i ponder "Why does the guy who doesn't appear to care as much about the girl get the girl?" itz simple: The nice guy cares too much, too soon. He has made the woman too important and too valuable and it shows in everything he says and does. He is too available, too eager to please, too accommodating, and he gives too much -- all without getting anything in return. By doing so, he has made himself appear desperate, insecure, needy of this woman's attention, affection, and approval -- and he has stripped himself of any value in her eyes. After all, if he's already doing and giving everything, without her doing or giving anything - why would she value him? She won't. She is not going to value him any more than he values himself. What she is going to do is look for someone else, someone who she perceives as being more worthy, more confident, and more valuable, and mmm i tink itz the cocky but funny guys, What say u Ladies?

Nice people in general finish last. Human beings are wicked and evil and prey on the gullible, nice and weak.

yeas ebonyeyes, we know dat, but in this context i was refering to GUYS with LADIES

What I said still applies in this case. I do agree that sometimes a guy being nice is mistaken for him being weak. There should be a balance somehow i.e nice but firm.

now ur talking.

Yup 'nice' guys carry-last sometimes, but i'm not ready to change.

its nice to knw dat there still nice guys out there and not willing to change to be someone else. I was starting to give up.lol

follypimpi:


So you are nice

Yup.

follypimpi:


I go recommend my cousin 4 u then,u single

ME

justwise:

Yup, but not too much of a 'nice-guy'

ladybird77:

its nice to knw dat there still nice guys out there and not willing to change to be someone else. I was starting to give up.lol

Changing is not an option, that will make me another person.

follypimpi:


I go recommend my cousin 4 u then,u single

Hahaha. . .is 'ur' cousin a 'nice' girl?

Changing is not an option, that will make me another person
@justwise dats really good to knw.
@follypimpi y u such a downer i mean really every thread i read u always negative things to say, am not hating just asking really? wassup with dat?

ok my bad, sozzzzzzzzzz for saying dat.

Wats dat for?

And yep am looking for a nice caring guy.lol

I like nice men, they are polite and have a good head on their shoulders.

very very true and they so hard to come by.

ladybird77:

very very true and they so hard to come by.

u sure abt that?

ladybird77:

very very true and they so hard to come by.

Just as its very hard to meet nice woman, it goes both ways.

follypimpi:

Awwwww i will start praying for u too now,this year good guyz will fight over u.

Hope God hears ur prayer. . cos i need it.

follypimpi:


Awww poor baby i will rememba u in my prayers.This year is your year justwise and jaybee r nice dude ya know.

thanx brother prayer is wat a sister needs right now