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Nairaland General › Re: Women Are Not Good Customer Service People - Feminist Complains by folake4u: 8:13pm On Sep 03
Madam sit this one out, this has nothing to do with feminism.

I've also met horrible male customer service representatives.

In my line of work, I have male colleagues who interact with stakeholders and they talk to their fellow man like trash, when yawa don gas, everybody calls me to step in and resolve issues.

The quality of service is not gender based truly.
Family › Re: My Desperation For Baby Made Me See The Dark World In Nigeria Woman Narrated by folake4u: 8:06pm On Sep 03
Karleb:
She could have just adopted a young child. undecided undecided
Didn't you read where it was mentioned that adoption in Nigeria is a rigorous journey?
Business › Re: Uber Exits Nigeria After 12 Years by folake4u: 3:38pm On Sep 02
12 years already?

Their prices were extremely low at a point, and I used to genuinely wonder how their drivers made money from the app.
Crime › Re: Chioma Ononiwu Apologises To Victor Ebele Jnr Over False Rape Accusations by folake4u: 9:01pm On Sep 01
I'm a strong advocate of having intimate relations with people who have a lot to lose. This one clearly don't have anything to lose and wants to trend for the wrong reasons.

Rape accusation is not hot moi-moi you drop and pick up later.

Her actions will most definitely make genuine rape victims have difficulty in getting justice.
Celebrities › Re: Blogger Ifeoma Meets Pa Ned Nwoko In His House (Photo) by folake4u: 4:17pm On Aug 31
GloriousGbola:
With this sarewagba skirt and this certified randy man I think zaddy Ned is the appellation you are looking for
What is this? 😂😂

But that skirt nor too short nau.
Romance › Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by folake4u: 1:51pm On Aug 31
Private and intimate proposals.

I don't like being the centre of attention, I'd be shy. 😂
Celebrities › Re: Blogger Ifeoma Meets Pa Ned Nwoko In His House (Photo) by folake4u: 1:48pm On Aug 31
"Pa Ned"? I find it amusing.😄

Is he no longer Senator Ned?
Romance › Re: Neighbours Help Side Chick Escape As Wife Returns Home Unexpectedly by folake4u: 1:44pm On Aug 31
BRATISLAVA:
You too!

Lovely week to rise and shine!
Thank you.

You garrit!
Romance › Re: Neighbours Help Side Chick Escape As Wife Returns Home Unexpectedly by folake4u: 1:17pm On Aug 31
BRATISLAVA:
grin grin grin
I hope you're doing well today.

Have a great week ahead.
Romance › Re: Neighbours Help Side Chick Escape As Wife Returns Home Unexpectedly by folake4u: 6:04pm On Aug 30
smasher1:
Actions( from the video )speaks louder than voice.
Na so. undecided undecided
Romance › Re: Neighbours Help Side Chick Escape As Wife Returns Home Unexpectedly by folake4u: 6:01pm On Aug 30
BRATISLAVA:
Well, you can expect that energy because they don't know that the person running off is their wife.
Lmao Bratis, see where you go hang ball. 😂😂
Family › Re: "My 70-year-old Dad Is Marrying 35-year-old Side Chick, I Found Out On Facebook" by folake4u: 9:09pm On Aug 29
Gerrard59:
lol

It does not with me, but it sure has irritated some people in the past because to them, "I ask too many questions". My response to them is: "I just want to know; that is all. We learn better by knowing all the information".
E reach for irritation matter o. 😂
Romance › Re: I Don't Like Being Hugged by folake4u: 7:38pm On Aug 29
doggedfighter:
Why won't they ?

From the few pinshures you have shown, you look cuddly so you won't stop attracting them so go learn, girl !
😂😂😂😂😂

No lies told, I've been told I'm "real life teddy bear".

Okay okay, I'd learn, stop shouting. 😂😂😂😂
Family › Re: "My 70-year-old Dad Is Marrying 35-year-old Side Chick, I Found Out On Facebook" by folake4u: 7:33pm On Aug 29
[quote author=Gerrard59 post=140482963]The algorithms work across all platforms. grin

, They're truly listening to our conversations. cheesy
Family › Re: "My 70-year-old Dad Is Marrying 35-year-old Side Chick, I Found Out On Facebook" by folake4u: 7:32pm On Aug 29
Gerrard59:
I wholly agree. las las, both genders should marry based on shared values.


I am curious to know what is sexual attraction from your perspective.
Exactly 💯. EOD. I just wish people are true to themselves/desires from the get go.

Lol Gerrard, you're always curious. Curiosity kills the cat. Hope you know that? 🙃
Phones › Re: Whatsapp To Charge Businesses Per Message From October 1 by folake4u: 4:50pm On Aug 29
Image123:
When telegram never die?
Many business owners don't use Telegram as a primary channel for communication.
Romance › Re: Neighbours Help Side Chick Escape As Wife Returns Home Unexpectedly by folake4u: 4:27pm On Aug 29
Why's everyone up there assuming that the man's wife is wicked or ill mannered?

What if she's actually a kind soul.

Anyways, I'm not surprised, you lots justify rubbish all the time.
Romance › Re: I Don't Like Being Hugged by folake4u: 4:13pm On Aug 29
doggedfighter:
I am big on hugs

It warms me

Cuddling too
I'm not much a physical touch person. I cringe when unknown people touch me, talkless of extending arms for hugging.

But strangely, I give hugs to only people I'm comfortable with.

I don't cuddle, don't like it either, but will learn it since I've been coming across men who like cuddling. Lol.
Family › Re: "My 70-year-old Dad Is Marrying 35-year-old Side Chick, I Found Out On Facebook" by folake4u: 3:45pm On Aug 29
Gerrard59:
We are of different genders. I try not to have a say on women's reproductive topics because I don't have a lived experience. I only rely on scientific journals, and even before reading them, I ask my sister "how far? Na so this thing dey do women?" How both genders react to sexual hormones is markedly different.


Any man who denies his wife sex or disregards her complaints; anything he sees, he should take it like that. It is dishonest for a partner to deny the other sexual intercourse or disregard their concerns. I have read a few such complaints from married women, and I feel disgust for the men involved, as it is grossly unfair. Both parties wouldn't be lamenting if the issues had been addressed as they deem fit.


I am glad you accept that it happens.


To be fair, the last part of this line applies to men from different walks of life and countries. "Knack well" is subjective, though. It is left for wives to tell their husbands how they want to be knacked.


Is this pot belly, bad breath, body odour, bushy pubic parts, one boxer per week thing? Or something else like facial appearance? I am trying to understand where "sexual attraction" lies, or what it means from a woman's or your perspective.
And how many men can stand it when women tell them the truth about not being pleasured appropriately.

Talk is cheap and we live in Nigeria where the society is hypocritical and the average citizen a prude, let a woman tell her husband that she's not getting sexual satisfaction and watch the man's ego deflated. Why do you think most women lie to men or fake moans/orgasm face? Y'all can't stand your ego being bruised.

Like you earlier said on "Knacking", sexual attraction is subjective.
Family › Re: "My 70-year-old Dad Is Marrying 35-year-old Side Chick, I Found Out On Facebook" by folake4u: 10:19pm On Aug 28
pocohantas:
I saw the post on Tiktok and didn't even bother commenting, but one comment stood out. The lady said men will punish you for being stoopid and not valuing yourself. It is the women who think there is any award for virtuously pandering to a community husband I pity. The day he sees another woman who ticks it for him, he would dump you. He would only return if that one doesn't work out.
Succinctly put.

That comment alone deserves to be framed and hung on the wall of every sensible Nigerian woman's house.
Sports › Re: Who Is The Best Football Coach Ever? by folake4u: 4:45pm On Aug 28
Twoclans:
The special one,the only one.Jose muorinho.
You know it, boo.
Family › Re: "My 70-year-old Dad Is Marrying 35-year-old Side Chick, I Found Out On Facebook" by folake4u: 4:21pm On Aug 28
pocohantas:
Is it every man sexually satisfying his wife? Abi na because women no dey talk.

If at all this man is sexually starved, let's flip it, can he by any chance satisfy a woman half his age? Or would Gerrard type same thing if this 35yo lady starts cheating on the man next year?

Men just hate to tell themselves the truth. They will hide behind biology, culture and religion to reinforce wrongdoings. Then act surprised that women take measures to protect themselves from this sort of betrayal. This man's first wife is one of the mother's of old they want us to emulate for a happy marriage, but not one of them have spared a thought for her.
I'm waiting for Gerrard to respond to my questions, one by one.

What is mind boggling here is Men deceiving themselves that women forgive cheating, when indeed, many females play the long game.
Sports › Re: Who Is The Best Football Coach Ever? by folake4u: 1:54pm On Aug 28
Jose Mourinho for me.

Love him to pieces.
Entertainment › Re: Women Smoke In Viral “Puff” Challenge, Spark Reactions by folake4u: 1:46pm On Aug 28
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
So there are men who actually date bannies like these who smoke like engine wey their piston and rings don condemn? angry.
What's the fuss here? I believe there's a woman for every man and likewise.

I've seen married couples who smoke, it is not a big deal to them.
TV/Movies › Re: FG Bans Premiere Of New Movie ‘Living In Colors,' Explains Reason by folake4u: 1:28pm On Aug 28
Now I'm interested in watching it.

Stolen apples taste the sweetest indeed.
Politics › Re: Falana Faults NBA Over Verydarkman’s Conference Invitation, VDM Reacts by folake4u:
It is quite sad that the NBA is tilting towards Clout chasing and controversy.

This nonsense started at the NBA conference in Abuja (2023) when they brought Portable to the night show for entertainment. I was having a good time dancing at the live performance until he stepped on stage to my greatest horror. Many of the lawyers walked out, it was embarrassing.

These days, the NBA conference is more of networking, catching up with friends/colleagues, genitali@ meet/greet etc.
Family › Re: "My 70-year-old Dad Is Marrying 35-year-old Side Chick, I Found Out On Facebook" by folake4u: 1:13pm On Aug 28
Gerrard59:
A healthy man will always have sexual urges as long as he is alive. If he does not get the chance to ejaculate naturally with his wife, he will be compelled to go outside. If such a man can adequately fund that exercise, fine by me. Not informing his wife is the bad aspect, but biology says go outside. The tales I have read from even younger men whose wives deny them sex are astonishing. Then imagine an older woman.
I don't think Biology says go outside.

Would your answer be the same where a woman has a high libido and doesn't get the satisfaction she desires in her matrimonial home, and she goes outside to satisfy her sexual urges?

Certainly, I know that there are examples of married women who deny their husbands of their conjugal obligations, however, let's not also forget that there are variety of reasons why this happens.

For starters, how many Nigerian men can knaçk very well? Many of them aren't even skilled in the lovemaking act, and just want to c_m and it's over.

We haven't even talked about sexual attraction yet.

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