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My husband is worse than the men described by the op. He's a very stubborn typical Ekiti man, though he looks cool and gentle but he womanizes a lot and he's also a wife beater and a great liar and manipulator who doesn't believe in other people's opinion. He's a nairalander too. I pray he reads all these. He even womanizes on Naira land too (confirmed), he deceives ladies that he's a single man. He brags a lot about his achievements in life which make some innocent ladies to fall for him.

There are still some good men in Nigeria, but they are not much. For the fact that mine is devilish doesn't make other men to be the same. Some may even be worse than my husband. As I'm typing now, he's in his room mastubating. Coming out from his room occasionally to see whether no one( I and kids) is watching him through the door openings.

We just need to pray for our female children. It is well. Shalom.

Apologies to Ekiti men who are loyal and have good integrity relationwise.

Since ( ) + ( 15 ) + ( 15 ) = 30 is not the correct answer, and that workings of mine too is wrong, let him proffer a solution to the problem.

doggiemann:
Nice approach but there's no 10 in OP's option na

Any of the boxes can be null then, the two other boxes contain 15 each.
OR
Let the first box contain x,
The second box contains x + 1,
The third box contains x+ 2
: x + x + 1 + x + 2 = 30.
Collect the like terms,
3x + 3 = 30
Subtract 3 from both sides,
3x + 3 - 3 = 30 - 3
3x = 27
Divide both sides by the coefficient of the unknown (I.e 3, the coefficient of x).
3x/3 = 27/3
X = 9
Therefore,
the first number = 9
The second number = 9 + 1 = 10. and
The third number = 9 + 2 = 11
I.e (9) + (10) + (11) = 30. QED.

Elthugnificent:
Give it your best shot.

[color=#990000][/color][b][/b]Broad way to hell.

[b][/b]THINK ETERNITY



Friend, know certainly that if you are not Born again, sanctified and living in holiness before God, then you are not safe. A life without Jesus Christ is a life of crisis. An eternity without Jesus Christ is a far worse crisis. Please read this piece and do not neglect the message therein.

FOUR HOURS INTERVIEW IN HELL
In 1967, Mr Allen Bamgbose was caught up to Heaven and was shown Hell. God gave him the privilege of interviewing a few people in Hell. Heaven is real and Hell is real. Heaven is God's dwelling place which will be inhabited by saved, sanctified and holy Christians. It is a place of joy inexplicable. Heaven is a place prepared for those who love and serve God. God shall wipe away all tears from the eyes of His children; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be pain in Heaven (Revelations 21 vs 4-. The Bible makes it clear that “there shall in no wise enter into it (Heaven) any thing that defileth, neither whatsoever worketh abomination, or maketh a lie: but they which are written in the Lamb's book of life”. (Revelations 21 vs 27). Hell is the eternal destination of Satan, his demons, unbelievers and backslidden Christians. It is a place of indescribable pain, torture and regret. We know from the Bible those who will end up in Hell are “the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelations 21 vs . I decided to write this note to you which I culled from a true life account of Mr. Bamgbose’s testimony, published in the book “Four Hours Interview in Hell” written by Mr. Yemi Bankole. I wrote this to you my friends not to frighten you but that you may not live carelessly, hopelessly or unprepared for where you will spend eternity. We must realize that we are accountable to God for the life we lived on Earth. As I share these stories of the people who were interviewed, I pray that you my friend, will not end up in Hell as they did but you will be saved and prepared for eternity with God.

RITA was a devoted Christian girl. She was an active member of school fellowship. She sang in the Church Choir and was greatly talented in song ministration. Many young people of her age and indeed everyone around her were touched by her personality and service to God. Alas, Rita could not make Heaven. What was her sin?..Two months to graduation from school, while on a holiday at home, she yielded to a sinful affair with a boy at home. She had hoped she will confess her sins as soon as she gets back to school chapel. However this was not to be as she died in an automobile accident before she could get back to School. Mr Bamgbose saw her in Hell in great torment. Sin is so costly! Please repent, confess and forsake all sins today, tomorrow may just be too late.

Ossai Michael was once told the story of Hell but he dismissed it and called it foolishness. He continued stealing, lying, and cheating and gambling. He thought these to be little sins and suddenly at about 30 years of age he died and found himself in the fires of Hell with no chance for repentance anymore. What "Little" sins are you still committing?, repent and forsake all your sins.

Ranti was a servant girl who served a certain family. Her mistress often abused her verbally and physically. She was made to hawk goods on the streets and often had to go hungry, being intentionally starved by her mistress. As a result of the mistreatment and servitude she was subjected to by her mistress, she resented and had a bitter hatred for her mistress and would hurt her children whenever she could. She sometimes stole food in the kitchen because of the starvation and hunger she experienced. Ranti lived in the same street with Mr Bamgbose and he had talked with her and pleaded with her to give her life to Jesus Christ, but Ranti refused to do this. Eventually, Ranti died and Mr Bamgbose saw her in great agony in Hell. Friends as I read this, tears dropped from my eyes; what a pity that so many people would suffer in this world and still suffer eternally in Hell! Is God unfair? No, God is not unfair, He gave Ranti a chance to repent and be saved but she would not take it. Are you like Ranti, not enjoying this world because of your circumstances? If you will let Jesus Christ be the Lord of your life, then God would change those circumstances and you can be sure that heaven will be your eternal place of bliss after your life here. Please read Luke 16 verses 19 – 31.It is better that you go to Heaven, even if you had nothing in this world, than that you go to Hell as the richest man in this world (Mark 9 verses 43 – 48).

Joyce Ben was a medical Doctor who operated an Abortion clinic. She knew very well that what she was doing was evil because one of her friends never ceased telling her of the evils of Abortion. She paid no heed to her friends warning. She believed in Civilization and held that a civilized man should be highly selective. Furthermore, she did not want to lose her status in the society by turning down those who came to her for Abortion. Eventually she died and was sent to Hell for the killing of innocent unborn babies that she had done in her clinic. She was guilty of bloodshed. Friends, abortion is a sin against God and against the millions of aborted babies whose destinies were brutally murdered on the surgery tables of abortion clinics and no matter the excuse that may be advanced for this sinful act, it remains a great evil. Some are apt to explain that abortion should be carried out in some cases to avoid the death of the mother, to avoid the shame of teenage pregnancy or to avoid the responsibility of fathering those children. No explanation is tenable for the evacuating or flushing out of an unborn baby by any means. Every baby that is conceived is a living soul and whoever kills such is under God's wrath. Have you committed abortion before? Repent right now and cry to God for forgiveness. Stop this evil act and take a stand against it.

Mrs Emily was a Deaconess in her church. She was charitable and was much respected in the church and the community. Years after her demise, her church still marked her remembrance service every year. However, she missed Heaven for harboring malice against the Choirmaster of her church who offended her. She had expected him to apologize to her being the younger person, but he would not, so she did not forgive him. Shortly after this incident she took ill and died. She died keeping this malice against the choirmaster and could not make Heaven. Please forgive everyone who offends you for the sake of Christ. The Bible says that we should pursue peace with all men and holiness without which no man can see the Lord (Hebrews 12 verse 14). Please leave no room for hatred and malice in your heart.

He was a Muslim man. In Hell, the demons of Hell tormented this man to bow down and worship them as he used to do when he was on earth. On earth he rejected the offer of salvation in Jesus Christ. The demons of hell torment those who worship strange gods tormenting them to worship the same way they did while on earth. He was in Hell for defrauding the government. He used to believe that Government money and property is "National Cake", so when he got a loan of N100,000 from the Government, he refused to pay it back claiming falsely that an accident occurred to his investment. Eventually he died and there was no way of salvation since he had rejected the way of the cross. Government funds and property is not "National cake" and so must not be stolen or looted. Friends be faithful in your service to Government.

She was just 13 years old. At age six she was initiated into witchcraft. By the time she was 12 years old, she had killed seven hundred and twenty four (724) people and was a registered witch. Eventually she died and is being tormented in the flames of Hell. If you are a witch or an occultist, come out from that cult today and be saved. Jesus loves you and wants to give you eternal life. It's also very important that as Christians we should not neglect evangelism and soul winning. If only after 6 years on earth a little girl could kill and send to Hell 724 people, then we need to realize that Satan is all out to kill, steal and destroy. Let's not be indifferent to evangelizing the world.

This last story got me crying to God for mercy. We all must cry to God for mercy. He was the General Overseer of one of the foremost churches in his country in the fifties. He was a good man. He preached salvation by Grace and the coming of the Lord. He was in the ministry for 32 years. It was a great shock for Mr Bamgbose to see him in Hell. He missed Heaven for using Church project fund to organize his grand daughter’s wedding without accounting for it or making refunds. At the gate of Heaven, the angels checked his record and found written underneath his labour of 32 years the words "Not to be remembered because he took a holy thing". O that I may not be cast away after I had preached the Gospel. Friends, we are in a race for eternity ( 2nd Timothy 2 vs 3-7) and until we get there, we cannot afford to be careless or live without caution. We need to examine ourselves continually if we be in faith. O that no sin would rob us of our eternal glory and crown. Let's be watchful and live lives of Holiness, Righteousness and Truth.

Friends, it is written in the Holy Bible book of Revelations 20 verses 11 – 15, that everyone of us; great and small, man and woman, boy and girl…everyone of us shall all stand before the Great white throne of Almighty God to be judged for the things we have done in our lives and for the way we lived in this world. On that great day, the books of your life shall be opened and you shall be judged by the things you did that are written there. And then the only people who shall be saved shall be those whose names are found in another book called the book of Life. Today, you have a chance to repent of your sins, accept the Lordship of Jesus Christ over your life and to live henceforth in holiness before the Lord so that your name will be written in the book of Life. You and I are so fortunate to still be alive and have a chance to make our ways right in the sight of God. So many people in Hell now are crying for just one more minute to come back and surrender their lives to Jesus Christ, but it is too late for them and they have to suffer those torments forever. Jesus Christ told the story of the rich man who died and went to Hell and when in that great torment cried out for one more chance but it was too late for him (Luke 16 vs 19-31). That rich man prayed that God would send someone from the dead to warn his brothers so that they would not end up in that place of torment he was. Today, God has answered that prayer and has allowed people who were declared clinically dead to witness Heaven and Hell and come back to life again to warn everyone to repent and believe in Jesus Christ and serve God in holiness and truth. I believe God has done all these to give us warning to prepare ourselves for eternity in Heaven. He has given so many people divine revelations of Heaven and Hell but so many people dismiss these revelations as untrue and continue in their sins. I beg you my friend that you do not reject these messages. Please visit www.spiritlessons.com for more of these divine revelations of Heaven and Hell messages and get yourself prepared to meet God. Let these stories stir us up to repentance and complete surrender to the Lord Jesus Christ. May the Almighty God empower us to live for Him all the remaining days of our lives in this world, so that we may inherit His glorious kingdom in Heaven. God bless and keep you in Him.
Amen.

Okeyson4wisdom: all these are blabbIng thanks to the westernerd for injecting our women with their diseases and our african women thanks for whole heartedly accepting it, coz I know that in the olden days such rubbish dosent happen.

Maybe you'll get the truth when you make enquiry from any long-exisisting grandparents. All i know is that it happened in the olden days. PPD is not a new problem, its just that we're just discovering it and its names.

tnature: Thanks for sharing your experience dominique. About 80% of women experience at least "baby blues" and a significant percent of those experience PPD. You were able to deal with it better because you've read. it.

I wish this post could make the front page so that more people are aware and they can even offer support for women going through it. At the least, when a nursing mom starts showing signs of PPD, they recognize it and not blame the woman for being mean.

There are some in-laws/relatives who would come to the family under the pretence they come to take care of the newborn baby, at the end of the day they become burden to the woman who just gave birth, the person who suppose to be taken care of, would now be the one to take care of the inlaws/relatives and the baby to the extent that she wouldnt have time for herself even to rest. The funniest and saddiest part of the matter is that if something now happened to the woman, they would be crying and saying they have been helping her, b4 u know whats happening the baby would turn to their source of income from the father who is now married to another woman. My advice, woman take care of your baby and yourself first then relative if you have the strength. I have passed through it b4 by GOD grace and i am speaking from experience. Thank GOD upon all odds, i survived.

soul_glo: Facts don't matter to these people. They are basing everything on what she might do or what he might do or what did not even happen at all. Everything but the facts that the OP himself presented.

The truth is that: I dont get your message, make it understandable.

joeyungg: Sick dude. I jst feel so ashamed why a guy would do such all in d name of believin one fake herbalist. Anyway, big lesson to ladies havin married men as close friends

Please, help us tell them o. Greedy girls. why on earth would you choose a married man as your friend and followed him somewhere without his wife and still wait for free ride from him @ odd hours? O su mi fun eyin omo olojukokoro ole wonyi.

dynamicbuzz: Why would a woman feel comfortable with a guy washing her cloth? Na wa ooo, I don't even buy the idea of my brother washing for me, let alonE an in-law. That your uncle's wife would make you wash her panties,if u had accepted to wash that blouse, they all start with one little step.

Its better you peruse the poster's post b4 commenting. He wrote, his uncle puts his wife's blouse for him to wash NOT the wife. it might be a mistake on his uncle's part, even if its intentional, whats the big deal? I've done more than that for my UNCLES' WIVES & i am reaping it up till now. I pray ego/pride wouldnot creat gap between us and our helpers. Pride comes b4 fall...

Lasinoh: Who cares?
Next time don't marry a wor-wor woman.
No matter how spiritually beautiful.
Save yourself one step away from divorce!
Especially one with wor-wor black skin!
With no hair, and looking like a MAN in bed!

Bros, you get bad mouth. may God 4give you o.

stillwater: Wizkid no try at all. This is why I do not take Naija men seriously. No taste. Every woman, girl, goat is game . So he slept with this person? Chineke God! With all the fame and money?

My sister, you havent seen anything, Nigeria men! especially when they are "ariving or have arived" it intoxicates them that you'll be wondering whether the man is the same man you knew long ago. They are humble when there's 'NOTHING'. Even those who suffered with them would be neglected when any of money, power, fame etc comes. I support your view that MOST Nigeria men dont worth it. But there are 'a few of them' who can be trusted, but are few and rare.

stillwater: She should continue fasting and praying seems her tolerance level is very high.

I don't think she's ready to continue with the fasting stuff again because its telling on her. But i dont know sha . Wait, its like you are speaking ironically here.

[quote author=Happytina][/quote]He/she who fears GOD will never ever call HIS WORD 'yeye'. we need to fear and respect GOD without HIM, we cannot be. If theres fear of GOD in every individual, this TOPIC would not be in existence. i rest my case.

What touched my heart most was the statement the lady made when she was in hospital after gaining her conscious(after beating by her sweetheart), she said "God you see and know me more than any oneWhat touched my heart most was the statement the lady made when she was in hospital after gaining her conscious(after beating by her sweetheart), she said "God you see and know me more than any oneWhat touched my heart most was the statement the lady made when she was in hospital after been revived, if i have ever done such to my fellow women or if i have ever been an unfaithful fiance/spouse to my husband, let this suffering continue till i enter grave, otherwise, vindicate me oh God"

safeact: [/i][i][center][/center][i][/i]one advise to d op.
Keep away from ears dropping![b][/b]

why all these tags? are you designing a web page?

@Goldenboyof psy: Noted, thanx.

ichidodo: [color=#1908AC] Something is psycologically wrong with the husband,he needs to see a therapist[/color]

LWKMD

ichidodo: [color=#1908AC] Something is psycologically wrong with the husband,he needs to see a therapist[/color]

LWKMD

Eebrahym: @ fibonacciseries, just try ur best to save the marriage

Noted.

Chubi4show: Good morning my e-family and friends. I wish you a lovely week. May God bless us all and grant our good heart desires in Jesus Christ name. Amen!

Amen.

Jenny Agun: EFEMENA:
(You know the saying: "Show me your friends and I'll tell you who you really are".
In your earlier post, you called the wifey "dormant" woman, now these words.
Are these names really neccessary because you feel pissed-off or angry?

There is a yoruba proverb that says "the touch of palm-oil is coool to the body".

Cool your nerves, my Naija-Delta sister.

i perceived she meant 'doormat' NOT 'dormat'

[quote author=choncholot]the thing is most men are unfaithful in marriage,be it ur father,ur bro,ur uncle,ur friend even ur son! But am i going to leave the marriage?hell no!i will stay and endure for my kids sake jst the way my own mother endured to make sure we were taken care of.cos like it or not,if you leave,another woman will come and take your place and maltreat your kids.the guy is taking his family on holidays,haba,pepper rest nau!u r blessed!others wish to be in your shoes.enjoy ur self and h

Kunbee: Variety is the spice of life

Meaning?

jennykadry: Which wife? You?

You know what? I am tired of people coming on here and sharing stories on their "friends" behalf. If it is happening to you say so if not ask that your "friend " to come online and share her story first hand

Thanx Jennykadry, she is more confused to go any length now to type this kind, i dont know, if you really want to know/help her send me your e-mail add then i link you, you might be a great help on this issue because as i am typing this message too i am confused cos i can feel her pains and it saddens me. God pls help.

[quote author=Eebrahym]Something must ße wrong somewhere, how did they started? Didn't they court at all before wedding, did the man changed overnight from the angel he used to ße before marriage to a devil after marriage?
U see, my candid advice
Most people handle physical problems spiritually and vice versa, try and relax, see whether u can figure out what he wants carefully and make attempt to cover up, most of what OP said above about ladies are blatant lies, I can remember when I had issues with my
They married when the man was nobody. Everybody knows the woman to be an easy going and nice person but the problem started when they began to make it and i think its really affecting the woman psychologically too but i will try my best to give the good advice derived from this site and i pray it works for them because of the kids.