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"Please help, I'm in love with my elder brother." A lady cries out.

Have you ever been in love with someone but lacks the ability to approach him especially when you're 100% sure that it can never see the light of day? What takes the center stage is series of emotional trauma. But how do you deal with the one that involves your blood brother?
Some things are better imagined...!

Antoeni:
Such a caring Young Man, god bless Her for surprising His Dad, She is Such a Good Man. Happy Brthday Sir, You Have a Good Man as a Daughter

Your talent is pretty hungry for exploit.
You made me laugh twice.

Antoeni:
Such a caring Young Man, god bless Her for surprising His Dad, She is Such a Good Man. Happy Brthday Sir, You Have a Good Man as a Daughter

Your talent is pretty hungry for exploit.
You made me laugh twice

michlins:
We always focus on what's not important. Buhari said something glaring but we choose to ignore that.


He said that "these people have properties and businesses scattered across Nigeria....." That should tell you what he and others view Igbo people as.


It's time we start investing back home here because they're using our businesses as leverage against us

Very true!

Goke7:
Let the next governor fix the unemployment issue. The airline will impact tourism in the State leading to more jobs.

Let's stop being emotional and celebrate laudable achievements like this cos it impacts the economy at the end.

I give it to you!

Belial06:
Used old aircrafts

Is this necessary?
If you can't celebrate success, I wonder how you'll get there.
Remember; you can't beat the reach!

GreenFarmsNG:
Okay


Death to all false prophets

OTHER FALSE PROPHETS

CHRIS OKAFOR
JOSHUA IGINLA
JEREMIAH OMOTO FUFEYIN
RAMSEY MARSHALL
ADEMOLA MOJIGBOTOLUWA ADEBAYO
PASSION JAVA
SHEPHERD BUSHIRI


Read the article in the link on how false prophets get their power, disguise and operate



https://babylon-today.com/2018/12/17/the-secret-evil-life-of-occultist-tb-joshua-finally-exposed/

People who have been intimately involved with TB Joshua [Temitope Balogun Joshua] in his cult community called The Synagogue church Of All Nations located in Ikotun-Egbe, Lagos, Nigeria are beginning to speak out and expose the evils behind the scenes of this known occultist who calls himself a prophet. People have actually spoken out previously against TB Joshua explaining how they were loured to his compound, sexually violated and spiritually manipulated eventually finding themselves on the floor of his church rotating uncontrollably, but unfortunately the Christian community ignored their warnings and many just didn’t believe them. There are several books in circulation currently, one written by Hephzi-bah Bisola Johnson describing how she was trapped through spiritual manipulation, hypnotism and brainwashing for over a decade by TB Joshua abandoning her own life to become his sex slave and servant. Her book details faked healings and other “miracles” fabricated by TB Joshua, and gives first hand insight of a life of secrecy and tricks that TB Joshua used to lure naive people looking for quick fixes and miracles into “spiritual terrorism” and occultism. She narrates how her and the other cult members lived, how they were systemically initiated into the dark world through deceit and were terrorized to swear into secrecy and complete allegiance to TB Joshua and his evil. Ms. Johnson’s book is a real eye opener of the dangers of following man-made religious groups and “pastor/prophet worship,” instead of obeying God and following “The Way” which is a life of absolute holiness and obedience to God.



What most Westerners don’t know about “Temitope Balogun“, born June 12 1963 is that he is really a Muslim, and his real name is Abdul fatai, [which actually means servant of god in Arabic] he renamed himself TB Joshua in efforts to “repackage” himself to make himself more acceptable to the Christian community targeting the Christians to sell his occultic ministry, in fact, his “church” began as an “interfaith” church of sorts with a confused, mixed doctrine of Jesus combined with a falsified version of Islamic beliefs, mixed with black magic but has gradually changed it’s narrative (on the surface) as TB Joshua was groomed into becoming a more appealing typical Pentecostal style pastor who learned to pass his demonic, dark art signs and wonders off as “the prophetic.” It is quite embarrassing how Westerners are so easily deceived and captivated by pulpit magic and deception which oftentimes causes spiritual death, family breakups, the loss of lives, livelihoods and money.



A British lady disclosed that she narrowly escaped from the trap of Joshua’s Synagogue Church For All Nations. She is now married and told the story on video in the presence of her husband how she cohabited with T.B. Joshua for several years traveling with him to various countries in her quest to receive his anointing through sex. Others have came forth with accusations of pedophilia, arranged orgies with children, child rape, abortions and sudden death of those who have left the compound and disclosed TB Joshua’s secrets. TB Joshua is well known in Nigeria but remains a mystery to most Westerners. Because Westerners are not as spiritual as they think they are, they are easily fooled by the tricks of TB Joshua and other church witches believing everything to be an “act of God” or “a miracle”. TB Joshua has been the suspect of many mysterious deaths ( sacrifices) in Nigeria and South Africa and has been taken to court on many occasions for statutory rape but has always escaped being charged due to the corrupt judicial system in Nigeria, he always bribed the the lawyers and judges and has never been held accountable for his wrongdoings.

I think you should be mindful of the way you throw accusations on anointed men of God. Allow God to judge them if they are found wanted.

omolola100:
i am not a comfortable woman, that is why i dont feel it is right to marry a struggling man, i am not after money anyway..

So what are you after if not money?
What is it that draft a lady to a rich man other than money?
I will advice you to seek God for His will when it comes to choosing a soul mate. When it comes to marriage, neither intellectual capacity nor academic knowledge is sufficient. You need divine direction!

Bola146:
This is so deep, you saw the red lines but you ignored it. If you have told her to choose either to use money for the wedding or shop Why spent that much on a day or two days wedding when you still have many things to use money for You need to tell her siblings or parents how everything thsat happened, if she doesn't want to be submissive or abide with your earning, then let her go and learn more lessons from her parents house she should be able to afford the rent na!!!! Must wives put heavy loads on their husbands She shouldn't have shouted, she can do daily or weekly contributions to pay for the rent Please don't ever argue nor fight with her, just pick one of your dresses and find a place to cool your head. It's too early to have hypertension jare

What a lady!

LegendHero:
I have been watching the development in Akwa-Ibom for a while now and I think this governor is really trying.

I hope he can handover some of these factories he’s building to the private sector and make it some sort of PPP.

That's what it is already (PPP).

folabayo:
3_4yrs diff

Are you in early 20's?

folabayo:
Yep. There is awkward feelings I do Hv.
I play alot, i do feel like once the age is too much, i might actually not b free with such person.

Oh! I now understand but you can adjust to fit in.

DEMZEE:
A man who knows his value won't settle for 30+ women for long term relationship and commitment

Why?
Can you give me 3 good reasons for such claim?

folabayo:
I never get experience with 30+ guys.
I no de pass my boundary.
Well am here to read and learn

What's your boundary?

DEMZEE:
God forbid bad thing

How?

folabayo:
3_4yrs diff.
Few years bck, once u tell me u are 30+ I de japa
I don mature now sha

Seriously?

DEMZEE:
A man who knows his value won't settle for 30+ women for long term relationship and commitment

I think it solely depend on the "personality" of the lady involved. Some 30+ ladies can completely transform a man's life from bad to best. Just pray to locate the right one that will allow your destiny shines on you.

PoliticallyInco:
30+ Men ARE DIFFICULT TO MANIPULATE....

That is how it should read.

30+ MEN ARE DIFFICULT TO MANIPULATE.

That was what they actually meant to say. 30 Plus Men, Most don’t/wont allow you lead them on with THE PROSPECTS OF SEX/RELATIONSHIP WHILE YOU AS THE SO CALLED LADY WITH A VAGINA APPARENTLY CASHES OUT. WHILE WAITING FOR THE PROSPECTS OF SEX/RELATIONSHIP YOU MAKE THEM PAY YOUR BILLS, BUY YOU THINGS,TAKE YOU OUT, SHOW YOU LOVE (whatever that one means) AND OFFER YOU EMOTIONAL SUPPORT, PHYSICAL SECURITY, etc.

Ideally they are goin for younger women who are in their early to mid 20s. This generation of ladies are an interesting one. They are not Homo Sapiens. They are "Homo the-world-should-revolve-around-our-curves-and-vaginas-and-we-should-be-able-to-get-anything-we-want-or-we-shall-throw-a-fit-and-scatter-everything". Yes that is their species name. Majority of these women have since/long shelved the good girl personality and do things their way. They are "feminist" when it is convenient based on double standards. They cherry-pick only the juicy part of gender equality. They only want the BEST PARTS of being a Man.

A man in his 30s that cannot see that all relationships are selfish based on each partners expectations, wishes, enticements and desires is one that women of today will chew and spit out. They will deal with him. A man in his 30s should be fully logical by that age. He knows he wants sex and companionship whether short term, long term, a minute etc.. He also knows she will want material things, companionship,or bills paid, emotional support, etc. The question the 30 plus man then asks himself is Why waste time and beat about the bush When the time can be put to better use? He has no time to waste. Probably at the time when career prospects are interesting and he is almost at Middle Management. He is also thinking of building his future wealth, or being better at whatever he does.

A man in his 30s knows that the compensation for him is majorly a woman's vagina for all his hard work. Why then deceive himself? He knows that All the “soul of my soul”, “flesh of my flesh”, “soul mate”, “better half” etc are simply garnishings to cover up the true and real selfish desires in a relationship. This reality is hard to accept by most humans because they love fantasies. 30s plus men MAY not have time to hide their intentions with the deception called "romance". Romance etc are just tools used only to make the parties feel good about themselves and the selfish desires they pursue and hope to get from their partner, whether emotional,psychological or material.

Don't get me wrong my Politically Incorrect views do not mean romance is not interesting or necessary. It is. I am not anti romance. I am saying people do not see it for what it is.
It is pleasant but I am not deceived by it. I am well aware of the true intent. I am not deceived about its true purpose. ROMANCE, LOVE, etc. is not anything special but geared towards the achievements of selfish personal aims/goals in a relationship. Whether it is to raise a child in a secure environment, remove societal and family pressures,bear Mrs, come back to well prepared meals and a clean home, available sex, gold digging, looking for someone to cook,clean the dishes and keep the home, someone to pay your bills and take you shopping, iPhone any number, bone straight hair,etc. etc.


Dear Ladies, all relationships have selfish and self centered expectations. Find a man that supports yours both in psychological make up, ideas and physical traits. And let his personality also match yours. Make sure you also ask him for his selfish expectations. Does he want sex? Is he just scouting for any available prey. If you do not match. Then move on. Tell him your own selfish expectations do not match his. Tell Him that for you, you seek long term relationships, commitment to unified goals (family, family business, property, etc).

DO NOT EVER THINK YOU CAN BUY HIM WITH SEX. HAVE SEX BECAUSE YOU WANT TO. BECAUSE IT IS PLEASANT AND PLEASURABLE AND BECAUSE YOU SEE HIM AS A WORTHY SEXUAL PARTNER/MATE. BECAUSE YOU ENJOY IT AND MISS IT. BECAUSE YOU MISS PHYSICAL INTIMACY.

DO NOT THINK SEX WILL MAKE HIM AUTOMATICALLY ALLING WITH YOUR OWN SELFISH EXPECTATIONS FROM THE RELATIONSHIP.


No, Men in their 30s aren't difficult to date. They are approaching 40 and know not to be deceived.

30s Plus men are ONLY/JUST MORE DIFFICULT TO MANIPULATE/DECIEVE BY A WOMAN'S VAGINA.

You try

Belafonte:
If you won't be patient for a conductor withholding your change, you shouldn't be patient for a woman who will waste your time

Patience is not stupidity

Indeed!

Mandela27:
Yes but patience for girls is not Among

Trust me, it is!
You need patience to attain any successful height in life including marrying the right woman.

Regtkh:
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Hmm.......!

DEMZEE:
Yes they are the hardest to date because most girls seeking those types of men are not marriage minded.

Those men have built their value and don't want any bitch to just come and scatter the world they built.

They don't have time for games and they will tell u Wat they are interested in and Wat they are about.

The worse women to date are 30+ women. They are useless especially for a long term relationship cos they don't have fertility and beauty again and most of them have masculine traits.

Your words were rather too harsh, my brother!
I don't think 30+ women are totally useless. Most of them are still very beautiful and useful. One only needs high level of maturity and resilience to be with them. However, I totally agree to the fact that their complexity is out of this world.

donstan18:
The only thing I like about Adeboye is how he constantly praise and hype his submissive and loyal wife.


Other religious, business and political things about him don’t interest me.

Personal feelings should be kept personal, it shouldn't be brought to the public space.
Adeboye is a true man of God, no one can dispute that fact.

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

I totally disagree. We still have good ones though really hard to find.

Mandela27:
I've really got zero patience for babes and that's how it should be

Hmm!
But patience is a virtue.

Belafonte:
Is the inverse also true regarding 30+ women?

From my experience the answer is YES. 30+ Women seem to be too precise, probably because of their past experiences. They are more mature to date but everything about them is either marriage or nothing less. I also notice that they hardly release their heart to men.

Help, I can no longer post a thread on Nairaland Forum. Below is the repeated response I've been getting after creating a thread. The issue has persisted for more than two weeks.

Any solution to it?

Modified: I'm sorry but the file am trying to upload as a proof is not coming up.
It's so frustrating, but I pray for a solution to it soonest.

Thank you for understanding!

Savie:
When will full operations commence on these projects That's what udom the hype master fail to mention.! Ten years will come and go they will still say work is ongoing. If he want us to take him seriously, he should pull his head off his ass and mention the year/month the works on the said project will finish and operations started otherwise he should go and sit down.!

This is not the right way to address your leader or any elderly person. You can do better than this.

DaddyRochie1642:
Alot of people think that the way to a man's heart is through "Food", Men nowadays know how to cook so well that they're ready to put a "Strong Challenge" when it comes to kitchen matters.

But there's another way to a Man's Heart that's been Neglected for ages.
Another way to a Man's Heart is by being a "Pillar Of Support" to that man.

I can assure you that a Man never forgets who Supported him when he needed it the most and I say this without Remorse.

May the Lord bless you. May you experience heaven on your marriage.

wumi2017:
Amazing and Rare,, that's how it should be.i mean our Kings are trying so hard...... ;Dthat's one of us association of good women of Nigeria ibadan Chapter ....May God bless me beyond my expectations to be this type of woman when am married....... anyways get ur quality and affordable shoes from Wunmi's Collection

Let it be done unto you as you pray. As much as you're saying it with all your heart, you will be the best woman to your husband, amen.

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My salary came yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid. Oga thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was

Almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him. It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it. That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining.


She's the real help meet(woman)! Women with this kind of thinking faculty is hard to find. May the Lord bless her and make her marriage a Heaven on earth.

Hushbingo:
This is becoming serious. My girl could barely spare a day without seeing me or calling me every five minutes...

Everywhere i go, she follows. Everything i do she wants to know about it.

She's in her final year. She blackmail me by threatening suicide whenever i mention break up..

The thing is, she doesn't want to leave my house again.


There are things about her that are way beyond my expectations. Things that are secrets so i won't go into that side.

One thing is, she doesn't ask for dime from me. I only give her money out of my heart. She has spent on me more than i have spent on her...


The real mata is that i want to be a bachelor again. She won't let me be and then this her monitoring spirit everywhere i go...

Please advise me what to do.

Why did you go to her when you were not ready to settle down. It's a case like this that makes good ladies think that all men are wicked. Have you ever imagine the trauma you would have gone through if she did not accept your proposal? What about her accepting but doesn't release her heart to you? What about you spending on her yet her heart longs for another?
I don't see anything wrong with her wanting to know everything about you or following you everywhere. It's called love and she's a wife material.
I beg of you not to break her heart because you may never see another of her kind.

I advice you to legalize the union for your own good.