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Music/Radio / Re: Life & Times Of Jim Reeves(August 20, 1923 – July 31, 1964); by folake4u(f): 4:08pm On Aug 18 |
I grew up listening to Jim Reeves music. My favourites include: 1. We Thank Thee. 2. Take My Hand Precious Lord. 3. I'll Fly Away. 4. This World Is Not My Home. (My least favourite cos they were always using this song in obituary posters). 5. Where We’ll Never Grow Old. 5 Likes 1 Share |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Chelsea Vs Manchester City (0 - 2) On 18th August 2024 by folake4u(f): 3:42pm On Aug 18 |
Chelsea, make me happy today.
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Romance / Re: I Cannot Date A Girl When The Issue Of Her Hair Budgets Is Directed To Me by folake4u(f): 3:37pm On Aug 18 |
Gerrard59: Omo. Make every family do wetin go work for them abeg. Oh wow. The Japanese women do not like strangers living with them? Interesting. You seeeeeeeeeeeee!!! That Motherhood Penalty is so real. Fair points. Sometimes I wonder how lawyers in Bauchi, Taraba, Zamfara and the rest thrive. |
Sports / Re: Chelsea Vs Man City by folake4u(f): 3:25pm On Aug 18 |
Chelsea, please behave today. |
Education / Re: Top WAEC Scorers In 2009 And Where They Are Today by folake4u(f): 2:57pm On Aug 18 |
Pojomojo: O gbo. |
Education / Re: Top WAEC Scorers In 2009 And Where They Are Today by folake4u(f): 2:53pm On Aug 18 |
Amazing thread, Gerrard59. The Brain Drain is real. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Cannot Date A Girl When The Issue Of Her Hair Budgets Is Directed To Me by folake4u(f): 2:48pm On Aug 18 |
Gerrard59: I still don't see any reason women have to choose. Also, Daycare is expensive abroad. We all know that, but from my previous response, I was talking about a family based in Nigeria. So getting a nanny, preferably an elderly lady shouldn't be a problem. Lol, I'm not married. What I meant by that is I grew up with a nanny, my mum's a career woman and she didn't pause her career just because she had us as kids. There was the nanny to support us till we reached a reasonable age. Hence, that worked for me and others who grew up with nannies. No, I didn't check the article but now that you've mentioned, I'd check it out. Oh yeah. Private schools are doing well with their students. I have a couple of friends from private schools who have gotten their LLM before reaching 25. Very applaudable. |
Romance / Re: I Cannot Date A Girl When The Issue Of Her Hair Budgets Is Directed To Me by folake4u(f): 9:29am On Aug 18 |
Lorayne: Hahahaha if you nor get money...... |
Romance / Re: I Cannot Date A Girl When The Issue Of Her Hair Budgets Is Directed To Me by folake4u(f): 9:24am On Aug 18 |
Gerrard59: What do you mean when she reaches childbearing? And who says the modern woman have to choose between being married and having children versus being career-focused? It can work if the husband is also supportive, they could also employ a help to assist with work at home. It worked for me and many others. So I don't see any reason why women have to choose? She's worked in law firms and a multinational company. Oh yes, Babcock University. She isn't even 25 yet. |
Romance / Re: I Cannot Date A Girl When The Issue Of Her Hair Budgets Is Directed To Me by folake4u(f): 9:57pm On Aug 17 |
Tallesty1: I'm glad that you acknowledged that a man who asks his wife to abandon her career is selfish. However, this happens a lot. @ the bolded. I thought Marriage was meant to be a partnership? There are lot of marriages that women contribute immensely to the family growth. And if he feels that she's not playing her role, it is something that can be discussed as a couple. Communication is still KEY. As a matter of fact, I do not subscribe to the idea of a man telling his wife to quit her job because he "feels" she's not managing the home front well. If at all that should happen, it should be on HER OWN TERMS otherwise, there will be resentment on her part. It really isn't easy for a career woman to take a pause from her career to focus on the family, by the time she's spent substantial amount of years raising the kids and want to resume the work force, a lot of changes have happened and how is she going to explain the career gap to hiring agencies? Infact all these talks about finances and responsibilities are part of courtship questions that many couples these days shy away from, rather they focus on chaff and not the wheat. It's best the talks start from this stage so you actually know what you're heading into. If a man wants a house wife, I see nothing wrong with that actually. My own is that he should also find a woman who consents, is willing, ready and loves being a house wife. In simple terms, there's agreement on both parties and no coercion from a single party. It is good for women to set their standards. And it is also good for men to set their standards and have preference. The point I'm trying to make is that let there be a consensus ad idem; a meeting of the mind with clear mutual understanding from both sides. Look for the person that wants what you want as well. Period! 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Cannot Date A Girl When The Issue Of Her Hair Budgets Is Directed To Me by folake4u(f): 9:11pm On Aug 17 |
pocohantas: I know right. They won't go and meet the ladies that want to be full time housewives, instead they target working class women and try to subdue them for their insincere intent. Some men are like an exotic bird collector, they only want women who are free because their dream is to put her in a cage. 😂😂😂 E fit be him elder brother sef. 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Cannot Date A Girl When The Issue Of Her Hair Budgets Is Directed To Me by folake4u(f): 8:30pm On Aug 17 |
pocohantas: I know right. My friend is in talking stage with a man and he told her straight up that if they get married, she'd resign from her job to be a full time house wife. This is someone who's a lawyer, has an MBA from Lagos Business School, and currently doing her Online Masters from a foreign University. All these achievements and she's not even 25 yet. She was shocked, I told her she never see anything yet. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: What's That Language You Love But Can't Speak? by folake4u(f): 7:11pm On Aug 17 |
Maliklito: My gawd.😂😂😂😂😂😂 1 Like |
Family / Re: What's That Language You Love But Can't Speak? by folake4u(f): 7:11pm On Aug 17 |
Spanish. Korean. Igbo. |
Romance / Re: I Cannot Date A Girl When The Issue Of Her Hair Budgets Is Directed To Me by folake4u(f): 7:08pm On Aug 17 |
Tallesty1: About the bolded, we've seen times without number that there exist some men who aren't comfortable in women earning more than them because of ego issues. Also, some men have stated their preference about their partner being a full time house wife, making the woman abandon her budding career. I'd still stand on my word that there are some men that feel insecure around women that are doing well for themselves. Dressing the part for self esteem is a confidence booster, and it should be imbibed by both gender. About dressing to outdo the next woman? That I cannot say because it doesn't apply to all females. Matter of fact, it doesn't apply to one gender alone. Men size their fellow men to gauge their level of wealth and sometimes in secret competition with each other. There, I said it. 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Cannot Date A Girl When The Issue Of Her Hair Budgets Is Directed To Me by folake4u(f): 10:39am On Aug 17 |
Proserpina: Yes oh. Good morning to you too, Pee. |
Phones / Re: Meta AI: I Like This, But There Is A Side Effect (Photos) by folake4u(f): 10:28am On Aug 17 |
Tallesty1: Nor be una fault. Na so them sell Joseph for Bible be this. Tallesty1 and Nazgul, the wicked brothers. |
Romance / Re: I Cannot Date A Girl When The Issue Of Her Hair Budgets Is Directed To Me by folake4u(f): 9:30pm On Aug 16 |
Proserpina: My sister, I tire too. If you add "with my hard earned money", problem, if you nor add am, problem still. You can't please them really. Lmao. It is finished for him indeed. He go dey alright, no worry. You getttttt?! Both gender help each other and even the ladies helping men or others, they don't carry placards or post it on the board at Muri Okunola Park. Empty vessels (men) make the loudest noise. The ones spending on their women nor dey too talk. The real Odogwu silencer. |
Romance / Re: I Cannot Date A Girl When The Issue Of Her Hair Budgets Is Directed To Me by folake4u(f): 9:03pm On Aug 16 |
Proserpina: @ the bolded. You getttttt!!! We don't find it necessary to add such to the convos or brag about it. They always complain about "broke" women, oya change your environment and people you hang out with? Noooo. Some of them feel insecure around women that are doing well for themselves. Na their type dey give their understanding girlfriend 1k to do all back from January to December but side chick go dey use deep curl 20 inches wig. 1 Like |
Phones / Re: Meta AI: I Like This, But There Is A Side Effect (Photos) by folake4u(f): 8:55pm On Aug 16 |
Romance / Re: I Cannot Date A Girl When The Issue Of Her Hair Budgets Is Directed To Me by folake4u(f): 8:53pm On Aug 16 |
Proserpina: Yes baby. Your self esteem rising because you know you look good. 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: I Cannot Date A Girl When The Issue Of Her Hair Budgets Is Directed To Me by folake4u(f): 7:52pm On Aug 16 |
Proserpina: I know right. I already have hairstyle that I'd do next month till year ending. I don plan am for my head already. Hair takes one's dressing from 0 to 100. 💯 |
Romance / Re: I Cannot Date A Girl When The Issue Of Her Hair Budgets Is Directed To Me by folake4u(f): 7:39pm On Aug 16 |
Proserpina: Me too. See me go do long passion twists for 20k two weeks ago. I said to myself, "If I perish, I perish". |
Family / Re: My Sister Has Been Finding It Difficult To Forgive Our Aunt. by folake4u(f): 7:24pm On Aug 16 |
TheFreshVanilla: Na this one be my concern too. |
Phones / Re: Meta AI: I Like This, But There Is A Side Effect (Photos) by folake4u(f): 6:51pm On Aug 16 |
GloriousGbola: Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved. |
Phones / Re: Meta AI: I Like This, But There Is A Side Effect (Photos) by folake4u(f): 6:42pm On Aug 16 |
Nazgul: Lol, don't worry about me. |
Phones / Re: Meta AI: I Like This, But There Is A Side Effect (Photos) by folake4u(f): 4:31pm On Aug 16 |
Nazgul: I like it like that. |
Phones / Re: Meta AI: I Like This, But There Is A Side Effect (Photos) by folake4u(f): 3:24pm On Aug 16 |
Nazgul: That one is in the 80s. The naira has devalued greatly. Looool. You're a clown. |
Phones / Re: Meta AI: I Like This, But There Is A Side Effect (Photos) by folake4u(f): 2:53pm On Aug 16 |
Nazgul: 5k ke? Na for recharge card or wetin? My kinsmen will send you away. I nor dey explain pass that one abeg. |
Phones / Re: Meta AI: I Like This, But There Is A Side Effect (Photos) by folake4u(f): 2:33pm On Aug 16 |
Nazgul: Nor be me you dey talk to sha. I nor dey carry belly out of wedlock. Lol. Sometimes, your head dey skip for your hot takes. |
Phones / Re: Meta AI: I Like This, But There Is A Side Effect (Photos) by folake4u(f): 1:56pm On Aug 16 |
Nazgul: It seems you're in love with me Nazgul, this one you dey mention me every Eke market day. Yes, you're controversial. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Can Someone Earning ₦21M Monthly Afford This Garage? by folake4u(f): 6:09am On Aug 16 |
Gerrard59: Lol. I'm not surprised that there's someone out there that "looks up" to Dino. There are lots of people on social media that love the flashy lifestyle he flaunts online without actually knowing the source. 1 Like |
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