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Acidosis: Oh Lord Have Mercy!!

Okay, You dated a muslim, and He serviced you all through the relationship.

Now that he wants marriage, you answered NO.

Did you not think about your religion, while he was servicing you on the bed, while you were exchanging blood, water and feelings? Did your religion support all that? ?

Stop deceiving yourself woman, religion can't work for you, church is not meant for you.

So just go and marry him, stop this religious trash..

this person asked for an advice and not to be condemned,and did she tell u dey av been sharing the same bed?if yes ,aw is dat supose to be d basis for ur advice.as if u are a saint either.SMH

ednut1: Dis woman deserves what she is getting, instead of knwin ur BF well, u spend d whole time think of gettin him married, now u have it, reality noni

tht was too harsh.you are only oportuned to know wat is available for you to know during coutship.d guy culd av been a pretender before marriage,so she wuldnt knw he was gona turn out to be smone else

[quote author=Adeniyi A.]i've come to realised dt for a relp to last,if one partna is a goat,d oda must b a lamb,or fire,d oda must b water/xtingsher.dis has seem 2b a sort of divine arragt.so if it has taken u 3yrs(wc FREECOCOA seems can't) to reply him,then he might b d choosen one 4u, pls help him-it seems he cant elp it,it cud his upbringn or envirmnt wea he grew up,u cud b his mother.
from ur post u didn't point at any oda shortcomins xcept dis,find a way to elp him.
BUT,he has to mak d 1st move @ endin d quarrel.cheers[/quote]tanks dear,i realy do love dis guy and wuldnt wana leave him,but am sacred because he may end up beating me if we get married.he wuldnt just let me go,av tried breaking up wt him once but he said am joking,he said he wuldnt love anyoda woman if he doesnt marry me.he knws am nt after his money or wealth.or culd it be because he is much older dan me with 15yrs,cos i feel bullied anytim he uses harsh words on me lik he is talkin to a slave or an infant

[quote author=Mynd_
44]But is he ready to change? Ask yourself that. Do you see him chanting?[/quote]dnt tink he is ready

he has never laid his hands on me.have also tried sitting him down and do some lil counselling,he feels guilty about it and knws that he gets does it,but he cant just control it,its like a demon in him dat hAS control over him

pls kindly advise me on this issue cos am confused and simply dont know what to do.i have a guy who i have been dating for over 3yers now.i love him so much and i think he loves me too.this guy could be so loving and caring but i have a lot of isues with this guy and he seems lik he is not ready for a change.when we talk about pride,dis my boyfriend he so proud(maybe becos he is comfortable),extremely possesive,gets angry easily even over lil isues,and when angry he uses abusive words on me like stupid,crazy,mad and often times delete me from his blackberry contacts.this has been goin on for over 3years now.although he is the one always coming back to me after the quarels,but he wouldnt be the first to apologise because of his pride.he once told me that am the best woman for him .wuldnt know maybe its because he knows i dont reply him anytime he uses abusive words on me,all, i try to do is calm him down and beg him often even when am not wrong.he did the same yesterday,but i culdnt hold my patience anymore,i had to reply that he is crazy as well.i cant cope with his anger anymore ,i know he wuld stil find a way into my life again,should i accept him back tinking he would change with time or just let him go although it could hurt.need your advice pls

but am sure u only love to have dem for while not forever and modar of ur kids

Billyonaire: I love ladies with tattoos, I love pretty ladies that smoke. I just love them badgurls.

lord please have mercy on NIGERIA and forgive us of all our sins

was d essence of loosing your dear life while serving this nation filled wt heartless leaders and unsecured future for the youths.this minister must be insane or probably dumb to the security isues in this nation.he probably just woke up from d grave wen he said dis.cant count aw mant corpers av lost deir lives while servin dis half dead nation.

dear,my first advise lthough mite sound absurd is to break up wt ur current boyfriend cos u are never gona love him,cos u guys met wen ur heart was broken nd its obvious u av passed agression on him, and u only accepted to date him den cos u nided company nt becos u love him.it happened to me as well in d past,i just ad to sumoun d courage to break up d relationship cos i cant continue takin advantage of d inocent guy cos d feelins i tot i was gonna develop with time wasnt comin despite d guy's kindness and love shown towards me.

Leorichy: uhmmmm non the the above!

why dont you go for "KEKE NAPEP"?

Fuel comsumption,road consumption,mechanic consumption,and even human consuption(if he get accident,only few ppl will die) is kinda cool

i support u jare.lol

if u notice as a parent dt d child's cdemic performance is poor,den d child nids a lesson teacher,but if nt,it is just a way og kipn d child busy which is nt dat bad either

she has actually lost her senses and forgoten wat it takes to be a mother .she ought to av sold herslf to feed her children radar dan goin d oda way,cos dat is wat a real modar does.

i wouldnt even go for a doctor,cos most of dem ar flirts and dey mite tend not to apreciate wat deir woman has got cos dey see and even touch diff types often wen examining

am 100percnt sure dat this was just a joke