₦airaland Forum

SBL28:
[s]Shut up there, chairwoman of the suffering and smiling club. The same Bible asked men to love their wives like Christ loved the church. What the OP's husband is doing to her, is that an embodiment of love. Or the poster told you she has not discussed it with him calmly? Why should a man even want to control his wife. Is that what the Bible preaches
So being submissive is letting a man ruin your life and then you wake up at 50, children have left the house and you have absolutely nothing to show Radarada.[/s]

Nwaonyishi69:
All I know is that when these marital crises take off it will always be difficult to get at the whole truth from one side. Yet, experience teaches that unless a woman is ready to be a wife, the house will always be somehow tensed and real joy for all will be far.

frozen70:
Stop being fastidious because of your age, you lack the experience of what you are clamouring for

As for work, keep it aside and try to have the number of kids you guys want so that you will be done with child bearing and start working

Raising kids is more difficult than working even

Go to him and calm him down and assure him of your loyalty

Remove shakara and pride so that you can humble yourself

If you think you need to be busy, get pregnant, it's enough to keep you busy

Time will come, he will be the one to give you options to take from getting a job and having a store

Don't try to run faster than your shadow, the main race is still ahead

Flier:
You have seen it all at the age of 24.You are just 24 and I can imagine you are still very much pretty.
[s]Don't be weak you should be able to threaten him [/s]

CSNg:
WTF did I just read? Are you high on crack cocaine?

Elina123:
Am a lady and let the truth be told.

U are a disrespectful woman and very stubborn.
For better for worse as it was said so stop complaining.

Lata u will say u are a Christian but the same Bible says lady's be submissive to ur husband.

Accept whatever e tells u and any one u don't like u bring it up with care and love not raising voices and quarrelling it makes the man feels u can't be controlled. The more u make him feel that the more he wants to do things to controlled u and make u obey everything he says.


So wan face ur marriage and don't disturb our peace.

sylve11:

tartar9:
[s]If it was enugu building churches you'll be praising them.
Kudos to the jigawa state government.[/s]

TheSourcerer:
[s]God punish you and your entire generation unborn[/s]

Bola146:
A year jail would be better

Beedude:
Celebs and lies. 20m kee you

Aldebaran:
All these YEYEBRITIES spending all they have on Cars just to show they are rich

How much is this YAHOO BOY making from Music.

I believe the cars (without number plates) are borrowed

unmask:
[s]which kind of advice is that? Her husband is deceitful and shallow minded.....she should learn to take care of herself. If the husband is no more, do you know how hard it will be without a job?

I would advise she prepare for divorce[/s]

demarc001:
God bless you, you practically pointed out the causes of problems in marriages today. When most women gets settled in relationships they become to self centered and loose submisiveness. What they won't argue with their child or outsiders they start arguing with the husband
Respect they give outsiders they won't give their man yet they want to be treated like queens. How is that attainable

Rule of marriage:
Man love your wife, woman submit to your husband
If any party is not accepting this then he/she is destroying the union

Love births submission and submission fuels the love a man has for the wife.

A man approaching a lady must show love for her to accept him, she submits to him that is why he could take his money to go *pay* her bride price (who pays to get trouble if she didn't show submissiveness)

Now the problem starts when after marriage one of them ignores his/her function in the rule

Chi59:
[s]Oh I'm a feminist because I denounced your blind beliefs?
You tell me, so you think you're a big baby, possessive and throwing tantrums at your age. I'm sure you have white hairs on your balls, yet you think you're a baby.
Come lemme breastfeed you.
Shame. [/s]

Fountainofyouth:
[s]Calling you stupid is an insult to stupid people, I cannot waste my energy and time to reply you logically.[/s]

Chi59:
[s]
Men are big babies. See how you defend bad behaviour! If a man complained his wife behaved like this, would you say men are big babies?

Babies have no fvcking business getting married. If you're gonna be childish, stay single! Stop frustrating someone's daughter with your childish tantrums. Marriage is not a rehabilitation centre for badly behaved men.[/s]

Amanda4life:
Please women who work , are they actually stubborn?

okoroemeka:
[s]I don't quite agree with most of your points,some men or boys can be too jealous and demanding but you just can't genaralize,but a man that cannot let his wife work due to fears of rebellion or infidelity is having serious insecurity issue.[/s]

Fountainofyouth:
You see all that @emboldened, shows that though you have a functioning brain as evident in the rest of your write up, [s]there is a little bit that is mixed with fufu.[/s]