₦airaland Forum

Biglittlelois:
That is why I called you a leech but okay.

Biglittlelois:
Wow, a leech typing from experience.

J111333:
This is personal so please be courteous with your comments.

I have a married female cousin who takes church serious more than her life, well I don't wanna waste your time with that part of the story.

I have tried to help her husband and her financially for a long time now and I'm afraid I've turned from helper to head of household, not funny. I jokingly told them to hang their boots after they had their fourth child but as I'm typing this, baby five just landed.

Their first son just got admitted into Unilag and guess who they called to help. I've severally decided to stop helping but thoughts of those lovely kids of theirs have always affected my decisions.

I told the newly college admitted boy to open a bank account so that I can channel my help properly but her mum said he wasn't 18 yet so she would be the one running the account until then.

A little background story.

My cousin is a graduate but helps her husband in an imaginary business of his which I have put in like N10m if not more yet nothing to show for it. I later switched to helping my cousin get a job, she ended up getting duped of the money meant to pursue the job Nigerianly.

She was/is my favourite cousin growing up and she was more than a nanny to my sister and I when we were little.

How can I put an end to this madness without feeling guilty about the kids? Mind you, I love their kids very much.

SaintHilary:
Audio5g

Even our 4g takes 10mins to download 120mb porn

#TeamSpectranet

villagecraft:
Beautiful Innoson

adexfem:
Dear Sir, we are sorry you were not properly guided during the transaction, kindly accept our apologies.

Considering the amount your boys used to grease their palms, before the duty was reduced from N1.440M to 640k, you should have an idea of how the ''unaccounted figure'' was spent.

Our milk teeth cannot even break any bone.

Once again, our sincere apologies for all the inconveniences we might have caused.
Congratulations on your new ride.

Generalmac:
I just want to be clarified, in this I'll be using Bank A and Bank B.
I recently went to Bank A to open a savings account, after filling the form and I submitted it, the agent took a look at it and said 'They will reject it'. I asked why and he said that the name on my form and the name on my ID card isn't the same. My ID had my middle name as an initial so he said they are not the same, I should get a court order and newspaper publication .

So, I proceeded to Bank B and within 25 minutes, my account was set up without questions.

Hence, the above question.

Philadelphia:
At this moment, everyone should steer clear from Adexfem.

He cut ways and tricked a customer, deceiving him as though he cleared the car.

The car has been impounded by customs and the said Adexfem has not come to clear his name. The link below has details for the fraudulent clearing by Adexfem

https://www.nairaland.com/5542822/beware-2014-gx460-cleared-adexfem/3#5542822.121

DonFreshmoney:
Why dont they just shoot both Maina's at the back of their head and be done with this drama..

Wasting public money on court trials for a thief and a yam eater is scandalous.

Am flabbergasted

izzou:

thebigkendo:
I think we should blame Buhari self.. After all he appointed Colonel Hammed who is responsible for the criminal custom officer who you are blaming

izzou:
Of course, the agent should not be blamed..

[b]When you give your mechanic money to buy original parts for you after he charges you for it, and he buys fake parts, don't blame the mechanic. Blame the importer and customs.

According to the story, who did the op meet to clear his car? The custom officer

Who gave him a bill of 2.750? The custom officer

This is Nigeria, and you are correct sir. The Customs should be blamed for this[/b]

maynation:
I hope this is not one of EFCC's stunts to finally release this guy?

I hope they won't finally hide under one yeye court order to let him go?

Till then anyways, we will remind them how we have never obeyed court order in Naija before.

Benclever1:
Hello everyone.

So I met this girl through a mutual friend and we started bonding. Initially, I didn't take the friendship seriously because this lady is a little older than me and I do not see any future between us.

Now, things got more intense between us. She visited me one time, one thing leading to another, we were in bed, about to have sex and then I pulled out the condom but she refused, insisting that she doesn't enjoy sex with condom. I was very surprised to hear that, so I tried to make her see reasons why the condom is very necessary. She adamantly refused. We ended up not having the sex that day.

Just last week she visited again and we spent the night together. We tried to have sex again but the same issue came up again. She insisted I must not used condom. Now this got me upset. During the conversation that ensued, she made it very clear to me that she does not have any STD/STI so I should not be afraid. She however admitted that she was ovulating and that the chances of getting her pregnant was high, but that I should not worry that she'd take care of herself and the pregnancy, if it happens. She said that she would not force me to get involved with the baby if I don't want. However, she made very clear that she's not ready to get married. This got me confused.

I don't want to let my guards down by indulging in unprotected sex with someone I don't trust. I also do not want to hurt her feelings. So I plan to take her for medical tests next week and then we can kick it off from there.

What's your advise for me.

Thank you.

Id97:
The second to the last comment is an indisputable evidence that some ladies have nothing but water leaf in their skull.What is justifiable about two daft idiots going against the rules and regulations of the school thereby putting her image in jeopardy?
Their expulsion is very deserving.In our society where there is higher expectation on females than males to be morally responsible,the bitter reality is that the lady will bear the brunt of the distasteful act.The guy involved will easily get away with it.He will be hailed by his male friends for his daring act while the lady has only ended up bringing disgrace upon her self and her parents who will be the subject of mockery for not bringing up their daughter well.

matrixme:
I think Nigerian students really need to be careful about using social media to propagate their criticism. This is probably the third case in recent times. We should understand that despite being idealistic and all, nothing is really going to change through internet rant. Rather post pictures of cats or internet memes if you have nothing else to do with your data.

Gaiuschibueze01:
Crestedaguiyi, Let me ask you what were you thinking when you were looking for a cheap car to buy. What if you actually bought it, and later it was found that the car was a stolen car.

From all indications you are putting up on this page, you should know you are putting up other innocent people image before the public as accomplices. Remember No man is island, if I were you, you said you already reach the father and mother. And the uncle even interacted with you. I guess you could have found out why the dude wasn't' picking up your calls, Because I just reached the number you gave and he narrated his own side of this so called HONDA DEAL.


Like the saying goes, now I may ask... Is #220,000 enough to tarnish one's image as you have portrayed decent. There are other fellow noble and quiet nairalanders who could pay for this and and change a life forever. I know you may say, I am an accomplice too. But the truth is always bitter. I am a practicing lawyer. And also an anonymous nairalander, I am not new to nairaland.. But per say that does not matter, I am telling you from the experience of an attorney. You even said the guy begged you, then why the later aggression. Let us be guided because nobody knows tomorrow

crestedaguiyi:
https://www.nairaland.com/5354424/sold

Original thread

Mnewton:
Karma is a beach. Lets wait and see how it goes! Whatsoever a man soweth, same he shall reap.. Time shall tell

Alfred74:
Revolutionary? Nada. All I see is a sore,bitter looser. The e currency - business thread with lots of scams going on daily has not been treated by you. But you are quick to run to car session (for personal reasons)to open your gigantic mouth to spill nonsense like a female chihauhau on heat.

OneKinGuy:
Mumu people go fall for this

rottennaija:
Elections is Nigeria will only be reasonably good when we are all able to vote on the comfort of our own homes using a unique technology that cannot be hacked or tampered with.

Fighting, vote buying will continue but will be more difficult and expensive. Ballot snatching will be a thing of the past. Then you will see how politicians will be begging.

SocialJustice:
Lol, fiat is messed up but it is going nowhere. It will only morph into a cryptocurrency at worst.

Actually, I don't see how fiat value relates to stock price. Apple is a very sound company. Companies that are big shots in Nigeria like Chevron and ExxonMobil are worth under $300bn.

SocialJustice:
They've been hovering there for a long time. They are currently about $1.2trn.