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15 Things Every Woman Has Done on a Date SEPTEMBER 12, 2014 BY STEPH STEPHS Going on a date is a trying experience for everyone. There are nerves on both sides of the table and everyone trying to figure out how to make a good impression. For us there are few things that are always bound to happen at some point on a date. We want him to like us and have this idealized view of how a good date should be. Here are 15 things that we women have done on at least one date. 1) Agonize Over the Menu www.womansday.com So for men looking at the menu probably consists of finding what looks good and ordering it. For us it’s no doubt that every menu option is analyzed. Is that one too expensive? If I order that cheeseburger with extra bacon and grilled cheese sandwiches instead of bread is he going to think I’m a pig? Maybe I’ll just order a salad…but then I’ll be hungry later, and I know he’ll notice if I order three slices of chocolate cake for dessert, you know to share. 2) Try and Be Stylish www.womansday.com On dates we look completely different than the way we do at home. If 90% of our wardrobe is jeans and Family Guy T-Shirts, we’re going to wear our one fashionable outfit or go shopping for at least the first date. We’ll go to that makeup store in the mall and get tips on how to actually apply that stuff with the brush and look our best. Even for women who are typically stylish there’s a desire to do just a little bit better for a date. 3) Worry About What to Say www.poshglam.com For some dates the comfort and ease of conversation comes easy. But for others there is a thin line between what to say and what topics are off limits. We all know not to talk about exes or sob stories and yet is it too much to reveal your boy band obsession or the fact that you own 8 cats? Will he find my job boring or does he think I talk too much? 4)Look For Clues www.nigeriana.org If it’s still early in the relationship we’re judging everything, even if we told ourselves we’re going to keep an open mind this time we’re looking for things to judge. Did he wash his hair? Does he talk nicely about his family? Did he talk too much about his mother? We want someone we’re compatible with and won’t give us more drama than we need, so at least once we’ve all hunted for some clues to our date’s personality. 5)Try to Avoid Silence www.theromancefiles.com Silence is awkward, it’s almost as awkward as talking about your ex-boyfriend’s prowess in bed in order to fill the silence. On dates it always feels like everyone around you is talking and having a great time and then we’re sitting in silence, makes the date feel like a failure. So we try and fill that silence, sometimes with things that make the silence infinitely better by comparison. 6) Look for the Spark www.verobeachhotelandspa.com I blame Disney for this one. We all want to feel it and we want to feel it often. That giddy little feeling in the pit of our stomach that lets us know this is still going good. So on every date we look for moments when that little feeling should appear or we try to create extra romantic moments for it to appear. If its date four and that feeling still hasn’t shown up then we know it’s probably not going to. 7) Update Their Friends www.diversifiedpros.com Okay so yes using the phone at the dinner table is rude, or during drinks or really during any part of the date. But if you need a way out or you just need to tell them how great it’s going or to vent, updating the friends has happened. Although the least obvious is to use the bathroom excuse and then do it there so you’re not sitting at the table staring at your phone instead of him. Fidgetwww.womansday.com Yep whether it’s nerves or the fact that we really think that flipping our hair back ten times during the same conversation makes us look confident and sexy, we all fidget. The more nerves about the date the more fidgeting. If we really like the guy then we pull out all the stops to get rid of the nervous energy and end up looking like we’re being shocked every two minutes. 9) Bail www.dailymail.co.uk So it’s going bad, really bad. So bad that you’re pretty such Godzilla charging down the street would be a vast improvement. So we’ve all done it, come up with the “Oh no my friend’s boyfriend just broke up with her, she needs me.” Or the “My grandmother fell down the stairs”. Or for those of us without fear of hurting his feelings “Look I’m just gonna go now.” 10) Stare www.blogs.citypages.com Well we don’t mean to stare. We’re just trying to be polite and maintain eye contact..but then our mind wanders or we’re nervous and end up staring with an expression that looks like we ran into a frying pan. 11) Smile www.gettyimages.com We smile. We smile when we’re looking for the nearest exit. We smile when we’re really thinking whoever we are with really just insane and we smile when we’re having a good time. If there’s anything we have done on a date in spades, its smile 12) Try and Weed Out DealBreakers www.susanarscott.com We all have deal breakers, things we will automatically stop the relationship if any of these are present. Sure there’s the biggies of drugs and abuse, but then there’s the fact that he thinks the men of Duck Dynasty should be canonized or that he uses Star Trek quotes in every conversation. So we always try and plant a few obvious but still obscure questions or tricks to try and see if any of those deal breakers are there. 13) Try and Sound Smarter www.sheknows.com It never fails we’re on a date with a guy we really like or a guy who has seventeen doctorates and you just want to leave a good impression. But then we start saying things like Turkey is next to Madagascar and that the square root of 847 is really five, just because we’re trying to talk out of our comfort zone to sound smarter. Next time we’ll stick to whatever Jon Stewart talked about last night. 14) Arrive Late www.sheknows.com The truth is as women we don’t always arrive late because we’re trying to be fashionable or act like our time is more valuable. Nope it’s because we’re scattered brained, indecisive and can’t figure out which way is up because we have so much on our minds. Therefore after 30 wardrobe changes, traffic and missing the turn we’ve arrived late for more than one date. 15) Worn Something Uncomfortable www.foxnews.com Whether it’s those high heels that cause blisters, the bra with the slightly exposed underwire or the itchy blouse that you can’t actually get out of by yourself, we’ve all worn something uncomfortable on a date. Then we inevitably spend the entire date trying to feel less uncomfortable and still enjoy the date. It rarely works out in our favor. Finally: Going on a date is a trying experience for everyone. There are nerves on both sides of the table and everyone trying to figure out how to make a good impression. For us there are few things that are always bound to happen at some point on a date. We want him to like us and have this idealized view of how a good date should be. Here are 15 things that we women have done on at least one date. |
kestolove95:Oboy the guy was seriously hammered yesterday by the pastor of that church, I was there live and direct intact he was just beating around the bush after the pastor told him the truth. |
obyrich:I hail your point, I'm not Igbo but all the tribes in Nigeria dance to the tune of tribalism and it is our useless leaders that fuel that. To common man on the street nothing like tribalism or religion but when our useless leaders from across all ethnic divides want to eat their cake and have it, they sing tribalistic game and religions sentint while we dance to it. |
Which Fani Kayode, the same Fani kayode with corruption charges? Woow this is excellent. |
I don't know why our government aides are so desperate to do bad things. |
Until we demand what with our actions, our leaders will continue to mismanage our country. Irrespective of the party PDP, APC, apga, labour party etc are all the same but we need to put them into oder by voting them in or out. |
That is resource wasting away while we complain of over dependent on crude oil. |
We don't need newyork dalies to tell us b4 we know that our government does not want to fight BH in Nigeria for whatever reasons best known to them. |
The panel biter no try @all. |
FastShipping:It's good for all this men to say the truth otherwise Nigeria will continue to fall. My pastor also said the same thing yesterday. |
I hope INEC will allow the best candidate to win. If it is PDP or APC the voice and the choice of the people must be respected. |
Chanchit: ![]() |
After 6years in office with a lot swept under carpet. |
Marvin67:WoooooooooW!!!!!!! You are the most intelligent Gej's fan I have ever seen. If many of his people thinks like you do, Jonathan does not need all this dirty politics, he would have won with landslide vote but the clueless fans and his media aid re so dull that they create more enemies than than friends. Imagine because opposition stressed Jeg weaknesses they termed it hatred(Muslim/Christian or minority/majority) instead of them to sing the praise of his strength. Honestly it is an honor to have a debate with you. |
Must we bring religion into this issue? Gwoosshhh! I hate this administration for this gutter politics they play. Tell us what is bad about osinbanjo, why we should not vote for him and why your candidate is better than him and I will listen. |
Marvin67:I know all this, that is why I said "i don't know if it will affect the presidential election" but you must still take it to account that apart from tribal /religion sentiment issue PDP has performed woefully. opposition may not necessarily be an angel but we can't keep voting base on religion or tribal sentiment. Infact the reason why I hate this administration more is because of this silly religion and tribal sentimental politics they play. I prefer you tell me what you have done and what you intend to do than saying I'm Yoruba or Hausa or Igbo or eficki Ibibio edo etc. It breeds hatred, prejudice and division most importantly it gives a false information that the government in concern has not done anything. I prefer a government who blows his wistle louder than it achievement than a government who rely on division tactics and uses of what ever sentiment to get people's interest. |
Marvin67:Look I'm not based in Southwest, I'm based in Abuja and you can feel it around even in fct, we went to Benue and people were complaining as hell although most of their anger is against there state governor but they just feel PDP is the problem I don't know if it will have any effect on the presidential election though. |
double0seven:Not crossover night but first year service which started around 10am and ended after 12. It's Dunamis international gospel centre in area 1garki and the name of the pastor is Dr Paul Eneche. Mind you he was very diplomatic about it but he passed the message. |
Akinsz:My brother it is a long story but at the end he urged the church to ask God to give him wisdom and courage to do the right things during and after election. |
Marvin67:exactly!!!!! If you relate that to the way they re playing religion politics and what other pastors he went to their churches as been saying, you will understand me. Also he said some bitter truth about how Nigeria is being managed. The good thing is that he did not mention his name but for the fact that the president is on the sit and a pastor is preaching about a bad leadership and visionary leaders means a lot. |
Dbboy:But he came to the church for obvious reason and the man passed the obvious message. I don't see anything bad in that, if all our social leaders(church, mosque, traditional and tribal) have been this honest, firm and fearless we wouldn't have been this backward in Nigeria. |
penisilin:If true then this is the third respected man of God that will say such a thing in just two months. |
omenka:I may not be surprised if he said so because it happened life and direct in my presence today in our church. Although our pastor did not call his name neither does he say it derectly but he passed the message to the people and the president. The president took it calmly but his mother was not happy with the sermon. |
The same thing happened in my church today even in the presence of the president himself. Dunamis pastor Dr Paul Eneche said it is not about religion or tribe but who will do the right thing. He said God does not bordered about who you are but what you do, he said if you do the right things, God will not see you as an unbeliever but if you re believer and you did not do the right thing, God will turn his back against you. He then urge us to choose our leaders not by tribe or religion but those that will do the right thing is who we should vote for. Mr president was so uncomfortable on his seat but his mother was more reactive to the message. I was so happy in the church today and my pastor earned a great respect from me. Infact the pastor asked us to pray for him to do the right thing during the election. |
LeslieChow:This is not just a dream, this is what everybody on the street know. If you check the mood everywhere except southeast and probably south south you will know that the popularity of the president is like that of Yaradua's wife and the wicked ministers around her in 2009. The only thing that can change this is miracle which may come through rigging. |
masterpower:Lies and character asasination is the official name of Jonathan's supporters. They can't defend their man without forming one serious lie. |
nofij:Even my pastor diplomatically told him today when Jonathan came to our church. I was feeling uneasy when my pastor anouced the presence of the president in the church, but the pastor told him the truth and many church members were saying pls tell him underground. Thank God the man did not do eye service stuff with the president infact he hit him hard to the extent that the continence of the president's mother changed. My pastor earned a serious respect from me today and I'm proud of him. If all our leaders both church, mosque, traditional and tribal can be this firm, truthful, honest and fearless Nigeria would have become a better place. |
After he has imported arms into the country with is private jet. |
superstar1:This is my problem with this present government, they are too divisive, if it is not northern christain, it will be southern minority. They think as if one religion or tribes voted him in 2011. If there is any reason why I want this government to lose, it is because of their continuous hate campaign they propagate between all the tribes in Nigeria. If in 4years they managed to stare up this hatred and division, what will they do if they stay for 10years. |
I don't know why gej surrounded himself with poeple that lacks strategy. The same mistake they made against Ameachi, the governors forum, Tambawa etc is what they will still repeat against the opposition. Why not finish the opposition with your good achievements rather than tribalism, religion sentiment, intimidation and abuse of public institutions. If Yaradua people had used intimidation, tribalism and religion sentiments durung 2009 struggle, will he ever smell that sit? |
The modern igbos re not politicaly inclined, they re more of business and money making minded. The few that re into politics are into it for themselves therefore they really don't have perticular agenda for being in politics unlike southwest who likes to challenge the central government politically(they may not necessarily be better than the central government they are challenging) while north likes to force things their way through political means. Majority of Igbo just picked interest in politics now a days due to Jonathan and it really shows in their actions. However no one can really point out to a perticular strategy or agenda of Igbo in politics. |
eye4eye:You can fill in what ever you like. |
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