No! I will not.
Why?
I am AS by genotype and She is same.

Skyview01:


Also, when i go out, i get lots of phonecalls, daddy where are you? When are you coming back.

Sometimes i like to travel and vacation alone which i will start this year.

This is my biggest fear about getting married. My fiancee come still clingy and like lovey lovey. I'm so scared I won't be able to take the risks I take again financialwise and other aspect. Mehn I'm so scared of loosing myself.


Btw my fiancee is abroad and she's the type that can call 10 times in a day Double on a Sunday.

No, i won't.
Not that am regretting getting married to her but i hate it when someone doesn't take any words from me rather what his siblings or outsiders . This has kept me thinking to extent that most times I like looking outside but the fear of God keeps me going.. I do things by myself not even a single support and always challenging me

WHEN AM MARRIED THEN I WILL DROP MY TWO CENT ON THIS

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Sure I will.



truth is, I know nothing.

[quote author=lavylilly post=124076591][/quote]

sure I will




because I know nothing

bukatyne:


Do.you think marrying later would have changed the required responsibilities?

Even if you married at 40yrs after 'enjoying your bachelorhood', you would be faced with same or more responsibilities, more pressure and less energy.

Good you have identified an hobby; you can start with solo weekend trips to recharge. Also ensure madam's hobbies are factored in and done so she doesn't also feel burnt out.

Goodluck.

Baba if you marry late and know what you're doing, responsibility no dey end but you will easily find your way through it. Most responsibilities are financial. A pastor once told me some 5 years ago that marriage is what will make me good financially, I told him tarrrh na better investment as a single would. Most financially risk and investment responsible singles take the married ones can't. Imagine you having 20m as a single, if you know your onions and you're disciplined, you would turn it to 40m in a couple of months, as a married na to first slice am commot school fees, house keep, in-law welfare and other baggages involved in marriage.


Over and over again, I will always tell any single reading this to invest and make good money before marriage. And also invest in your education to a very reasonable length as marriage won't give the chance and you only build on what you have as a single. Apart, marriage as E stand no get late comer. Whatever you invest on can be modified and built on in marriage. But if vice versa, well God bless your soul.

omooba969:


Be calming down na, wetin dey worry you sef?

Kini motún se báyí, kílo fa àrífín?

Sebi as you have scattered food thread, ara yin ti ba'le?

Capernum:


I never thought she wouldn't fall in line. She was all I ever wanted until marriage.

Please note... She's a very good woman. The ONLY issue with her is issues bordering on my passion.

Many people are falling in line.

But you know that feeling? When people are applauding you, only for you to look around and see other ladies cheering you up while your wife is perpetually absent.

Okay. Now, I understand.

Have you communicated to her how her lack of support makes you feel?
Does she not love you?

Capital NO!

ncoolsome:


We that did,what did we do with it??

At least you get the experience on your resume. Me, a no get am for my resume. Lol

Absuchat:
Yes... I will marry my spouse over and over again.

Although I've not met her

🤣😂

let me met her first
for now, let the single breath

abobote:

Stick to the topic, and stop taking everything personal.
Moreover its not every woman you can change to better

I'm actually responding to the brother I quoted. I agree with you, but if we approach marital issues from your angle, we already have a preconceived notion it would not work.

Who's to blame in such instance?

You married whom you marry, nobody married at gun point. So, it panned out the way you always see it panned out in the future. You get what you put in.

Oracleee:



Baba if you marry late and know what you're doing, responsibility no dey end but you will easily find your way through it. Most responsibilities are financial. A pastor once told me some 5 years ago that marriage is what will make me good financially, I told him tarrrh na better investment as a single would. Most financially risk and investment responsible singles take the married ones can't. Imagine you having 20m as a single, if you know your onions and you're disciplined, you would turn it to 40m in a couple of months, as a married na to first slice am commot school fees, house keep, in-law welfare and other baggages involved in marriage.


Over and over again, I will always tell any single reading this to invest and make good money before marriage. And also invest in your education to a very reasonable length as marriage won't give the chance and you only build on what you have as a single. Apart, marriage as E stand no get late comer. Whatever you invest on can be modified and built on in marriage. But if vice versa, well God bless your soul.

💯

Skyview01:


Responsibilities no dey end.
Also, when i go out, i get lots of phonecalls, daddy where are you? When are you coming back.

Sometimes i like to travel and vacation alone which i will start this year.

hmmm
With this your comment your zodiac birth sign might be Gemini ♊️
Most of them love adventures and like to change environ….
Well if you had the money you could plan this vacay together with your family

😆 most of all these yes yes and yes no reach inside oh. Na cloth dey cover body wey we no know those wey krokro don finish their body. Some of all these yes people fit dey chop slap or insults from their spouse everyday or twice in a week

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No! She's the greatest mistake of my life. Marrying her has made my life a shadow of itself.😭😭😭😭

caandi:
hmmm
With this your comment your zodiac birth sign might be Gemini ♊️
Most of them love adventures and like to change environ….
Well if you had the money you could plan this vacay together with your family

I dey vacay with my family but he go still be like say i day home. Still watching after and running after dem even on vacation.

I paid for their vacation with my wife while i go solo for now. Like some sort of escape from reality for a short while.

Wife is meeting up with her school friend in Las Vegas in the fall and going to together with some of the kids.

They will also be going to California. She dey carry them go while i jejely go on my own solo vacation.

Capernum:
No. Simply put. She doesn't believe in my dreams and aspirations and she doesn't support it one bit.

This sounds like my situation. The children did not allow me to take decisions. .

blabulu2000:


Most of dem are just a bunch of liars. They are saying yes " because their wives know their user name on this platform...I can bet you this opinion didn't represent a typical Naija husband. Most of them are regretting... because of their entitled mentality "Wives they have married....tueh "
No be me dey follow you suffer for your marriage....keep on suffering and pretending....till death do you part

I don't understand.... Why are you lamenting? Can you explain?

[quote author=lavylilly post=124076591][/quote] Not at all.

bukatyne:


What felt missing?

What is marriage stopping you from enjoying?

Like carry different girls, girls fighting over me,girls,doing everything to please me so I can marry her.e.t.c barchelor are enjoying!

No! I would not had married her. The biggest mistake and most regretful decision of my life. Secretive, insular, vengeful and unforgiving woman. No support of any kind. Never forthcoming with inputs and contributions on decisions on major projects that we needed to take as a couple , critical decisions that would take us and our family forward. Ended up being married but lonely and alone! Nothing but regret and despair.

[quote author=lavylilly post=124076591][/quote]will not try it
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No one is perfect, I will marry her, over and over and over again and again.

UyaiIncomparabl:


She may be depressed.

Depressed by what?
In this hard economy, it's not like she's providing anything for herself or the kid?
I'm just fed up

jackmrandy:




send her go her parents house. what are you still doing with a pale woman , an unattractive woman who is a burdent to you

I tried this about a month ago and like I said earlier, she's so clueless she doesn't even know how n where to pack to. She was asking me to throw her things on the street

Epicji:


All d xtian brothers in my church gathered me that l should not bring disgrace to d church when l wanted to cancel d wedding just a week remaining. D marriage lasted only 5yrs.am on my own now.

You see

You were listening to Christian Brothers

Mine I Saw the red flags
But like I was Bewitched

Even my brother warned me
Because I felt I have delayed so much
That whatever I see I take

Now I am regretting

Although we are still together
She is not really a bad person like that
But she can be stubborn and wants her ways

Just believing she will change
Although funnily I still love her Sha

I am more of trying to overlook some faults
Concentrate on her positive sides Sha

Honestly marriage no easy at all

Yes. I will marry her again and again.
She has been the unseen force behind my progress, even before we got married many years ago. She never says it and never rubs it on my face.
I keep loving her more by the day but I have realized that no matter how much I love her, she continues to beat me to the game.

NOW TO ALL THOSE SAYING MOST PEOPLE WHO HAVE COMMENTED ARE LYING, The last time I checked, this is an anonymous forum. Why would I lie to people who don't know me or give a Bleep if I'm fine or not.
I suggest you look inwards cos the fact that it did not work for you doesn't mean it's not working at all. May we not have an enemy as a life partner or be one to our spouse.

Happy and growing home is real!!!

Skyview01:


At least you get the experience on your resume. Me, a no get am for my resume. Lol

We don't need all this type of experiences...some guys don knack witch,one of my friend almost knack mad woman...Abi ur eyes still dey outside..

ncoolsome:




We don't need all this type of experiences...some guys don knack witch,one of my friend almost knack mad woman...Abi ur eyes still dey outside..

Nacking different women is not the experience i was hoping for as a bachelor. I don't see the big deal about sex to start with.