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alexialin:
Am a lady

You are welcome

Lol. My bad, sorry!

alexialin:
Wait! It's possible he must have bought an iPhone for her.

Not every guy thinks and behave the same way.
Some Guys are show offs and he may have done so, to make her date him. Which she eventually started dating him. For some guys iPhone is chicken fee, compared to getting the lady they desire.
While some guys will not spend a dime.

So don't disbelieve her. It's possible.

Cause av seen such happen before.


Let's leave iPhone matter, whether he gift her with it on first date or third date or last date . But advise her on the question she opened this thread for.

Simple.

You just spoke like a real and exposed man! Thanks!

alexialin:
Tell your friend to relax, 8months it's still young. Not everyone propose so quickly, he's still studying her. She may feel he's the best thing that could ever happen to her, while he could feel he's still watching her character to know the kind of wife, she will become if marries her. It's not about because I have money, I must marry.. Nope that's not it.
He may not be psychologically ready for marriage. Mind you, marriage is not boyfriend and girlfriend. It goes way beyond that.

And I feel he's the kind of guy who won't be eager to divorce on little provocation, so he's taking his time to understand what he's really getting into by dating her. So be patient with him but strike convo on how the future will be between u both, ask of number of kids he would love to have, and u would love to have as well. Talk about how do both of you, see yourselves in 3years time from now.
So that's about him.
Talk about your future together.


Then this new guy clamouring for marriage so fast.
You will be surprised he's saying I want to marry you, for u guys to start having sexx or he's deep intention is to make u his baby mama. You may never know what goes on in his mind

From experience, a guy will not just marry you immediately he approaches and say babe for me, I want u as my wife. I wonder what your bf is still waiting for, stringing u along.

He's only using that line to get u on his bed. That new guy, if u accept him and breakup with your bf. He will date you for some months or even years. And you will be like? But u said u want to marry me, it's 6months already what's happening? He will hug u, kiss your forehead, look straight in your eyes and say my heartbeat, biz is not balanced for now. I made some losses recently in my biz, and am not finding it funny.
Don't worry, my princess shebi I promise u marriage?

Of course i will marry you but you need to be patient.

Can u see the twist already?

I will Marry you but be patient. that's the catchy sentence, most women love to hear.

And sorry your female friend will start thinking again.. Ohhhh if I had known, I would have been patient with my former bf. What have I gotten myself into nw?

Shey u can see the two situations?

So tell your friend to talk more with her bf. Honey where are we going wit this relationship. Do u see me in your future as your wife, your one and only?
When do u hope to settle down?
Do u see both of us as couple?


It's your right to ask him these questions. Ask him and hear his reply. His reply will either make u stick with him or breakup with him.


Don't date and follow your man blindly .orelse he will take you for a ride.

But be patient and ponder on his answers to you.

Thanks, really helpful!

truthsayer009:
In your own words - "She met this guy at shoprite. He paid for her movie ticket and got lot of gifts for her including an iPhone." If I read english correctly. This obviously means the same day.

Perhaps I should go back to school & study English ? Maybe Its German you wrote !

Pls, this is not a solution to her problem. Keep quiet if you can't offer to solve it.

Adaumunocha:
Got her an iPhone the first day they met!? Did I read that part correctly?

The phone was later, while he was toasting her. I didn't say the day they met.

ArchangeLucifer:
I only needed a picture.

I'm off to work.

And moreover, nothing must happen to my friend.

ArchangeLucifer:
I only needed a picture.

I'm off to work.

This person should be banned from Nairaland. Satan worshipper.

eezeribe:
Desperation...

Its not

ArchangeLucifer:
If she quits, I'll personally ruin her life.

And who are you?

Hello Guys, I have a friend who is so fed up of her relationship.

She met this guy at shoprite. He paid for her movie ticket and got lot of gifts for her including an iPhone some days after they met.

He kept asking her out of which took her 3weeks before she was finally sure of his feelings for her.

Now, they're dating and the relationship is 8 months already. He hasn't proposed and my friend is getting tired and scared he may leave her one day.
This guy is rich and comes from a wealthy home, so we see no excuse why he is not ready for a wedding yet.

He claims he loves her but still yet to propose... My friend has this new guy disturbing and begging her to marry him. Well, she's not getting younger.
Do you think she should quit this current unserious guy

We need your advice, thanks!

My friend said I should attach her pic o...
Attached!

I really hope the unserious guy sees this post on NL with her pic.

michaelwilli:
Just accept that he is right and don't bastardize what he said because of ur mistakes

Oponu, is what you are!

Useless talks...

Nice one. I hope all these girls learn from this story.

Some of us here schooled abroad...

Stupid news. Is flight rescheduling a new thing? It happens everywhere...

This news is too fake...

Kimcutie:
U really beautiful

Thanks.

All 13 things are wrong, sorry to say!

Hahahha. Very funny, I just can't stop laughing... Online beggers.

Okay, how many pastors today waited till after marriage? Let's start from there...

Randy91:
#lolzzzz...E pain am ooooo.....##olumpus has fallen......Lolzzzzzz

Of course, that's the only thing your eyes see in a lady. Underage rapist, I know your type

Randy91:
is that d only tn u saw...see ur #fallen Heroes##

Fools like you don't reach anywhere in life. You don't pass beyond your bouncer and goons job to the local cement mould weight lifting tubes. Get a life, your mates goes to the office, shops, or whatever work-place every morning, while you gym all your life won't feed or give you a comfortable life. *Wake up Loser* Cheap Club Bouncer!

Randy91:
is that d only tn u saw...see ur #fallen Heroes##

Yeah, just like your four-corner head sisters'

This Kemen sef. Won't you let the boss and queen of all ladies be?

Okay, and so?

Never been turned down by a guy before, and I wouldn't see any reason to woo or trip for a guy o matter how gorgeous or rich he might be. OP, that girl must have very low self esteem.

My beautiful Debbie. So adorable. Hmmm Bassey seem to surely have big cassava.

Jesus is Lord. All these men with their always-seeking-penetration tool. May God help you all. This story is really tragic. The man should be sentenced to death by anal burning with hot coal and asphalt.

Please, always use protection. But seriously, this story ehnn... Got me at first. May God help us all.
*Always remember to use protection*
Or
*You go for testing with your partner and stick to he/she alone*

It's a pity. Such a handsome young man. RIP

oshe11:
Attention seeker


Go n call out a celeb for Impregnating U


dat wud be faster


Tho U nor wowo sha


bt swerve, I HAVE NOTICED YOU WHATS NEXT

Some men ought to be ashamed of themselves. So you want to go into a dialogue collision with a lady, this way. I'm even wasting my time replying to this danfo driver Chelsea fan.

All these things don't happen. They are mostly lies jare. Where I stay in VGC, our next compound neighbour said his wife was told she would die if she doesn't give to a begged. Now 5years, she's still alive and kicking.