Finestbae1:


You just spoke like a real and exposed man! Thanks!

Am a lady

You are welcome

alexialin:




Am a lady

You are welcome

... put the female tag and pple will stop being confused...

truthsayer009:


I don't mean to be Annoying. Perhaps If she structured her post properly without lying in-between. Either ways, I'm sorry.

A bird at hand is worth two in the bush. Women want marriage, She should marry the guy that is ready to marry NOW. Not later.

She should watch this NdaniTv series talking about commitment. It has the EXACT answer to her question


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MGqE9NrHfiQ

But how is she or anyone so sure this new guy is ready to marry her

Guys come up with this line Alot.

She tells this guy Now that u say, u want to marry me, right?

Good, I accept

So when will you come to my home to meet my dad and mum

And when will u take me to your family as your intending bride

Ask these two questions and watch how the morrrafucker will stutter his reply to her alongside a confused look in his eyes.
Lol

Men ehn?

And he will stutter and say ehmmm before that, let's get to know how selves better, u know what I mean? And by so doing, he will. Make an attempt to grab her

She should just pray they are in a public place or else a lil struggle may erupt from. Both of them.. The guy go wan fucvk!

Bad assz!

TheMainMan:
... put the female tag and pple will stop being confused...

Heheheheheheeh

Hell no!

Read my advice, so u won't be biased about my gender. That's the trick

Well, one thing I can tell 'this your friend' is that she may not be the only lady this guy is seeing and it may just be that this guy's parents may have already betrothed him to another of which he may not be in support of cos we all know how it is with rich parents always trying to make choices for the children.

It may be that this guy truly loves 'this your friend' like he said.

let 'this you friend' try and befriend a member of this guy's family preferable his sister at least that way she can at least know what's going on with the guy.

alexialin:





Heheheheheheeh

Hell no!

Read my advice, so u won't be biased about my gender. That's the trick

... hmm... d sensible ones will take your advice and ignore the gender..

it doesn't mean... i also once mistake u for a guy... thats why

your choice tho if u love it like that

TheMainMan:
... hmm... d sensible ones will take your advice and ignore the gender..

it doesn't mean... i also once mistake u for a guy... thats why

your choice tho if u love it like that

OK ok

Sighs will place my gender on my profile

alexialin:




Am a lady

You are welcome

Lol. My bad, sorry!

Finestbae1:

Its not

how can you be so sure? Unless of course you are that "friend"

alexialin:






But how is she or anyone so sure this new guy is ready to marry her

Guys come up with this line Alot.

She tells this guy Now that u say, u want to marry me, right?

Good, I accept

So when will you come to my home to meet my dad and mum

And when will u take me to your family as your intending bride

Ask these two questions and watch how the morrrafucker will stutter his reply to her alongside a confused look in his eyes.
Lol

Men ehn?

And he will stutter and say ehmmm before that, let's get to know how selves better, u know what I mean? And by so doing, he will. Make an attempt to grab her

She should just pray they are in a public place or else a lil struggle may erupt from. Both of them.. The guy go wan fucvk!

Bad assz!

Well, she should simply ask the Rich guy (whom she is still with) When he will take her to see his parents. Time / Date / Month..Get the exact timeline.

Truth is, if you need to be asking your BF in the first place. It's a bad sign. If he really wants to settle down. You won't need to ask.

Finestbae1:

Lol. My bad, sorry!

It's alright

I get that everytime.

truthsayer009:


Well, she should simply ask the Rich guy (whom she is still with) When he will take her to see his parents. Time / Date / Month..Get the exact timeline.

Truth is, if you need to be asking your BF in the first place. It's a bad sign. If he really wants to settle down. You won't need to ask.

You sef!
That's not how to go about it

The relationship is just 8months.
There are ways to ask him subtly.
You don't go all out and ask a guy like that! Or else he will get scared.

You are a guy, you should know.

alexialin:






You sef!
That's not how to go about it

The relationship is just 8months.
There are ways to ask him subtly.
You don't go all out and ask a guy like that! Or else he will get scared.

You are a guy, you should know.

Scared or Not. Assumption is a bad thing. Ask & you shall get answers. If she is really knows her worth & not scared that no guy will approach her again If she looses the current guy. She will ask.

You can cook a nice meal OR after a great sex (If sex is involved). What so ever works for her. She should know his "MUMU" button after 8 months.

I don't want to start tell you about my own experience. But Guys aren't stupid. If they want to settle down with you. You will know.

Are you viewing Nairaland on PC or Mobile? Cos ......

alexialin:
Tell your friend to relax, 8months it's still young. Not everyone propose so quickly, he's still studying her. She may feel he's the best thing that could ever happen to her, while he could feel he's still watching her character to know the kind of wife, she will become if marries her. It's not about because I have money, I must marry.. Nope that's not it.
He may not be psychologically ready for marriage. Mind you, marriage is not boyfriend and girlfriend. It goes way beyond that.

And I feel he's the kind of guy who won't be eager to divorce on little provocation, so he's taking his time to understand what he's really getting into by dating her. So be patient with him but strike convo on how the future will be between u both, ask of number of kids he would love to have, and u would love to have as well. Talk about how do both of you, see yourselves in 3years time from now.
So that's about him.
Talk about your future together.


Then this new guy clamouring for marriage so fast.
You will be surprised he's saying I want to marry you, for u guys to start having sexx or he's deep intention is to make u his baby mama. You may never know what goes on in his mind

From experience, a guy will not just marry you immediately he approaches and say babe for me, I want u as my wife. I wonder what your bf is still waiting for, stringing u along.

He's only using that line to get u on his bed. That new guy, if u accept him and breakup with your bf. He will date you for some months or even years. And you will be like? But u said u want to marry me, it's 6months already what's happening? He will hug u, kiss your forehead, look straight in your eyes and say my heartbeat, biz is not balanced for now. I made some losses recently in my biz, and am not finding it funny.
Don't worry, my princess shebi I promise u marriage?

Of course i will marry you but you need to be patient.

Can u see the twist already?

I will Marry you but be patient. that's the catchy sentence, most women love to hear.

And sorry your female friend will start thinking again.. Ohhhh if I had known, I would have been patient with my former bf. What have I gotten myself into nw?

Shey u can see the two situations?

So tell your friend to talk more with her bf. Honey where are we going wit this relationship. Do u see me in your future as your wife, your one and only?
When do u hope to settle down?
Do u see both of us as couple?


It's your right to ask him these questions. Ask him and hear his reply. His reply will either make u stick with him or breakup with him.


Don't date and follow your man blindly .orelse he will take you for a ride.

But be patient and ponder on his answers to you.

Barzinime:
Are you viewing Nairaland on PC or Mobile? Cos ......

On Tab

Why do u ask?

The time to type all that?

alexialin:






On Tab

Why do u ask?

Barzinime:
The time to type all that?

Hehehehehehe


Don't mind me jare

Today is my off day from the office environment. Thank God!

And I have nothing much to do today. Have already completed my house chores.
So nah 2 relax ,eat, drink, make calls and chat remain.

And Am use to typing so much online, cause i take online classes, as my part time work hobby. Which makes me type anything from my head.
It keeps my brain active and alive.

It's not even much .

On a regular working day, I wont have this time.
That's y

Finestbae1:

And who are you?

It seems you are in a hurry, because he is rich, and you don't want him to be the one to break up with you and leave you hanging, that is why you are considering breaking up with him.

And you going to eat drink relax & not invite me? God is watching you

alexialin:





Hehehehehehe


Don't mind me jare

Today is my off day from the office environment. Thank God!

And I have nothing much to do today. Have already completed my house chores.
So nah 2 relax ,eat, drink, make calls and chat remain.

And Am use to typing so much online, cause i take online classes, as my part time work hobby. Which makes me type anything from my head.
It keeps my brain active and alive.

It's not even much .

On a regular working day, I wont have this time.
That's y

Barzinime:
And you going to eat drink relax & not invite me? God is watching you

Ha! No need inviting God nah?

OK let's do it this way,
I will send someone to come pick you wherever you are.

Type your contact address here and phone number attached with a current passport photograph and yes your full names including a copy of your international passport and police report. Please send it here. My pm doesn't work, I beg u.

We can't be too careful you know?
Safety is key in this situation, cause we are knowing ourselves this afternoon for the first time.


My PA will come pick u, wherever you are on planet earth. Distance is not a problem.

Feel me?

Finestbae1:

Its not

If it's not, then what is it?

all the young girls say they aren't ready for marriage


while the old ones want it by force


a guy that is wealthy or from a wealthy home has nothing to loose when he gives money or gifts out, it costs him nothing

till wen a guy gives u something that pains him now that's from the heart and that's sacrifice.


see guys chopping all these females and we de here



darisgodooooooooooo

Tell your self sorry your friend that
1. She's after the guy's money
2. 8 months is not too long for a relationship + guys have wised up, they don't want to enter eternal bondage

kai shez so cute

I wish I was her man

All the best oo.

8 month is short o. If not that there is something else fishing.
Contract me if you wanna cheat on that your time waster BF.

Girls are terrible people

The American Embassy won't ask me so much details....lol
I already know where you stay
I can come anytime I want to
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alexialin:






Ha! No need inviting God nah?

OK let's do it this way,
I will send someone to come pick you wherever you are.

Type your contact address here and phone number attached with a current passport photograph and yes your full names including a copy of your international passport and police report. Please send it here. My pm doesn't work, I beg u.

We can't be too careful you know?
Safety is key in this situation, cause we are knowing ourselves this afternoon for the first time.


My PA will come pick u, wherever you are on planet earth. Distance is not a problem.

Feel me?

Barzinime:
The American Embassy won't ask me so much details....lol
I already know where you stay
I can come anytime I want to
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Lol, you don't know where I stay, cause if you know, u will remember nobody can come anytime they like, unless I authorize it at the gate. If not no one, can come in and visit me. It's that secured.
So my dear, you honestly do not know my home address.

Try and another gimmick

Let me just give you an hint its at a bustop along ikorodu express road

alexialin:







Lol, you don't know where I stay, cause if you know, u will remember nobody can come anytime they like, unless I authorize it at the gate. If not no one, can come in and visit me. It's that secured.
So my dear, you honestly do not know my home address.

Try and another gimmick

HungerBAD:
Tell your (self) friend that

THE GUY IS MARRIED.

No chill