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Omoawoke:
The only woman capable of loving a man unconditionally is his mother

the same way, the only man who can love woman unconditionally is her father.

Every soul knows good from bad, so many things you didn't need to be told or taught, because you already know if they do it for you, it would hurt you, but selfishness in human nature is what's destroying relationship/love.

boxypane:
Obi doesn't stand a chance yet, until Atiku collapse his structure into his.

The only combination that can shake Tinubu as it stands today, is Atiku for president and Obi for Vice president, we don't need to continue deceiving ourselves, if such comb come to existence today, Tinubu and his camp won't be able to sleep again. Most especially if they promise Kwankwaso Secretary to the Federal Government.


But for eagerness of Igbo to seat on the throne, they will never allow such arrangements, though, Atiku had made mistake of going in 2023, but for 2027......

I have said it here severally, many of nonsense you see women doing today, it's men that taught them how to do it, unfaithfulness, wickedness, turning relationship to money making, infact, wild sex, among others. Just like Franc crying for every Tom and Jerry how his wife jilted him, but wen wife spoke out, we could see, Franc too went far.

The way some men cheap, making me fear my gender, how would a man is ready to go down with any available hole, just let a lady greats guy twice, the next thing is to looking for how to bonk, to control 3rd leg becomes problem for my gender.

You want your girlfriend/wife to be faithful, but for you, you ready to sleep with every of her friends and even family, what a mad way of behaving.

WhiteIverson:
In Nigeria the victims would be forced to marry the imam even as they are underaged and the imam will receive praise from his brethren.

They would bring out religion sentiments, claiming they are percecuting a particular faith, before you know, the entire adherents would leave the subject matter and start fighting for gods.

A former Imam has been jailed for life, when court heard that, he has been serially abused women and girls for more than ten years, while exploiting his position as religion leaders in East London.
Abdul Halim Khan 54, was sentencing on Friday at Snarebrook crown court in East London and ordered to spend at least, 20 years according to GBI.
He was found guilty on February 14 of 21 offences including nine counts of rape, four counts of sexual assaults women, five counts of sexual assaults of a child under 13, five counts of rape of a child under 13 and one count of assault by penetration.
The court heard that Khan targeted 7 women and girls, while working as imam in East London, using his position of trust to gain access to them and exert control.
He arranged meeting in secluded places and sometimes in victims' home where he carried out abuses while claiming he was a jinn(a supernatural spirit)

Prosecutors said, he also used threat link to "black magic" to frighten victim into silence, making them believed harm would come to them or their families if they speak out.

Police said, the abuses came to light in February 2018 when the youngest victim disclosed what happened to a teacher at school prompted a wider investigationsG

'Evil personified'

Cuthbert talked of Khan specifically targeting women and girls from the Bangladeshi Muslim community because of his standing and the shame the victims might feel in speaking out about sexual abuse.

"You behaved as if you were untouchable. You were confident that if they did come forward it would be you and not they who would be believed," Cuthbert told Khan.

The court heard statements from some of the victims who all spoke of the severely detrimental impact the attacks had caused, with one talking about having tried to take her own life.

One of Khan's victims, who said she was a child when she was abused, tearfully told the court: "To me, Khan is not a human being, he is evil personified."

'Remarkable bravery'

He was found guilty in February of nine counts of rape, four counts of sexual assault, two counts of sexual assault of a child under 13, five counts of rape of a child under 13 and one count of assault by penetration.

Despite his convictions, the court received letters of support for Khan from his family and some members of the community ahead of sentencing.

Det Ch Insp Jennie Ronan, whose team led the investigation, said: "Abdul Khan presented himself as a respectable man who could be trusted.

"However, this was far from the truth, and he instead preyed upon and took advantage of others.

"Today, I want to focus on the victim-survivors, who have shown remarkable bravery in reporting Khan and great strength throughout the trial."

Melissa Garner, specialist prosecutor at the Crown Prosecution Service (CPS), said: "Abdul Halim Khan used their deeply held beliefs to instil fear and silence in them, making them believe their families would be at risk if they ever spoke out."

An NSPCC spokesperson said: "It is deeply disturbing that Khan abused his position as a trusted faith leader to commit sexual offences against girls and women using fear and manipulation to control and silence those he targeted."

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cdrpk4end65o

Stellaris:
I may not be a fan of politics but I really like her courage of not changing parties.. even despite the turmoils around PDP she still stand in..

Wen she knows, party is inconsequencial in her own case, her performances speak supreme.

Franc and Emeka Ike are most foolish men I ever heard.

How would Africa man's wife would involve in scandal and instead to let the issue die a natural cause, having sent her parking. He would still be going from one media house to another to broadcast it, not even marriage that brought up 3 solid kids.

What will happen to such kids in schs among their peer?

themanderon:
Cursed is that young man if indeed he broke another man's home. He will not end well. These people don't fear God.

And what did you want to say unto 42 years old married woman running after 33 year old single boy.

Thank God the trio are from one region, if it's other regions, they would have exonorated their entire region as clean and unblemished.

ElevationD:
They certainly would not have dropped him at that level. They are waiting for him at the primaries, to give him the Ambode treatment. With the direct primaries, they will vote him out and fix Wike’s candidate.

If Fubara gets the APC ticket, Wike and his group will team up with PDP to defeat Fubara.

Fubara is definitely between the devil and the deep blue sea.

I strongly believe that a well organized NDC will this time defeat Wike and his co-sojourners.

See how you are talking as if you are the one to make everything happens, not even with inaccuracies.

Which PDP they want to use oooooo? I doubt if you know Wike already schemed out in PDP fold.

If Fubara has grassroots supporters, he will sure defeat Wike camp, Tinubu doesn't support or against any camp in Rivers, people will decide the person they want to use as party candidate and as it stands, many people are with Fubara, while only the few elite, are with Wike.

DeltaBachelor:
LOL. Your friend (YOU) is just insecure. There is temptation everywhere even in that supermarket he intends to open for her. When there is no trust in a relationship, it is better for both parties to quit

How will you feel, when you take your fiancee to your people, they ask you where she is working and you say hotel

They throw the same question, among your friends and in your own working place.

You people should endeavour to use your God given brain to think appropriately.

The same people who crying about wife infidelity and DNA on faceless forum everyday, will be the one promoting nonsense that would lead to infidelity.

Not surprising, we are already in an era where husbands knowing the side men of wives!

Kobicove:
Na that one shock me pass, I no even know say Nigerian woman go gree allow that kind thing

As it stands today, 5/10 of married men know, wives have side men and they show blind eyes as if they don't know.

I know a woman who, I will say have two husbands, the real husband stays in different city from where she is working, at weekend, she stays with husband, but from Monday to Friday, she leaves permanently with concubine in the town she works, she has been involving in this type of lifestyle, not less than 4 yrs.

ElSudani:
Basically, Tinubu has been president since OBJ left office. This type of laughable criticism is the reason many critics are not taken seriously.
Throwing different things and hoping one will stick.
Where was the economy and the debt profile when Tinubu took over?
The same Nigeria where you were using Naira to buy Naira?

And now, when tyrant had removed subsidy and floated Naira, where is the economy?

The money he is borrowing up and down, where are the infrastructures? Anyway, the money is in pockets of his cronies he asked to lead agencies

SixSeven:
Weak content, they don't even make any effort to make it believable.

You think this type of stuff cannot happen in real life? Uhm, I laugh in French, more than this are happening, the more you look the less you see. Infact,It's the commonest!

If they show you dirty things going on daily basis, only few were leaked and extremely few are reported.

If Sisi Alagagbo dirty stuff didn't leak, would you believe, husband doing 3some together with his wife?

2mch:
Let your sister run far away from this man if they have no kids between them. Your father and the whole family should also block him. This is a mad man. You should also try to get a house in a new location. When hes tired of gossiping and telling lies he will move on with his life.

Such a person will make life miserable for your sister. He obviously has a very bad orientation and is a bad and dangerous person. Those who lie like that and tell such stories are dangerous.

Do you hear from pastor side before you call him madman? The way you people react with emotion ehn, no wonder, lot of crises globally.

Maybe, Op is the one that lying pathologically you don't know, you quickly given all sort of names because of one sided accusation.

Who, they will give chance to talk that won't side himself? Learn how to calm and neutral going forward, it would help you to take good decisions, most importantly if you opportune to get to leadership positions.

Stephen0mozzy:
OP's story get K-leg, for her to be there in this drama story, and she didn't cause any problem is because their split was amicable...

...things happen to relationship that can make it split, and it's not always problem. Sometimes it's opportunities, growth or moving in different direction in life, even after being together for a while.

It might even be "genetical incompatibility", no woman would come to such occasions, if their separation wasn't amicable.

Meanwhile, amicable or not amicable, I still don't see cogent reasons why exes should be attending ex wedding.

I see such action as intruder, and not maturity as some people claim!

obinna58:
Contentment still under economic progress

No, contentment is personal decision and not external factors, ....they give me food without meat, I might be contented with it and other person with two big meats might not be contented.

Nigeria love satisfaction is declining, mainly because we are not contented with whatever we have and only partly with economy reality.

yemmit90:
This is not mlitary era but democratic setting, governor is not that powerful withiout the backing of his key worriors in his party and government. He become powerless, vulnerable and isolated once these key players are against him.

Fubara problem is not Wike or Tinubu but his impatient to buy the loyalty of key stake holders in his government and party before starting a fight with his godfather. He should've negotiate for senate or ministerial position during their so called agreement instead of trying to be smart after making such mumu agreement not to run again with them.

Because of position they gave Wike, which is like gov of another powerful state, even if he waited for four years, he won't be able to buy them over, unlike other ex govs, who won't see anything to leverage on to bully the sitting gov.

In another dimension, Tinubu and Wike factors may still not save him, even if he had bought the law makers, they would have still used court to fight him into submission.

No one should pray to fight Wike and Tinubu in a combined fight, the two can go to any length to achieve whatever they want to achieve in a nation called Naija.

techbro1:
Very weak man. He's just like GEJ

If you are in his shoe, what would you do differently? I guess you will carry gun and face federal government.

obinna58:
Satisfied love life goes with the success of a nation and good culture practices

I’m not shocked no pure black countries are here even with our ladies having big chest and ass

Love satisfaction has to do with contentment and not success of nation, no matter how you successful, if you are not contented, you won't be satisfied in Ur relationship.


Those that married Dangote, didn't they have enough money, why can't it translate to marital success? What about senator nwoke, ambassador Fani Kayode and

So, Britain and America where they married today, they divorce next years, are satisfied with their love life, if they do why don't they stay longer in relationship and marriages?

sync:
I have been keeping my old clothes for a while now. These clothes are all in perfect condition. They were clothes I got abroad while I was a student and some I acquired as a working class.

So some time ago I decided to select a few of them to give to my hairstylist. I called her a day before then and I asked her if she was interested, she sounded kind of cold and said yes. I took them to her the following morning on my way to work. She received it and only said “thank you”. I expected her to at-least message me later after probably going through it (cos some of them were actually brand new with the tags still attached) and showing appreciation, but she never did.
Recently, I wanted to revamp my wigs and decided to take them to her. She wasn’t around at the shop when I got there so I had to wait. To my shock and dismay, I saw she was using one of my treasured dresses as her rag in the shop!! This was a dress that was in perfect condition when I gave it out to her, it was as good as new. That Dress Meant More to Me Than to Her and it dawned on me that value is truly personal

So my wig is due for collection soon. Should I confront her about it or just let it slide. Kindly advise

Yoruba adage says, we sell gold for whoever know the value!

My advice for u going forward, try not to give people your old clothes.

2. Any of your things or even assistance you want to render, make sure the person asked for it first, no matter what the person might be passing through, let him or her ask for it before you dash it out.

franchasofficia:
Let's not pretend, a lot of men are truly terrible beings, they treat other people's daughters and sisters bad and with recklessness, this can never be denied.


But then, there are more good men than bad men but the few bad men seem to be the preferred choice of most women, which is why the few bad men keep on painting the image of the majority of good men bad.


In summary, as a man, make a personal resolve to treat everyone; male or female kindly just the same way you would want others to treat you, your daughter and sisters, this has been my golden rule in life and my life's core principle.


Even if you want to have temporary fun with a girl or lady, don't lie to her, tell her you are not ready for committed long term relationship, believe me, it will only cost you more money and you will live a peaceful life devoid of unnecessary drama, curses and enmity.

You should also know that, many of these ladies saw it clearly and still put their heads into such relationships, most especially if small money involved, .....tell a lady this road you are passing is wrong, she would turn you to enermy of her progress until when she fails, and start blaming all men.

Let me tell you a brief story of my wife's childhood friend.

The lady was around 32 then, and every man coming her way only sleeping with her and left, so I decided to matchmaker her with one of our church brothers, a graduate and good looking guy o, but from Edo, after some weeks having traveled back to her destination, this brother called me and said, he didn't understand sister Taiwo again o, that she refused to pick her call, wen my wife intervened ....the excuse she gave was that, she met her town guy and she preferred the guy to my church guy, the town guy she was talking about, still learning job o, and didn't even have his own apartment then, she knew this, after he has impregnated her in his brother room.

Will you blame guy in this scenario or stupid girl?

Suspension is not enough, they supposed to replay the match in a neutral location.

Not only the bribe taker, even the bribe giver should feel the heat.

intruder15:
True. We are in a democracy. Thoughts of nationalization should never come up as an option.

Even the father of democracy, (America) takes over Chinese "tiktok", the way you people in this forum reasoning is something else. UK takes over Chelsea and sold it for another owners,even when it's not her citizens they were killings, how much more your own citizens.


It's not a must to contribute, thre is wisdom in saying rubbish just because you want to win an argument.

oliverwrites:
And who the f*ck are you to teach him how to react to something that hurts him badly.

The weakling man reasoning like clown, just as you.


Run away from drug, it destroys life.

It's not everything mature man should go out and say, most especially if you know, it would drag you into the mess.


If you catch your wife and you don't want to continue marriage with her, tell her to go without going to media to say anything about it.

I biliv this rotten story comes alive again, because of interview a weakling man granted few days ago, and shoshosho bloggers helped him escalated it.

Now, the muds will not end with him, but his siblings and even kids will continue receiving bully as a result of it.

Emma513:
I have a debate in my heart of the one I will join so I was so confused I brought it to the for advice, I am a young and upcoming fashion designer, I lost health tips, politics little football, and agriculture if Infact I never fail my agriculture science as a subject,

I Don't too like force like that, but I want to join because of the status and to avoid being intimidated, I am avarage statue person, I normally got intimidated I don't like being in cult instead of me to being in cult I rather join force,
I don't really like army because of war front because I not a rugged guy I am gentle

I will rather go for NDA to study and join as staff instead of direct soldier but I realize that I have past the age of being admitted to NDA (17- 22)


So decided to join DSS or efcc my question is how does it work,? how to join?, it's a good job, ? Can I combine the work with my fashion designing, it frustrating work , must I go to certain education to get a good grade in the job? And which educational section do the wanted most

The department they want to place you, is most important and not the organisation per say.

Every organisation has flourished and dry department, when you hear GD(general duty) run as fast as possible.


Meanwhile, since you have not yet a graduate, I will advise you to join EFCC or SSS, with such organisations, it's still far easier to go to university than military, for soldiers, your university education almost locked and you will do yes sir for life, also, you can't combine your fashion skills with military job.