₦airaland Forum

greatfucker:
good ke someone that her cousin gave pregnant
are real name is Fatima

hmm, you seems to know her a lot

Samantha123:
So when you look for someone to make your wife as a man, look for your type, someone you'll be compatible with, and not a typical wife material because you may end up living a depressed life in the name of wife material.

hmm, thanks for the advise.

I know you are from South Africa, are south African women the same with naija?


What is the difference in your own candid opinion?

Samantha123:
And women like Beyonce and Cardi B have got plenty of money in their accounts that they worked for, they're millionaires, but yet they're happily married to their husbands and when their husbands look at them, they see wife materials too regardless of their jobs because they're compatible.

of course, we have some great women out there, but they are few

Samantha123:
Let's be honest here, these days life is very expensive and we all want that ching ching.

And it's easier for you guys to go out there and hustle for money legitimately while it's not always the case with us women, some women end up getting raped, treated unfairly, or even killed because there's still that stereotype in Africa whereby it's believed that certain jobs are not for women.

So as a result, some women end up looking for a working man to marry them, they don't like it, but they have to.

Some women get into prostitution not because they like it, but because they've been through so much hardships that they couldn't take it anymore.. every prostitute has got a story to tell.

in Nigeria, particularly southern Nigeria, women get preferential treatment in their places of work, I think some of your gender are just lazy, they don't want to do anything to support the family and the relationship.

It has to do with mindset and mentality too

Samantha123:
Any woman can be like that as long as she's with the right man that she's compatible with.

these days so many women pretend to have these qualities for as long as there's money.

Samantha123:
What is your idea of a wife material?

A supportive, submissive, honest, decent, hardworking, faithful and loving woman.

siofra:
Are black men that are supposed to lead doing better

After white men have strived to make their country better for their women, your longer throat eyes are looking at them.

in other countries, women are leading and doing wonderful things, so don't wait for black men to lead

siofra:
Those links you posted, especially the first one are so accurate!

I swear, black men are at the bottom, bottom, bottom of all races of men in the world.

Look at all the countries ruled by black men, all riddled with crime and corruption. Not one is good enough.

They have the highest rape stats, most misogynistic and most wicked and corrupt. They can't even rule a country right.

I shake my head at black men, they have failed woefully.

I hope they get it right because it's just too bad. They blame everyone else but themselves for their misfortunes.

I'm not saying black women are excluded or they are innocent, this rant is only for black men all over the world.

keep deceiving yourself, are black women in position of power doing better? They are even worse when it comes to governance

Ssddff:
Good. They are all thieving devils. Manipulative and narcissistic shits. The beautiful or the ones that act nice and independent are the worse. RUN!!!

you are right man

Sweetvie:
This is why black American is different from black African. Black Americans stick to together but Africans still believes in white supremacy.

For real, black lives matter is a scam

what has black lives matter got to do with this post anyway?

Enny2013:
Who will now marry ur sisters?

I really don't care

Olojuobinrin:
Go for Finland ladies .

I will

Jeon:
https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.lipstickalley.com/threads/women-says-she-doesn%25E2%2580%2599t-want-to-date-black-men-anymore-.4923941/&sa=U&ved=2ahUKEwjo9PmCo8f6AhVUgf0HHZDqA0cQFnoECAcQAg&usg=AOvVaw0bOafKVehAUg5SzFIAxNkj


https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.lipstickalley.com/threads/my-dad-black-men-are-failing-the-community-and-he-cant-blame-black-women-for-dating-white-men.4924534/&sa=U&ved=2ahUKEwjo9PmCo8f6AhVUgf0HHZDqA0cQFnoECAMQAg&usg=AOvVaw2iQ6v3r_9qbEhRKVD6Ob59







What never existed.

Lol

Olojuobinrin:
There’s no point marrying at all , just have multiple baby mamas and make sure you take care of your kids and the mothers , don’t marry at all ! Don’t do it !

I think you are right, but that cannot be possible because of my background.

I don't just want to have anything to do with naija ladies anymore.

Jeon:
Far better..
They're good at everything, you would even mistake them for Angels.


https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.lipstickalley.com/threads/why-are-excuses-made-for-the-degenerate-men-throughout-the-diaspora-except-black-american-men.4970490/&sa=U&ved=2ahUKEwjB78f0n8f6AhWyIMUKHS3QBIgQFnoECAIQAg&usg=AOvVaw2Lm1H203zLEqmOKdZ2xkPT



And you're saying that it's against white supremacy.
Why not against Queen Elizabeth?


Everyone knows that Black Lives Matter was a scam

lol, all black men are not Saint, but when you compare, blackmen are still far better than the females.

Some good guys later turned bad because of the behaviour of women, just like me, your gender has brought out the monster in me.

I hope you are a good girl joen, I just hope so.

Don't join bad ones

Jeon:
And the White supremacy is till ruling.
When will Black have sense?

The BLM Mystery Where did the money go to? Still the White supremacy.. This is just another way to drain from the Black's pocket.

let's not divert attention, the truth is that some white girls are far better than naija ladies in terms of everything.

We have tribalism in Nigeria

marlow1962:
Great
Majority of these females are horrible (no jokes, am serious), especially those ones that calls themselves Barbie or bad bitch etc ( I don’t gv a fvk wat dy call themselves )

they are brainwashing the younger ones as well

BirtherOfKings:
Nigerian women are the best
Wen a man refuses to be a groom as bible calls Dem,u hear such nonsense talk

of course, I'm not surprised, this is coming from a woman

Abratech:

Op I can relate well but in All don't allow the negative experiences become a mindset Block.

There are still good girls in and Outside Nigeria. Follow your heart wherever you find love.. But stay positive..



Check my signature guys

this is my final decision, or I will remain single forever

jejeli:
i can't blame u, i understand how u feel

they know how to hurt person

blazingblender:
Swears....
The way hookup is taking a stance in the country is really scary

really really scary man.

I want to live long

Jeon:
‘Everyone knows that Black Lives Matter was a scam

it's not a scam, the message is against white supremacy

eastgates1:
your choice, your cross.

just look around you, men are dying everyday due to their bullshit.

Jeon:
Kanye was right.

what did he say?

For the few good ones, you better not join the deplorables.

I prefer to marry from other African countries, or Europe and America, thank God that I have plenty of them as friends

Almost 90% of naija ladies are not wife materials, they are runs and damaged girls roaming our streets, I will never change my view about them.

They should continue doing their nonsense, guys are gradually waking up as well.

My experience with naija ladies so far is horrible.
Their mindset and mentality is awful.

Redstubpen:
Boss, I tried sending a mail. Didn't work.

it worked, I've replied you

Nothing

Maysdevices:
I go to beaches and bars and I am always fully clothed. So do several other women.

Men don’t see us because they’re stunned by the sights of bare breasts and ass.

LOL

The truth is that you can meet your partner anywhere.

Maysdevices:
You knew deep down that those girls are not attracted to you for anything except what you have. I remember posting my boyfriend for the first time as a young adult, my mother went batshit on me.

She said verbatim ‘Don’t you know other men won’t want to do anything for you if you tell them you have a man in your life’? Meaning? Men are just pockets to women. Literally.

Watch carefully, there are characteristics women display when they love you. Identify them, recognize them and no woman will ever be able to deceive you again.

Also try not to approach women you meet randomly. If you see a very pretty girl that you like on the road, completely ignore her because that girl will never be for anything other than your pockets. Watch for the dressing of a woman, go after the decently dressed.

Go for more natural setting like beaches and a bar and let them come to you. Don’t approach women you don’t know. You are just a treasure chest.

Beaches and bars where they dress half-naked

advanceDNA:
In this part of the world..relationships are mostly tramsactional.....women beleive sex is something they give you and not somethimg mutual contributed.....so they want u to show u deserve to be given sex by paying them enough...na u go give yourself brain...

Ive noticed walking up to women u dont know on the road and collecting their number makes her them see u as ATM....its because theres no attraction or likeness on their part....the meeting is not natural or spontaneous ...its something u technically forced to happen ..so they take advantage of it

I blame the guys that will go extra mile

Maysdevices:
You’re blind to the countless men on the streets begging random people these days? Countless men beg me on the road for 100 naira everyday. Several of my male friends always ask me for cash. Most rich young boys got rich by begging and deceiving white women. I’m sure countless boys harass you too for cash on the road but you’re so excited to bash women you are completely blind to them.

Seems I will open a counter thread asking why men are always begging me for money on the road. Even where I buy my smoke, it is not any different. Some will even have the audacity to ask me to do transfer for them.


We have have the highest amount of poor people in the world and this still surprises you? You are a complete joke of a man.


Grow up.


Nigerian men, grow up. If women start to bash you for these things too, Na Una go vex pass.

If you want to beg for money, then beg me without being dubious about it and I will still give you because I am generous.

Why deceiving someone and break the person's heart