₦airaland Forum

bigpriik:
Come to think of it most of the rich guys you have today where once broke guys who manage to work their way to the top,do women actually think this way when they try to make you feel less of yourself because you are yet to make it in life?
The rich guy you are proud of today may become broke tomorrow,and the broke guy you are belittling today may become rich tomorrow because this is life and life is all about irregular patterns.
I guess this is why most of our male celebrities and rich guys marry or date their class instead of marrying down because they know they broke girls date for survival not for love.

Broke guys or poor guys, I doubt if you know the meaning of being broke and being poor.

Meanwhile, if you poor, is it the time for you to chase woman or to upgrade yourself?

The relationship you want to establish with women, won't it come with financial responsibilities?

My own is that you and govt should find way to reduce the prices of cement.
15k per bag is extortion of Nigerian populace.

They should include modest dressing abeg, (masquerade regalia), after all, fundamental rights of religion is entrenched in our constitution.

gabicon:
It would be an illusion to think the American people are not in support of this policy or them holding the world by the jugular. Trump may be crazy but America will do anything to exact it's dominance.

How many of them? Many of gladiators who supported mad man,now regretting their decision, even his secretary of state speeches lately, shows he has tired of drunken man

If govt steps in now, the same delusional online rats and cockroaches, will start attacking them, they must support devil in other to spite govt of the day.

gabicon:
USA voting against it is understandable; the American game is control of perception and propagation of false narratives to ensure the empire is always at the top, now you want to take it from them.

Is it America game or Trump game? To always going against any rational decision.

I doubt if you know, it's mad man that currently managed most powerful nation on earth.

franchasng:
Your wife cheated and you decided to take her life, what a stupid decision. When prettier, hotter ladies abound everywhere, all because of sex you destroyed your own life in a horrible, painful manner, ire oh

You think the whole scenario is ordinary? I'm very sure, the destruction of the family is rooted in spiritual battle.

Abi no be same celestial prophet, who usually having access to uncountable girls, single mothers and even married women daily basis. I won't be surprised, he slept with someone wife in which, that one bewitched him back diabolically.....Yoruba call it "eedi"

Buccalcavity2:
Lere was the hero of that session. So Rufai can call people names but politicians can't call him names?esp when it's thier turf?
I love that Lere did it in person not through X or other platforms. Technically Ayo didnt end the interview, Lere did!
I encourage every guest to tow that line. Were là fin wo were!
I watched the interview of Rufai with Adebayo of SDP, and i felt sorry for the man with the condescending language from an OAP. His response was I will not dignify your premise with a response, but will focus on the other question!
SMH

I'm surprised, the way people distorted and start narrating the story,.... instead to say Lere dealth a blow to Oseni, they are changing the narrative, just because they hate Tinubu or Wike, the same Rufai, in which his colleague, Ruben Abati, still had heated exchange with, just a day before, the incident.

Nigerians can support devil just because, they hated the opponents. Did Rufai Oseni acting professionally? None of them ready to reason in such direction again, because they hate APC.

Rufai is escaping all these unprofessional conducts, because Tinubu accepts all these nonsense, another president would come tomorrow which will deal with him mercilessly, by then, only him will surfer for his madness.

Let him try half of what he is doing now, with El Sisi of Egypt and see the consequences.

Nevertheless, I won't surprised if his boss called him to order, for his unprofessionalism.

These are hijab girls, in which mad people saying, they are dressing modestly.


Not until we stop deceiving ourselves, base on religion indoctrination.

At least, you are giving oxygen to people like, Rufai Oseni.

Tv host who lacks decorum and basic ethics of journalism to be an anchor man.

ElevationD:
Friends playing political and power game against each other. This Atiku - Tinubu, El Rufai - Tinubu fights are truly in very advanced stages. The way it is, Tinubu will not care if the man who helped him win in some parts of the north goes to jail.

As for the security man, I believe that El Rufai’s family will find him a new job and compensate him. El Rufai will be saddened hearing that the man who helped his wife visit him, lost his job for that act of kindness to his family.

That, they would help him, is 50/50 chance.

The little bribe he has collected, may be the final he would collect.

These types of character, is reason why insecurities are going wild on daily basis.

If this man is to be police or military, he would be given Boko Haram Intel, to evade arrest or killing, infact, the Boko Haram, could ambush his colleagues, who are sent to take down the insurgents.

You people should take him to the court, let court fine his television stations and possibly remained him in prison custody for few weeks.

Never seen a TV host who lacks basic ethics of journalism and turns the platform to attacking and talking down of everybody, most especially govt of the day.
someone who is supposed to be neutral and hear views and opinions of invited guests, would be imposing his views and opinions on others, and turn himself to attack dogs of oppositions.

The same person who is holier than thou, was the one who flouted traffic laws, few years ago and threatening officials that he would call Sanwo Olu.

Just like Okocha....... Love of Money.


The amount he is collecting as wages, when you combine it together with sign on fees, is too outrageous, and since "oga no want lower his wages"....let him finish his career in mid-level club.

Meanwhile, Oyinbo don't want risk his money to buy Africa player, who is not playing in very top clubs in one of, 4 top European countries.

Merry100:
How I wish Nigeria was convenient to an extent like the USA, UK, Netherlands, Ireland and many other developed countries. Then you guys would have to confront your flaws instead of pushing the blame. While Nigerians are yelling, "No more love," many countries are still enjoying love. Women can experience attraction first before even knowing who he is or what he is worth because survival is not the biggest issue in their country. The economy situation of the country is simply what is enabling you guys to have excuses.

You guys would be shouting, "She played me. She used me. Look at how much I spent on her." How much have you actually spent on a lady? How many of you have used your money to actually turn a lady's life around? Or did you pick the lady from the zoo, forest or desert? 😂🤣 "I housed her. I fed her. I bought her cream." Useless things that people do even for strangers on the street.

If it is transactional love you want, why not just make your terms clear? There is no offence in it. People are doing it, and it is working even better than many normal marriages. All it needs is real money. There are many contract marriages or marriages of convenience out there, and they are working pretty well because the terms are clearly understood and each party plays their own part of the deal well.

The average Nigerian man's mentality is simply that money should create love for him, so he does the bare minimum when it comes to building a strong relationship.

If money is no longer the issue and the majority of people, both male and female, are living comfortably, what would you blame? Would you still stand a chance, or what would you be complaining about? Money is always your excuse for not finding love. Can you really stand among the many other guys and actually be loved if money is not even an issue? First, check yourself before you throw claims around. Do you deserve to be loved? Would you love yourself if you were the woman?

Money is one of the most inexpensive things. All some women ever want is safety and trust.

Love is easier to navigate in many developed countries because living is more comfortable in those countries, their men don't make excuses, they act. Nigerian men want to force "I am giving you some money, so you must love me," but things don't work that way.

Both men and women are conscious of being played. Just as your brain is telling you, "Is all she wants my money?" the woman is also asking herself, "Where do I stand with him? Does he see me as a commodity? Am I special to him, or am I just any girl he can purchase?"

I doubt if you are indeed, in the Nigeria dating ecosystem.

Naija women not like Oyinbo ooo, they would eat you till your bone marrow, all in name of chasing & dating, to make it pathetic, the same girl, would go behind you to label you maga.

Ordinary tip of her pants, she won't allow you to glance it.

infogenius:
Yes he can.
I have a very close married female friend . We have been close for over 8.yrs now.
She’s a very beautiful and a high value lady.
I respect her enough and keep our relationship out of emotional situations.

People around her and myself hardly believe we don’t bed because people reason that all close relationships with the opposite gender must include bed activities.

Fortunately, I am not a pervert like many Nigerians that ends every relationship with every female besties on the bed.

We are cool that way and I have never and will never include a scheme to sleep with her as long as we live.

She’s far better off to me off the sheets and I am so proud to keep our relationship that way.

Her husband is my friend so are her kids.

You said, people around you "think" you have beded her?

That thought alone is not only insults to her husband, but diminishing her as a virtue women.

The narration you gave here now, if "those thinking" you have romantic relationship want to narrate the same story, it would be devastated, even the person that see her husband won't be able to take cup from her husband to drink, don't forget lies fly and spread farrrrrr and more than truth.

Nigeria man married 3 wives.

First wife...... Traditional marriage.

Second wife...White wedding.

Third wife........ Registry.

Ilamina:
This case reminds me of the movie, brown sugar

If his wife has male bestie, how will he feel?

In marriage people should be using the pin they want to use to pinch their partner on themselves first, if we are doing this maybe marriage would be longer and beautiful than what we are witnessing.

I can see Hope of Imo coming to be senate president.

Instead for weakling Trump to beg Netayanhu to assist him degraded Jihadists, he keeps doing gragra with no solution in sight.


Only Israel knows how to decapitate terrorists.

Men not chasing again, because they have understood the act of getting money and see women chasing you for easily lay, with your money in your hands, you sleep with varieties of women you want.

Go to clubs or dating applications, you select as many you want.

Didi2d:
I prefer low key or private. But if at all you want to do it in public, make sure the girl is ready to settle down with you.
You can ask her jokingly when you guys are gisting. Make she no go embarrass you for public o

All these proposal that went wrong on social media, you never know they are for content.

The last time I checked it's women who are always on the throat of guys for marriage?

Judiciary worse than politicians and police combined now.

James Omotosho and Peter Lifu lead and others following, including female CJN who they say, she is a strict woman and claimed to be no nonsense woman from religion who controversially claiming they are above board.

Someone that has been forgotten, but shouting. "Here am I".

I guess the freedom you are enjoying wherever you are not pleasing your body and soul, hence, wanting to try captivity.

Just like DG of fake agency, you would soon be picked up from your hiding.

May our daughter or sisters never married a lunatic, dictator and boss as husband.

Lunatic spirit that would decend on me to instruct my wife not respect anybody should never visit me.

writetopoker:
To hell with any rubish tradition.

Bowing down and kneeling down is only reserved for God your maker to reverence Him.
Even Angels are not supposed to receive our bowing down for, not to talk more of an ordinary pastor.


Infact if there's any other at all wife's should bow or kneel for should be their husbands, because in Ephisian the Bible said treat your husband like unto God.


Bow for which pastor, abeg that woman suppose go temporarily her papa house, because she has defiled the home and the wrath of God

Saying by religion adherent who worship God of moon, Arabian religion of moon and blood.

Symptoms of soon scatter marriage .


Curse on mother marriage, I pray it won't happen on daughter.

Imo, sokoto and Katsina. Their govs need to be queried if possible and removed from office, for being poor managers of resources.


Though, majority of people who put themselves for election in Nigeria are poor managers of resources, they are just wicked to grab power from good people, who can manage Nigeria to greater heights.

I will start taken Nigeria league serious when odd of home team against away team started reading like [3 : 1.4]. (5.2 : 1.3)
{2.8 : 2.3}


If South Africa, Egypt, Morroco, Algeria, even Tanzania can be bookmakers can given such odds out,why not Nigeria, that claimed to be powerhouse.

Just like one APC man said, Obi only interested in him and himself alone to be president and less concerned about progress of others politically.

Other political figures will be working hard to assist his die-hard lieutenants to progress politically, at least, to help him when, himself needed them.