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PoliticsRe: UN September Protest: Yoruba Nation, Biafra Agitators Flee Nigeria by FORWARDEVERLY: 4:30pm On Aug 15, 2021
Why una dey flee nah..

Make una dey here and lead from the front.. Cowards.
Foreign AffairsRe: Afghan President Ghani Flees The Country Following Taliban Take-Over (Photos) by FORWARDEVERLY: 4:29pm On Aug 15, 2021
tunary:
Seriously na women go hear am pass. All of them will be turned to sex slaves
Women are spoils of war in this situation.. let the Talibans enjoy their spoils of War abegg
Foreign AffairsRe: Afghan President Ghani Flees The Country Following Taliban Take-Over (Photos) by FORWARDEVERLY: 4:26pm On Aug 15, 2021
Make una enjoy una new and fresh undiluted Sharia over there.
LMFAO grin grin grin grin
CrimeRe: Italy Bound Nnadi Chinyere Conceals 100 Wraps Of Heroin In Hair Relaxer by FORWARDEVERLY: 4:24pm On Aug 15, 2021
Thunda Faya person wey blur her face..

Dearh penalty should be passed for drug traffickers..
SportsRe: Goodbye Arsenal: The End Of An Era( Arsenal Fan Farewell Letter) by FORWARDEVERLY: 4:23pm On Aug 15, 2021
ManirBK:
this season we started with victory over arsenal at new highburry called emirate stadiun. Nextweek na massacre!
You are celebrating winning a friendly match.. while I beat you and collect six points in epl last season.. lol
Christianity EtcRe: Who Is The Head Of A Christian Home? Christ Or The Husband? by FORWARDEVERLY: 3:28pm On Aug 15, 2021
jesusjnr2020:
Who Is The Head Of A Christian Home? Christ Or The Husband?

There cannot be two heads of a Christian home, for a man cannot serve two masters. Matthew 6:24

Therefore It has to be one or the other, so which is it?

I have heard some say or seen a written message in some homes, "Christ is the head of this house." On the other hand, i have also heard some claim that the husband is the head of the home or marriage, therefore I would like to know which is really true, since both cannot be right at the same time.

If Christ is the head of the home, then both the husband and wife ought to submit themselves to the authority of Christ. But if it's the husband instead, then the woman has to submit herself to the authority of the husband.

My own belief is that Christ ought to be the head of every Christian home, so both the husband and wife ought to submit themselves to His own authority.

Anything contrary to that is not of God, but of men or the devil, hence it would only lead to dangerous repercussions in the home, as it was in the beginning when the husband and wife both rejected the authority of Christ, even the Word of God that was in the beginning, and chose to listen and heed the voice of someone else.

Although the marriage didn't end up in a divorce as a result, and they wear yet able to bear children, it became a total failure as the purpose for which God made the marriage, which was to multiply sinless children (those born in obedience), was not achieved.

It also led to hostility in the marriage, because the same man who loved his wife and called her "the bone of my bones" and "flesh of my flesh", now saw her as an enemy or a stranger called "the woman you gave me". Genesis 2:23; 3:12

So the authority and head of a Christian home, as God made it to be in the beginning, ought to be the Word of God which Christ is, and that's one of things which was in the beginning that Christ came to restore. Therefore taking that authority from Him and giving it to someone else, including the husband, would only prevent the purpose of God concerning the marriage from being fulfilled, and could also lead to hostility among the married couples.

That's what would have happened in the marriage of Smith Wigglesworth, as the husband thought he was the head of their home, and had authority over his wife, hence tried to use it against her and to prevent her from serving God as she ought to, when he derailed from the faith.

But thank God he had a wife who knew that he was just her husband, not her Head or Head of their marriage, but Jesus, as she'd let Him know. So he couldn't make her do things contrary to what Christ demands of her, because she was meant to be under Christ's authority, not his.

This eventually led to her husband's restoration to the faith, and for this reason he loved appreciated his wife much more than he'd ever done beforehand, because what he learnt from the wife in the process was an invaluable lesson, which had not only helped to restore him, but also made him to be a better vessel for God's use, and better husband for his wife and marriage.

That's what many Christian' marriage stands to lose whenever someone else is put in the placed of Christ as the Head of a Christian home. It ends up more or less as the marriage in the beginning, when God's purpose for the marriage was not achieved.

And once that purpose is not achieved, the marriage become a total failure even if it doesn't end in divorce and they're yet having children as Adam and Eve, because God purpose for a Christian marriage that determines the success of a marriage, not that of man.

So it's up to choose who will be the head of your home, but if it's not Christ, do not expect Him to also act as the Head, because He cannot share His position or authority in any marriage or home with anyone. It's either Him in charge or not Him.

God bless.
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You are a Phoool..

Ogun Kee you idiat...

Christ is the spiritual head...
Man is the physical head. .


Omo ale jatijati..

Onye Nzuzu
Christianity EtcRe: Sexism Or Feminism? Which Is Worse? by FORWARDEVERLY: 3:19pm On Aug 15, 2021
jesusjnr2020:
Sexism Or Feminism? Which Is Worse?

For me, it's clearly sexism, because it's discriminatory and has led to the abuse of most women and also much domestic violence against them.

Even before a woman is born into the world, and still in the womb, she already faces discrimination and rejection from men and also some of her fellow women, like her inlaws, when they get to know find out that she's a girl not a boy as most of them desired her to be.

A girl child is more or less being treated as a second class citizen, with no rights or real value just for being female, while a male child is usually treated as a king and being accorded with much respect just because of his sex.

What a woman goes through in this world just because she's not male is better imagined than experienced.

Men still crucify and blame the woman for all their woes just as Adam did, because of mistake she made in the beginning, as if Adam was a nursing baby that was forced to eat the forbidden fruit. But even nursing babies are able to reject food they don't want.

She was punished for her sins, and that has resulted in a lot of suffering and bondage on her part, but the coming and death of Jesus was meant to also change that and redeem the woman from her sin and its consequences. However that seems not enough for men who want to still keep her in perpetual bondage forever, as they seem to still hold that grudge against her and haven't forgiven her yet.

This include many so-called Christians and church leaders who claim to be of God, yet were still doing everything possible to keep the woman under the bondage and curse of her sins, such as that which was broken by Jesus. But the church ought to be different from the world, and reflect the changes Jesus had made with respect to the redemption of the woman through His death, however they're not much different in the respect of the mistreatment of women, thereby making the efforts of Christ to redeem her to be of none effect in the church.

It baffles me the extent to which many so-called Christian men have no regard for the woman.

They still blame her for every mistake they make, as though, regardless of what she tempts them with, they cannot reject her temptations, and say "NO", as some men have proven to be possible in the Bible which they claim to be the Word of God, like Joseph the son of Jacob in the respect of Portiphar's wife.

They behave like the sexist' Pharisees, who brought only a woman to Jesus and said she was caught in the act of adultery, but couldn't see the blunder in that, as a woman cannot be caught in the act of adultery alone and without a man. John 8:3-5

Hence their sexism and hypocrisy was already clear to Jesus, prompting Him to ask anyone of them who had no sin to cast the first stone, because only leaving out the supposed man caught in act of adultery with her and bringing her alone was a sin in itself, since the Law they tried to use to justify their actions actually commanded that both the man and woman caught in the act to be stoned to death, not just the woman. John 8:6-7

That's the same way most Christian men, including church leaders, behave. For instance, you'd hear them speak constantly and consistently against feminism, but hardly mention anything about sexism which is much more evil and has done more damage to the church and Christian marriages as a whole, than anything feminism ever could.

Women are being mistreated and beaten by many of their Christian husbands among other things, but because of the sexist' mindset and manners of most churches, the men yet feel justified and encouraged to continue with such evils, as they're given the impression that they have all the right to do whatever they liked, while the woman has none and ought not to question them, because as the saying goes, "women ought to submit to their husbands!"

Such oppression is what actually leads to fights for freedom, just it is with racism, so I wouldn't be surprised that feminism in the church is actually a product of sexism in it, as it's one way women are trying to stand up for their rights and saying "enough is enough' for the mistreatment and abuses they've suffered as a result of sexism in the church.

So whatever it is about, it's wouldn't be intended to discriminate against the men or oppress them as sexism is, but to defend themselves and curtail the prejudices they suffer as a result of just being female.

The woman however is not absolved of all blame for her sufferings, because she's also responsible for some of them, and she would be punished for it as the woman, Eve, was in the beginning. But that doesn't mean that any woman who decides to do what's right, should still be punished and kept in perpetual bondage for the sins of another woman, even though she's been set free from it, just because she is a woman.

Jesus said that only one thing is needful, and that the woman who had chosen not to follow Eve's example, but to do things right instead, and place the Word of God above everything else, including men, had chosen that right part, which no one could take away from her. John 10:42

So if the church likes, they should continue being sexist towards the women, but according to this Jesus' saying, once a woman has chosen that right part of God's Word and placed it above everything else in her life, including men, there's nothing they can do to take away that part from her, because that's all a woman needs.

God bless.
Thunda Faya You OP..
You just woke up and start writing trash..

Oponu..
Onye Ara..
TV/MoviesRe: Boma To Queen: 'Stop Caging Me, I’m Not In A Relationship With You' by FORWARDEVERLY: 3:15pm On Aug 15, 2021
siofra:
Real Alpha mail grin
Wailing feminist wannabe grin grin grin
SportsRe: Goodbye Arsenal: The End Of An Era( Arsenal Fan Farewell Letter) by FORWARDEVERLY: 3:04pm On Aug 15, 2021
allanphash7:
O ga o




But anyhow sha come sun come rain Emirate is my home



I remain a gooner till I six feet






To hell with SK
You can say that again..

Arsenal till six feet ....


Na Chelsea go suffer for wetin Brentford do me next week.. Dem be our wife on a steady..
#COYG
SportsRe: Goodbye Arsenal: The End Of An Era( Arsenal Fan Farewell Letter) by FORWARDEVERLY: 2:45pm On Aug 15, 2021
ManirBK:
Assnal if mighty chelsea catch you nextweek hmm na Burial ceremony for sure!
Noise maker...same Chelsea that I fvcked home and away last season..
SportsRe: Gerd Muller Dies At 75 by FORWARDEVERLY: 2:25pm On Aug 15, 2021
Farewell GOAT...

Respect to this LEGEND..

Rip..
Foreign AffairsRe: Bidden On Afghanistan: Five More Years Of US Presence Won't Change Anything by FORWARDEVERLY: 1:14pm On Aug 15, 2021
Man doesn't want to loose more Americans to an internal war..

Let the dead bury the dead.. Simple..
Leave them to their wahala..
Foreign AffairsRe: Taliban Now Controls All Of Afghanistan's Border Crossings by FORWARDEVERLY: 1:03pm On Aug 15, 2021
Total Sharia government loading..

If you look yansh carelessly Dem go chop your hand commot ..

Clowns..
PoliticsRe: Kingsley Kuku Arrested In Amsterdam Over Child Pornography by FORWARDEVERLY: 12:55pm On Aug 15, 2021
Kuku that year...
Very corrupt to the core.
PoliticsRe: Plateau Attacks: CAN Condemns Killing Of 25 Fulani Travellers by FORWARDEVERLY: 12:52pm On Aug 15, 2021
Any tribe that is a victim of attacks should always revenge.
Simple..
Interpret it any way you like.. your biz..
RomanceRe: Simp 101 (check..pics..am Ashamed)>thread by FORWARDEVERLY: 11:39pm On Aug 14, 2021
Lol.


KingOG
You are doing the Lord's work

To the SIMPs out there.. na just time.. E go shock you..
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija: Peace Wins N250,000 In Eva Task by FORWARDEVERLY: 9:48pm On Aug 14, 2021
Useless show..
PoliticsRe: Top 5 Lies About Buhari By Farooq A. Kperogi by FORWARDEVERLY: 9:16pm On Aug 14, 2021
Nawa ooo
Which Kain Uppercuts Farooq dey give BuBu like dis.
LMFAO
RomanceRe: Not All Ladies Are Cheat! by FORWARDEVERLY: 8:51pm On Aug 14, 2021
Kingcalls:
And u foolishly believed ....I once dated a colleague in my office that looked and acted to innocent ....oga don 4k every girl for office....but she acted adamant...oga try try try , she no gree , she tell me say oga wan sack am cos she no gree give am and oga don de disturb am since she start to de work... finally oga sack am, I even happy call her loyal girl , till oga cook one day see with the girl, the girll no no say I know oga cook but oga cook no no say she b my babe, woman wey I wan marry oooo.... cook call me the next day say Im don see that face b4 , as I tell am say she been de work for company b4 , im laugh say oga don knack am b4, I tell say na lie , im talk say im don tey small sha like 6 months, I calculate say na when she first join and I know say she de relationship when she first join ...cook talk say im be de peep as oga de give am on top couch for parlour ...say oga even knack am without condom , and im no pull out....my hand start to de shake.... as I confront am, she confess , start to de throw messi tears for me ...na dat day I cancel woman for my life....if u see this girl , u go think say na virgin, u no fit in a million years believe say she fit 4k man talkless of married man wey de cancel every girl for office.... op , u will learn soon
The Op is naive and a SIMP...
Em never gather humbling experiences yet..

AWALT..
RomanceRe: Not All Ladies Are Cheat! by FORWARDEVERLY: 7:53pm On Aug 14, 2021
This Op na Ode..

She never wanted to shit were she eats..


Meet her around her neighborhood or social circle and found out that she is knacking around...


AWALT..
PoliticsRe: APC's MamaTee Posts A Road In Pakistan Crediting It To El-Rufai In Kaduna by FORWARDEVERLY: 7:51pm On Aug 14, 2021
Lol.. B uhari M edia C ows..


Clowns.s..
CelebritiesRe: Kenneth Okonkwo, Tonto Dikeh Speak At Vivian Lam Magazine Nigeria Youth Summit by FORWARDEVERLY: 7:48pm On Aug 14, 2021
God forbid me attend a submit and listen to someone like TONTO dike speak or address me..
It means I have failed.. e come be Kenneth that Mumu man wey say Buhari na d best thing to happen to Igbos..
Clowns..
PoliticsRe: Femi Fani-Kayode Blasts Unknown Gunmen: Beheading Men, Women, Children Barbaric by FORWARDEVERLY: 1:43pm On Aug 14, 2021
Look at them igbo peeps supporting the gruesome beheading cos of their Dilector.. Cownu...

The blood of the innocent igbis killed by ipob would work against them...

Kanu would either rot or die in detention.. Iseeee
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Should I Resign From My Job? by FORWARDEVERLY: 1:40pm On Aug 14, 2021
Your type should be jobless for life..

You were instructed to mind your business and focus on work only but you are a busy body kind of Boy... Aka Mr. Nice guy..

I wish the manager locks you up over silly excuse before finally sacking you.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Leeds (5 - 1 ) On 14th August 2021 by FORWARDEVERLY: 1:36pm On Aug 14, 2021
Leeds would still beat this maure team by Full-time..
PoliticsRe: Odiegwu Ekwelarat Arrested With Cocaine In India Attacks Police Officers by FORWARDEVERLY: 8:13am On Aug 14, 2021
Na this idiot Dem dey sponsor Ipob from Abroad..

He should be shot and killed..
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh To Undergo Her Third Cosmetic Surgery by FORWARDEVERLY: 8:11am On Aug 14, 2021
This OLOSHO wn go do another Belle and yansh surgery.
Vagabond feminist
PoliticsRe: Adaobi Tricia Nwaubani: Why Twitter Got It Wrong In Nigeria by FORWARDEVERLY: 8:10am On Aug 14, 2021
Both Twitter and FG are stupid..
Christianity EtcRe: Letter Addressed To Pope Containing Bullets Intercepted by FORWARDEVERLY: 8:06am On Aug 14, 2021
It was sent from France??

Definitely from the Islamic terrorists that France gave refugee in their country.
I pity European countries welcoming Muslims..
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by FORWARDEVERLY: 12:08am On Aug 14, 2021
Skepticus:
Coming from a defender of nairaland feminists? There's a real storm sweeping up the landscape.

This thread keep exposing a lot and I'm not disappointed!
shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

You mean say em be Resident SIMP (maybe before )


E be like say em dn chop Breakfast..
LMFAO...
FamilyRe: How To Discipline Your Child The Smart And Healthy Way-UNICEF by FORWARDEVERLY: 11:47pm On Aug 13, 2021
Flogging a child remains the best..
Awon woke generation
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Brentford Vs Arsenal (2 - 0) On 13th August 2021 by FORWARDEVERLY: 10:56pm On Aug 13, 2021
PaNnamdi:
How far grin grin grin grin grin grin
Nwanne hapum aka oo


Depression dn catch me already..
I juymsy weak..

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