₦airaland Forum

softysparky:
I think it's because the men pay the bride price, lets turn tables around and see single mums go for whomsoever they want to marry.

no not true. If u go to page 4 of dis tread u will see where i listed 4 cogent reasons y marrying a single mother might be dicey.

bimbor:
You also forget that after your wife's first childbirth she qualifies for all your above qualities. Will you divorce her then or you will tell her not to breastfeed because you want her breast to remain standing? Every woman will eventually give birth to children, and the husbands still keep loving them. So what makes the case of the single mother special and abnormal?

d essence of all dese are...... Marriage is sacred. D weight is more on d girls.
1. Avoid all dese corner corner sex if u are still single and unmarried. It will take u nowhere. D consequences are terrible oooo.
2. Learn how to take care of urself and home. Dis is y u nid to spend ur energy assisting ur mom. U will definitely learn some things.
3. As u grow, learn to control ur temper. Dere is no trophy to show case what u are made of. To prove urself?? If gbege happen, u are on ur own.
4. Be mindful of d friends u keep. Dey have d power to influence ur mind.
5. Do according to God's will. U own nobody explanations when it comes to decency. People will talk but ask urself, are u in d rite track.
6. People will see u weired if u are doin d rite thing. Don't be shaken. I can testify to dis because i experience dis alot but dese same people have no natural proof or backing to prove me wrong. Im open to criticism.

asokoromadam:
She wasnt kjdnapped 5 times,People in her station were kjd.apped.5 times ,cant you read?

am i d one confused?? Read my statement again.

Jusome:
supose the young girl...aborted the baby and appear single....how wil u know...the fact she save the baby shows she values life....once you love the woman wht big deal does it make to marry her....mariage is all about Gods blessing there are 1million single dat has had sex and abortion and stil clame single and decent marrying............there is aways two side of a coin at list d fact she has a baby shows she.can give birth than marry a baren woman who has removed her womb during process of abortion

in d first place, y she open her legs if she is not ready for marriage?? Can u see what wayward can lead someone into. D curiosity of dese small boys and girls to sex will lead dem to where dey never expected

franciskaine:
bros! you really wish yourself this? People are indeed funny. I don't wish myself such. Women are more than what you see on their faces, they are chameleons.

tell am well well. He think na four years course wey e do for university. Dem no dey graduate from marriage at all. It is d only institution wey u dey get certificate before u start and no graduation

Dyt:
*rolls eyes*

what he said is true. Plenty men are not ready for marriage. Some are being coerce into it. One thing i have seen about girls is.... Dey think more of wedding Dan marriage itself. Even d struggling couples spends huge money on wedding and after dat either certain money will be pay back or d man has to borrow to kick d home moving before dey stabilize. Perform a wedding as u can. If it is #50000, #10000m,#200000 and so on

KillerBeauty:
Getting married as a single mother is challenging because.....
















I seriously don't know what to say
Sorry op

read thru d tread. I have given some points to d problem. Single girls needs to be careful before marriage

Nursy:
Cos the men don't want extra liability

correct. Dats one very good point.
2. It will be funny to bring a girl with a kid to ur family and announce to dem u want to get weded except ur have urs already. AMANDIOHA.
3. U may have problem dealing with dat child once she/he grows up in d near future because he/she is not ur biological child.
4. Dis one is very deadly. Some women are not loyal at all. It is just like d case of a girl who will never forget d guy dat disvirgin her. Women are too emotional, d guy dat dump dem before dey find comfort in u can appear one day. Before u say Jesus, u will find her all over him and she is gone with d guy and d child. Dis one in particular, i fear women.

Before i take on some people here, i will like to say dis.... It is not d sweetness of sex u are having in hiding dat matters here but d consequence of dat act. I will boldly tell u many unwedded ladies were deceived into having sex on d promises of marriage and brighter things. But d painful thing were dese girls failed, d allowed d sweetness of d sex to becloud deir thinking of not getting weded before d act

emmysoftyou:
new york wey big pass kano and lagos neva asks for ministry of new york..

Once other state have the facilities lagos has..

Lagos will go down the drain or decongested,i know with time,it shall come to pass

once dere are opportunities elsewhere Lagos will naturally decongest itself. Which kind ministry b dat. Mbanu, Niger Delta Ministry takes care of all south south states with Imo, Abia and Ondo inclusive. Dere shouldnt be a ministry for Lagos but a special attention can be paid to it

Xano:
Interesting. I believe you can browse. Search expected educational qualification for an elected office in the country you mentioned. Then, correct yourself.

it seems dat u are not getting d key word in my statement ''PERFORMANCE''. If a primary school certificate will require u to operate computer for shell to deir satisfaction...fine. If it is Bsc. Fine. D goal here is adequate performance. I don't expect an engineer to pick surgical instrument to move into O.T. Or a doctor to move into a cockpit

kevinberry:
I refuse to believe that she was kidnapped

To me,she just went to meet one of her numerous customers for a sweet gang-banged

Because this is the fifth time and so far she has not been able to say any of their name of describe them...

Maybe she is the type that love bond and torture sex...

d story didnt say dis is d fifth time she was kidnapped but rather d fifth time a worker in d radio station has been kidnapped

mtchris:
Abegi

no problem. It is not by force to believe. D world is created on a scale of balance which many don't know. Do u plant yam and expect maize.?? Do u block d flow of a river and not expect flooding??

Lilimax:
What has she done to deserve this sort of humiliation and torture?
Abeg, these Gaynanian boys should free this lady without hurt asap.

free ke.!!. person wey dey don rape several times post her pix on social media. or u know say e don too late for d free wey u dey talk

mtchris:
what? His family that has no idea of what happened? instead of him alone, you included his family? What if it was you?

dats what will call KARMA. u hwill see it happening but u won't understand

achimotan:
Sad story. But OP ,she is a Ghanaian as well cos she was born to a Ghanaian mother and has lived all her life in Ghana and has a Ghanaian passport as well.
The intriguing thing for me was her agreeing to meet her kidnappers who had sent her threatening text messages

if I dare agree to meet my kidnappers. dere is no way I won't carry bomb along. no one threatens me. is not dat I have d muscles to fight a giant but simply I'm ready to die anytime

Riodiao:
SOMEBODY WEY GET ONLY FIRST SCHOOL LEAVING CERTIFICATE WIN GOVERNORSHIP FOR KATSINA. WHY MILITANT WEY GET SSCE NO GO BECOME HSA MEMBER

dis one is not a matter of certificate but rather performance. let's see how dey take d state to a glorious height. if someone with primary school certificate can perform y should I bother about PhD. go to USA. it what u can do dey are after.

ozoigbondu:
lf an ex-millitary dictator can win a presidential election then an ex-millitant can win state house of assembly election.

thank God it is not my state. if dey like dey should squander d money ment for d development of d state. if u force ur way in saying it is peoples mandate., make sure u do a thorough job for d people

Lilimax:
Yes o, they don't wort it.
Life is so precious and to be married and stay married is not by force.

true.!!

Svelteb:
Though heartbreaks like is very hard to manage but seriously suicide isnt the answer. He didn't marry her fine, but has dat act written her off? O ma see oo, she just wasted her life and gave her family a reason 2 mourn dis yr fah.

she must have enjoyed dat guys company for her to do it

Lilimax:
What for ?
Why should you kill yourself cos a man did not marry you ?.
The best thing to do is to pick up yourself and continue with your life. You may not know what God
has averted for you in the future by that singular act.

No man is worth dying for

yes even a woman in charge of petroleum. not worth it at all

qbd2:
Its never worth killing urself over someone.

y will u kill urself over a girl or a man who may be banging endlesdly somewhere.

Missmossy:
I wonder what was the ish with her down there. Such a gullible woman, i blame her more.

nawa for girls ooo. d moment dey know d power of dat thing., dey emback on a journey...using it to manioulate guys

Missmossy:
I wonder what was the ish with her down there. Such a gullible woman, i blame her more.

someone just confirmed it dat he heard on radio dis morning. she did it to attract more customers but did not archieved its purpose.

mohioma:
Heard d news dis morning on radio dat d woman wanted to to make huge sales via her private part hence d need for special anointing oil. However d burble got busted when d target sales wasn't forthcoming

ok. I get it now.

sinaj:
lmao!!! no o! ours na tru luv

wow.!!! I so much like d back ground of ur dp. love nature

creamy1990:
pray u don't fall victim cos a man just like u are wuld love to bleep her. I pity guys dat run after anytin in pata,e ma fori ko ju

me ke.!! I dey watch my self well well.maybe na wetin girls take dey feel say I dey stingy. because dat thing in between deir legs no dey frick me.

chukwudi44:
abeg go and sit down joor!!! how come you couldn't install your god Awolowo with your almighty installation powers.The only Yoruba president ever Obasanjo was even installed by the North.GEJ won in 2011 and got only about 2m votes from the sw and over 11m votes from the SS/SE yet you peole claimed you installed him.Even in the last election,the margin of GMb's victory over GEJ was just about 500,000 far less than the margin from jigawa state alone.Make we hear sth abeg

do u know small numbers makes a difference. d score GEJ had if he was given additional 3 millions from like fives states., do u know he would have remain president.. go and check history of Nigeria politics. it is either a merger between S/E and north.....Shagari/Ekweme or S/W and north Obasanjo/Atiku. or S/S and north ...GEJ/Sambo. So no region do it alone

chukwudi44:
abeg go and sit down joor!!! how come you couldn't install your god Awolowo with your almighty installation powers.The only Yoruba president ever Obasanjo was even installed by the North.GEJ won in 2011 and got only about 2m votes from the sw and over 11m votes from the SS/SE yet you peole claimed you installed him.Even in the last election,the margin of GMb's victory over GEJ was just about 500,000 far less than the margin from jigawa state alone.Make we hear sth abeg

do u know small numbers makes a difference. d score GEJ had if he was given additional 3 millions from like fives states., do u know he would have remain president.. go and check history of Nigeria politics. it is either a merger between S/E and north.....Shagari/Ekweme or S/W and north Obasanjo/Atiku. or S/S and north ...GEJ/Sambo. So no region do it alone ok

theV0ice:
and who owned the PDP even with GEJ at the helm? or was GEJ never going to handover to another alhaji? Who would he have handed over to in 2019 if he had won 2015?

tell him .!! maybe his brain is absent

VirginFinder:
Anothe sensible and sincere fellow.
Yorubas installed GEJ and booted him out.
Chikena!

dis is true. I keep on tell people. In 2011., PDP won all south west states except Osun state in d presidential election even though dey had deir presidential candidate in d person of Nuhu Ribadu

chiefinalowo:
I don't like the man but I must be honest as a PDP member, Tinubu is a genius.

yeah.!!! I quite agree. rite 2003 I have been watching him with keen interest. he breaks barriers