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RomanceRe: Ladies If A Guy Approaches You, Where Will You Look At First? by Fluency(m): 2:44pm On Apr 04, 2021
debbydams:
on a norms I dont look people in d eyes, I don't like it..im shy
Hmm!
But how can there be an effective communication when you're not beholding someone during conversion. I believe you can overcome it. Please try!
RomanceRe: Ladies If A Guy Approaches You, Where Will You Look At First? by Fluency(m): 5:24pm On Apr 02, 2021
debbydams:
His leg before looking at his face
Why legs?
PoliticsRe: Badaru: Why APC Will Retain Power In 2023 by Fluency(m): 12:39pm On Mar 26, 2021
garfield1:
Instead of pdp,we remain with apc
Are you still living in Nigeria?
RomanceRe: She's Married But She's Stalking Me by Fluency(m): 12:16pm On Mar 24, 2021
flee as far as you can. If you sleep with her, you may live with regret for the rest of your life.
She's another man's property! Jump over the temptation!
RomanceAre "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Fluency(op): 9:44am On Mar 24, 2021
*_30+ men are the hardest to date_ - Ladies share relationship experiences with the opposite sex*

Nigerian Ladies on social media have revealed their relationship experiences with 30 years old men and above. Most of them believe 30+ men are the hardest to date sometimes.

A Lady on the popular microblogging platform, Twitter identified as @Julesbangz said that 30+ men are so straightforward and have no chill at all when it comes to relationship.

She tweeted; “30+ men & straightforwardness

"30+ men: Hey I like you. Me: I would think about it.
30+ men: Okay I would give you 5 mins to think about it.
(5mins later)
30+ men: Hey, are you done thinking about it? Me: I am sorry I really can’t
30+ men : Okay Bye nice meeting you.”

See comments below;

In reactions to the above post, fellow ladies took to the comment section to share their relationship experiences with 30+ men.

@glorivicky1 tweeted; “It’s their straight forwardness for me o This one I met Ehn….There wasn’t even a talking stage Oga just said he’s not interested in getting married He just wants a mutually beneficial adult relationship. The guy finish me with grammar Ehn”

@youaremore__ said; “30+ men are the hardest to date sometimes…it’s like they’ve exhausted every patience in their early/late 20’s..”

@PwettyTem
opined; “Most of them are very indecisive. I repeat, most of them.”

@QveenJosey reacted; “Most of them are unnecessarily rude, want things to be done their ways and always want to get away with whatever they do that my sister is not straightforwardness they are so indecisive”


@a_dunnii says; 30+ guys are hard to date. It’s either they have a full blown relationship somewhere and are lying to you or they’re just unnecessarily insecure which is irritating.

In my opinion, I don't think that men in 30's are the hardest to date. I can testify to the fact that most of them are strict hence, their reason for misunderstanding it for complexity.
The above comments by some fraction of women folk is a clear show of misunderstanding and does not in anyway depict the accurate nature or character of men in 30's.

WHAT'S YOUR VIEW OF THIS?
Nairaland GeneralAre "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Fluency(op): 11:51am On Mar 23, 2021
*_30+ men are the hardest to date_ - Ladies share relationship experiences with the opposite sex*

Nigerian Ladies on social media have revealed their relationship experiences with 30 years old men and above. Most of them believe 30+ men are the hardest to date sometimes.

A Lady on the popular microblogging platform, Twitter identified as @Julesbangz said that 30+ men are so straightforward and have no chill at all when it comes to relationship.

She tweeted; “30+ men & straightforwardness

"30+ men: Hey I like you. Me: I would think about it.
30+ men: Okay I would give you 5 mins to think about it.
(5mins later)
30+ men: Hey, are you done thinking about it? Me: I am sorry I really can’t
30+ men : Okay Bye nice meeting you.”

See comments below;

In reactions to the above post, fellow ladies took to the comment section to share their relationship experiences with 30+ men.

@glorivicky1 tweeted; “It’s their straight forwardness for me o This one I met Ehn….There wasn’t even a talking stage Oga just said he’s not interested in getting married He just wants a mutually beneficial adult relationship. The guy finish me with grammar Ehn”

@youaremore__ said; “30+ men are the hardest to date sometimes…it’s like they’ve exhausted every patience in their early/late 20’s..”

@PwettyTem
opined; “Most of them are very indecisive. I repeat, most of them.”

@QveenJosey reacted; “Most of them are unnecessarily rude, want things to be done their ways and always want to get away with whatever they do that my sister is not straightforwardness they are so indecisive”


@a_dunnii says; 30+ guys are hard to date. It’s either they have a full blown relationship somewhere and are lying to you or they’re just unnecessarily insecure which is irritating.

In my opinion, I don't think that men in 30's are the hardest to date. I can testify to the fact that most of them are very strict hence, their reason for misunderstanding it for complexity. The comments above is a clear show of misunderstanding and does not in anyway portray the accurate nature or character of men in 30's.

WHAT IS YOUR VIEW OF THIS?
PoliticsRe: Insecurity: Give PDP Another Chance In 2023 – Saraki To Nigerians by Fluency(m): 12:42pm On Mar 20, 2021
APC government is the worst regime experienced by Nigerians. May the Sun never rise to meet APC in leadership again in this Country. Let it never be remembered that there was a party called 'APC'.
PDP may had looted our commonwealth, but it remains 100% better than the current APC regime.

All APC supporters are only being sentimental and partisan, blinded by falsehood hence, they can't stand for the truth.
PhonesRe: Samsung Galaxy S8 For Sale At Good Price In Lagos by Fluency(m): 11:40am On Mar 09, 2021
Bestmanwealthy:
Neatly use Samsung S8 for sale working perfectly no fault, last longing battery and very clear camera and space for memory card slot waiting for that lucky buyer
Contact: 08095243443
Price : 55k not negotiable
what are the specs?
where is your location?
CareerRe: Lady Sacked For Refusing To Say Good Morning To Her Co-Worker by Fluency(m): 10:16pm On Feb 23, 2021
yushbaby:
is it by force to say goodmorninghuh? angry angry angry angry angry angry
You're just like her!
CareerRe: Lady Sacked For Refusing To Say Good Morning To Her Co-Worker by Fluency(m): 10:13pm On Feb 23, 2021
May God Almighty who made heaven and earth punish every woman including the unborn.[/quote]The concluding part of your message is not good enough. All women are not the same, likewise men.
PhonesRe: Is The Syinix 55 Inch TVs Worth It? by Fluency(m): 10:54am On Nov 13, 2020
krownie:
i chose quality over quantity
Meaning?
PoliticsRe: Laz Ogbe, Umahi’s Commissioner Resigns, Refuses To Join APC by Fluency(m): 10:14am On Nov 13, 2020
Jones4190:
The SE are the cause of their political predicaments today. They lost the plot after the death of Zik. No matter how the pro-Biafran dumb bandwagon may want to paint Zik, he made sure the Igbos got their fair share in the power sharing equation. Any wonder why since 1993 no Igbo have come close to attaining the Presidential seat. Following the PDP stupidly was a political mistake that has come back to hunt Igbos.
Seeing that the PDP had no future for them from 1999 -2003, they should have joined any formidable party to send them packing. But that was never done. In 2003 when the opportunity presented itself they foolishly played the southern game by supporting Obasanjo instead of a Buhari with a SE running mate. They had the opportunity with Buhari/Okadigbo ANPP but cowardly supported Obasanjo. What did Obasanjo gift them in return, political death? The same Obasanjo is the godfather of MASSOB who has now metamorphosed to IPOB, a monster currently ravaging the Igbo nation.
The opportunity arose again in 2007 with Buhari / Umezuoke but still the igbo people ignorantly sold their birthright supporting Yar’adua / GEJ. Though Yar’adua was fair to everyone, but fairness and sympathy votes don’t count in Nigeria.
The last opportunity came in 2015 when Buhari toured the SE for Igbo alliance. A zone that had stood with him since 2001, but what he saw made him weep. Seeing that he couldn't get it he looked to the SW.

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I know you're APC faithful, but I do not see any sense in this.
I don't think that any sane person will deliberately join or support APC with our current experience. Nigeria has never been this bad. We are praying for remedy to Nigeria's problem, you're talking about APC
HealthRe: Testimonies Of A 100% Herbal Tea That Cures Premature Expulsion and E.D by Fluency(m): 10:06pm On Sep 27, 2020
How much is a sachet?
Can it be sent to Uyo?
Please chat me directly on whatsapp: 08088458538
FamilyRe: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by Fluency(m): 12:57am On Apr 28, 2020
Aaaaarghmed:
don't tell her your findings yet...delete your contact from her phone also delete the man contact from her phone.save ur number with what she used to save the man number,Whatsapp her and confirm ur findings to really know what is going on between them.
What about the man's DP?
PhonesRe: TECNO Camon 15 Series Unveiling: Images And Specifications by Fluency(m): 4:03pm On Apr 04, 2020
[quote author=mdchikezie post=88062876]AKPA AMU HAVE YOU DEVELOPED EVEN A PHONE CASING/PHONEPACK BEFOREhuh
KEEP CRITICIZING THEM, WHILE THEY ARE BUSY SELLING OUT AND BUILDING NETWORTH MUMU, AND IF WE CHECK WELL YOU CANNOT EVEN AFFORD IT

This is not the kind of reply I expected from a Nigerian like you. We should be grateful to the guy for the enlightenment. With this enlightenment, I don't think that I can ever buy Tecno products again.
RomanceRe: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Fluency(m): 8:05pm On Dec 29, 2019
mogboyelade:
Pls hustle more and take care of your parent first, they've invested on you and this is right time to pay back. If you have a fiance and marriage sets in, you won't be able to take care of your parents and siblings again. Na to focus on your nuclear family go remain.
My dear, your advice is like an Octogenarian.
You speak like a God fearing person. I really like this!
RomanceRe: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Fluency(m): 7:06pm On Dec 29, 2019
[quote author=lilmax post=85316282]Anyone can have a girlfriend





Does it include a 10 year old boy?
RomanceRe: Five Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Man . by Fluency(m): 4:49pm On Dec 26, 2019
Young lady, your post is terrible!
Please, do not speak of men in such abominable manner, you do have a father & brothers; should they be addressed in the same manner?
What if your destiny is tied to a Nigerian man? Not every Nigerian man is nasty & an ingrate.
Please change your mindset

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