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Her mental burden
Baby
Child
Sick husband
Take her own life

helinues:
Elrufai is playing politics with the noobs

Atiku claiming to be against this government but his son has shown commitment to president Tinubu's reelection

Elrufai has been speaking like a parrot lately yet his son is becoming relevant in Apc

Obasanjo has been against the presidency of president Tinubu yet Iyabo Ojo just joined Apc a week ago

The pattern is glaring, they are not putting all their eggs in one basket. If this did not work, others should

But in the case of sons and daughters of nobody who called themselves the supporters, those are the people they have been insulting/attacking others for . They have no consideration for future sharing same interest. That's why they are noobs in politics

Not they don't want to put their eggs in one basket, it only signal oppositions are in disarray.
That is, Tinubu has won the race before it even started.
Know this and have peace.

MadamVanessa:



Biggest lie ever..
I will say the truth the way it is. On this matter, women are the ones being responsible for most failed marriages. The way women act inside marriage, exuding highest level of wickedness is alarming. Majority did things you can't even imagine. Let's not talk about their behaviours towards the husband's relatives or their evil towards house helps or step children...men tolerate a lot in marriage I swear to God and condone their wives excessive.

Ask them what makes you end your marriage with your husband, majority of them will say one thing, that the husband cheat, but the truth of the matter is that married women even cheat more than married men. The reason men own blows alarm is that they did theirs nonchalantly.

What about men who would marry and still be leaving as if, he is single?

Dating every woman that come his way, even with knowledge of his wife
Using every money he supposed to spend on his family to drink
Refusing to sex wife after two kids, but sleeping around like dogs.
Complete detached himself from wife, no attention again, but the same husband given unlimited attention to concubines and mistress.
Sleeping outside recklessly, not for job purpose
Refusing to pay school fees, yet spending such money for single mothers outside.

Check among ur friends, family and neighbours, the attitude I mentioned above litter society.

Man contribute 70 while woman contribute 30

helinues:
Lies. People are not actually paying attention to the cause of most of the marriage failure lately

The mentally of I am a lady, woman, it's not my responsibility to contribute financially to support the family is one of the cause of marriage failure lately.

The man you are expecting to be providing financial responsibility all the time might not even get bored all the time, but you see that once in a while, it cause rethink.

You are not disabled, you are probably educated, working yet you don't want to contribute financially to make the marriage, family work.

When you see most men that come house late at night always, apart from work excuse, those are the people not having good time at home. They have lost interest in talking. They just want to get home late and sleep

In other words, Women contribute 95% of marriage failure, what is % of man and woman in marriage failure?

During 2023 campaign, I remember how "die hard" supporters of tyrant, were attacking Atiku, that he sold Nigeria assets to himself and cronies .

I imagine what they will tell themselves now, if they have conscience.

You are adding so many friends. So many friends requests will lead to ban, because computer knows you are adding several friends in other to scam people.

If he can tell you to stop your overbearing attitude towards your godson .
He himself has several godsons that he installed, yet no single overbearing attitude towards any one of them.

AIfamily7:
Seems marriage doesn't work like before

What about marriage of your immediate family? What is percentage of successful marriage vs unsuccessful ones?


Use that one to arrive at rational and logical conclusion and not figment of imagination, they are using to promote faceless forum.

ALTERNATEID:
Great. Now, let's see the excuse the sore losers will come up with after losing the 2027 presidential election. Let's see what the twin rogue of Atiku and Obi who both claimed victory in an election they both lost will come up with now.

I doubt if you guys really want Nigeria to be great , or only want to sing Hossana towards direction, your preferred man asked you to dance towards? If you don't pity yourself, can't you pity your unborn generations?

Always surporting or attacking a particular course is not good for your own personality as human beings.

The advanced economies where all of you struggling to migrate to, their forefathers put a good system in place, that is the results you are seeing today.
The current people you are supporting will leave one day, what will happen to country wen they leave, without good legacies that will catapult the nation to prosperity?

Kukutente23:
Rodri is better than Lampard of course
Rodri has more football honour than Henry
Only iniesta us ahead of Rodri football wise

Be dreaming, infact Rodri better than Messi and Ronaldo combine.

SadiqBabaSani:
Which of them won the ballon d’or, they shud all get the f up for their betters

To your own analysis. Rodri better than the likes of Lampard, Henry,Iniesta and Beckham in football world?


Balon dor is political achievement and not reflection of quality

If Chelsea won champion league the year, Lampard came second, he would have been crowned balon dor winner, with the SAME quality football he played that particular year, same with Henry.

Great100000:
Who should give up their seat for Luka Modrić? 👀✨

Happy Sunday everyone.

Two are above him in standard and quality.


For Sergio, that he is better than, he can't play his role.

Let all Muslims protested by staying away from all the elective positions, Christians want to break record, by occupying every elective positions.

[quote author=MyMouth post=138414547]Just what I wanted to say, if you know the amount paid to lobby Trump to mention her name ehnnnnn, e go shock you.[/quote

The attack Trump started with Nigeria, was it not as a result of lobby from enermy of Nigeria? 30k data money they given you per month, is it not lobby from evil people that want to grab power at all cost?

bcomputer101:
Can you imagine
Medicine after death

The judiciary needs a serious overhaul

Judiciary and police are the worst govt agencies in Nigeria.

LagosOrigin:
How many meetings in this year alone ?

Tinubu is obviously not at peace with himself .

He's got the governors and senators all to himself but his mind no still rest. His scare for Peter Obi ever riding acceptance all around the country give tinubu sleepless nights

How can a president be this scared of just one man, Peter Obi, so much that he's been having marathon meetings upon meetings? Abi is the president in doubt of the loyalty of governors and ministers.

Tinubu is the biggest problems in Rivers politics, instead for him to chastise his minister, he refused, giving him backing behind and come publicly to claim neutrality.

This type of petition should first go to NDDC, the last time I checked, their welfare is predominantly sit in NDDC and not security of pipeline, if they are not damaging pipelines behind their homes and in their environment, there won't be reason to subcontract such enomous contract to private individuals.

freemanq:
Waste of money , I pity Nigeria as a country

But u prefare if this money enters pocket of one or two oppotuned?

Buhari said more than this before he became president, yet everyone of you kept quiet for 8 years.


Instead for you people to start doing internal cleansing and stop be violence against humanity, you kept doing what people already known you off........ VIOLENCE.

I think they say no single project from Tinubu govt in Igbo land.

Anyway Ebonyi not part of Biafra.

Psalmistproject:
If there's any truth or credibility to this News and some people are happy, I weep for the country.
The money the federal government are spending, where does it come from, you the poor masses. So if a few wealthy Igbo billionaires decides to lobby then the Nigerian state will dip hands into the common wealth of the nation to chase shadows? And some people are happy with it? Mind you it's merely the case as most of the money is returned back to the politicians pockets as kickbacks and just very small is actually given compared to what is on the paper.
Either case another avenue to keep looting the entire country.

However I doubt if the assertion of this thread is even reasonable, considering there are countries that are enemies of the friends of the united states that can spend 10x their opposing lobbyists are spending but still US stays with the values it wants.

The US only acts according to its national interest, BIAFRA or Nigeria.

If you don't spend, foreign governments will distablise your country, you will now spend far more than that.......politics and governance complex more than the way you see it.

They asked Maduro to say Po, he said no, now he is saying popopo, and is too late.

Peterobiisathie:
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https://www.vanguardngr.com/2026/02/china-bound-auto-parts-dealer-excretes-95-wraps-of-cocaine-at-kano-airport/amp/

Na business, they boast of successful business, but their riches are underlined with illegal activities.

Kalulu44:
All what you said here differs from what I said and mean. Did I in anyway say I am still cordial with any of my ex's. What concerns just attending their happy moments with all what you listed there

If you don't see anything special being friendly with your ex, you think her current husband feels the same, if he dump, will all his friends and family feel the same way?


Food for taught, for the wise who can correctly interpret it.

feelme3:
Unless it's a different write up you are referring to, there's nowhere I read the man saying he was having issues with his papers. The only reference to immigration was "The union was said to have been plagued by migration challenges to the United Kingdom, financial difficulties and personal disagreements, with custody of their children becoming a central point of conflict." which is likely the family.

Anyway,its not everyone who understands English properly and some cannot comprehend sentences, perhaps, the words used are too difficult to break down for them.


Meanwhile, migration challenges also mean, having issues with his papers .

Read below to update your knowledge.

Kalulu44:
The question here should be, is it all relationship that ended with quarrel and bitterness? I can confidently attend any of my ex's wedding without any bitterness and with joy and happiness for their occasion why bcus, I parted ways cordially and without rancour with 95% of them.
You can't attend or won't invite an ex is bcus you guys broke up in a bad and bitter way.
An ex has once linked me to a big contract that brought good pay for me, so you want to tell me I can't attend her wedding or she can't invite me.
This thing varies, going to your ex wedding or inviting her to yours depends on how you guys broke up, shikena

Keep it up oooo, make sure you are the one settling dispute between ur ex and her husband as well, and be paying her regular visits in her husband house and her working place, please once in awhile, you and her can go to occasions, wedding, burial, naming or whatevers. After all, she is still your friend and confidant!

feelme3:
If my wife took my young children from the UK to Nigeria without my consent, I would stop at nothing to regain custody. I would confront her and her family directly and pursue every legal and institutional option available.

Reading that he occasionally sent financial support, sometimes amounting to thousands of pounds and paid school fees, yet remained completely cut off from his children for over eight years, does not suggest genuine commitment or seriousness. What I expected to read was evidence of concrete action: how many times he travelled to Nigeria, the confrontations he had with his estranged wife, and the steps he took when access was denied. Simply saying, “she blocked every access I had to reach you,” is not sufficient.

Personally, I would have applied pressure relentlessly through legal action, law enforcement, and competent legal representation. Instead, it appears he remained in the UK and relied on family members and relatives to fight on his behalf. For eight years? That is difficult to justify. If he had made personal visits during that period, there would likely be records, timelines, or documented attempts showing his efforts and resistance faced.

Frankly, this was a weak attempt. At this point, the most realistic option may be to accept the loss and hope that, when the children are older and more mature, they might choose to reconnect.

Showing up in a confrontational, “Rambo-style” manner to disrupt their mother’s funeral was misplaced. If he truly wanted custody, that level of intensity should have been applied years earlier—at their school, their home, and through formal legal channels—when it actually mattered.

Did you also read where the man said, he was having issues with his papers at that time? Which means he was battling with two issues at same time, which time he would have for all those detailing you are talking about oo?

Not even wen the wife was powerful and rocking with high and mighty in the society then.

tolufase:
It depends on the circumstances that led to her becoming your ex. It's not every relationship that ended with a quarrel. Sometimes, people choose to go their separate ways peacefully. Under this circumstances, you might still find your ex want to be there when you have something to celebrate.

Under no circumstances you invite ex, if indeed you respect your current partner.

Small small old flame will reignite again and now consume every consumables.

Learn wen and where to draw boundaries!

Sheuns:
Why should you still be in communication with an ex in the first place?

Some female ex are the one inviting ex boyfriends.

Some women are dumb and careless, doesn't know where and wen to draw boundaries.

Wen a married woman started growing in fame and riches, most especially if her progress outpaced husband, it takes Almighty grace, for such marriage not to hit the rock.

She will now be seen herself in midst of high and mighty, before you know she will start romancing with such people. After all, at that time, with or without husband, she is self-sufficient.

Before you know, the ears of husband will be hearing all sorts of nonsense from wife, which African husband will still have temerity to continue such filthy relationship? Only a bastard.

Jumoke Orisagunmi.
Tiwa Salvage.
Funke Akindele.
Sola Alison,
and now, Omije Ojumi.

"All" same route of marital failure.

ZombieTAMER:
This is so dumb

kwara and Benue didn't vote APc ?

haven't they suffered more than SE under Tinubu

If you are not dump you would have known.



Igbo man occupies the most juiciest portfolio in Tinubu govt and he is building different roads and bridges across South East, the same level, they are doing in Kwara and Benue.

Chiedu4Trump:
I find it worrying that they want to support the govt that marginalized igbos the most😥

A govt that actually hates igbos

What was the percentage of votes the government had from Igbo.


Don't thinking of eating your cake and also have it.