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Skeyskey:
Do you know the meaning of sarcasm?

Like ive said many times, im sociopathic I have to be very very careful in life and force myself to care about other people

My wife and daughter are the only things that matter me and I love those people more than anything on the planet and I base all decisions I make in life on one question that i ask myself "will doing this cause me to lose my wife and child?"

My wife and child are my moral compass and anyone that jokes about leaving kids in poverty and neglect sicken me

If this is true then its the womans own fault for choosing that type of man and making him grovel to her parents and extended family to marry her over choosing a man wont do it and will put her first in marriage but those kids had no choice in it at all

DoctorStanley:
Honestly, it's good to be reminded that people like you exist - people who take everything literally.
Why don't you show us where u see on a daily basis a man going to divorce his wife because he gives her 35K with 3 kids while making 600K!!!

And i just gave you an example of where I see it daily
Islamic pleasure marriages and it is the dominant religion in Nigeria at 52% and the remaining 48% is not Christian the remaining 48% is a mixture with Christianity dominating that 48%

DoctorStanley:
Honestly, it's good to be reminded that people like you exist - people who take everything literally.
Why don't you show us where u see on a daily basis a man going to divorce his wife because he gives her 35K with 3 kids while making 600K!!!

Dont take this remark against race because its not
But to me when it comes to good and bad life is black and white and im not talking skin colour

There is no grey area in life
Good is good and bad is bad, i will never see it as a joke when innocent kids are involved and men like me are willing to do truly horrific things for the greater good

Anyone actually watch it? Come on see the funny side Christians around the world openly see the funny side and dont want to amputate heads over it unlike the dominant belief in your country

For all you Christians, is the blasphemy law for you? Or the other belief system? Are there is any Christians in the world that want a deletion sentence for it?

Is there any there Christian country in the world where you can be sent to prison for having a different belief and expression your opinion on a belief system?

Is there any Christian country where get punished at all for anything even a joke about religion?

Or are deletion laws
Imprisonment
Or any kind of punishment for making a joke or criticism about religion always countries dominated by 1 specific belief?

iamteegee:
Stunted Growth: A Spiritual Analogy

During the Nigeria civil war, history records that millions of people especially children died not just from bullets, but from malnutrition. One of the tragic effects of malnutrition is stunted growth. In such cases, the body grows in imbalance: certain parts become oversized while others remain underdeveloped. Often, the legs are too weak to carry the upper body because the growth was not nourished in balance.

This physical reality paints a vivid picture of what also happens in the spiritual life of many believers.

When we are born again, it is our spirit that experiences immediate regeneration. We become “one spirit with the Lord” (1 Corinthians 6:17). The Spirit is fully saved, perfected, and sealed. However, the soul our mind, will, intellect, and emotions still needs renewal and growth. The soul interprets what the Spirit receives from God and translates it into understanding, action, and expression.

This is why the written Word is so important: it is given to us for the renewal and growth of the mind (Romans 12:2; John 15:3). When the mind is not renewed, the believer experiences imbalance, spiritual stunted growth. The Spirit may be full of light, but the untrained or malnourished mind cannot properly express that light, peace is not the absence of chaos but the state of a mind renewed and growing.

The Gallon Illustration
Imagine holding two empty gallons:

One gallon is clean. You pour in fresh water (symbolizing inspiration from the Spirit). When you pour it out, it comes out pure.

The other gallon is dirty, containing oil and particles. When you pour the same fresh water into it, what comes out is polluted, mixed with dirt.

The water (divine inspiration) is the same, but the vessel (the mind) determines the quality of what flows out.

In the same way, when a believer’s mind is unrenewed, their expressions of God’s Spirit are often polluted leading to distorted doctrines, fear-based preaching, condemnation messages, doom prophecies, and confusing interpretations. This is the root cause of many factions and strange practices in Christianity today.

Why Growth Matters

You cannot live in the New Covenant and yet remain ignorant of it. A stunted mind will convince a believer that Christ in them is not enough. It will make them believe that the kingdom of darkness still has power over them, even though Christ has already delivered them.

When believers fail to grow in the knowledge of Christ and in the renewal of their minds, they often act out of imbalance doing regrettable things and missing the fullness of God’s glory in them.

Nations and Nourished Minds

The same principle applies to nations. The reason some nations progress while others remain stagnant is not merely resources but mind nourishment. Where minds are robust, creative, and renewed, progress becomes natural. People can rebuild, innovate, transform, and bring beauty out of brokenness even in their darkest moments.

The Call to Mind Renewal

Believers today must embrace mind renewal as essential. A nourished, renewed mind aligns with the regenerated spirit, and together they bring the body into harmony. This unity spirit, soul, and body reveals the glory of God in fullness.

The world is dark, but God’s light has already shone upon us. If we allow our minds to remain stunted, we dim that light. But if we renew our minds through the Word, godly teachings, and intentional growth, we bring creative innovations, ideas, then Christ in us shines brightly, and we become true blessings to the world.

Final Siblings
Stunted growth is not God’s design for His children. His desire is that we grow holistically,spirit, soul, and body in perfect alignment, expressing the glory of Christ within us to the fullest. Read books, read edifying articles, surround yourself with people that are positive minded, be intentional about your growth.

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How come you never mention all the sexual assault during the civil war?

I actually interviewed the women and girls that lived through it

Where the men at the time in fairly safe areas used it as an excuse to pin innocent women and girls down to violate them

Even now in today's world followers of a particular religious beliefs are rounding up innocent women and girls in the hundreds daily and doing it

And you preach god this and god that
Instead of stopping it, you have pastors in churches blessing money that they know was gained through criminal activity and abuse in return for a share and its not even about religion to those pastors its a business

There is no real religion in Nigeria at all not one scrap of it and fella we all know those that preach the loudest and point fingers are the ones with the darkest secrets

iGist:
A Nigerian man has taken to a popular Facebook Group, Rant HQ to talk about how he rejected the delicious meal his wife prepared for him.

According to the Nigerian man identified as, Oniyangi Abdullahi Badmus, he says he rejected the delicacy all because his wife refused to kneel before him, while serving him the food.

Taking to the platform, he wrote: “My wife brought this for breakfast and I rejected it because she didn’t kneel down when placing it before me”

Check on the screenshot below;

BY GISTMORE.COM >> http://gistmore.com/nigerian-man-reveals-why-he-rejected-the-meal-his-wife-made-for-him

This is the major problem with Nigeria the corruption is in your day to day lives

You suffer humiliation rituals that you call weddings for a womans family and extended family and in return you dont expect a wife

You expect a domestic slave and servant, he should get off lazy backside and make his own food bext time

DoctorStanley:
Is this guy ok at all? Have you no sense at all??. First of all NOBODY who makes 600K will give his wife 35K with 3 kids! So OP is likely jesting. To add to the jest people suggest even power figures. Quite Obvious, yet this guy missed it all as deadly serious!

I live in your country fella, I see this on a daily basis for all you know she could be a second wife like the Islamic pleasure marriages

I see it on a daily basis and 600,000 naira is under £300 and yet you act like it its a lot and family can have a decent life on it?

zagorakis:
I don't understand why you think you are in the best position to lecture me and other comrades on this platform about what and who a sociopath is.
The bolded is the typical definition of mental illness.
I rest my case.

https://www./understanding-sociopaths-good-bad-ugly-our-society-amezcua-patino-szruc

Most police officers
Most politicians
Most of the military

Most people in power in the world are sociopaths

zagorakis:
I don't understand why you think you are in the best position to lecture me and other comrades on this platform about what and who a sociopath is.
The bolded is the typical definition of mental illness.
I rest my case.

https://youtube.com/shorts/Dh7FowLfII0?si=GK5aYyZuXhSnPZ18

You try getting deleted by your own parents from birth for money and see how your attitude towards life and other people develop

I was born normal then forged into a sociopath by 2 evil people you narcissists act like you know it all

34.4% of children sexually assaulted here every year and we all know what major world religion says thats ok, you stand by and let it happen as if its normal and hiding from it instead of acknowledging it and im mentally ill one?

DoctorStanley:
Fenrir you missed this one. Come and tell him you think he's heartless for suggesting 5K and lecture him how 5K is too small.
Zero sense of irony, sacarsm, homour

You all know what I think about Nigerian men and this nonsense goes on daily here, you give your families a pittance and expect gratitude for the bare minimum and struggling to survive

You should ripping into the man and making him feel ashamed not making a joke of it, from most perspectives the wife signed up for it by expecting the husband to grovel to her family and stroke their egos for marriage but those kids are innocent in all of it

You should be making an example of men like this so even thoughts like this stop

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7P81sEhpE4U?si=gXkdqdz5WgiB_8gB

So 2 years later did you get married?

But love is just a 4 letter word to the majority of this country

Weddings are humiliation rituals for the parents and extended family then marriage is slavery and abuse in return

No wonder the wives are ditching the husbands as soon as the get European citizenship then they make innocent European men suffer the families for better treatment

Honestly you are all bad as each other, suffocating in a flawed system and you want to choke the world with it

What you call marriage here is disgusting

MANGAM:
As women age, there sexual libido decline. Child birth is also another factor affecting sexual libido in women.
Ur wife is only adjusting to changes in her hormones.

Not true, after menopause it actually increases
No, sex education in this country at all

dollyjoy:
Aaaaawn! Advocate

Devil's advocate you mean

dollyjoy:
35k is too much. Reduce it to 15k for the entire month.

And im shocked that a woman is supporting this treatment of another woman and 3 innocent kids

They are definitely going be malnourished
And with his attitude do you think hes paying school fees? Medical bills? If cannot be bothered to provide money for decent and nourishing food just the bare minimum do you really think a man like this is funding the rest?

DoctorStanley:
A whole 35K with 3 kids out of 600K, and she no appreciate am. You must have very good heart to even be asking what to do.
Divorce straight!

Its a sad sad world, where a father will marry his daughter off to men like you for traditions and not the daughters happiness and you cannot be bothered to provide a decent standard of living and you are praising men for treating their wives this way? You literally beg to marry women and dont look after them in marriage, well, to be honest I guess its the womans fault for needing to begged for so you're all just as bad as each other at this point

We know what particular belief system you are just from this topic and the post supporting him.

Not many Christian men or atheists would think this way

DenreleDave:
Dear Nairalanders,


This issue has been giving me problem... I earned 600k and I give my wife 35k for the month. We have 3 kids and I am sure that 35k is okay for the month for the 5 of us... She will buy foodstuff and any other things she needs.

I am thinking of divorcing her.... Please advise me as I am really thinking of going for another woman.

Seriously you men know nothing about traditional marriage

Just one sided humiliation rituals weddings and this is the revenge you get on the women for it

Traditionally worldwide not my opinion but from a worldwide perspective

Whatever he earns he should be putting 10%-20% into the family savings

Then giving half of whats left to his wife

After food and housekeeping the rest is hers and he still gets the bigger amount but again you know nothing about Traditional marriage just 1 sided humiliation ritual weddings

Cousin9999:
Three more points, despite this being a troll thread:

-- You can instantly tell a lot about a black man/woman by how they view nonblacks. 99% of the time, if they're up their ass, it's because they're broke af, ignorant, uneducated, and their parents are trash. Good families don't produce people like that. And, to a certain extent, they take out all their mommy daddy issues on other black people because they're too pussy to deal with their issues. They'd rather walk around acting like an idiot and kissing nonblack ass while downing their own people.

-- Whether man or woman, nonblacks have hard ass faces. Who wants to wake up to that or put it on their kid. It's wild how some black people will swear down that those people are sexy. Delusional.

-- Too many people call nonblack (biracial and heavy admixture) people black, and these demons are racists in sheep's clothing damaging our communities from the inside. They're a major contributor to a lot of backwardness in our communities. People like to hide behind the word "colorism." No, those pieces of garbage are racist.

https://youtube.com/shorts/HfvlqTzg7SQ?si=CHDjplzGt9zNrNV6

Notice its never Norway, Sweden, Denmark or Finland that has a problem with you?

Cousin9999:
Three more points, despite this being a troll thread:

-- You can instantly tell a lot about a black man/woman by how they view nonblacks. 99% of the time, if they're up their ass, it's because they're broke af, ignorant, uneducated, and their parents are trash. Good families don't produce people like that. And, to a certain extent, they take out all their mommy daddy issues on other black people because they're too pussy to deal with their issues. They'd rather walk around acting like an idiot and kissing nonblack ass while downing their own people.

-- Whether man or woman, nonblacks have hard ass faces. Who wants to wake up to that or put it on their kid. It's wild how some black people will swear down that those people are sexy. Delusional.

-- Too many people call nonblack (biracial and heavy admixture) people black, and these demons are racists in sheep's clothing damaging our communities from the inside. They're a major contributor to a lot of backwardness in our communities. People like to hide behind the word "colorism." No, those pieces of garbage are racist.

That abbey621 wanted proof even black people don't like you but he blocked me here's the proof for you fella

https://youtube.com/shorts/vbl1nhAC_L0?si=mUoVnfpzjFrF9iTY

Cousin9999:
Three more points, despite this being a troll thread:

-- You can instantly tell a lot about a black man/woman by how they view nonblacks. 99% of the time, if they're up their ass, it's because they're broke af, ignorant, uneducated, and their parents are trash. Good families don't produce people like that. And, to a certain extent, they take out all their mommy daddy issues on other black people because they're too pussy to deal with their issues. They'd rather walk around acting like an idiot and kissing nonblack ass while downing their own people.

-- Whether man or woman, nonblacks have hard ass faces. Who wants to wake up to that or put it on their kid. It's wild how some black people will swear down that those people are sexy. Delusional.

-- Too many people call nonblack (biracial and heavy admixture) people black, and these demons are racists in sheep's clothing damaging our communities from the inside. They're a major contributor to a lot of backwardness in our communities. People like to hide behind the word "colorism." No, those pieces of garbage are racist.

We definitely know what tribe and religion you are fella

https://youtube.com/shorts/JqaittkVyp4?si=oyPkLh1g7OaoxuKj

Ilamina:


Pale skin rocks
White men are the future

White men rocks

Min kjaere you must be devastated, the man you dream about doesn't even like Nigeria

https://youtube.com/shorts/p6p363uNZ48?si=o-MBRMewyAqXZRCa

Hey yoruba men if culture and traditions are so important would you do this is you loved a woman from this village?

https://youtube.com/shorts/4MHKf_5tO8Y?si=W85BznjjkNmguiiV

How come this is so important them but they understand its for their people when they marry their people and dont expect it when they marry outside their people but you understand the same, they have the real humility to not expect from outside their culture and yet you men believe its automatic right for you to violate over human and demand they beg you equating it to literal slap in the face because of your ego and pride and lack of humility

You men are the literal definition of cultural narcissists