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@ okeyz
Tanks for replyin to ma post, dont get it twisted, never meant before i went into the university aight, it just got to a point during the years i knew i had no passion for it, u wil agree with me that itz not a new thing here in our educational system that your study/discipline MUST be your passion, that is why i v come for y'll professional advices, nothing personal. Big Tanks

Y'elloooo nairalanders, this is specially for blackberry freaks and lovers

Plz i'm in a fix rite now, iv got about N70k - N80k to purchase a blackberry torch OR bold(prefarably torch) but i dont

which and the particular model to go for.


i waz hoping y'll would use your expertise in choosing for me but MOST importantly WHY i should go for your choice

over others.

thanks so much.

, and Ebonyeyes head swells,
i rily dont know Y u Guys wuld kip making threads of Ladies and singing praises outa them whether itz true or not, whatz your motive? coz trust me it aint goin to work, tellme, have u seen a lady on NL makin a special thread for a Guy?, GUYzzzzz *nodding head*

this here is dat Mr Nice drama i was talkin abt when i posted this thread, Guys do ur thang ok, but all im sayin is with dat Mr Nice guy stuff ur doing wuld only hv the girl sayin to her friends, Awwwwww! He's sooo sweet!, such a nice guy, she's indirectly sayin, im not attracted to dis guy but he well wuld make a good friend and company, Ouch! im sure it hurts hearing a lady saying 'Letz just be friends ' to u rite? especially when u want to be intimate with her, Sooo step ur game up coz acting as Mr Nice wuld Only get u in the Friends zone, Dont mind what them Ladies here are saying, apparently u dont expect them to tell u their secrets, itz just as the way they dont share their "Girls talk" , One sentence, Ladies dont say what they mean and they dont mean what they say, Period.

Olusolami i guess ur one of them mohicans Mama told when u were vry young not to kiss a guy else u become pregnant, n then u turned to be an extremist on anti-kissing, trust me hon, u wont get pregnant ok, go ahead and start kissing but im not askin u to come n kiss me coz i wont give it to u, i cant kiss an extremist with anti-kissing policies.

now ur talking.

yeas ebonyeyes, we know dat, but in this context i was refering to GUYS with LADIES

i ponder "Why does the guy who doesn't appear to care as much about the girl get the girl?" itz simple: The nice guy cares too much, too soon. He has made the woman too important and too valuable and it shows in everything he says and does. He is too available, too eager to please, too accommodating, and he gives too much -- all without getting anything in return. By doing so, he has made himself appear desperate, insecure, needy of this woman's attention, affection, and approval -- and he has stripped himself of any value in her eyes. After all, if he's already doing and giving everything, without her doing or giving anything - why would she value him? She won't. She is not going to value him any more than he values himself. What she is going to do is look for someone else, someone who she perceives as being more worthy, more confident, and more valuable, and mmm i tink itz the cocky but funny guys, What say u Ladies?

Candylips of all people u outa b d last of the mohicans asking what kissing is about.

@ Poster Oooooooh reaaally!, u want to be friends with him yet your legs keep shaking for him, a sure case when we guys wuld say we cant trust ladies, they are just not reliable n im very sure her present friend truly adores her, If it was a Guy that posted this,u'll see how ladies who start callin him names, but heres the drama coz she's female, her fellow genders are petting her instead, i really pity dis boyfriend **nodding head**

@Poster What a pity!

Sometimes i ponder who's got more skeletons of the Guys OR Ladies and not just that? But Why they have to do it even to the detriment of loved ones, Especially Married Couples!

Sometimes i ponder who's got more skeletons of the Guys OR Ladies and not just that? But Why they have to do it even to the detriment of loved ones, Especially Married Couples!

@ Poster Awwwww!! dat Drama, Well Truth is, if u wait 4 it to come naturally u'll wait in VAIN!!, So uv got to tak a bold step, Now perhaps there are some tins hindering you, maybe it isnt just dat u cant approach ladies, maybe u want 2 approach ladies in quest for a Girlfriend so your afraid of rejection!, i wouldnt know exactly what you want, howeva for your Age i wouldnt advise you go looking for a girlfriend, stick to ur educaton, so i'll presume you are looking for female friends aight?, So first of I'd say you should start by involving urself by joining some group activities where u know you'd find lotz of ladies n guys partaking in, i'l guarantee u dat u wouldnt have to literally approach any of them b4 u start getting Hiiiiis n Hellooos, just do one tin, make sure u INVOLVE n partake of them activities with them, but two secrets, Be VERY GOOD in atleast one of them activities, secondly, ask a lady to help you in any one EVEN if you know how to, Trust me ladies love to help, itz a motherly instinct, i hope iv bin able to help somehow, Soooo dont wait in VAIN.

@ poster Nawa 4u o, How do u tink you'll fall in love when "JONATHAN" is tinkin all the time 4 you huuuh? You really have to learn to discipline your self first off, coz truth is you'' neva stop coming across cuties aight, so self control, secondly try not to see them ladies as intimacy gadgets, they r worth much more, then perhaps you'll catch a glimpse of what you want without JONATHAN tinkin 4 you this time ok, hweva u'd hv to be very honest with yourself.

@ poster One Word, DESTRUCTION!, Remember u asked me the question.

@ eina Lol, DAMN!!eina your funny, what a jungle you must be in, but heeeey im not saying anytin atleast not yet, i was just passing by

@ Angel P Hmmmm, since you ladies listen to your fellow genders real quick on topics like this without references i think i'd advice you to go and ask ladies that cheat on their Guys 2.

@irenereky , cant u see the true deep tunnel here, he's told u boldly "I'm in a relationship", dat means he'll always chose his girl over you!!, Comeooooooooon he just want to hav ur cake aight, there is notin to talk about on this coz itz so obvious, u really suld fall out of this "love tingle" for him.

@whitelexi WORD!

letz sit back y'll coz we are yet to here the last of the mohicans!

Hmmmm, apparently one can tell 4rm d look of tins goin on here nw in this thread, it doesnt seem like any of these guys here fall in that category of the eight irresistibles mavenbox was talkin abt, else atleast mavenbox would hav had herself c, anywyz **i was just passing by**

Damn! im soo loving this u know, i mean petite fights can be sooooo romantic at times, itz got merits just like d one dat just ensued btw Adrenaline and iice, perfect names for a perfect combat, u knooow sometimes we need "Adrenaline" to break dat "iice", knooow wat i mean huh?

@ Y'll Why are y'll wasting your time talkin abt iice, cant u see she's ignorin u, u suld b talkin abt me here, huh?, u knw wat?, mmm, itz just a slip of my fingers i waz actually just passin by.

@Walestar Dude, u suld be d one to save us, since uve closed down ALLLL the apartment on dating does dat mean i wont date again, Comeoooooooooon help a bro out here we still need the stuff u know

@Ujujoan u know wat i mean

@jejelolatu hmmm, somtins are better off left unsaid

@ujujoan Exonerate? Lmao, hmmm i think im beginning to like this chick now coz she aint as die hardcored as i tot,
I tink she just bin fluid

@jejelolatu hmmm well well well, i hv bin waitin for anoda lady in the house u knooow, Now herez d ish, YES u ladies sould stop makin excuses and give guys SOME credit coz your rule isnt literally applied to ALL of us and NO, you suldnt see us ALLL as hrtbreakers, now maybe, just maybe if itz soo neccesary u need to adjust dat general rule of Thumb.

@ Ujujoan Lol, u dont give up easily do you huh?, well just bcoz itz a personal opinion of ur own doesnt make it true, atleast itz our little secret but i tell u, it aint got notin to do wit emotions, ur just frontin hardcore

@Pweety4me I can guarantee u a million times dat NObody dumped me

@Ujujoan Im glad your a FAN of MAN accepting dat u need us, so maybe u sould give us some credit u know, itz this simple if itz a general rule to u ladies dat ALL GUYS ARE SAME, it wuld automatically be applied to LADIES ARE ALL SAME TOO, but bcoz i know datz not true, thus same itz true of we GUYS, so UJU do me a favor, when u ladies are sitted,gisting abt dem guys, perhaps u suld tell it to your fellow genders about wat i said seeing that ur the ONLY Lady in the thread.hmmm pretty impressive though.