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MRbrownJAY, the woman is planning to get out now that's why i am more concerned. Because she said the man used to beat her to a state of coma at times which the neighbours are aware of, he puts her out of the house at times to sleep outside. She said "i take my children anywhere i am going, they are my joy and future"

Gaggi: U seem to knw so much about this perfect woman and d evil man.
The woman is a grown adult, let her seek her own solutions abeg. I doubt u are even married and if u are, spend ur time in perfecting ur own home.

Thanks Gaggi. There is no one that's perfect under heaven, but i think the husband should point her where she is missing it. I am only concerned and I learn from people, that's all nothing is attached.

There is a complaint by a wife in my area and some ppl notice the act in the man. The couple have been married for some years and are blessed with beautiful kids, house and cars. But the problem there is the man is mummy-boy (controlled by his mother). He flirts around alot and mastubates, and denies the wife sex and financial helps. The wife has been trying to correct everything by subjecting herself to fasting and prayers(which made her to become thin) and total submission to him, look neat & dress to fascinate him, showing him love but instead, the man began to pretend as if he has changed but still continue in his old way. Note: He doesnot welcome COMMUNICATION from his wife. they live a life of Master-to-slave. Whenever the wife tries to open a communication channel, he flees. he sleeps out not coming home. He likes the woman to share financial responsibilities with him in the house but doesnot want the woman to enjoy the outcome. He owns the result alone. And he prefers giving money, buy gifts to people, his lady friends to helping his wife whenever she needs financial help. The wife said her husband wants her to stop working but he cannot foot the home bill alone (NOTE: he's rich). Is that not suffering he's planning for the wife. I feel like advising her but i am not really sure of what and how to advise. But i do remember them in my prayer.

[quote author=Doncolio]Take a deep breath, then follow this few steps.
Take time off work, then prepare a vacation of two(2) days exclusive for you and her. Make sure the place is a place she wuld have loved to be. Take along with you things that could bring back the memories of the past when you were courting or when the marriage was sweet. After the fun of the day, try open a table for discussion and speak ur mind. Try understand if are response are selfish meaning she doesn't care about you- meaning t
In fact i am inpired by all the reasonable, meticulous and sensitive advisers here. You are highly appreciated. If the wife could be here to tell her side of the story ...

A request from a family friend "Help! how can we help our 8yrs child stop bed-wetting?"

The other siblings both elder and youngers are not bedwetting but this particular one has not stop bedwetting. All efforts have been made by the parents to help:
- By serving the child's dinner early.
- Restriction from drinking water (in the night) from 6pm till following day.
- Waking the child up in the night to urinate.
But all to no avail, and the child refuses to put on weight due to this perpentual habit of bedwetting.
Pls, valuable advice(s) is/are needed to safe the child and parents from future embarassment. Thanks.

pls send the account details to: fibonacciseries3@gmail.com

lamex20: abi I dey craz.. if 1 of my relative wear dis. I go commit sucied

Its even good like, you beta kuku commit sucide now cos you wife is wearing it. shior. die let her get married to another man.

lamex20: abi I dey craz.. if 1 of my relative wear dis. I go commit sucied

Its even good like that, you beta kuku commit sucide now cos your wife is wearing it. shior. die let her get married to another man.

demelza: NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!
How could he do this to me
Jesus why??
#wails

what's your own there nah? was he your partner?

calcal: OP, within 7 years you got 4 children - good, how old is the last one? shame on you that you still bleeping about!

simple calculation, from 2004 to date is 9yrs.

purpleprincesia: babe i would advice you to use a good soap since it is ur back that is affected. i can also recommend bath milk like tracia goat milk or olay goat milk. that way you can ensure an even body tone. we often consider creams without thinking about the soap we use in bathing

I think Olay goat milk is ok and it costs less.