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Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by veekid(m): 2:03pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Find hera job, she's jobless 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by Iolite(f): 2:05pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Twaci: PERFECTO 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by itoese(m): 2:05pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Let your wife know how you feel. Though she may not like it at first. But take it calmly and coolly with her. |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by Nobody: 2:06pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
dynamite11:You have to speak out like a man. I'm sure ur mother in law has her own family to take care of. You should discuss it with your wife though but in a polite manner. Ladies can be touchy when it comes to their mother not visiting. You can invite your parent too. Two can play that game. |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by elfakkawy(m): 2:07pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Hi Mā-inlaw, I need some privacy |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by lative(m): 2:07pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
relocate to a far far city n check if she can keep up with d cost of transport,or when dy jst come leave the ous to them n go chill wit ur niqqos or maybe u should jst talk to ur wife in a calm way Mr. op ur last option is to feel free with them n become a member of their family 3 Likes |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by soccerdrum(m): 2:09pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
@OP, ur name nna Dynamite, abi? Just EXPLODE for ur mother-in-law nah! As simple as that 2 Likes |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by slye(m): 2:10pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Simply rent a one bedroom apartment 9 Likes |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by linusbnn(m): 2:11pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
soberdrunk: Number 3 is so so so funny die. |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by hefelove(m): 2:12pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Let the gateman handle it. Thank me later 4 Likes |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by Sochimaobim(m): 2:12pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Whenever she plans to visit, call her and tell her not to bother coming, that u will send her daughter over to stay with her. Make sure ur wife goes over to her house to stay with her. Let ur wife understand that u are sending her to her mum not becos u want to, but because she is forcing ur hand. They will use their tongue to count their teeth 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by ibroh22(m): 2:13pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
hmmmm,here to read comments |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by Adedoks(m): 2:13pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Oga me am married and I understand you to some extent.. Ur marriage is too young for all dis drama. Its your wife dat needs to be talked to. I don't think she understands what marriage is. Dis is ow women start pushing men to misbehave. By the time the man becomes comfortable staying outside than home her eye will clear. My wife's mum do come around too once in a while and the reason I tolerate it is cos she is a widow. I love her cos she doesn't over do it. Wanna ask is your wife the only child she has? Why all dis attachment. God help you oo 3 Likes |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by AlphaCentauri: 2:13pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
bro, you married mummys pet. deal with it lol. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by Codes151(m): 2:14pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Them dem cook give am with too much pepper! Always. Add more to her food! She will leave. OR |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by Badgers14: 2:15pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
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Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by czaratwork: 2:15pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Your wife wants to join her mother's club. SINGLE MOTHER IN THE MAKING, OR THE MAKING OF A SINGLE MOTHER. 7 Likes |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by Eibams60(m): 2:16pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Am nt sure u r the man in dat house, u sound childish to me man. Abi na ur wife give u work. Nonsense 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by Pidggin(f): 2:17pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Yieldings: Nawa, would you advice a woman like this if the situation was the other way around? "Leave your husband's house because his mum visits alot" All to get likes 16 Likes |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by idu1(m): 2:17pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
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Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by Elmojiid(m): 2:18pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
i am once in your shoe brother it is hard for me also, i can feel your pain all you need is patient and mind your speech becos wat u said might be use against you so becarefull and always pray to GOD to give the strenght to carry on that is your own cross you have to carry it, i pray that GOD will see you tru. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by Anijay1212(m): 2:19pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
soberdrunk:Hahahahahaha.... This guy no well o... Op take the third option and pls dont tell us the outcome mbok. |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by holluwai(m): 2:20pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Men all these MIL no dey mind their business. I go soon divorce my wife now if her mama no gree sir for her house. Rubbish!!#!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by damola1: 2:20pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Why you keep talking? Just leave the house. It'll be hard at first, but it's the only option after you have exhausted all talking options. Just leave. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by fexyrich(m): 2:20pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Leave the house for them for 2 weeks...if ur wife starts to miss u tell her that she shld choose between u and her mothers frequent visits..Get a house help to stay with her mother and keep her company in her own house so that she can give u guys some space...Travel, leave the house for them..ur wife will come looking for you..If it were me I will start making my wife jealous by acting as though I av other female girlfriends and I wld start coming back very late and sleeping out somtimes.if she starts complaining tell her that since she cant give u DAT companionship by allowing u av ur privacy with her then u av to get it else were...my man she will be d one to do d needful,cos am sure she wldnt want to loose u.. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by jackie35(m): 2:21pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
dynamite11: I hope she or her daughter is reading this right up ............ bet you, she will change from now onward. |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by Emmatdayo(m): 2:23pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Twaci:perfect solution 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by yetseyi(f): 2:24pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Pheww thank God its a man that is complaining this time around not a woman. When wives come around to complain of similar matters the replies the men give is always is the line of you don't like your mother In law, what do you mean by she should give you space, women are their own enemies etc. The comments from the males here are quite interesting to read. Did I just see an operation flush her out from a male Looool oooo Hope you can allow your wife to flush your mother out if she's like the Op's MIL. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by Nobody: 2:25pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
My advice is WATCH & PRAY. Watch means be vigilant and pray means there is nothing you can do except prayers. I can tell u that for that kind of situation to have happened, maybe your wife is the only daughter or the last child. Moreso, it's either your mother-inlaw is a widow or a divorcee. To the bachelors shine your eyes well ooooo 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by Emmatdayo(m): 2:27pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Prettiepearlz:
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Re: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by Nobody: 2:27pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
Pidggin:lol. I was being sarcastic. It's just to wake her up. 2 Likes |
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