Health › Re: I Am Addicted To PEPSI by Floramie(f): 8:48am On Apr 21 |
Deliberately reduce it to a bottle per day for the 4 weeks.
One bottle in 2 days the continue giving gaps till you eventually overcome it.
Talk yourself to it too.
Nothing is impossible |
Nairaland General › Re: What Is The Worst Thing You Overheard While Pretending To Be Sleeping? —(Pics) by Floramie(f): 7:12pm On Mar 03 |
So sorry about what you were facing then. However they would have been the best if you didn't hear that. I doubt if the brother responded or reacted to you.
Possibly your sister would have done the same if it was the other way round. |
Nairaland General › Re: Name Your Biggest Mistakes So Others Dont Make The Same Mistakes by Floramie(f): 10:11pm On Feb 16 |
Hmmmmm
Please be fine
Is it amendable? |
Family › Re: Lady Devices A Tactic To Know Who Was Licking The Milk In Her House.... by Floramie(f): 9:41pm On Jan 31 |
Brother e do do please. |
Romance › Re: Single Mother Dilemma by Floramie(f): 3:51pm On May 10, 2025 |
[quote author=Kobojunkie post=135301474]Not to be insensitive, but why is the father of the child not involved in the raising of his child? Is he a deadbeat dad? Or you never thought to file a case in the courts to mandate
We are coparenting very well. He's 100% involved. |
Romance › Re: Single Mother Dilemma by Floramie(f): 9:06am On May 09, 2025 |
Yes you choose whom to like or hate.
I am a single mother but I tell you I never wished for it. I really wanted my marriage to work but I alone can't achieve that.
When it happened I was shattered all that matter was my child. This happened for years but now I am healed.I am deliberate about my self. The way I look now you'll think I really wanted to be one but on the contrary it's never my wish. |
Nairaland General › Re: The Mistake You Made In Life You Wouldn't Want Someone Else To Repeat by Floramie(f): 4:19pm On May 16, 2024 |
Thinking everyone is truthful. Painstakingly confirm the truth. |
Family › Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Floramie(f): 9:50pm On Jan 20, 2024 |
Due to domestic violence. He has anger issue and I won't keep calm always too. |
Family › Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Floramie(f): 9:43pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Handsomejok: Yes for 3 children aside from the 15k I will also be paying their rent, school fees for 2 children one is my stepdaughter plus Nepa bills I don't think that 15k is small
On a norm you're meant to be responsible for the above stated and more.
Now to your 15k meaning #7500 for a child in a whole month. That's not presentable at all |
Family › Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Floramie(f): 5:09am On Sep 07, 2023 |
thesilentman: ok i get you-i just mentioned the money aspect as latest in the sacrifices i make for her.I had believed it would make her respect me more.Reason with me. You did the normal thing please. She would have lost her life in the process. There's this term Post Parturm Depression PPD who knows if that's what she's suffering from. She needs you more now. Please take care of yourself too |
Car Talk › Re: How Long Did It Take You To Learn How To Drive? (Picture) by Floramie(f): 2:08pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
4 hours |
Fashion › Re: Ladies, What Is Your Ideal Heel Height? by Floramie(f): 10:02pm On Jul 01, 2023 |
pocohantas: I know some ladies would rather not wear at all, but I think it adds some carriage and poise to outfits and walk when done right.
So, ladies, what is your ideal heel height? And what kinda heels would you rather wear. Stiletto, wedge, block...etc 3 inches |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Floramie(f): 8:29pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
[quote author=lavylilly post=124076591][/quote]Not at all. |
Romance › Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Floramie(f): 1:36pm On May 02, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Floramie(f): 1:28pm On May 02, 2023 |
tonye33: Hi Dickson, I have seen your messages about wife denying husband sex and I must confess that mine is epic. I dated my wife for 4 years before marriage. After the first 2yrs of dating, she put a stop to our sex and said she felt guilt and all, I accepted because I have dated 2 girls previously with sex, so it wasn't a new deal.
She is 2yrs older than me, I was younger and naïve, cos knowing what I know now, I wouldn't have done a lot of things.
After marriage, she opened up to me that she has never enjoyed me cos I was huge, last more than 30mins and thrusts faster. I felt bad, started developing anxiety towards sex cos I was always thinking whether I was injuring her, she was enjoying it, or I will finish fast so she doesn't get angry cos she s hot tempered, can even get very very angry even during sex.
Additionally, she cancelled all sex position because she said they were painful, only one position and its with her lying straight on her belly, or at most by her side. Anything that will make her raise any part of her body was painful, doggy was totally out of the way, and all these were never raised during our dating period.
Any other position you attempt will make that night miserable because she will just be angry and asking every 5secs if you are not cumming. Something that was supposed to be fun ends up being a task. I wanted to meet her halfway and that was my huge mistake. I changed all my strategy and then I started losing my erections and most times I won't even be able to get one, and then her complaint changed that I was falling even in the act and that she was not enjoying me again cos i no longer thrust fast.
Infact eeh........... I knew what the problem was, topped my game and we went back to square 1. The monthly count was like 7 or 8 times then as newly married couple while targeting conception. The moment she conception. The moment she took in, she locked up till the baby was in the 5th month. Infact the 9 months preg period was like 6 times only with curses, different conditions and rules before she will agree. I just managed the little wey i see. Mind you, we live peacefully, communicate almost every time, greet with kisses, pet names, dine and even play games but no sex.
She is a full housewife and I earn 7 figures monthly. After our first baby, I begged for sex for 7 months and anytime I bring up the sex, it was followed with blackmail, anger, back talks and even silence. On the 8th month, the rule was "it must be with protection", I obliged. By the 9th month, which was the 5th time, she took in again. Almost same thing like the first preg period.
After second delivery, I decided not to demand and just observe her. Bro, we stayed 1year living in the same house without sex as couple. I work from home, so I was always around. I have househelps that does practically everything at home, except mixing food. Yes, I the same house without sex as couple. I work from home, so I was always around. I have househelps that does practically everything at home, except mixing food. Yes, I used mixing because they prepare everything needed to make food. I do the monthly shopping and even take care of the baby at night after working several hours during the day ooo, I support her to the best of my knowledge and still don't know why.......I just feel shedoesnt love me and not attractedto me, probably i was just the available status changer, because how can a woman stay in the same house with someone she loves and never feel the need to go intimate?
I bumped into an ex and she suggested that I act like I was seeing someone, I then started living the house every evening and most times will drive to a car wash and stay for like 3 hours before coming home, and it didn't change anything, instead she became irate.
This year, I have not even had it up to 10times with her for a marriage of 5yrs. Its really crazy. . So sorry this is happening. I will suggest you have an emergency family meeting. Let her know how you sincerely feel. Intimate is a major part of marriage. |
Family › Re: Dog: I Have The Most Unlikely Rival In My Boyfriends House by Floramie(f): 4:30pm On Apr 22, 2023 |
scrolldown88: Lol If your boyfriend has any sense he'll listen to what his dog is trying to tell him and do away with you. Dogs are very perceptive and can smell evil from a mile away.
Infact I think you should do your boyfriend a favor and leave him alone. If you truly love that guy you'll leave him instantly before you ruin his life.
The dog has already sensed this, that's why it keeps doing any and everything within it's power to keep you away from that guy.
My people, don't ever underrate your dog's warning oh. Dogs wey dey see spirits. Hai!!!.
There are true stories of dogs refusing to move inside a hunted house their owners just bought and packed into. Hell! In most cases the dogs keep barking, trying to warn the owner that there's something strange in the house. Sadly they can't talk, so most people don't listen.
You suggesting that your boyfriend should kill the dog even confirms my theory that you're pure evil. When evil spirits invade an area, some dogs smell them out and start barking aggressively. In most cases these evil spirits kill the dogs so they can carry out their evil in peace. This is the exact move you're suggesting to your boyfriend. The Classic evil spirit move.
Oh Lord open the eyes of this girl's boyfriend to see and do the right thing.
PS: this is just a joke....
Or is it?
Modified: FTC. This year seems to be mine.
I dedicate this FTC to all the loyal dogs out there, constantly looking out for their owners. And on behalf of all boyfriends, I want to send this message to the entire girlfriend community. We love our dogs. Yes. We love them more than we love you. You're never gonna be able to compete with our dogs. And no, we won't kill our dogs just to keep you around. So to all girlfriends, for the love of DOG, for GODsake, be a good sport, know your place, stay in your lane, and stop trying to come between us and our dogs. Because it's never gonna end well for y'all. Peace ✌️...or war. Whichever you choose This is HUGE |
Crime › Re: Kidnapped Osun Couple Escapes From Their Abductors by Floramie(f): 4:56pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: NDLEA Recruitment 2023 Official Thread by Floramie(f): 9:09am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Please once you're added, do include my number too 08168264679 thanks
Kindly add me to the WhatsApp group. 08038279083[/quote] |
Politics › Re: INEC Postpones Governorship Elections By One Week by Floramie(f): 10:46pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
[That's so unprofessional. This is INEC'S major task. I doubt if they do anything after election.
So sad |