₦airaland Forum

DesChyko:
Newsflash, even before the attempted justification of this abnormality, all of these exist and will continue to exist. Perhaps you may want to be realistic with an actual societal gain that doesn't ordinarily exist buy will if the population decides to embrace Gaybriel.

And also tell me which of these doors you will use or how many more need to be added

Glad you know it existed before the advent of religion or the west

As for the door,I will need a gender neutral bathroom

DesChyko:
Nice one. Let's use those two; 'kill twins' and women being heard..

Did the society benefit from them being normal? Obviously.

Now...

What does the society stand to benefit from gay being normal?

Population control, creativity, acceptance, tolerance.....more men and women for you straight people to ogle at

This is kinda like old news

DesChyko:
Strange and odd is strange and odd.

Normal is normal.

In the words of Riley Freeman, "Gay is Gay"

The word "normal" and "strange or odd" are defined as societal constructs that evolves with time,it was normal for people in calabar to kill twins,black people weren't seen as normal for centuries,a woman wanting her voice to be heard was seen as strange and odd back in the day

t2luv1:
Got news for your 65% of the USA are all Alabama, don't let the big cities fool yaa. For example take Georgia yes Atlanta metro areas are blue and liberal but just 30 miles out of the city it is all RED and full of ChristainTaliban ditto for New York State.

When I said "liberal",I never meant it as a political term. It's still a land of the free unlike Qatar so my question is still the same, Please tell me the laws and culture you are referring to because even if it isn't accepted,it will be tolerated

DesChyko:
Same difference. According to the Oxford dictionary, queer means 'strange' or 'odd'. It's also an offensive term for 'strange/odd' people.

You used that word,not me. A word depicting abnormality.

I used the word because it's been reclaimed,when you use the word, it's an offensive term. Moreover, what's wrong with strange and odd? Black people were seen as strange and odd but times changed and some of our customs and traditions can be referred to as queer yet no one is calling your head for them

DesChyko:
Just following the ways of my ancestors. Like 'straight' implies; busy being normal.

You? Where are you curving to?

Also following the ways of our queer ancestors before the advent of religion

t2luv1:
This is what pisses me off reading crap like this. Qatar as a country has it's own laws and culture just the mere fact that they are hosting the world cup does not mean that respect for the host country's laws and culture is automatically out of the door. Let's turn this around in 2026 when the USA will be hosting the world cup are you gonna tell me people that will be coming will be allowed to disrespect the US laws and culture?

Please tell me the laws and culture you are referring to because everyone knows how liberal the states is

davidkingsley59:
Great relief for the LGBTQ+ community. But it's still wise to act like Romans when in Rome.

Exactly what I told my queer friends who are football fans and are going there to watch

DesChyko:
Why are you gay?

Why are you straight?

Ruthymoon:
Can't they just shamelessly do their gay stuff in secret, Must it be in public

Can you straight people shamelessly do your it straight stuff on secret? Must it always be public because when I was in Nigeria,y'all shamelessly pushed it on my face

easyfem:
Quater sha won show say they are among western world .... I dont knw understand aw pple practice this gay thing as toto sweet reach .... is the world insane

By your logic, people shouldn't "practice this straight thing" because prostate orgasm is 25 times more intense than the penile orgasm but you straight men will never know. There are gay trans men who haven't had bottom surgery so gay men still screw vagina but on men and dude please, it's 2022,sex isn't sexuality

Kinddetective:
It boils down to economic interest, for cheaper oil the US is willing to allow a murderer walk free. I wish that Africans and others will understand that the West does not care about them, it’s all about what is in it for them.

Nigerians should wake up and make Nigeria work for them, it’s delusional to think that there is a messiah somewhere coming to your rescue if you keep electing thieves as leaders. They are putting their countries first, please stop putting your belle above your future. Stop electing selfish and criminal leaders, biko.

Duh!!! No country cares about any country, it's about the interest they hold for one another

DarkPheonix:
This Biden is pu.ssy, can't expect much from him. Trump was right, this man has done nothing but dragged America's glory in the mud making the great USA seem like a toothless/useless bull. All is and administration know how to do is granting homosexual and abortion right.

God bless Donald Trump.

Say you have no idea how US politics works without saying you have no idea of how it works

timesuploaded:
Leave all these smallies wey nor know anything. These old school folks can't even sell 100k copies anymore.

Well they did set the blueprint so I will give them the honor they deserve,from Wu Tang clan to ice cube going solo then to rakim etc,they maybe nobodies today but they will always be on the background of hip hop

vastolord4:
Maybe to you, cos if you were born in the 80s, there are some Busta songs that when they unexpectedly play on the radio, meeen driving mode go change with the nods

Yea my bad,I forgot to add this generation

blowjohn:
Buster not relevant?
For the records and for ur info, busta just went on tour with Nas and the wu tang clan, tje biggest hip hop tour this year.
Ur tripin bro.

Busta that people couldn't get an opponent for for Versus .

Stop playing man

My bad,I actually meant this generation and hip hop rarely top global music charts unless streaming sites ,an hybrid of those factors would prove my point right

vastolord4:
Busta has always been a real gee not because of this move but his lifestyle.. I trust the Collabs' gonna be on the 1st 10 on the billboards

LoL.....yes, good luck with that,Busta is no longer relevant and it's obvious you don't know the politics of music charts

godofuck231:
except you want born bastard ,

You just proved my theory

godofuck231:
Wait make you reach 50 , every rope you see will look like a suicide instrument, you don't know what loneliness does to the human mind, try and live in iceland or Denmark for 5 years alone

You do realize this is the 21st century right? You don't need to be married or have kids to curb loneliness,just because someone is lonely doesn't mean they are alone. You could be in the midst of people and still feel lonely

Let this world cup just be done and dusted with,I've never seen this much panic attack for a major sporting event in years

Nia69:
Alright love. I'm better now.

Just curious, how tall are you? I'm 5'3ft.

I'm 5'11

advanceDNA:
It is the same biased criteria used to allow men encroach women sport in the name of anyone can claim to be any gender...

Thats how u people put a male rapist in a female prison without any test just because they say they identify as a woman....not carimg of the safety of women and allowing these people escape proper punishment..

So let me ask u....if a person identifies as non binary or genderless.....will they build him his own prison since he doesnt identify as a man or woman and the genital anatomy dont matter? ....u too think about this horrible shít u are doing

I will implore to please watch this jubilee's video on the subject,there are lots of misinformation

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ecPx9x1HRDM

Also, countries like Scotland are already on the subject of building prisons for different genders

Nia69:
Misanthropy? Wow! That's sad. I'm glad you've healed from your past.

I joined a Nigerian queer group on Facebook, it wasn't like I expected it to be so I left. I don't know how I'll search for those in my shoes. I'm glad I have you. You've helped me a lot.

Maybe I did, maybe I didn't have a crush on her. We're friends now tho and have lots of things in common. Turns out she was also shy.

Yea.....I'm better now,thanks to intensive therapy

Yea, Nigerian queer groups are the definition of boring or you the den for queer people with internalized queerphobia,I will implore you to join abroad queer groups

Awww,I'm glad you could summon the courage to talk to her,as for the crush bit....I will leave you to your thoughts

Nia69:
Thank you so much.
I knew you'd understand. Yeah, I still have plans to leave. I had one experience last week at school with a friend and another with a woman I admired last night.
Last week, I saw a girl that was alone in class and I felt I should talk to her and just be friends, because I'm usually alone most times at school. I wanted to approach her but I was scared she'd snub me and I felt shy too. I told my friend about her, told him I was shy also and he said "how would you be shy, are you gay?" I just laughed out loud. The tone was somehow. In my head I was like, only if you knew...

Damn that's really hurtful especially having to bottle those feelings up inside, it's really not healthy. When I was in Nigeria,I was absent in almost all areas of life and it lead to misanthropy as I because diagnosed with avoidant personality disorder,I couldn't speak to anyone because no one would understand what I was going to so like you,I turned to the internet to communicate these feelings and I felt less alone mostly because social media became my solace,I felt seen there and mostly YouTube was my domain,have you tried getting in touch with any queer group online and also search for those who's experienced what you've experienced, it helps. I'm so sorry you felt that way but always remember sweetheart,you are not alone......did you just wanted to make friends with her or someone had a crush ?

advanceDNA:
Its clear she's not the winner......thats my point
U cant just make aomeone winner cos they are trans...its defeating the essence of competitions...

We don't really know the criteria that was to critique the judge's stance so can't judge because pageants like these are somewhat subjective, if all the girls were to be judged by a thousand people,they will each have their "most beautiful girl"

advanceDNA:
because U people cannot be fair.....it is wrong for trans apologist to be in power

I still don't see what's wrong with that, that's a woman and the judges chose her as their winner so.....

advanceDNA:
Flamemignon1 unless u want to be biased as usual whih is not fair, u realize this is broad day light robbery of people that actually won.. the unfairness of the system is becoming irritating ....


Ur lgbt family keeps ruining and invading real women spaces.....incase u havent seen that ur lgbt people are just pathetic losers exploiting the system ....try to recollect if you know any transman competing in real male sport....

It's transgender awareness week so I won't be attending to any hate on my trans family

HITsquad:
Watching Western movies these days means you just want to throw up.

Just bunch of disgusting and annoying scenes.

If you have made up your mind to accept LGBT, that's OK... But stop shoving it down other people's throats... Cos That's propaganda!

Who shoved anything down your throat? No one told you to watch if you don't want to

Nia69:
Sigh, I feel bad when loved ones talk to me about homosexuality. They say it's from the pit of hell blablabla. Now I'm back to struggling with acceptance and just pretending I'm straight. Can you relate?

Oh love,I can't imagine being back in that dark place. As someone who lives in a queer accepting and tolerating society,I no longer experience this but I could relate when I was in Nigeria, it's really a toxic environment,I feel for you and other queer people who are still subject to verbal assaults. Hope you still have plans to leave there because it's really not good for the mental health of people like us?

Also, please don't hesitate to talk to me,if that's the only way you can vent,do it, it's better than dying in silence. Also, did you have any recent experience that might have triggered this feeling,I know Nigerian is a cesspool of hate but any specific one at all and do you wanna talk about?

Nia69:
You sound so confident, like I can never find out unless you tell me. Well... I don't know who you are yet. Was just teasing. I wouldn't go.

LoL...ok love. Don't worry,one day you will know

Nia69:
I missed you too. Missed your comments. My life's really boring, I figured Nairaland can be my playground.

I know who you are now.

LoL,who do you think I am? And please don't go