₦airaland Forum

IyaebeTheGreat:
Abegi, we all know what she's doing. Count me out of the people she can deceive

hmm, please calm down

IyaebeTheGreat:
No one is happy with the situation of the country but you don't use your voice to do negatives for some cheap recognition. Every country get their wahala

she's just raising awareness sis

IyaebeTheGreat:
I dislike her because she uses every opportunity to condemn her country to the world for some cheap likes. A clout chaser is all I see.

how is she condemning Nigeria? are you happy with our broken, divisive and dysfunctional country

IyaebeTheGreat:
I don't see anything worthy about this woman, despite her education and whatever, tribal bigotry still very deep in her veins. She's not better than the average market women. You condemn your country at any given opportunity for some cheap likes and recognition, that's low. Nansense

Lol, stop hating her sis

Beautiful and intelligent woman

I Was Igbo Before The White Man Came And Created Nigeria — Chimamanda Adichie

She said: “I am Nigerian because a white man created Nigeria and gave me that identity. I am black because the white man constructed black to be as different as possible from his white.
But I was Igbo before the white man came.”

Happy birthday to her

The Akwa-ibom born Nollywood star is now 41.

richmond500:

With the kind of ethnic and religious division politics we play, nothing will work.

are we doomed?

Iamgrey5:
No we don't have the money to build a city worth 100bn dollars.

Nigeria don't have the money, we already use our entire budget to service debt of our chinese masters.

hmm, but south Africa has such cities, is south Africa richer than Nigeria?

JagabanBorgu:
With d kind of cîtîzèns in Nigèria.
It's impossible.

hmm, we still have a long way to go

phorget:
So money meant for embezzlement should now be used to build beautiful cities abi?...

too bad

Iamgrey5:
Cities like this were not built in a day

This takes decades of careful planning and investment.

yes I know, but Singapore did it

Iamgrey5:
We don't have the money.

Lol, you are kidding right

We have money but lack visionary leaders

The first one is Chicago USA

Second is Melbourne Australia

Third is Toronto Canada

Fourth is Calgary Canada

PepperSauce:
I acknowledged your patience and perseverance. Yet you are to be blamed because there are a lot of things you did not pay attention to before now which gave her the audacity. Only a woman that is perceived to be a slave to their own emotion why a man?
Slapped my mother! I wonder what that woman is still doing in your house till now, keep in mind you haven't seen anything yet. If you failed to do the needful before it is too late.
Keep in mind, you are alone in this marriage because her body and soul have long left the marriage. The supposed tenant has fully grown into a full pledge landlady under your watch. I always remembering myself, your failure to act in full capacity as a man would make a woman to manoeuvre into her own advantage at the detriment of your own happiness. Take it or leave it women are smarter species created by God.

Have done more than you attempted for your wife ( extent of..... Wouldn't want to mention here ) but with boundary. Men are like goldsmiths that often mould tools (wife) to their intended purpose but NEVER ABUSE A WOMAN, cherish and respect them always.

Supper power does not belong to women because it will overrule their good sense of reasoning, if not put to check. I feel your pains but take heart! and act like a man you truly are.

the man is very weak, his wife knows his Achilles heel

olabrinks:
Wow how can your wife slap your mother? To me that’s absolutely disgusting I have nothing else to say. It’s unforgivable to me.

very very unforgivable

SisterAnn:
She's very uncouth. The mum's sisters should show up and give her some wotowoto across the face. Nonsense!

she seriously deserves serious beating

SisterAnn:
I don't see any marriage to save here. Your wife has become very toxic. She went too far.
But why was your mum living with you guys? It doesn't ever end well.

I don't know what you can do to make this go away. Your mum and wife are both very bitter and may never ever be friends again in this life.

But you say you love your wife even though she's become something else.

Relocate your mum and get her a maid or another relation to live with her and allow things cool off.

It will take years for the relationship to bounce back between them.

But if your mum must remain with you, then your wife has to go, except she shows genuine repentance. She must go down on her knees to apologize and back it up with actions.

Note: A new wife is still not a surebanker. So choose your poison carefully.

No more repentance, she must go

UnusualEmissary:
Am I having eye issues or I actually saw 'she slapped the man's mother' in the post?

she did that and the weakling is still keeping her

QuinModah:
First mistake is putting two women to stay in the same space, you have literally put two burning woods together.

True, but she's insane for slapping her mother-in-law.

Young women should know that they will become mother-in-laws one day

suckmedownthere:
Your wife just gave you a reason not to trust her and try someone else, to your mother you are not man enough to scale through this small challenge,if I were you since she slapped my mother I will get another woman pregnant fast....... play smart......

this is beyond the issue of trust, sending her away is the right thing to do now

Nukilia:
Red lines crossed

she went too far

This is true life story on radio station

I just listened to the program.

I will beat the hell out of such disrespectful wife

Story of the day;

Hello Omajuwa. I am an only child who is 42years old. My mother refused to remarry after my father died when I was young. She sacrificed so much for me to be where I am today. I got married about 7years ago. My wife and I have been looking upto God for a child. After pleading with my wife for us to adopt at least a child to no avail, I decided to get my mum who stays with us to help me speak to her woman to woman. But this made them become sworn enemies. My wife since then talks to my mother anyhow and disrespects her every now and then. It has been like that for months.

Few days ago, while returning from work, I heard their loud shouts from outside but I remained outside waiting for the shouts to be over as I didn’t want to be put in the position of choosing a side. But I had to intervene when I heard a loud slap. My wife had slapped my mother. I was enraged but I kept my cool, took my mother from the scene and catered for her. I have since not said a word to my wife.

All I feel when I am at home is sadness and depression. I have no peace in my own home. I have sacrificed a whole lot just to make this marriage work. The woman I married has become someone else. I have defended this same woman from my extended family for years. I have been labeled a ritualist and all sorts of name due to our childlessness but I have never cheated and I have always defended my wife despite knowing that she is the one with fertility issues.

Even though my mother has been trying to put up a strong front since that day, I know that she has been crying herself to sleep. I love my wife so much but I love my mum too. What could my mother have possibly done to warrant her slapping my mother? I think my wife is selfish and is no longer who I married. Why would she rather constantly inflict pain and sadness on her own family? I just want peace of mind and I have made up my mind to divorce my wife. But hope this won’t be a mistake? Is there still a marriage to save here? How do I go about it? What do I do? Please help me.

It seems he's tired of his job

We hardly hear from this man who controls all our embassies across the globe, he hasn't said anything about the current crisis in Sudan where thousands of nigerians are stranded.

Geoffrey Onyeama has abdicated his duties too many times, he should have been sacked a long time ago.

Thanks to Abike Dabiri for her proactive leadership.

Can US secretary of state Mr Anthony Blinken keep quiet just for one month without serious explanation?

advanceDNA:
No mind am.... she dey vex say your mesaage might influence men not to marry women like her that doesnt want to add anything to a man's life other than sex and kids....

exactly, she must be a liability too

IyaebeTheGreat:
Stop speaking for all men, some men don't even want their wives to work. Men didn't send you message to speak on their behalf

I'm not talking about married men sisi, this is about young boys and girls.

Moreover I have every right to speak on their behalf

A word is enough for the wise

1. A girl who doesn't have transport fare to visit someone that she claims she love.

2. A lady who can't get you birthday or valentine gift but expect you to bring down the world for her during hers.

3. Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5 minutes.
Always flashing, complaining and requesting for data and airtime...

4. I wonder how some Men cope with ladies that think relationship is an occupation where she's supposed to be paid and taken care of??
(S*x is not a benefit to only men.). She might not even allow you have the s*x, yet you keep spending on her like government, kwantinue MR FINISHED MAN!

5. Stop dating a liability no matter how beautiful she is. Beauty is a bonus, focus on her content!
Date a lady who can add something meaningful to your life.
Things like: financial intelligence, emotional intelligence, spiritual intelligence.

6. Date someone who's capable of managing multiplying whatever she has and the ones you give to her, your soul will be at peace!
Not someone that will always be at the receiving end.

7. I'm not saying she must be rich.
But let her have something doing no matter how little it is, because no matter how much money you make, she must be able to assist you during the rainy days...