall apart simply because we treat them better

goran3310:
The point is not to run away, the point is to fight and to make something out of nothing.
If white people took a piece of Africa, they would turn it into Europe or America.
If black people took a piece of Europe or America, they would turn it into Africa.
You cannot run away from yourself.
Parasitizing on someone else’s society can last for a while, but sooner or later a healthy body rejects the parasite, one way or another.

You are fake goran3310

luminouz:
Jesus Christ dude!!! 🤣🤣🤣

You are basically proving my point right by acting like this on social media. Go take your meds!!!

How are you godly as men when pastors are literally willing to bless money yahoo boys gain by scamming innocent and hard working people as long as the church (pastor) gets a cut

You think any god or gods would sell a place in any kind of heaven?

How are your traditions and cultures real?
Compare what you do today to what your ancestors did?

They would not do have half of it for any of the families around today

If you some of your ancestors magically came back to life and saw how you live today, how your families interact, how you cheat and steal and all sleep around before marriage

Millions of single mothers that were never married

Then those ancestors saw a traditional wedding for those types of families (the majority) today, would they be proud or disgusted?

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Did she accomplish it?

Fenrir:
See, you are an African scammer
Why not do a video call if you are innocent and telling the truth

We can screenshot each other and post it
You are silly man attempting this stuff with reverse image searches built into high end phones these days

You know on Google on these phones even if its not set as your main browser

Right next to the microphone image for speach search is a weird square symbol

Thats reverse image search
It takes you to your gallery and anything you screenshot you just give permission and it scrubs the Internet for you sometimes it takes minutes and sometimes it takes hours

The reason part of image is missing is because once you find it you just slide the image up and shows all the details about that Image under it

Even the dates and times have on them are not real

This is why I keep saying video calls and screenshot them

Because when African men are involved a picture proves nothing at all

[quote author=goran3310 post=136445399][/quote]See, you are an African scammer
Why not do a video call if you are innocent and telling the truth

We can screenshot each other and post it
You are silly man attempting this stuff with reverse image searches built into high end phones these days

You know on Google on these phones even if its not set as your main browser

Right next to the microphone image for speach search is a weird square symbol

Thats reverse image search
It takes you to your gallery and anything you screenshot you just give permission and it scrubs the Internet for you sometimes it takes minutes and sometimes it takes hours

The reason part of image is missing is because once you find it you just slide the image up and shows all the details about that Image under it

Even the dates and times have on them are not real

[quote author=goran3310 post=136445399][/quote]How am I lying?
All of those images are from reddit in a reverse image search downloaded and uploaded in the same spot in Gambia

Now compare that picture to the hands and fingers in the others

Do they even look the same at all? The skin tone is completely different and we all know African men are amazing virtual voodoo and cyber wizardry

Ill screenshot and ill bet the same image comes up but without any writing

Bet you

luminouz:
Bro ..you need to chill out. You have been weeping online and now you are asking for our worth as Nigerian men? If all you see about Nigeria is negative, then your wife is not teaching you well

Enough said.

What is youe worth though? Seriously what is it? All the world sees are frauds
Liars
Cheats
Fake religion
Fake and forced culture
And scams

zagorakis:
I don't understand why you think you are in the best position to lecture me and other comrades on this platform about what and who a sociopath is.
The bolded is the typical definition of mental illness.
I rest my case.

What would you know, seriously what would you know?

There is all kinds mental illness in this country and you can see it just walking around here
You just dont talk about it openly and dont see doctors about it
Because of social stigma
Does it look like I care what people think about me?

I have to care what 2 people think and thats it
My wife
And
My daughter

And anyone else if they like me or what I stand for then they can kiss my muscular ass

Any members of your family have the slightest illness you try and beat it out of them or just hide them

luminouz:
Bro ..you need to chill out. You have been weeping online and now you are asking for our worth as Nigerian men? If all you see about Nigeria is negative, then your wife is not teaching you well

Enough said.

And when have I ever said anything negative about Nigeria?

Never, Nigeria is a country and its a beautiful country
The problems with Nigeria are the men of the country

The men making laws and not enforcing them
The men that think its socially acceptable to abuse women, beat women, sexual assault in marriage and using the "words its my right" as an excuse

Im bigger then you
Im stronger then
Im actually trained to use force in ways you are not

So if I believed it was my right just because those things, I could go around bending you over and taking you to brown town because "i would believe its my right" as the bigger and stronger man

Does it make it right? No
Just like you men are never right when you abuse your wives and use excuses to justify it

luminouz:
Bro ..you need to chill out. You have been weeping online and now you are asking for our worth as Nigerian men? If all you see about Nigeria is negative, then your wife is not teaching you well

Enough said.

Mate we support each other
Ask her yourself shes got an account on here

Shes everything ive ever wanted and I love her dearly

She also acts as my leash to stop me taking things to far

Like when I went to prison
The judge said as a father of 3 daughters in his opinion I should not have gone to prison at all
What i did was not a criminal act and wished more men would step in when women are getting abused

But how i did it was a criminal act because I took it too far

I saw a black man, not an African man but a black man in his 50s spike a 13 or 14 year old girls drink and attempt to sexually assault her

The judge specifically said if I had just beaten him and made a citizens arrest that would have been fair enough but actually snapping his spine was a step too far

That is what shes teaching, that i have something I cherish and can lose by taking things too far