Romance › Re: I Don't Like Being Hugged by folake4u: 4:13pm On Aug 29 |
doggedfighter: I am big on hugs
It warms me
Cuddling too I'm not much a physical touch person. I cringe when unknown people touch me, talkless of extending arms for hugging. But strangely, I give hugs to only people I'm comfortable with. I don't cuddle, don't like it either, but will learn it since I've been coming across men who like cuddling. Lol. |
Family › Re: "My 70-year-old Dad Is Marrying 35-year-old Side Chick, I Found Out On Facebook" by folake4u: 3:45pm On Aug 29 |
Gerrard59: We are of different genders. I try not to have a say on women's reproductive topics because I don't have a lived experience. I only rely on scientific journals, and even before reading them, I ask my sister "how far? Na so this thing dey do women?" How both genders react to sexual hormones is markedly different.
Any man who denies his wife sex or disregards her complaints; anything he sees, he should take it like that. It is dishonest for a partner to deny the other sexual intercourse or disregard their concerns. I have read a few such complaints from married women, and I feel disgust for the men involved, as it is grossly unfair. Both parties wouldn't be lamenting if the issues had been addressed as they deem fit.
I am glad you accept that it happens.
To be fair, the last part of this line applies to men from different walks of life and countries. "Knack well" is subjective, though. It is left for wives to tell their husbands how they want to be knacked.
Is this pot belly, bad breath, body odour, bushy pubic parts, one boxer per week thing? Or something else like facial appearance? I am trying to understand where "sexual attraction" lies, or what it means from a woman's or your perspective. And how many men can stand it when women tell them the truth about not being pleasured appropriately. Talk is cheap and we live in Nigeria where the society is hypocritical and the average citizen a prude, let a woman tell her husband that she's not getting sexual satisfaction and watch the man's ego deflated. Why do you think most women lie to men or fake moans/orgasm face? Y'all can't stand your ego being bruised. Like you earlier said on "Knacking", sexual attraction is subjective. |
Family › Re: "My 70-year-old Dad Is Marrying 35-year-old Side Chick, I Found Out On Facebook" by folake4u: 10:19pm On Aug 28 |
pocohantas: I saw the post on Tiktok and didn't even bother commenting, but one comment stood out. The lady said men will punish you for being stoopid and not valuing yourself. It is the women who think there is any award for virtuously pandering to a community husband I pity. The day he sees another woman who ticks it for him, he would dump you. He would only return if that one doesn't work out. Succinctly put. That comment alone deserves to be framed and hung on the wall of every sensible Nigerian woman's house. |
Sports › Re: Who Is The Best Football Coach Ever? by folake4u: 4:45pm On Aug 28 |
Twoclans: The special one,the only one.Jose muorinho. You know it, boo. |
Family › Re: "My 70-year-old Dad Is Marrying 35-year-old Side Chick, I Found Out On Facebook" by folake4u: 4:21pm On Aug 28 |
pocohantas: Is it every man sexually satisfying his wife? Abi na because women no dey talk.
If at all this man is sexually starved, let's flip it, can he by any chance satisfy a woman half his age? Or would Gerrard type same thing if this 35yo lady starts cheating on the man next year?
Men just hate to tell themselves the truth. They will hide behind biology, culture and religion to reinforce wrongdoings. Then act surprised that women take measures to protect themselves from this sort of betrayal. This man's first wife is one of the mother's of old they want us to emulate for a happy marriage, but not one of them have spared a thought for her. I'm waiting for Gerrard to respond to my questions, one by one. What is mind boggling here is Men deceiving themselves that women forgive cheating, when indeed, many females play the long game. |
Sports › Re: Who Is The Best Football Coach Ever? by folake4u: 1:54pm On Aug 28 |
Jose Mourinho for me.
Love him to pieces. |
Entertainment › Re: Women Smoke In Viral “Puff” Challenge, Spark Reactions by folake4u: 1:46pm On Aug 28 |
Sonnobax15:
 So there are men who actually date bannies like these who smoke like engine wey their piston and rings don condemn? . What's the fuss here? I believe there's a woman for every man and likewise. I've seen married couples who smoke, it is not a big deal to them. |
TV/Movies › Re: FG Bans Premiere Of New Movie ‘Living In Colors,' Explains Reason by folake4u: 1:28pm On Aug 28 |
Now I'm interested in watching it.
Stolen apples taste the sweetest indeed. |
Politics › Re: Falana Faults NBA Over Verydarkman’s Conference Invitation, VDM Reacts by folake4u: 1:22pm On Aug 28*. Modified: 1:41pm On Aug 28 |
It is quite sad that the NBA is tilting towards Clout chasing and controversy.
This nonsense started at the NBA conference in Abuja (2023) when they brought Portable to the night show for entertainment. I was having a good time dancing at the live performance until he stepped on stage to my greatest horror. Many of the lawyers walked out, it was embarrassing.
These days, the NBA conference is more of networking, catching up with friends/colleagues, genitali@ meet/greet etc. |
Family › Re: "My 70-year-old Dad Is Marrying 35-year-old Side Chick, I Found Out On Facebook" by folake4u: 1:13pm On Aug 28 |
Gerrard59: A healthy man will always have sexual urges as long as he is alive. If he does not get the chance to ejaculate naturally with his wife, he will be compelled to go outside. If such a man can adequately fund that exercise, fine by me. Not informing his wife is the bad aspect, but biology says go outside. The tales I have read from even younger men whose wives deny them sex are astonishing. Then imagine an older woman. I don't think Biology says go outside. Would your answer be the same where a woman has a high libido and doesn't get the satisfaction she desires in her matrimonial home, and she goes outside to satisfy her sexual urges? Certainly, I know that there are examples of married women who deny their husbands of their conjugal obligations, however, let's not also forget that there are variety of reasons why this happens. For starters, how many Nigerian men can knaçk very well? Many of them aren't even skilled in the lovemaking act, and just want to c_m and it's over. We haven't even talked about sexual attraction yet. |
Family › Re: "My 70-year-old Dad Is Marrying 35-year-old Side Chick, I Found Out On Facebook" by folake4u: 11:56pm On Aug 27 |
Gerrard59: We will learn biology by force. And what is the biology to be learnt here? |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by folake4u: 7:30pm On Aug 27 |
GloriousGbola: What is your subscription? Asking the real questions here. Under the subscription of God. 🙏 |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by folake4u: 7:29pm On Aug 27 |
izzou: Depends on the location nau
Nail tech at Akpakpava or AbuleEgba will struggle to pay 700k for man nau  Lol why did you use two extreme places😭? Anyways, even in an average location, those people make money. Women must make hair, fix nails and do lashes. I know how much I spend on beauty maintenance monthly. Them dey bill me. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by folake4u: 7:27pm On Aug 27 |
Kaczynski: Yea, money gotten by the bedside. Your sisters must be doing such for you to have an idea of that. How brilliant. 😄 |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by folake4u: 7:14pm On Aug 27 |
izzou: Ladies into lash tech, nails, hair braiding and sales girls - Regular - 70k
Ladies in the corporate space; lawyers, bankers etc - Premium - 350k
Ladies who are CEOs...Tech baddies, Dollar earning freelancers - Premium - 700k And who told you that lash tech, nails and hair braiders aren't eating good? Izu, those people have money o. |
Travel › Re: N30,000 Lagos Airport-Ikeja Fare Sparks Outrage by folake4u: 7:30pm On Aug 26 |
Lol to even park your car within the premises is N3,500. |
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Celebrities › Re: Beyond The Breasts: The Untold Story Of Nollywood Actress Cossy Orjiakor by folake4u: 3:40pm On Aug 26 |
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Celebrities › Re: Beyond The Breasts: The Untold Story Of Nollywood Actress Cossy Orjiakor by folake4u: 3:25pm On Aug 26 |
ednut1: former senate president from a middle belt state and former military officer lol. Had same first name with someone that sang dami duro 😂 Eyyyyy.  |
Celebrities › Re: Beyond The Breasts: The Untold Story Of Nollywood Actress Cossy Orjiakor by folake4u: 3:24pm On Aug 26 |
Silentgroper: Is she not the one called afrocandy??
She now lives abroad ..
Her video still full xvideos..
Someone showed it to me . Afrocandy is not Cossy. Two separate women. Lol. |
Romance › Re: The Best Time To Look For A Wife Is When You Don't Have Money by folake4u: 11:52am On Aug 26 |
Spiff20: This is not about humility or loyalty of a broke man. It's not politics or seeking survival. It's about finding genuine love. A broke man and a broke unattractive girl might give you the purest relationship ever. Wahala for broke unattractive girl. 😹 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Dolly Parton: Trump Orders Flags To Be Lowered In US For 1 Week by folake4u: 10:28pm On Aug 25 |
Kukutente23: Na zone bee na They carry this audio patriotism for head like gala yet they are supporting looters in govt for primordial reasons Honestly it's annoying. |
Romance › Re: The Best Time To Look For A Wife Is When You Don't Have Money by folake4u: 10:20pm On Aug 25 |
I don't even trust the humility/loyalty of a man in his broke era. So all these talks are irrelevant. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Dolly Parton: Trump Orders Flags To Be Lowered In US For 1 Week by folake4u: 10:12pm On Aug 25 |
Exousiang01: Mention one celebrity that a public holiday was declared to honour he/she. Please mention 1.
How you looks for every means and when you can't find a means you create and imagine things to pull your country down is shocking.
You don't even know it demonic Lol you don't know sarcasm when you see one? That's such a shame. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Dolly Parton: Trump Orders Flags To Be Lowered In US For 1 Week by folake4u: 9:52pm On Aug 25 |
If na Nigeria, we for don do public holiday to honour the late legend. She truly will be missed. |
Politics › Re: I Will Restore Subsidy To Cut Your Costs, Atiku Tells Nigerians by folake4u: 9:14pm On Aug 25 |
Omoluabi16: Alhaji wey no wan jaiye. Stinking rich, yet he's not exactly know for any philanthropy. Just be contesting be stressing himself every year. Why would anyone want to spend his last extra years stressing himself? He doesn't strike me as someone that has passion for the country/poor. Maybe he wan use am build castles for him 72 wives in the afterlife. Well, you know who enjoys when he contests and goes to election petition tribunal? Na lawyers, cash out season. Nah, far from it. Let him just enjoy his old age in peace. |
Politics › Re: I Will Restore Subsidy To Cut Your Costs, Atiku Tells Nigerians by folake4u: 9:01pm On Aug 25 |
Omoluabi16: Buhari left office and died almost immediately. 😅 At least him go dey brandish him cv to his 72 wives. Alhaji too wants to add up to his cv because if he does two terms, he'll be leaving office @90. Step down, alhaji say no. Na why I dey beg Alhaji, let him enjoy his old age peacefully with his grandkids and forfeit his governance dreams. |
Politics › Re: I Will Restore Subsidy To Cut Your Costs, Atiku Tells Nigerians by folake4u: 8:55pm On Aug 25 |
Alhaji pleaseeeeeeeee. |
Education › Re: Professor Ifeanyi Odinye: An Important Lesson For Men by folake4u: 8:26pm On Aug 25 |
Why did you guys post a picture of his wife too?
See as him use his foolishness stain this woman's white.
How embarrassing. |
Celebrities › Re: Dolly Parton Dies Aged 80 by folake4u: 8:04pm On Aug 25 |
Omggggggg an icon is gone.
Rest in peace, Dolly Parton. I grew up listening to your amazing voice. |