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blaise26abj:
Oh so because the man is cheating the wife should cheat too and vice versa ? Really ? Don’t excuse bad behaviour . Yes we are humans and blood does flow in our veins but cheating because a spouse cheats is the stupidest thing to do . If there is any integrity , leave ! Life is about choices and choices have consequences!

I don’t cheat. I hate that with my soul . But if my spouse cheats , I will leave rather than stay and start cheating . What kind of nonsense life is that? Become single and feel free to mingle. Life is too short to live in a bad relationship

Keep arguing blindly in other to win cheap point, why should man cheat? Emotionally abandoned wife, among others?

You married, yet still want to be leaving like single, before it's too late, provided not too late.

I repeat, wen u start going voyage, claiming you are alpha male, before you come back, they would have sang a melody songs into the inner ears of your wife, she herself, would be thinking she is dreaming, when she open legs wide for intruder.


This is bitter but free information from someone who knows farrrrrrrrrr above you in relationship stuffffff.



Bye, but I pray you won't come back to gnash teeth that you met unknown man telling you bitter truth about how woman can fall into manipulations of players. See

blaise26abj:
Nope. It is just a house of irresponsible adults . Don’t feed that useless victim narrative that women give when caught. A cheat is a cheat . If you cheat because your spouse is cheating then you are the same because there will always be reasons to cheat in a marriage. Always do the Gaddem honorable thing and leave ! No self respect again

Wen you abandoned your wife and start doing all sorts nonsense outside, there are high tendency for her to cheat, blood also run through her veins,.......when you leave vacuum, players will come and start singing all sorts of beautiful rhetoric in her ears, almost impossible for such singers not to break into straits of homous.

Know this and have peace, if you are doing that, better reverse before it's too late, nobody is an angel, even angels once fell

How I wish my fellow gender can learn from this, I almost said it in previous thread, how did you treat your wife, before giving you bastard kids.

Now, he has shown it that he was irresponsible, and why another man bonk his wife, in as much I agreed married women infidelity is on the rise, many of these are caused by we, men When you put wife at home, and start chasing every hole outside, before you come back from voyage, small small boys would have broken into your territory and did enough adventure before you arrive.

EponObi:

You wan destroy your friend's career abi? Dey there dey run mouth like tap. And your friend, I hope he wont be the cause of his own downfall.

Instead for you to learn from experience and how to guard your own relationship/marriage, keep attacking and critical.


As if I mention a particular psychologist or certain clients or even specific infidelity.

Stop attacking every comment as if it's Obi vs Tinubu, you will learn from it going forward.

If men can come to realistic that, 9/10 of married women cheat. I have a clinical psychologist friend, whenever he shares secret things he heard from his clients In marriage for me. I trembling.

We are in era where husbands will have knowledge of "side man" of his wife, just like wife knows side chick of husband.

Kingpele:
Thank God am now in my mid40s because to marry this Gz girls is a very big problem to a man that wants peace of mind

....and you think women in ur age group different? The only difference is, while your own age group is a little bit conservative, Gen Z no send anybody.

Married women of all ages involved in infidelity, far more than how it was few years ago.
Only few men know what's going on in underground.

50 yrs old married women downward, 9/10 cheat!

QuantAnalyst:
Why always the science students? Is accounting, literature and commerce more difficult?

Those subjects are far easier, but students in science class are far far more intelligent. Apart from that, science students usually serious and more determined far more than students in commercial and art classes do.

In era of AI any student who still unable to read and pass on his or own, it means "book is not meant for him/her"

Anything teacher teaches you and you don't understand, just snap it into AI, it would summarise and break it down to pieces, even more than your expectation.

Image123:
El Rufai my man. The man dey brilliant oh, but made a 100million naira bail mistake. How do you explain confessing on live TV to tapping the NSA's phone? Even with all the problem of insecurity that the country is facing? Were you under a spell?
When Bible talk about the power of the tongue, E know wetin dey sup.

He is a type that, when thing doesn't go his way, he quickly lost calmness and emotions would overwhelm him.

The same way he said, people would be carried in "body bags" in 2019, when Buhari re-election was being threatening, then, he escaped, no thanks to person in power. He also talk recklessly about people of southern Kaduna and bandits, which is unbecoming of person of his status.

People should learn how to control tongues not even on national TV.

Wike own will come in next govt!

This man money would have gone into the pocket of lawyers oooo, anyway, he has stolen more than enough that will last his next generation.


These people are arranging him from simple to complex, they deliberately allowed DSS to come last, when they know, he would have been exhausted.

By now, he won't even have time to block Tinubu reelection again, but how he will be get off the hook 🪝

Offpoint1:
😂 That's why you should never let some women assist you

And if you don't have capacity? You will die trying!


Back to topic,.......must you tell anyone that you want to send money to whoever you want?

I hate wen people saying wife doesn't allow husband to send money to his own relatives, the husband himself doesn't want to, only hiding under my wife.

If you send money and keep quiet, no Jupiter will keep, let challenge you.

jojothaiv:
It's quite possible and I trust the man expertise on this however Nigerians should know that the so called xenophobic tendencies of some SA is highly selected and targeted at those at the lower rung of the society, most of the dry heads xenophobic foot soldiers will be smart enough to pick their battle carefully.

Because govt of the day indirectly supporting them, infact, Ramaphosa used it to campaign before his election, claiming foreigners stealing their job and that he won't accept that wen he becomes president.

If leading presidential contestants, started talking bad about MTN and other SA businesses today, don't be surprised you will just wake up one day and see citizens targeting MTN and other SA business.
That's powerful tools, political elites using to raise people emotions in other to achieve their political goals.

ufotunang:
..but why can't Desmond Elliott look forward and contest for house of reps.. move from his political journey

Because he didn't perform, many of you are just surporting him base on emotions, because you hate tyrant on the throne, he, himself worse than tyrant.

Yahaya Bello among them, has tedious job to do before he can claim the plumb job.


Even if it's thuggery, he must double his efforts.

Iykenuwa:
You mean the kid that flopped in France despite playing with Neymar and Mbappe?

Abi oo, the kid that went to French club and also collected balon, ahead of your idol.

Waiting for your own master to lift world cup before I start considering him .....

Ebenezer2021:
you just naturally hate this guy.
Is it envy/jealousy?

Envy/jealousy? How possible?

I think you should direct those two words to Goat who is jealousy and envious of GOAT.

NATURAL FAR DIFFERENCE FROM ARTIFICIAL!

While his boss lifted trophy immediately he entered new club.
He, who God has blessed, his adversary will keep on labour in pain.

Wishing him to lift world cup trophy first....... If

Onewazobia:
No difference and there won't be because we (the citizens) are the true reflection of the kind of leaders we have. There won't be change until there is a genuine change of heart.

Because you are citizens, the children of elites must exempted from positions authority, tell me just one country practicing such democracy pls.

I guess the children of elites are not citizens as well.

Owners/ management are Chelsea problem and about coach.

How would you sign almost every player in the team 6 to 7 years contract and not expected to lazy.

I think they should go and do reorientation in how to manage a team, if they really want success.

You didnt go through the right channel. You should have asked your friend Seyi to take him to his father, and for that one to direct Hope to include you in his diary.

Nevertheless, politics is about queuing, who knows if it will reach your turn next term

This story will be sourer in the ear of modern day wife/women.

They want to be in charge of marriage and husband doing whatever they want.
Gone are the days wife/woman see herself/body as pride of her husband, but today. .....I want my peace, I must do whatever that pleases me, so far I get my peace from it

MrEar:
Buhari's son has also secured a political ticket.

While the children of middle and low-income Nigerians resort to gambling and cybercrime, the political elite are strategically positioning their own children for power.

In time, it will be ordinary Nigerians' children who pay the price, inheriting a future even harder than the present their parents endure today.

Smiling and suffering continues.

What is the percentage of children of all these so-called elites, compared to unknown?

I don't think it's still up to 50 compare to more than 1000 elective position across Nigeria.


Meanwhile, the son of unknown, how many of them do well, while in office? The Okada man that won courtesy of Obidient bandwagon last time, please help me to highlight his achievements after 3 years here.

Politics is far difference from social media stunt and not game for teenagers

I'm sure baba don handover entire South East APC to Hope, not even when emilokan slogan is re-new-hope.

DeepSight:
It's bad, but I personally believe it's against the right philosophy of law. They have enacted laws to do it, but it's just wrong in my view. It should remain civil even if someone said you have leprosy. It's a simple lie he can be made to retract and pay damages for.

The trend is dangerous because we have seen too many cases of the powerful having the less powerful arrested for simple self expression.

I am sure you remember the Erisco Tomato Paste case and recently the Bonn Bread case.

We should be conscious of where this kind of mentality leads.

During Buhari 's presidency, someone was arrested for calling Aisha Buhari fat.

What do you make of that?

Wen are you going to start advocating for people not to spread fake news towards fellow human beings?. ... what you called civil, do you know it can lead to depression if not death for the other person?

I doubt if you know the extent of what bully can cause for people, the Europeans take issue of bully far more than ours

I will implore you to channel your energy for people spreading fake news, to let them know the consequences.

RollinTNDA:
There is this babe that shocked me

I normally dress very well I recently noticed that when I go to market. People increase price because they assume I'm rich due to my dressing.

This girl showed me a vintage shirt and told me it's 15k ahhhhhh I reach house
Told my jnr bro about it, he said if I give him 6k he will go and buy it. Like a challenge I accepted.

This boy came back not only with the vintage shirt he also got the girls number.
The boy get sweet mouth but I still dey shocked why you go sell me shirt 15k come sell sm give my bro 6k

I come dey reason if dressing well is now a curse rather than a gift in this Nigeria.

If you don't use mad man leg, whose leg you will use oooo, Maga always pays the price.

Meanwhile, in different way you can get woman down.... sweet talk is nos 1 and the rest follows.

Woman that money or fine bobo will not penetrate, sweet talk will penetrate and come back triumphant.

I eager to read without option of fine. Lona d behold, that is what ended it.

Wen you think your account choose swell up by causing emotional distress for your fellow human beings, you deserve to eat watery beans from govt.

Kaborvibez:
I just have to do an affidavit of CHANGING OF NAME..I Just don't want this so called MUSLIM to stain my name... Dislike the religion with Passion....

Which means, you are once a Muslim.

Felabrity:
I approve of this
But why is efcc always showing themselves against civilians?

But you always critical of every govt decision, even if it's to protect the same civilians.

BarrElChapo:
Cancel the wedding, that’s merely trickle truth. There are many many wild things you don’t know about the lady. Btw why lie about her virginity status, did you make it seem like virginity was a dealbreaker for you?

The guy himself, is a red flag for a good wife material, they are the type of wayward guys, who have done all sorts of nonsense with women in the past and would just wake up one day, hallucinating and hunting for virgin wife.

Those types of guys usually ended up with liar and manipulator.


Still not get the logic behind of men wanting to sleep with different women recklessly and same time, want to marry virgin. How is that possible, only in the land of irrational homo sapiens.

Galactics:
Your own small sef. My guy's former girlfriend told him she was a virgin and the guy confirmed that her hymen is still intact. But the shocker was that other guys was sleeping with her through the anus. It was one of the guys who was fucking her through the ass told my guy and he confronted her but she denied. When my guy mentioned the name of the guy that told him she started crying and confessing that it was true. Mind you it wasn't even only one guy, they were many. If only men know the kind of heart that women have, hnmmm.

Wen u are looking for what is not *most* important, they will keep playing your head like talking drum.

Which one is more important between VIRTUES and VIRGINITY? For me, I will choose VIRTUES

The last time I checked, several women that husband met with virgin, sleep with countless men after first sex with husband.
I know 2 personally.

When they deceiving a man, a rational thinker won't deceive himself.

This message is meant for female than male, at teenager, 95% of girls ready to explore their body maximally, only to regret it few years after, no amount of preaching or threatening can make them change their mind. When it's already too late, they would start blaming all men for their calamities, the actions they did coconut head to take in the past.

Go to Tiktok and read various lamentations of them in millions!

Anyway, such decisions make it easier and cheaper for men to bonk as many as, one desires in this Tinubu tribulation.