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@ allonym

Oh u again, I know u're just dying to try it out
I'm still waiting for my answer

coz Jackal might be one of them guys I was referring to earlier

Thanks for the advice Seun, but I've thought long and hard.
I've tried talking to him like you said, but he doesn't take me seriously.
Now he started flirting and making comments. He's the only one that can transfer me to another department and reporting to the authorities
might coz things to become messy.
I just need to solve this problem right here and soon, please I'm getting desperate here!!! !!!

Or I will be forced to, !

@ Venice

Hi I'm from Swakopmund. I accidently came across Nairaland while searching for more information about my favourite sopie, and still loving it here.

Kissing with eyes wide open is not romantic!
It's WEIRD and CREEPY!

No need to collect evidence. Catch him red handed and then hear him out.

I think it's weird for a woman to ask a man to marry her.

Will she pay lobola for the man, buy his suit and do the things men have to do, way toooo crazy?

I would never ask.

I think Zebudaya is the only person being honest, the rest of the guys are like "drop the condom and you die"
while in reality guys actually hate using condoms and u have to force them to. Or are u Nigerian guys realy devoted to
using condoms. Please let me know, I'll immediately migrate to Nigeria.

@imtheking

You couldn't have said it better

Thanks for the compliment. A girl always has to look her best, but you might run away if you see me first thing in the morning
(just kidding)
Anyway I hope you find yourself a nice girl soon.

Yes I'll also choose Mr thug Life.
He's got alot more to offer then the rest of them.

shame on you Seun, christanity is not about being in tight shoes. It's simply about being obedient to God and serving Him.
You do it by your own free will and it's not some kind of punishment.

@lioness and IBB

You two love birds should move on to the dating zone

No younger guys won't make me feel woman enough, but I'll go for it when I'about 40 years old and need a boy to make me feel young again.
Just like most older man do these days.

My thoughts exactly!

That's exacly what I was saying!

@ Seun
My problem is not simply about sex. My problem is having a boyfriend I'm having sex with and still wanting to serve the Lord.
I can't marry him, coz my folks don't want him, and I can't dump him and go back to being born again, coz he will cause me to fall into sin
again.

So it's no use to just confess and then after a while start doing the same thing again.
Do you get my point?

I used to live a wild life as a teenager. I used to drink go to clubs and do the normal teenage stuff not pleasing to God. After finishing school I gave my Life to Jesus Christ and served him for 3 years. There were temptations along the way, but I was truly committed and would never be caught off guard.

Last year a wonderful boy came along and we fell in love. He wanted to marry me, but my parents did not approve. I was blinded by love and eventually I fell into sexual sin. We are still together, but I have this sadness deep inside.

I regret turning my back on Christ. I cry everytime I think of the life I had before. I used to worship God and was the lead singer in church. I've dissapointed everyone, but most of all I dragged the name of Jesus Christ through the mud. How do I get back up again and what about my boyfriend?

Wow u people are so lucky. I simply adore pastor Chris and I watch "Atmosphere for Miracles" every night.
I would give anything to be at that crusade, coz I actualy get goosebumbs by just watching him on TV.
Anyway have fun, I'll be watching on TV

You know if you read the bible you will see that it is actualy going to happen to the Christians left behind after the rapture in the last days.
And once you choose Satan there will be no more turning back and u get the mark of the beast 666. but for those who endure until the end
even go through torture and still confess Jesus Christ as their savior, there will be mercy and they can still go to heaven.
So be careful what u choose.

The easiest way would be to marry a rich man

I tripped and fell flat on my face,

You're good looking, what's wrong with the Ladies in your city?
Don't you want them or is it the other way around?

Just curious

He has to be well dressed and attractive first,
and if he is, I look at his lips must have nice full lips,
clean teeth and a sexy smile.
I'm a sucker for guys with a sexy smile.

If I get close enough I might even smell his breath, so for me the mouth plays a very big role

Ye, but how do I report it. It's not physical or verbal abuse. I can't even say it's sexual harassment.
He just became very hostile towards me and overloads me with work while he knows I've got other things to do.
So I can't call that abuse, after all he is the boss and I have to do what he asks me to do workwise
I just don't know what to do

Nowadays men say I LOVE U even if they don't mean it, just to get a girl in the sack.
So why should we girls even bother to say I love u ?
So I say a guy has to see for himself wether I love him or not and I will only say it to ,my husband one day
and if he says it to me I will know he means it.
Some people even start saying I love you after dating for just a week!!?!!?!?!?!

that can'y be real.