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hope4nigeria:
When you say I don't need man's nonsense, some things are better leave the way God created them, check well, every single woman or every women staying without partner have mental issue

That's just societal nonsense, nobody needs anybody to add value to their lives

Elporo:
And, Lesbianism correlated to Feminist?

No one correlates with the other, homosexuality isn't associated with redpill and simping likewise lesbianism associated with feminism, one of both is a sexual orientation,the other is gender fighter of some sort

Sixfiguresmart:
I am not here to convince you. I am here to state my opinion. In as much as I do not hate on them, my belief is unwavering.

I have had so many close gay pals and I am no hater. I reserve the right to my standing on this issue. I will never be lukewarm regardless of how controversial an issue is. I feel gays have the right to exist. I am an advocate for that. I do not hate gays but I wi not condone the practices.

We can talk and we can both live in this space called earth. As long as you are non-violent, I am fine. We can be cool but I will not hesitate to tell you the truth. Once say it, you know my position, we are squared.

I do not force my opinion or belief on anyone. You must decide what to do with your life. If homosexuality is your take, fine and good. Be whatever you are but do it in your God-given space.

Your cousin's opinion in Okh. Cannot change the fact that the chemical balance in a heterosexual male is exactly the same as the man who identifies as gay. The genetic endocrinology of a male is nothing short of a male. Your mental orientation is far from biochemical formation.

If you insist that being gay is a choice, I am all in with you. I will respect your choice the same way that I respect a prostitute or a druggie. However, your insistence on "born this way" as a genetical orientation rather than preferential, is the divergence that we must perpetually disagree on.

I am not in a fist fight with you. I am simply telling you that what you do is your preference, and not your nature.

Say hi to your cousin. When I stop by Okh, I will love to have a sit-down with her.

Oh good,agree to disagree and oh....sexuality isn't a choice.Have a great week

Sixfiguresmart:
Bro, I fall in the category of the most tolerant yet honest individuals to ever walk the earth. I have got not only flaks but curses for defending aggression towards gays. Read my comment on Nairaland as a matter of fact many assume that I am gay cos' most people generally stay neutral on this issue. So, HATE is not a word to describe me. I have worked with the gay community on health awareness programs and event planning. I was an occasional guest in the gay karaoke bar which is a down low bar for gays who are daytime heterosexuals. It was a favourite bar for my ex-girlfriend who would have me sing to her in front of her besties. So, I am no stranger to gays.

With that covered, I want to address your point regarding the science and my research. I am a professional with a fine touch of class and authenticated finesse. Scientific articles published in recent years tend to placate the trend and suck up to big money corporations, or avoid being termed intolerant and hateful.

Articles published in the 50ies are still relevant since no new invention has been made to discredit the existing records. For example, mathematical formula remain the same, economic theories, Chemical formula/ theories etc. Haven't you wonderered why a sexual orientation that is tied to chemical formation would change in 70 years while the chemistry or the chemical compositions remain constant?

Did you know that our hormones are chemical substances and the only way to determine them is through biochemistry or chemistry in general?

Did you know that all the theories and formula for all courses relating to chemistry predate 1950? Now, tell me how does recent science explain this differently without an invention that overwhelms previous researchers?

Let me give you an example of overwhelming evidence, in 2006 Pluto ceased to be a planet. Why? It was earlier CLASSIFIED only as one, but as a result of technological advancements, it was DISCOVERED that it isn't a planet. What happened? 1. Technological advancements 2. Overwhelming evidence. 3. The fact was revealed. (Recall Pluto didn't change, which is the real fact. Nevertheless, as a result of further study, the fact took the center stage).

Now, let me present another point to you. Studies based on children's behaviour does not reveal homosexuality. A male child feels attracted to girls from tender stages. Some gays that I knew had crushes on girls. They were not born that way.

In another argument, a male homosexual naturally lacks an inbuilt natural knowledge as regards what to do with his partner. He needs to be taught. He is given instruction by his groomer or his partner who in most cases is already a pro. On the inverse, a 14 year old girl, has an inbuilt knowledge of what to do with a man without being taught ever. It is a natural instinct that is present in animals too. That is how we were made.

Another argument, a newborn baby naturally reaches for his mother's udder. No one taught him. It is a natural instinct.

Quit subscribing to gay apologists dressed in doctor's garment. Cease reading articles that are intended for stirring up controversies and written for commercial purposes. The fact is constant. People are profiting from the gay agenda not that they do not know the truth.

Nah dude, you are the one still abscribing to past knowledge, I do agree that past researches are headway for posterity sake,that I don't dispute but (I'm laughing as I'm saying this),you still don't get the "born this way" trope and it's not just evident in your previous comment but also in this because that's the genesis to your understanding of biology, I refuse to converse with on it,the internet is free to explore more and as for the children bit,my cousin is a child development specialist in the state department of health in Oklahoma so that bit holds no water and still the 'born this way' is still at work in a child's development which you still don't understand because every thing in that child is still developing including their sexuality which isn't a static concept and your theory of big cooperations powering those medical "hypothesis"....yea,like those didn't happen during the hyper conservative era but now it's in reverse and y'all are getting your wings in a bunch

Moreover, it's ok to be confused in sex, it's a normal trope not just for virgins but everyone and you and your likes boiling sexuality down to sex is literally shallow,I have gay friends who are asexual (you're also gonna say that's a myth)

I can't converse with you because as I said earlier,your research is somewhat useless and I'd rather listen to those "gay apologists in doctors apparel" or the opposing doctors side because they didn't just researched,they experimented,they made theories,studied their subjects and whatnot,they deserve their right to be given that conversation not you.

Also,I really admire your queer friends because I can't be friends with a fencer (not a word),they know where you stand and you know where they stand... it's sweet,I'm just glad you didn't call yourself an ally because that's where it would've gone haywire

I hope we agree to disagree. Peace

Bahamas95:
God created ADAM and EVE not Adam and Steve.


Don't spray evil perfume to make it smell nice.......What's good is good, what's bad is bad. Or will you also tell me those engaging in bestiality are normal human beings?



Gays and lesbians or whatever they call them are all mad shikena!

Yea...not everyone is under white supremacy believing in your westernized God

Bahamas95:
That act is very disgusting, thinking about it alone would make me vomit all my intestines out.

Those guys doing it are insane, nobody in his right senses would indulge in that rubbish....I can't even allow a fellow man call me certain pet names let alone touching sensitive areas of my body. I won't hesitate to commit murder if any man tries that sh!t with me.

I would rather have sex with the ugliest woman in the world than sharing same bed with the most handsome man on earth.

Dude please, everyone is not wired like you,no one is forcing you to be gay and sexuality isn't a choice. The same way you would leave an handsome man for a woman is the same way a gay man will leave a beautiful woman for an ugly man

Caseless:
you're gay. Sexuality is natural, you just chose to be gay.

Can you listen to yourself? you just contradicted yourself

Sixfiguresmart:
I have done research on this issue and I have worked with the gay community while in school (not in Nigeria). I know for a certainty that we have hermaphrodites. For this group, I can give a pass because the biological makeup of their DNA is obstructed by one thing or enhanced by the other. I also studied the biological deficiency of some males (e.g males who have retracted penile muscles or female who grow beard and muscular physic). Nonetheless, what I have discovered working with the gay community is that the majority is nurture and has nothing to do with nature.

I had acquaintances who were gays and from the information that I garnered from them, I could draw my conclusion, which might not be generically substantiated, however has an in-depth potential to demystifying the narrative as the one that you stated in your comment. Gays are built not born. I can agree with hormonal imbalance or the presence of asexual hormones in some.

If a man, would take a hormonal pill to grow female features, I will classify that as an outright deception from Jupiter. If a man with full-fledged masculine features identifies as a woman, I can sell my bladder to prove my point that he is a con man.

People tend to gravitate to irrational ideologies that are outrageously promoted by the media. The adulation for pop stars and the eternally engraved memories of visuals can affect one's psychology. We are all affected in many ways by what we see. I can forgive a man for displaying feminine behavior (e.g smile, walk, choice of dressing), however taking it 10 steps further to asserting that you were born that way is outrageous. Furthermore, taking it 1000 steps forward to actually committing the act, is premeditated. It doesn't happen naturally. It is a forced exudation of feelings that can be controlled. Let me give you an example (our innate desire to be successful, proud, or to eat). Another example is a woman lusting for her father or brother. Those feelings are natural but because of the education received, she is able to control her emotions.

In other words, we decline some foods, not because we are not hungry, however due to our established preference. So, in a rare state of extreme hunger, a man who had loathed a meal like snake meat, would eat it by force. What he does, is to allow that spirit to survive take over his preference. In that moment, he wouldn't believe that he is a snake eater, but a survivor.

So, a gay man who is overwhelmed by emotions or lust, will not accept that he is engulfed, rather he would go for a softer ball and IDENTIFY AS BORN GAY. If you take away the circumstances, he would suppress that feeling and be normal. Being gay is not biologically normal. Science might explain otherwise but the actual biology exposes the truth.

I had a colleague who suffered from nyphomania. She was only going through a stage in her life and living with the scars of brutality. She would crave for sex relentlessly and told me she would stick anything right in her *****. Would she run lose and begin to beg people in the street for sex? She found a way to control that feeling.

Gays can and are able to control the feelings or lust for other men. And, I am not judging here just to make it clear. Many gays that I know were defiled from a tender age repeatedly. So, it was more like being groomed into it which buttresses my point. Alternatively, that lifestyle is unnatural. It can never be nature. For those Hermaphrodites, I have noticed that one gender takes the centerpiece. They are more inclined to one gender than the other (possibly the gender that has the most hormones) So, for a whole man with accurate hormones to identify as gay is deceitful.

If you IDENTIFY as gay, then you are being deceitful to yourself because no one identifies as his gender. Your gender identifies you.

Wow,so full of hate and complete misinformation, it's obvious you gathered all this from articles published in the 50s because dude,you know nothing about human sexuality,it's evident in your definition of the "born this way" trope but ignorant bigots like you have no place in today's medical society so your words are apparently to somewhat useless because far more advanced biologists have said much more and yet,their studies were rendered moot and that ending takes the cake mistaking gender for sexuality lol,dude....just stop.
Now,go publish that essay filled misogyny and femme shaming associating feminity with
Weakness and less than the alpha shit to bigot weekly magazine in the 50s,wish you luck

lookingfly:
I can't imagine leaving this thing for a dry gay n**sh!

No one is telling you to leave that for a man,for crying out.... sexuality is not a choice just live and let live,not every man will be like you

Everyone is responsible for the commercialization of sex

DannyFX2638:
Russian women and beauty. no country comes close

I'm sorry what? When middle eastern (the most beautiful race) women are there but white supremacy don chop una head finish,lots of them are plastic bimbos not natural beauty

edosignature:
SayNoTo_LGBTQ for it's evil in it entirety & disgusting in it entirety.

Ok dude,start the protest,I'm sure people will rally behind you

Bakakeyz:
I’m no gay o, but I won’t even mind bending my ass over for anyone who’s willing to make this already hard life easy for me.

If you are handsome with a great body,sign up on onlyfans,a lot of straight men and even straight pornstars make banks from gay men who but their content because no woman is gonna pay for dick that she can get for free.
Straight pornstars like Lexington Steele,Jason luv and other straight men fans are 90% gays, you can even collaborate with a female onlyfans content creator and gay men will still watch,you just have to make yourself the focus of the porn and not the woman,some gay men have a fetish for straight men

poweredcom:
So if someone is watching a porn where niggas like Mandingo or Lex Steele or Rico strong or Wesley pipes is banging d hell out of a white beech ..the person is now Gay

Una mumu reasoning don de too much these days ...

The only way someone can be suspected to being gay is if the person watches gay porn too much ...as a lifestyle ok ..sometimes we may search for something's online and stumble on those transsexual and gay pictures ..one may look it out of curiosity does not makes one gay ok

Dude, it's Nigeria....just give up,I'm done educating them

Kriss216:
Deny what? I look like someone who will deny his actions?

Ok man

Kriss216:
I praise gays

You're mistaken me for someone else.

Nah dude, it's you but ok if you are gonna deny it

Yankiss:
Well, I find gay very disgusting. I can't say same of lesbians. The very thought of gay poking into anuses freaks me out. It makes me poke. God whoever is into that is sick. Very sick.

Dude that's just hypocrisy. If you are gonna be a bigot,be a complete bigot and not half bigot just because one of them turns you on,I know women who love gay porn and don't like lesbian porn yet you don't see them bashing the latter

Kriss216:
There's no difference between SIMPs and Gays...same bloodline.

If you're dating a SIMP, just know you're dating a Gay.

LoL.....is this an attempt to shame gay men because I've seen your previous comments on gay topics and you always praise them so what gives?

mojounited:
War is about deception. The end goal here is that Ukraine just wants The West and Rest of the World to believe that Russia committed acts of war crimes...

Smart move from the government, but not so smart sacrificing the lives of civilians when shelling from civilian occupied areas.

Can y'all just stop acting there's no propaganda on both sides? No one is pure

killALIEN:
Nowadays we see our ladies flaunting belly bump, then a month later a baby. No father! What a high level of moral decadence.

Hope you have the same feeling for men having surrogate babies too with no mother?

edosignature:
Like I've always said, it's your type who flood my presence with seeking for advice, expert treatment & counsel.

Check my signature brotherly[b] I give care without bias & all LGBTQ community[[b][/b]/b] in Nigeria can testify.

Peace.

Your previous comment says the exact opposite to the bolded. Have a great week

Acidosis:
I brought up the issue of economic resources but you chose the issue that is of concern to you.

You cannot "force" people to embrace homosexuality on the ground of freedom and human right and kick against polygamy. If freedom is, indeed, absolute the way you and your likes want us to believe, then freedom should also cut across a whole lot of issues such as polygamy and sex between man and apes or dogs.

I knew where you were going, I just wanted you to spill it out. I never said I'm against polygamy and I'm not forcing anyone to accept homosexuality,afterall pretence is worse than homophobia.I'm just telling y'all not to make your homophobia extreme as lynching someone when you can just turn a blind eye or call the cops since it's against the "law"

Acidosis:
Lol. I don't care about both. Focus on the question you asked.

You obviously care because you were the one who brought it up

Albertone:
You're wrong.

Herpes was first discovered amongst chimpanzees before passing it humans.And it wasn't through intercourse

Are you listening to yourself? Where did I say it was through intercourse? Wasn't HIV the same story, don't use your hate to justify your disease Olympics and HIV only became an epidemic because of people like you who didn't care and saw it as god's gift to rid the world of queer people

dreamxhaser:
Don't come over here and justify this shitty act. Can you drop your location so we can have a physical debate about this?

Who do hell are you to tell me what or what not to do? The only shitty act I see here is your queer phobia

Acidosis:
Rules or laws are not always about the correctness of a thing. An example; it doesn't seem right for Nigeria to feed on the resources of a few. It doesn't seem right that some countries have to make laws that forbid a man from getting two or four wives. Where is the place of freedom?

Men like you only care about the patriarchy,just look out how you want polygamy but nothing from you about polyamory

Albertone:
Most of other STDs are curable but HIV is not.

This is to let you know that it's your people that brought this incurable virus upon humanity.

I now see every gay person as a potential HIV patient.

Herpes is also not curable but you don't see queer men calling out straight men for starting it. If this is your attempt to shame queer men....yea, it's failing

dreamxhaser:
STFU, did you read the shit you just wrote?

Terrorists and politicians are beyond our reach, that is the job of the security agencies. It is left to us to pressure the security agencies to do their job right.

Now when it comes to gays, they are minor bastrads we can put in their places before it gets out of hand.

Oh yeah, exactly what a bully will say,they pick on those smaller than them

So it's also your job to put queers in their place? Who named you judge,jury and executioner. You are so full of hate, SMH. Have a great day

Acidosis:
Sure. The screenshot below happened in the same U.S.

Like I mentioned, people should learn to read the "room". No one has absolute freedom to do whatever.

But just because there are rules doesn't mean it's right

Acidosis:
There is no deflection. The point of that post is that you can't do whatever you want with your body. You're responsible and accountable to your immediate environment and the course of nature and, more importantly, you have to act like the Romans if you live in Rome.

No one can be completely free as freedom can never be absolute. Not even in death.

There are places where unclothedness is the norm from nude beaches to places in Spain and New York since we are going down that route

TotoGame:
Adultery is bad too but Homosexuality is on a level of it's own

Save yourself from doom niggar

Adultery is bad says the guy who praises it. You bigots just pick out things you will follow in the bible

Acidosis:
Will going to the office naked hurt anyone?

Again you are missing the point and trying to deflect from the subject