Xcelinteriors:
I respect men that love their mum more than any slay queen or wife. No woman can ever take my place in my son's heart.

thank you for this to all the ladies jealous of their bfz love for dia mother's I hope when you give birth he won't love a slay queen more he loves you

chiommy123:
has he started or he is waiting for the side effect of his actions

don't know if he has started coz it's been kinda long we spoke

chiommy123:
your pastor can help but you need serious prayers and fasting 6 to 6 for a start

already told him this

emalek86:
my friend my friend..
you don disgrace yourself for your Last thread

how?

I won't say its nature but it is actually let's face the fact man right from Adam and eve has always been polygamous and even tho we cheat its just to satisfy our urge 90% it won't interfere with our feelings for the one we truly love. A man can love for you but not sexually attracted to you so he goes somewhere else to relieve himself and come back to u and this mostly happens after Marriage whereby the woman stops those sexy things that attracted him she now feels so relaxed you can't expect him to see you the same way never he may still love you but that urge is not dia no more that's y women will be lamenting that dia hubby is cheating upandan madam work on ur self. As for me sha my wife not give birth tru that glory hole I dnt want to get tired quick

secondincommand:
oga boss u better start to be ooooo......to me it like u r an introvert..... go out make friendz meet girls and if it set do the do stop acting "em I want to be responsible .to me it like she is the first girl u have ever date or something guy no dey put mind for one girl oooo if u no want get heart at a k ....

shes not my first nor my Second I am naturally like that I just don't have time for following girls upandan Nigeria no be joke

emelda86:


Maybe u are not fvcking her well na, abi I'm I she or is she I....

what? I can testify sex is the least of our problems, man if it's sex let me stop there

emelda86:


In as much as I don't condone a girl sleeping in a guys house, u must get your facts right before ordering her what to do, before una go fvck una self finish con marry.

lol what facts do I need when she tells me herself? You see you never will understand bcz ur a lady and most y'all do this shit so it's nothing to ur eyes and ears.

emelda86:


Imagine... He wants to cage her as if she's his wife" why you want single life when ure in a relationship " yinmuest...this type of guy will still be insecured even if he's married to her.

I can't blame you sha you can say whatever it's a free world but let me ask you something, would you advice your brother to stay in such a relationship whereby the girls sleeps in guys houses? Think before you type and always fix yourself in plps shoes before you judge yinmuest

LordBaelish:


Nigga, you're faithful because you don't have a choice. FOH man!

lol I don't have a choice? Anyway you don't know me so I have nothing to prove to u

asjay:

Now u just dey talk like person wey get sense .
Pls don't mind those ones wey dey talk about calling her to discuss way forward.
She doesn't respect you and you calling her again won't change d situation. I had a personal experience with a babe who has a bf but was always coming to my place . She would shout on the guy over the fone and na d idiot go first apologize( to my surprise) . I knew d babe na time bomb as she is the most foolish person av seen in my life. She always makes wrong decisions and will still justify it.
Guess what, me no go take nonsense from her and she will always come back and apologize for her wrong doings but for her real bf na d idiot go still dey apologize for something wey d babe do. Yet the babe still dey come my side Everytime. Would rather chat me up than her bf. I have seen her hang up a number of times on her bf . Tried that shit with me and I warned her ,aunty gather sense sharp sharp. Even after I left her ,she still found another guy again always going to his place

hmm hoes everywhere I just pity the said guy well mine was like that she would do something which obviously is her fault but bcz I hate quarrels and in other to avoid it I just apologies and let go most times I apologise and even tho she bleeps up she knows am gone call her back she's so use to it and she loves me for that can u imagine well sometimes she apologises but I can't remember when. The painful part is the hanging out the this bad friends sleeping in guys house all in the name of fun since we started dating av always tolerated her but its no more am fucking done with her let me invest my time in making money

Mimmie2301:
She didnt actually love u,she was jst lookng 4 a way out ov d relationship nd u gave ha 1
in d aspect ov weda u did d rite tin: yes u did,u even tried 2 endure it thus far,xo dnt v mixed feelings,she was nt actually urx 4rm d start

one of the best comments thanks dear

[quote author=99foxxy post=69823674][/quote] I understand you but my nature I must trust before I love I can't pretend and pass when I see something wrong it's not healthy there so many women out there prepared and ready to be committed and serious and some just want to "enjoy life" but for me I just want to be with someone who I can trust and love and get that back totally but until then let me save my emotions

FuckHerEli:
Hey, I wanted to share my breakup story online because I feel it’s a pretty rough one, almost surreal to me. I was with this guy for three years, he was my first ever love. We had a super healthy relationship, we were quite different, but the same humour, weirdness and we were pretty complicit. I liked him because we both loved tv, we loved outdoors, we loved to eat, he made me feel good, he was always there to listen and to support me through the hardships, he could always make me laugh and could really surprise me. When I tought he wasn’t listening most of the time he actually was, so then he’d remembered some small details of the conversation or about me and some time later, come up with that information in a very sweet way. He was very attentionate, very gentle and respectful.
Anyways, the hole time we were together, he always had that best friend (female). The first 2 years, I really liked her and so never was I jealous or anything, therefore they were seeing each other some times and I did not have any problem. She was also in a relationship. Then, she broke up and everything changed. She was always setting me aside in the conversations, she was quite mean and never including me in the conversation and always looking at my ex-boyfriend with a sad look. That’s when I realized she had feelings for him. I told my ex but he did not believe me. Months later, we broke up because we didnt have time for each other anymore, with school, friends, extracurriculars, we just couldn’t make it work, plus he had an internship coming during the summer and then he was leaving on an exchange in fall semester while I was leaving for my exchange in the winter semester. We would of been more than a year appart from each other and none of us (specially him) were ready to commit to that. So we broke up, not because of a lack of love, but because of the timing.
Then a week after we broke up, I saw thanks to snapchat, that he had left on a quick trip with that same female bestfriend. He told me that he simply needed to free his mind, she gave him the opportunity, I believed him. We kept talking some times because I wanted news from him and I was leaving on a trip. We broke up in january, it was then, in june that, after noticing that his bestfriend always had snapchats with a men’s hand but never showing him, so I had my suspicions, he finally told me they had been dating and seeing each other for a couple of months now and that it just happened out of the blue and that he never meant to hurt me or anything of the sort!
You can believe I was shocked, I had my doubts about this hole thing but I was shocked. Not even two days after telling me this big news and beeing liberated of this secret, she posted a picture of them together praising how he finally got out of the friendzone after years of friendship.
I am sad, shocked, like it’s just a big joke, like I’ve been played, like he wasn’t entirely honest with me about the reason of our breakup...
What to do....

such is life my dear we just have to move on someone who truly cherish you surface I promise

Mcslize:



Flickzvill let me be frank with you. If you ever make the mistake of begging that lady, you are a goner trust me. Do you need to be told that the girl doesn't have any atom of love for you?

You are the one doing the loving while she frolick around, cuz she feels she ain't tied to you in any way. It's normal for you having mixed feelings, but bro brace up and be a man. Forget about that girl; she doesn't love you. That's the bitter truth you need to know right now.

Focus your mind on other things and hope for the best, you will surely meet someone better who will worship and listen to you like you are her mini god. Then you will look back and smile.

If you call that girl and beg her see what will happen:

> She will continue to disregard you.
> She will never value you.
> She will see you as weak man who doesn't stand by his word.

A word is enough for the wise.

tnx God bless

idu1:
I'm i the only one having feelings this op ll go and beg this girl back

never trust me av made up my mind

Edmen:
op your story reminded me of my first girlfriend, she was immature, just wanted to have fun and all..your ex is at that stage currently and from what you wrote I can tell you need something serious, which you won't get from her ( at least not now) you have done the right thing by breaking up with her and surely you will get your heart desire someday..Please don't be tempted to call her, even if she comes back begging and promises to change, trust me she won't.....except of course you want to Continue wailing

I am never going back she should slay all she wants it clear we both on different path. Tnx

emerged01:
Yea! You did the right! You may not know the good thing you have done to yourself. You have no reason to have mixed feelings. You have just shown the sign of a strong man. Had it been you allowed her to take the decision,the pain will be almost unbearable.

tnx brother

Guys that date foreign peeps howfar? How their character be thinking of getting one myself

Sugar97:
Lol. Even marriages sealed by the court can be broken, how much more a mere written promise to marry. He can write and still walk away

I don't know o

justscorchone:
Brotherly listen carefully,I have been in your shoes and I thought she was the only girl I could ever love genuinely but right now I have totally moved on,I will advice you to cut all ties with her,remove her from your IG,block her on whatsapp or any chat app,delete her number and do whatever brings you joy,you won't recover over night but when you eventually do,oh boy.you will be asking yourself if you were jazzed,don't stop being the loving,caring and faithful person you are,for surely a better girl will come your way that will make you feel like a king and you will be glad to have a queen to shower with TLC. Godspeed on your recovery.

one of the best comments thanks very much

IAmSkinny:


Dude you are so weak. Weak weak weakling is what you are!

thank you and you are strong I guess happy Sunday

Babyforever:
Sorry I thought you're working so that I can easily take her place but it seems you're not......Anyway take my advice and fix your relationship call her and beg her before you resolve the issue

lol wish I can meet you tho you sound like a fun person

blackgold2018:
Listen to that lady's advice@babyforever. Atleast your girl tells you her movements.. that'll be appreciated. Look OP nobody is perfect. For instance there re girls that wil be loyal n respectful to you but what they do behind you will be unbelievable and worst. She's not your wife.. that's something some guys need to understand.
Well to the part you said you wanna marry her. You alone have the final say.

thanks for your concern but this said lady cheated on my before it's her part to give me reasons to trust her ever since she cheated I find it hard to trust her movement even if she tells me where she goes women are now becoming wise they might tell u were they are in oda to die down the guilt

99foxxy:
Can you swear you're not missing her already? Bury your pride and set her down and speak to her on camera! cus you've never caught her with any guy aside her catching fun with her friends. I do same, but my guy is wise and he knows my movements. She's not cheating on you but having fun like I do. As it is now, you're not thinking straight bcus when you love it's never easy to let go.

I would have taken your advice if she hadn't cheated on me before the trust is no more there that's why I took the decision. You can't cheat on a partner and expect that person to magically trust you, you have to give reasons to trust and she keeps giving reasons not to trust

sirr:
OP, or PO.... listen attentively... DONT LET ANYONE DECEIVE YOU... DONT ALLOW URSEF BE TOLD WHAT TO DO BY SOMEONE WHO WOULDNT SUFFER WITH YOU....

If U are not happy,,,,, LEAVE,,,, END IT... ONLY A MATTER OF TIME, YOU WILL GET OVER IT, FIND SOMEONE ELSE AND APPRECIATE GOD FOR TODAY.



Do you want to have heartattack because U dont trust a woman

Do you know that there are many relationships outside where both parties are SO HAPPY and joyful together...

LIFE IS TOO LONG TO END UP WITH THE WRONG ONE....

FIND A GOOD LIFE PARTNER, AND STOP BEING CHILDISH....

Calling her back will only make her understand U cant do without her, and then... BOOOMMMMM.... SHE DOEA AS SHE LIKES THE MORE....


PRAY,,,, PRAY ... PRAY... THERE ARE BETTER GIRLS OUTSIDE WAITING FOR GOOD MEN LIKE YOU...

Dont end up with someone who might be following Yahooboys around...


dm me my guy lemme tell u sometin

thank you very much God bless how can I dm you don't know how to

Babyforever:
Are you working ?

I am serving

Asbaba:
I've been in a situation like this once, but mine no dey sleep at anybody's place but her parents.
she just get many boyfriend's assistant. and am the jealous type, so I called her one night explained everything I have in mind including my worries. I told we have options, 1. is to make things work. 2. we go our separate ways.
she asked me to give her time so she can process it, I gave three days and the reply I got is we go our separate ways. it was never easy cuz I love that girl to my bone marrow, days became longer, nights became lonely. but now I'm a free flying bird.

just man up bro, you'll get over it soon. may God help you. Ameen

thanks for this it really helped the thing is each time I kept pondering on this issue she takes it I am being controlling and not focusing on the point damn

doctorkush:
this your story looks real kind of... lol... hope you aren't the one who broke up with a girl that spent her night in my apartment with one of my guys??

bro I no go lie you... she is into coded runs, just like the girl I'm talking about and she even called her bf mumu and was sure he will still come begging her on his knees later

lol you must be funny where do you reside?

nanauju:
Op this babe is going to give you lots of headaches because all you'll be doing is checking out which male 'friend' she's with or not. Who needs that?? At least she's open about it, the question is Can you cope?
I understand your principles of raising kids in sound environment and it's a good thing you called it quit before you get emotionally manipulated.
Now if she really loves you, she gonna come back and then you have to tell her what you don't like, sit and talk with her. If you see improvement, then both of you are good.

exactly if she can come back and we lay down some rules and settle all i will even take her to my parents right away

Babyforever:
I don't support a cheating girlfriend she's meant to be faithful to you I think it's her friends that are causing all this havoc.......Just find time invite her over make her see reasons why she need to make the relationship work between you guys speak some words into her head I bet you she'll comply

I wish we could meet in real like so I will explain in detail but sis I have tried to talk some sense into her but obviously the power of this "friends" is over shadowing mine and even after marriage she like there company so bad she claims they r the only female friends shes got, man it's hard but I will take you advice tnx

Babyforever:
Do you want to marry her ?

wanted to before we broke up