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1Sharon:
Okay, i thought she had no idea about your sexuality

Oh she does know. I will never ever be that heartless to a woman. Hopefully by next year, we will be out of Nigeria

Nanaborga:
Which kind clout chasing consolation be this .

Celebrities and anything to trend . Dude you’re a musician, give us good tunes to remain trending rather than looking for cheap thrills to trend when you’re not a casual Instagram celebrity or a comedian

He's an entertainer. Showbiz is his sphere and social media is their reality lens besides he posted it on his page, blame bloggers for the banana drilling

GodWrites:
I'm a gay ally, and I belong to a lot of human right organizations here in Nigeria. One of them is TIERs.

As a psychologist, I offer my services free of charge to the lgbtq community, not gays alone.

You're right.. A lot of closeted gays like you have ended up married, and have grown to be homophobes despite being one.

How do you even live? I can only imagine the pretense and facade you have to put on every day.

Isn't that exhausting?

Please, seek for a therapist.

Just stop man. He's completely a lost cause

Wow, so you are really part of The initiative for Equal rights? I've been following your work closely for years now. I just wanna say a big THANK YOU to organizations like yours. Y'all are rare diamonds in a rough

Introvertmemer:
1-Simps-we all know who they are
2-simpettes-this are the female simps(yes,they are existent)
3-simpers/simpmakers-these set of bastard turns people into simps
4-simplings-this are upcoming simps.
PS-THE FEMINISM MOVEMENT WAS A NICE ONE UNTIL IT WAS HIJACKED BY MISANDRISTS AND THEN WE HAVE THE MISOGYNISTS HIDING UNDER THE REDPILL MOVEMENT

You deserve a chilled beer

Introvertmemer:
Have you seen Nikita Dragun

OMG, she's not gay though, she's trans. Check out edenthedoll on Instagram too. Another trans woman

pacino26:
If the essence of being [b]gay is basically sexual attraction to same s3x, why try so hard to look like the opposite s3x in the first place?[/b]

Anyways their mind is all twisted so guess I'll find it difficult understanding the wisdom in their folly.

Even in the gay community, that's a big topic that stirs a lot of conflict. An hypermasculine gay guy went on a massive rant that he's not attracted to feminine men, he's gay because he wants to drink all that masculinity and the community pounced on him, i'm glad he stood by his word and never apologized.

All in all, few are attracted to feminine men while most especially masculine insta gays are attracted to masculinity (that's the whole point of being gay)

Pochettino:
Hahahahahahaha
'It is natural'.

If being a gay is 'natural', explain to us why 'nature' does not have a 'natural' way of reproducing that trait. Instead species from another sexual orientation is responsible for that.

Is this not clear evidence that you & your lot (who seem to be bountiful on this forum) are an anomaly?

Ogbeni, you were not born gay. You cowered into faggotry because of factors (biological or psychological) that are directly related to your inability to function as a real man.

Explain to us why nature make some women infertile, explain to me why nature creates anomalies

"Cowered into faggotry" really? Openly gay men are more masculine than you will ever be. We go through hell in a society that chose to judge us based on our sexuality and yet we are resilient.... That's a man, we survive in the face of adversity but you straight men already have it easy. The only contrast between sexuality wise is the sexuality besides that I see nothing y'all do that we can't.

To make it in this world as a black man is hard, to make it in this world as an openly black gay man is worse - James Baldwin

johnhood:
Lavender marriage?
So you are gay but married to a woman to hide your sexuality?

Did you even research the term? I'm gay but i'm married to a lesbian. It's a marriage of convenience

Parkflash:
In my opinion
Being Gay is not natural
if your father was Gay and your Mother was a Lesbian, you would not have been hear shouting gay is natural
please guys lets be logical
I have nothing against homos but i just dont think its natural.

If my parents were gay and lesbian and they both wanted kids, I will still have been born. Sex is different from sexuality,they both just have to picture the same sex in their heads while doing it or better still he could jerk off and climax in her oval hole but that was then, today, there are lots of ways to have kids without opting for the traditional option. Lots of gay men have sex with women, that's just it... It's sex, sexuality is more of an innate attraction. I know of some straight gigolos here in lekki who sleep with men for money, they loathe it but it's just sex, it's an action, they feel no attraction to them. I'm gay but i've slept with more women than men because in my mind, I thought I haven't tasted the right pvssy yet to turn me straight. and the more i slept with them, the more i hated it. Yet, then I felt nothing but empty and shallow after each encounter, it wasn't until my first encounter with a man that I felt fireworks just like your first sexual encounter with a woman.

But your opinion is valid to you and it's ok. We can't force acceptance, it's mere pretence and creates more hate

1Sharon:
This is not okay.

We live in a country where we can't be ourselves. She's a lesbian and I'm gay and we both consented to the marriage of convenience

donb06:
.. Everybody to his/her beliefs... When ladies see men that care a lot they always say HE HAS THE HEART OF A LADY.... Meaning a man doesn't have the capacity to love to that extent....does that make them MISANDRISTS? Have you heard of MOTHER'S LOVE....it entails that tender love is exclusively and mostly exhibited by MOTHERS.... so if we see a lady exhibit manly traits it's only natural to point it. stop all these name calling and stupid wokeness it will add misery to your heart and destroy your family.

GRACIAS

What on earth are you talking about? I was referring to a reply he tagged me on on another thread

1Sharon:
Good morning, why are you gay?

Sad this is still a question in 2020 but ok. I'm gay because it's the same reason you are straight. It's natural and you didn't choose to be straight

Starzo:
u have a mental disorder

That's all? May I see your medical report or perhaps your degree in human psychology and human sexuality. Then I will believe

Pochettino:
If your sexuality doesn't reproduce your successors then logically, it is flawed because the primary fucntion of sex is reproduction. #FACT

This is why I call you gays mentally ill creatures.

Now fvck off!

And you had to continue. Why are you obsessed with me? Do I smell "latent homosexuality"? Ok, i'll bite. What happened to couples who can't have children and the ones that don't want kids? My uncle who's a professor and his wife in Brunei are a living example moreover, it's the 21st century, people no longer rely on the traditional way to have kids. I'm raising twins and they are biological but I never had them the traditional way. I'm currently in a "lavender marriage" (look it up)

Now, let's go on record, I never called you names and I wanted nothing more than to have a civilized convo like adults but you had to result to hate and insults. We can agree to disagree and still learn something like adults do

Pochettino:
Get d fvck outta my mention, gay.

And proud. Good night

Pochettino:
Masculinity is NOT doing whatever you want to do. A man can be reasonable AND remain masculine. Masculinity is ACTING LIKE A MAN.

A female can do whatever she wants to do too. It won't turn her masculine. She will only be a spoiled brat - but won't make her masculine.

And yes, I am homophobic. I am proud to be attracted to the opposite gender the way nature designed it.

I am proud that I am not mentally ill & biologically defective like gays!

Goodbye.

I said goodnight

Pochettino:
Naso.
Gay biologist. They've split it into 'mannerisms' & 'sexuality' so they can sneak in their mental illness.

Oga fvck outta my mentions with your illogical write up abeg. The mere thought of exchanging quotes with you irritates me sef. Sissy.

A man acts & bleeps like a real man. Any other thing is GAY.

Goodbye.

Spoken exactly what I expected you to say. Have a good night

Pochettino:
Masculinity is masculinity. It has no variations.
It simply means "man like". If you are masculine you act like a real man. If you are not, you act like a bitch. Simple.

You gays are very good at twisting existing facts of nature to suit that untreated mental illness affecting you all.

The first rule of masculinity is doing whatever the hell you want as long as no one gets hurt. If you feel like wearing pink or a thong, you do it and you do it because it makes you happy, that's a real man. Any man who thinks wearing thongs will make him gay or less of a man, he's that, less of a man and if he thinks, it makes him gay then he's completely insecure. A real straight man will do whatever makes him happy and society can go Bleep themselves because of their wild insecurities. A real straight man will strut the runway in a dress and he's still straight because masculinity is a societal construct not nature's abode.

You went down the homophobic route. Thought we could have a civilized convo without hate but No. Have a good night

Pochettino:
No straight man acts like a bitch. If a man feels comfortable moaning 'awwwnn' or wearing make up & thongs then he is a sissy.

If a man loves a dick penetrating his asshole, then he is a sissy. NO straight man loves his asshole penetrated.

End of. It is black & white.

That's gender mannerisms. Don't confuse both because they are not the same

Pochettino:
No straight man acts like a bitch. If a man feels comfortable moaning 'awwwnn' or wearing make up & thongs then he is a sissy.

If a man loves a dick penetrating his asshole, then he is a sissy. NO straight man loves his asshole penetrated.

End of. It is black & white.

That's sexuality

Starzo:
what made u feel that his/her post is misogynistic??
una go just dey use words wey una no understand the meaning

No one blames you if you didn't see the misogyny in what he said making you one too. Your previous reply to me on the rape thread said it all. Homophobia is deeply rooted in misogyny, the fact that you see women as less than so anyone who assumes that role is less than a man

Hollywood get to work. She's worthy of her own series

Starzo:
tueh!

OK

Pochettino:
With sissies, its not a gender thing.

Gays (like yourself) hate masculinity because you can never have it so you all secretly hate on real men.

So anything to promote femininity & offend masculinity is welcome to you because you hate the fact that you can never be a real man.

And gender mannerisms has nothing to do with human sexuality. He might be a bit feminine in real life but he's straight as an arrow. I've seen a lot straight "feminine" men and gay "masculine" men

Pochettino:
With sissies, its not a gender thing.

Gays (like yourself) hate masculinity because you can never have it so you all secretly hate on real men.

So anything to promote femininity & offend masculinity is welcome to you because you hate the fact that you can never be a real man.

Lol..... What's your definition of masculinity because a real man defines his own masculinity not following the societal hegemonic masculinity.

P. S: if you think all gay men promote feminity then you probably haven't met most gay men because most gay men are masculine according to society's definition

Fahdiga:
Nothing men no go see from vagina people

Nah.... Be specific "straight men" because I don't even know if they exist