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Romance15 Things Every Woman Has Done On A Date by Flye(op): 10:24am On Jan 02, 2015
15 Things Every Woman Has Done on a Date

SEPTEMBER 12, 2014 BY STEPH STEPHS

Going on a date is a trying experience for everyone. There are nerves on both sides of the table and everyone trying to figure out how to make a good impression. For us there are few things that are always bound to happen at some point on a date. We want him to like us and have this idealized view of how a good date should be. Here are 15 things that we women have done on at least one date.

1) Agonize Over the Menu


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So for men looking at the menu probably consists of finding what looks good and ordering it. For us it’s no doubt that every menu option is analyzed. Is that one too expensive? If I order that cheeseburger with extra bacon and grilled cheese sandwiches instead of bread is he going to think I’m a pig? Maybe I’ll just order a salad…but then I’ll be hungry later, and I know he’ll notice if I order three slices of chocolate cake for dessert, you know to share.

2) Try and Be Stylish


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On dates we look completely different than the way we do at home. If 90% of our wardrobe is jeans and Family Guy T-Shirts, we’re going to wear our one fashionable outfit or go shopping for at least the first date. We’ll go to that makeup store in the mall and get tips on how to actually apply that stuff with the brush and look our best. Even for women who are typically stylish there’s a desire to do just a little bit better for a date.

3) Worry About What to Say


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For some dates the comfort and ease of conversation comes easy. But for others there is a thin line between what to say and what topics are off limits. We all know not to talk about exes or sob stories and yet is it too much to reveal your boy band obsession or the fact that you own 8 cats? Will he find my job boring or does he think I talk too much?

4)Look For Clues


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If it’s still early in the relationship we’re judging everything, even if we told ourselves we’re going to keep an open mind this time we’re looking for things to judge. Did he wash his hair? Does he talk nicely about his family? Did he talk too much about his mother? We want someone we’re compatible with and won’t give us more drama than we need, so at least once we’ve all hunted for some clues to our date’s personality.

5)Try to Avoid Silence


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Silence is awkward, it’s almost as awkward as talking about your ex-boyfriend’s prowess in bed in order to fill the silence. On dates it always feels like everyone around you is talking and having a great time and then we’re sitting in silence, makes the date feel like a failure. So we try and fill that silence, sometimes with things that make the silence infinitely better by comparison.

6) Look for the Spark


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I blame Disney for this one. We all want to feel it and we want to feel it often. That giddy little feeling in the pit of our stomach that lets us know this is still going good. So on every date we look for moments when that little feeling should appear or we try to create extra romantic moments for it to appear. If its date four and that feeling still hasn’t shown up then we know it’s probably not going to.

7) Update Their Friends


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Okay so yes using the phone at the dinner table is rude, or during drinks or really during any part of the date. But if you need a way out or you just need to tell them how great it’s going or to vent, updating the friends has happened. Although the least obvious is to use the bathroom excuse and then do it there so you’re not sitting at the table staring at your phone instead of him.

cool Fidget


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Yep whether it’s nerves or the fact that we really think that flipping our hair back ten times during the same conversation makes us look confident and sexy, we all fidget. The more nerves about the date the more fidgeting. If we really like the guy then we pull out all the stops to get rid of the nervous energy and end up looking like we’re being shocked every two minutes.

9) Bail


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So it’s going bad, really bad. So bad that you’re pretty such Godzilla charging down the street would be a vast improvement. So we’ve all done it, come up with the “Oh no my friend’s boyfriend just broke up with her, she needs me.” Or the “My grandmother fell down the stairs”. Or for those of us without fear of hurting his feelings “Look I’m just gonna go now.”

10) Stare


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Well we don’t mean to stare. We’re just trying to be polite and maintain eye contact..but then our mind wanders or we’re nervous and end up staring with an expression that looks like we ran into a frying pan.

11) Smile


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We smile. We smile when we’re looking for the nearest exit. We smile when we’re really thinking whoever we are with really just insane and we smile when we’re having a good time. If there’s anything we have done on a date in spades, its smile

12) Try and Weed Out DealBreakers




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We all have deal breakers, things we will automatically stop the relationship if any of these are present. Sure there’s the biggies of drugs and abuse, but then there’s the fact that he thinks the men of Duck Dynasty should be canonized or that he uses Star Trek quotes in every conversation. So we always try and plant a few obvious but still obscure questions or tricks to try and see if any of those deal breakers are there.

13) Try and Sound Smarter


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It never fails we’re on a date with a guy we really like or a guy who has seventeen doctorates and you just want to leave a good impression. But then we start saying things like Turkey is next to Madagascar and that the square root of 847 is really five, just because we’re trying to talk out of our comfort zone to sound smarter. Next time we’ll stick to whatever Jon Stewart talked about last night.

14) Arrive Late


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The truth is as women we don’t always arrive late because we’re trying to be fashionable or act like our time is more valuable. Nope it’s because we’re scattered brained, indecisive and can’t figure out which way is up because we have so much on our minds. Therefore after 30 wardrobe changes, traffic and missing the turn we’ve arrived late for more than one date.

15) Worn Something Uncomfortable


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Whether it’s those high heels that cause blisters, the bra with the slightly exposed underwire or the itchy blouse that you can’t actually get out of by yourself, we’ve all worn something uncomfortable on a date. Then we inevitably spend the entire date trying to feel less uncomfortable and still enjoy the date. It rarely works out in our favor.


Finally: Going on a date is a trying experience for everyone. There are nerves on both sides of the table and everyone trying to figure out how to make a good impression. For us there are few things that are always bound to happen at some point on a date. We want him to like us and have this idealized view of how a good date should be. Here are 15 things that we women have done on at least one date.
PoliticsRe: We Run Government On Emergency Basis - Jonathan by Flye: 9:57am On Jan 02, 2015
kestolove95:
na dunamis gej go now?nawa o...2maro him go entr olomba-olomba for prayers...e no go suprix me if I see my desprate president for mosque 2day been friday
Oboy the guy was seriously hammered yesterday by the pastor of that church, I was there live and direct intact he was just beating around the bush after the pastor told him the truth.
PoliticsRe: Igbo Coalition Threatens To Dump Jonathan Over Poor Infrastructure In S/East by Flye: 8:36am On Jan 02, 2015
obyrich:
I don't think you are right on this. We are not more tribalistic than the rest tribes in Nigeria. GEJ is not an lgbo man. He will fail in Igbo land, especially, Abia State where he failed to perform.
I hail your point, I'm not Igbo but all the tribes in Nigeria dance to the tune of tribalism and it is our useless leaders that fuel that. To common man on the street nothing like tribalism or religion but when our useless leaders from across all ethnic divides want to eat their cake and have it, they sing tribalistic game and religions sentint while we dance to it.
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Appoints Jerry Gana, Peter Obi, Fani-kayode, Others, Campaign Directors by Flye: 8:05am On Jan 02, 2015
Which Fani Kayode, the same Fani kayode with corruption charges? Woow this is excellent.
PoliticsRe: American Woman Accuses Reno Omokri Of Identity Theft by Flye:
I don't know why our government aides are so desperate to do bad things.
PoliticsRe: Our Future, Not Just Elections by Flye: 7:55am On Jan 02, 2015
Until we demand what with our actions, our leaders will continue to mismanage our country. Irrespective of the party PDP, APC, apga, labour party etc are all the same but we need to put them into oder by voting them in or out.
PoliticsRe: 18 Hours In Taraba’s Diamond Fields - Fastest Growing Settlement In Africa by Flye: 7:51am On Jan 02, 2015
That is resource wasting away while we complain of over dependent on crude oil.
PoliticsRe: Revealed: ‘actionable Intelligence’ From US On Chibok Girls Was Ignored By Milit by Flye: 7:48am On Jan 02, 2015
We don't need newyork dalies to tell us b4 we know that our government does not want to fight BH in Nigeria for whatever reasons best known to them.
Jokes EtcRe: Is this a China Or Onitsha Made Murano Jeep? by Flye: 7:43am On Jan 02, 2015
The panel biter no try @all.
PoliticsRe: Father Mbaka Says Jonathan Is Surrounded By Corrupt Officials by Flye: 7:41am On Jan 02, 2015
FastShipping:
The Igbos that I know and met are upright, honest, and God fearing people like Father Mbaka. This type of man is very hard to find today. The man said nothing but the whole truth. May God bless him and witness Buhari becomes the next president.
It's good for all this men to say the truth otherwise Nigeria will continue to fall. My pastor also said the same thing yesterday.
PoliticsRe: 2015 ELECTIONS: Men Who’ll Decide The Fate Of Contestants In S/west by Flye: 7:33am On Jan 02, 2015
I hope INEC will allow the best candidate to win. If it is PDP or APC the voice and the choice of the people must be respected.
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Is The Best President – Maku by Flye: 7:15am On Jan 02, 2015
Chanchit:
Na so 9ice talk say he never lose primaries, I dnt even knw if he has finally faced reality. Maku, just remember d prodigal son, go back to the clueless one to find you a job till february when both of you would become jobless.
grin
PoliticsRe: I’m Coming Up With Anti-corruption Plan — Jonathan by Flye: 7:03am On Jan 02, 2015
After 6years in office with a lot swept under carpet.
PoliticsRe: My Dream Concerning The Outcome Of 2015 Election by Flye:
Marvin67:
Unfortunately, this is Nigeria, and that is what we have on ground. You can go into this tread to see how sentimental Nigerians are www.nairaland.com/2064467/igbo-group-lagos-writes-fashola. The idea here tells you that the idea of one Nigeria is more of a mere talk than a reality.

I've always said that GEJ's biggest problem is not the APC, but his biggest problem are the people around him and his media aides. They are playing to the gallery of the APC. GEJ has made some very good achievements that some Nigerians are not even aware of. Yesterday, I told one man that GEJ has built 125 almajiri schools in the north (which no other president had done) and the man found it hard to believe. The likes of Doyin Okupe should be showcasing his achievements instead of making it look like he's relying on religion or ethnic sentiment. The opposition on the other hand is very vocal. You don't expect them to tell you the achievements of GEJ, instead they'd look at his fault, exaggerate it and keep singing it to the people. Overtime the people would know more of GEJ's faults than his achievements. That is exactly what has happened. And it's all the fault of GEJ's media men.
WoooooooooW!!!!!!! You are the most intelligent Gej's fan I have ever seen.
If many of his people thinks like you do, Jonathan does not need all this dirty politics, he would have won with landslide vote but the clueless fans and his media aid re so dull that they create more enemies than than friends. Imagine because opposition stressed Jeg weaknesses they termed it hatred(Muslim/Christian or minority/majority) instead of them to sing the praise of his strength.
Honestly it is an honor to have a debate with you.
PoliticsRe: Pastor Yemi Osinbanjo Is Disgracing Christianity by Flye: 5:40pm On Jan 01, 2015
Must we bring religion into this issue? Gwoosshhh! I hate this administration for this gutter politics they play.
Tell us what is bad about osinbanjo, why we should not vote for him and why your candidate is better than him and I will listen.
PoliticsRe: My Dream Concerning The Outcome Of 2015 Election by Flye: 5:27pm On Jan 01, 2015
Marvin67:
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Ok. The governor of Benue state performed woefully. But Benue is one of those states that would massively return GEJ in the presidential elections. I'd tell you why. Benue falls into that category of the North that feels the hausa's/fulani's always want to marginalize them. They also gain from this present arrangement, as their son (David Mark ) is the number 3 man in the country. If GMB wins, that could be altered. PDP may lose the governorship of benue because of Suswam's failure, but I can bet you GEJ would win in Benue.

I still emphasise, that PDP is taking the campaign down to the rural areas, giving the people rice and other things. That is where the votes come from not from the internet.
I know all this, that is why I said "i don't know if it will affect the presidential election" but you must still take it to account that apart from tribal /religion sentiment issue PDP has performed woefully. opposition may not necessarily be an angel but we can't keep voting base on religion or tribal sentiment. Infact the reason why I hate this administration more is because of this silly religion and tribal sentimental politics they play. I prefer you tell me what you have done and what you intend to do than saying I'm Yoruba or Hausa or Igbo or eficki Ibibio edo etc. It breeds hatred, prejudice and division most importantly it gives a false information that the government in concern has not done anything. I prefer a government who blows his wistle louder than it achievement than a government who rely on division tactics and uses of what ever sentiment to get people's interest.
PoliticsRe: My Dream Concerning The Outcome Of 2015 Election by Flye: 4:31pm On Jan 01, 2015
Marvin67:
I guess by the mood everywhere you mean the mood in Lagos, other southwest states and online.

I've always said the North would be the deciding factor here. The number of Votes GEJ would win in the South east ans South south will be more than the number of votes he'd lose in the south west.

Don't think the north is one dimensional. The North is divided into three. There's the core (Hausa) north. There's the north that hates been associated with anything Hausa as they see themselves as being marginalised greatly by the hausas, there's a Christian north that (unfortunately) are not enlightened enough to put aside religious sentiments. The northern votes wouldn't go massively for GMB, you'd be suprised at the number of votes GEJ would pull out of the north.

No where in the world has elections been won online. I remember when George Bush was going for second term, 80% of americans voted him out online, but in real life he won the election. The internet is filled with so many people who are not even registered voters, and most of the comments you read online are still from the Lagos people. APC is winning the online polls, but PDP is going into rural areas where the people don't even know GMB or GEJ, sensitizing the people on how to vote, and giving them rice at the end of the day, those people would vote for PDP. Both parties have adopted different strategies, but if you ask me, PDP's strategy would yield more results at the polls because that's where it matters. Elections are won in the field not online.
Look I'm not based in Southwest, I'm based in Abuja and you can feel it around even in fct, we went to Benue and people were complaining as hell although most of their anger is against there state governor but they just feel PDP is the problem I don't know if it will have any effect on the presidential election though.
PoliticsRe: Rev. Fr Mbaka Advices Christians To Not Vote For GEJ. by Flye: 4:21pm On Jan 01, 2015
double0seven:
Sorry, are you saying President Jonathan attended crossover night at your church?!

And please what is the name of your church and the name of the Pastor?

If this is indeed truth, that means your Pastor have done that which heavyweights like Pastor Adeboye cannot do, which is tell the truth the way the Bible wants it. Kudos to him.I'm sure God won't forget.
Not crossover night but first year service which started around 10am and ended after 12. It's Dunamis international gospel centre in area 1garki and the name of the pastor is Dr Paul Eneche. Mind you he was very diplomatic about it but he passed the message.
PoliticsRe: What Is Happening To TAN? by Flye: 4:16pm On Jan 01, 2015
Akinsz:
gist us what your pastor said.
My brother it is a long story but at the end he urged the church to ask God to give him wisdom and courage to do the right things during and after election.
PoliticsRe: Rev. Fr Mbaka Advices Christians To Not Vote For GEJ. by Flye: 4:11pm On Jan 01, 2015
Marvin67:
That's what a pastor should say. It places him in a neutral position and doesn't translate to mean that he's urging Christians not to vote for GEJ. If you look at it in that direction, you could also interpret it to mean that he's urging muslims and northerners not to vote for GMB.

The pastor just placed himself in a neutral position.
exactly!!!!!
If you relate that to the way they re playing religion politics and what other pastors he went to their churches as been saying, you will understand me.
Also he said some bitter truth about how Nigeria is being managed. The good thing is that he did not mention his name but for the fact that the president is on the sit and a pastor is preaching about a bad leadership and visionary leaders means a lot.
PoliticsRe: Rev. Fr Mbaka Advices Christians To Not Vote For GEJ. by Flye: 3:57pm On Jan 01, 2015
Dbboy:
Unlike your pastor the Catholic Church don't indulge in politics
But he came to the church for obvious reason and the man passed the obvious message. I don't see anything bad in that, if all our social leaders(church, mosque, traditional and tribal) have been this honest, firm and fearless we wouldn't have been this backward in Nigeria.
PoliticsRe: Rev. Fr Mbaka Advices Christians To Not Vote For GEJ. by Flye: 3:45pm On Jan 01, 2015
penisilin:
I've never seen dis man of God before but i have dis humongous respect for him.... saying all dis about jonathan shows he's not a weakling at all, he has guts and that can only be attained by the true and only spirit of GOD... HATS OFF TO A GREAT NIGERIAN & TRUE IGBO MAN... many igbos are still fooling themselves.....
If true then this is the third respected man of God that will say such a thing in just two months.
PoliticsRe: Rev. Fr Mbaka Advices Christians To Not Vote For GEJ. by Flye: 3:40pm On Jan 01, 2015
omenka:
You people should stop this trash. It is nauseating and divisive. I can wager my next 50 breaths the man never called for "christians" not to vote for Jonathan. If he says, as you wrote, "Nigeria is too big for Jonathan", then I've got no problems with that. But I think your trying to twist it saying he "asked christians not to vote for Jonathan" is totally misleading and in very bad taste.

I hate it when people try to blend politics with religion even if it seems to favour my choice. The mixture is too damn volatile for comfort.
I may not be surprised if he said so because it happened life and direct in my presence today in our church. Although our pastor did not call his name neither does he say it derectly but he passed the message to the people and the president. The president took it calmly but his mother was not happy with the sermon.
PoliticsRe: Rev. Fr Mbaka Advices Christians To Not Vote For GEJ. by Flye:
The same thing happened in my church today even in the presence of the president himself.

Dunamis pastor Dr Paul Eneche said it is not about religion or tribe but who will do the right thing. He said God does not bordered about who you are but what you do, he said if you do the right things, God will not see you as an unbeliever but if you re believer and you did not do the right thing, God will turn his back against you. He then urge us to choose our leaders not by tribe or religion but those that will do the right thing is who we should vote for. Mr president was so uncomfortable on his seat but his mother was more reactive to the message.
I was so happy in the church today and my pastor earned a great respect from me.
Infact the pastor asked us to pray for him to do the right thing during the election.
PoliticsRe: My Dream Concerning The Outcome Of 2015 Election by Flye: 3:18pm On Jan 01, 2015
LeslieChow:
First of all, I am not a prophet so this is not a prophecy. Secondly, I am not a politician neither am I sympathetic to any political party. All I want is for our country to be great again.

Here is my dream; few days to the end of December 2014, I had a dream concerning the outcome of the coming election. In the dream, I saw 2 things clearly:

1. PDP won Lagos State
2. APC won the Presidential election

Like I said, this is not a prophecy but a dream I had and wish to share with fellow Nairalanders. If these things happen, I may have to change my name to Joseph cheesy

Please add yours if you have any political dream to share with us.
This is not just a dream, this is what everybody on the street know.
If you check the mood everywhere except southeast and probably south south you will know that the popularity of the president is like that of Yaradua's wife and the wicked ministers around her in 2009. The only thing that can change this is miracle which may come through rigging.
PoliticsRe: The Second Woman In GEJ Life That He Doesnt Want Nigeria To Know About by Flye: 3:06pm On Jan 01, 2015
masterpower:
NOT ONLY LOT BOTH BALOT BOX.
HE (JONATHAN) HAS THE RIGHT TO MARRY HOW MANY WIVES HE WISHES AS LONG AS HE CAN TAKE CARE OF THEM.
BUHARI HAS 5 WIVES AND OSINBANJA SLEEPS WITH MARRIED WOMAN IN HIS CHURCH.
Lies and character asasination is the official name of Jonathan's supporters.
They can't defend their man without forming one serious lie.
PoliticsRe: What Is Happening To TAN? by Flye: 2:52pm On Jan 01, 2015
nofij:
We should not expect a free and fair election as Jonathan can win only through rigging. It is deceit to think Buhari can beat an incumbent.
No, not in Nigeria.
Even my pastor diplomatically told him today when Jonathan came to our church. I was feeling uneasy when my pastor anouced the presence of the president in the church, but the pastor told him the truth and many church members were saying pls tell him underground. Thank God the man did not do eye service stuff with the president infact he hit him hard to the extent that the continence of the president's mother changed. My pastor earned a serious respect from me today and I'm proud of him. If all our leaders both church, mosque, traditional and tribal can be this firm, truthful, honest and fearless Nigeria would have become a better place.
PoliticsRe: There Will Be No Crisis In 2015 – Oritsejafor by Flye: 9:08am On Jan 01, 2015
After he has imported arms into the country with is private jet.
PoliticsRe: APGA, Ndigbo And Road To Political Perdition- Uche Igwe by Flye: 3:48pm On Dec 31, 2014
superstar1:
On what premise will the northern christian back GEJ again?

Has there been more cleaning of Christians in the north than now?

What is the essence of having a president, that cannot protect the so called northern christian?

These talked about Northern Christian will rather have an atheist as a president, that will be presidential enough to protect their lives and properties.
This is my problem with this present government, they are too divisive, if it is not northern christain, it will be southern minority. They think as if one religion or tribes voted him in 2011. If there is any reason why I want this government to lose, it is because of their continuous hate campaign they propagate between all the tribes in Nigeria. If in 4years they managed to stare up this hatred and division, what will they do if they stay for 10years.
PoliticsRe: INCREDIBLE: We'll Arrest Obasanjo And APC Gangsters - 'FG' by Flye: 3:38pm On Dec 31, 2014
I don't know why gej surrounded himself with poeple that lacks strategy. The same mistake they made against Ameachi, the governors forum, Tambawa etc is what they will still repeat against the opposition. Why not finish the opposition with your good achievements rather than tribalism, religion sentiment, intimidation and abuse of public institutions.

If Yaradua people had used intimidation, tribalism and religion sentiments durung 2009 struggle, will he ever smell that sit?
PoliticsRe: APGA, Ndigbo And Road To Political Perdition- Uche Igwe by Flye: 4:53am On Dec 31, 2014
The modern igbos re not politicaly inclined, they re more of business and money making minded. The few that re into politics are into it for themselves therefore they really don't have perticular agenda for being in politics unlike southwest who likes to challenge the central government politically(they may not necessarily be better than the central government they are challenging) while north likes to force things their way through political means. Majority of Igbo just picked interest in politics now a days due to Jonathan and it really shows in their actions. However no one can really point out to a perticular strategy or agenda of Igbo in politics.
PoliticsRe: Buhari Ranked Among Famous U.S Army War College Alumni By US Ranking Site by Flye: 4:32am On Dec 31, 2014
eye4eye:
Clueless or useless? It has to be one but I am not sure what you meant by ****less. I am suspecting clueless.
You can fill in what ever you like.

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