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Emmanuel909090:
If your dad is cheating, please encourage your mum to do same. They are equal okay.

No mind that Idiot..
Trying to imitate men in what they do is what made many women lonely, single and miserable especially the single moms..

You give am better response..

MummyD2020:
Watch how the hypocrites will say its a man's world or better still, keep mure becos the man is at fault. Honestly, i can imagine the woman's pains and dilemma. If not, its just to do what Anita Okoye did to that her morafucker of a hubby. May God helep us in this institution called marriage . So many sensitive issues arising on daily basis

Wailer.. Anita can't do shit.. our divorce laws isn't like the stupid western world..

Just recently, a man was ordered to pay a meagre 10k for the children's up keep after their divorce..
No alimony and other incentives here in Nigeria.. like I said. If you think Paul bank account would suffer cos of the divorce.. lol.. I laugh at your folly.. and guess what.. people easily flout court orders in Nigeria and nothing would happen.. even the meagre sum he would be told to pay.. he can still flout the court orders from time to time and frustrate the wife on it.. the last time I checked Feminist fani kayode is with his triplets and also frustrating that igbo girl up and down in police and court.. thank God say Paul is rich and has money too..

Stop dreming.. this is Nigeria not California or Ontario..

ImaIma1:
They will call him their favourite, overused empty word...SIMP.

He is a Big SIMP and Dem nairaland girls no go still give am Dem deety TowTo to suck upon all the simp comment he made

JovialJune:
I'm married, but I love you regardless

Watch how man boys will assume you are a female with a male moniker.

My happiness is that men with his kind of mentality are few..
And we the Polygamous men (that you all call cheats out number the rest ) ..
His comment is irrelevant.. thank God for feminism .. it exposed to men generally how the other gender can be Cruel and callous .. so men of this generation no even send..
The live as they like as freeborns and nothing would change that. ..
Just look at Rude boy.. he is not even bothered about what his vicious estrnaged wife is up to.. dude even posted clips of him and Jim iyke after he beat up uche..
Look at Odion ighalo, how he dumped that feminist wife of him and moved on and is enjoying his life..
Men has awoken and is now Changing the game.. y'all females can only Wail.. as for the dude you quoted.. we dash him to your gender just like Solomon buchi.. until when he is tired and comes back to be a man..

My dear.. We the REAL men in this forum especially are enjoying your Wailings..

MrSamsung:
I have gone through your good rambles, and one thing is consistent with all the paragraphs and statements, it sounds like this: '"Ah men and women can cheat around, I don't give a damn as long as you make EXCEPTIONS for only MEN to sleep and have bastards and still PRESERVE their marriage. The onus is on the woman!"'

With this kind of mental disposition and behavior, I bet that you don't know that our forbearers and REAL MEN of old didn't exhibit this character. In fact should they even have a mistress and a bastard, they will try their best to hide such and not rub it on the woman face, many of them wouldn't even do this, instead they would rather come out CLEAN to the wife that they are taking a second BEFORE they have a child who is not a bastard. Why? Because they understand DIGNITY not just to themselves but to their wives and families.

But now our days, grown-up men would turn to community dogs, have bastards, rub it on the wife's face even giving her the OPTIONS to either stay or leave. Like wtf is she a trash, or a woman deserving of no honor, or is she a piece of wood or animal I bet you, you will dignify your pet more.

This is not being a man but being a proud and arrogant macho and a selective justifier. I question the manliness and not the manhood of men with such thinking or behavior.

Also you rambled about me being emotional. Let me tell you one thing you don't know at this age. There's nothing that humans do without emotion, be it suppressed, controlled, hidden, pour-out, uncontrolled, bad or good emotions. Even to pick a pen to write you must have DECIDE.

Peace.

You are Wailing.. I am enjoying it

Men would always be Men .. we are Polygamous.. if e pain you make you go visit Afghanistan..

JovialJune:
Ladies, make sure you are independent before getting married, have something doing, something that fetches good money to avoid stories that touch like Op's sister, it is sweet to have a say in your marriage than to be a "yes sir" kind of wife, being a 100% house wife doesnt and can never pay, if you want to be a traditional wife abi matriarchal woman, be one with dignity, self worth, and self respect, i don say my own

**With the very foolish, stupid, idiotic advices I see here coming from mostly guys, if I should quote and tell them my peace of mind, I go chop ban, but I'll hold my peace...

I am enjoying your Wailings...

Yarn nonsense and chop ban..

Avviala:
Nigerian men are useless. All of them.
If they don't cheat, they are hypocrites, toxic or women beaters. Even the so called calm ones are egoistic bastards and manipulative d**ks. The op wants his sister to stay in a marriage where she is disrespected daily but would not want to be disrespected as well.
It's women I blame. If right from time, we never accept cheating, men would not think of imposing their disgusting acts on us. Or at least not openly.
Since your sister's husband is only useful because of money, she should bear the marriage till she has enough savings to cater for herself and the children.
And I hope this is a lesson to women that you should never enter a marriage empty handed. Men only usefulness is money. If you remove that power, its easy to see them for the sh*t they are.

You are free to cry us a river. ..

You people can only Wail ..

We set the pace and you lots must follow and abide..

Donate more tears pls..

GenAbacha:
Look, I grew up in a house where the woman was a house wife.

The man has more than likely planned out his future before marriage. “Marry a woman and keep at home for children but flex outside when I want to or when I’m bored”, that’s how it always plays out when these kind of things happen.

The pregnancy may have been unexpected cos if the girl didn’t get pregnant, your sister may never have known.

You may successfully convince her to continue only for her to come back one day to tell you the man has built a bungalow for one small girl that’s rubbing his chest.

I don’t know if your sister is educated but if she is, it’s best she finds a job and prepare for whatever comes next.

Thankfully, my mom was a university lecturer who for some reason agreed to be a house wife. When she noticed oga was playing away, she took my baby sis and relocated.

You came from a broken home.. no wonder you have been so bitter about the man been talked about here..

You can wail all you like but the fact remains that men are polygamous in nature..

2ndtimeuncle:
Good morning fellow nairalanders, I hope your day is going well though mine didn't start so well. I am a nairalander but I have to open this account for this. I have an issue bothering me, I will try to keep my story as brief as possible.

I am a guy from a humble background. My parents had only two children, myself and my younger sister who is now married with two kids. She had her last baby boy some time early this month. Her marriage with this guy ( my brother inlaw) has been one I considered relatively peaceful. That is from my own perspective knowing that there's no marriage without one or two misunderstanding here or there at some point.

Well, she found out that her husband got another girl pregnant who gave birth to a baby girl. My sister found out after she gave birth to her first son. Her husband was the one that confessed to her that he has another child outside their marriage. They settled the issue and moved on he promised he would end the relationship he had with the baby mama.

Last year, during the Covid19 period, my sister found out that he was still seeing his baby mama after she saw their chats. She confronted him and he denied having anything to do with the baby mama except for sending money for his daughter's upkeep once in a while. It was a big issue which was brought to the attention the two families. They found a way to settle after a lot pleading and talking to the two of them.

To cut the long story short, she sent me screenshots that proves that he is still seeing the baby mama. In one of the screenshot he wants to see her in their normal place and the girl agreed but doesn't want them have sex on this particular occasion. My sister has bad temperament and it is not easy to calm her down when triggered. She's threatening to quit the marriage and I fear she may do something wrong this time around . She is yet to confront her husband because I managed to convince her to keep it on hold till she calms down.

Note : My Dad is late and my younger sister is a house wife hence solely dependent on her husband. Please ignore my grammatical errors. I am putting this out here because I have ran out of ideas.

Your sister is a fool.. let her quit the marriage and see the other lady move in shaperly and she would now become the baby mama..
The earlier all this western wannabe fools realise that a man is polygamous in nature the best for this feminist wannabes.. even Oyibo dey cheat just look at Bill gates .. just to tell you that a man is polygamous irrespective of his race..

She would loose and I can't wait for her to learn the bitter way after walking away from her marriage..

They should be tried and if found guilty.. shot to death.. no pity for criminals

All this useless children of nowadays.. any thing fiam you dn carry phone go live ..
If na FBI come search for them house or even for US.. Dem no born any person well to go live..

Efcc for dmah her phone and detain the idiot for weeks.. nonsense

They should arrest and detain that confused OLOSHO girl with Nnamdi Kanu together ..

An irrelevant idiot wants to tell a govt agency how to do their jobs..
Nice one from the EFCC

Holyman3:
She can relocate to Lagos.
USA as powerful as they are, left Afghanistan for Taliban. If Kano says they don't want such thing, leave the place for them. Don't bring religion into it

No mind the fool.. I happy say Dem deal with her and her likes too..

If you don't want to be governed by some laws then leave the area or state .. since she is in Kano, she must be subjected to their Sharia law.. dis Kain law sef go help reduce immoral acts especially online by this girls of nowadays..

This is nice and commendable..

Make all this OLOSHOism reduce abegg..

Having listened to both sides..

I concur with the Mr. Felix.

She should go and fish out who scammed her and signed whatever it is in the bank with her.. the man she accused said he hasn't met with her nor gone anywhere with her..

Faber:

PDP will win. They will give South East Senate President as Usual and give South West Speaker. North Central will be Vice President senate. And North West Deputy Speaker.

Buhari knows that Atiku being a Fulani and follow Muslim cannot probe his government. He is safer in the hands of Atiku than any fvcking Southerner.

2023 is North East to produce President. Kano, Adamawa and Co will vote massively for Atiku.

You go begin see funny headlines like: " Bandits and killings was the reason we voted PDP"

But I see Atiku genuinely and whole heartedly handing over to a South Eastern President. By then all agitations and calls for secession will stop.

You are an articulate fellow..

You literally said all that is in my mind..
Intelligent fellows like you are rare in niaraland this days .. na only Zombies and Wailers dn full this platform..

Have a nice day ahead Bro..

Useless man..
Nonsense talks.. to take vaccination na force..

Go Fvck yourself.. Both you and Ipob are fools..
No fvcks given..

Useless show..

Truly the future is Gmail ..

Clowns..

Stupid West...

E go shock una.. shey France dn learn their lessons after multiple blasts and knife attacks..

Ndi Ara.. y'all can continue bringing in this terrorists to the Christian west.. ilhan Omar opposition would be a child's play in the future..

I stand with Soludo..

Ifeanyi ubah should getout.. thank God his team got relegated in npfl .. people close to him said he is a wicked fellow but always pretending to be nice..

A waec holder isn't fit to govern Anambra.. Simple..
Soludo for the seat..

Y'all should shut up and do your jobs...
No one forced y'all to be doctors and nothing special about that..
People are doing more harzardous jobs than medicine..
Y'all should stop Wailing or join your colleagues in Saudi Arabia

southniyikaye:
Any man that lays is hands on a woman is a Bastard and not fit to be called a man..
And as for the woman, why endure so much evil? Biko, your sanity and health matters, leave the frustrated he goat alone.
Some ekwensu men takes women's loyalty and respect for granted..
I know some women are goats in human form but nobody warrants being beaten

Any woman that doesn't OBEY her husband is a Bastard and not fit to be called a Woman.. rather a Woeman

caandi:
Just imagine.. the same devil that’s pushing him will push him till he uses knife to stab her one day, then the work of devil will clear from him. He’s beating the woman for wearing a dress? Hmm... Mr lecturer I sense insecurity here, you beat her up to hide the fact that you like the same dresses on the female students and sluts you sleep with, so you’re just guilty seeing your wife dressing up cos you feel she will do what you’ve been doing, useless man! Madam kindly leave him cos he’s frustrated before he gives you AIDS

You are Wailing

Idiots..

If she likes let her not leave..
I don't think I would even tyor Rip for her if she die..

Brainless people

Now you are speaking facts ...

A terrorist shouldn't be negotiated.. all of them should be killed..

Both you the Buhari asslicker..
Ipob.. ESN are all useless fools..

That Dorothy of a girl talks too much..

Women always quick to play the victim..
Make Dem arrest the foolish girl abegg

The woman shouting and disturbing the neighborhood should be arrested..

Rip grand Ma..