Politics › Re: Jubilation In Plateau As INEC Declares APC’s Lalong Winner by Fourwinds: 12:41pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
dickrider: [size=16pt] 
Can someone please tell me the total number of states APC has won so far?[/size] hmmmm. dis girl go dey hammer dick wellu wellu oooo. See d moniker.!!! Akwei bura tanshi |
Family › Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Fourwinds: 12:36pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
javaprogs: The same thing I had tried to point out is the same thing Chinum just as. Earlier, you kinda disagreed with me and now you agree with him. Apparently you must have been confused by the lots of paradoxes in this thread and/or perhaps you have just reached enlightenment.
Cheers ok |
Politics › Re: Photos: Peter Obi Doing Early-Morning Exercise At His Onitsha GRA Home by Fourwinds: 12:28pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
ozoigbondu: To think we live in the same street though he rarely at home he was trying to turn into an Abuja based politician before GEJ lost.
Okwute welcome back from your Abuja sourjons dis was what his master did before he lost presidential election. I remeber dere was "a trend dat states Jonathan on top". I thought Jonathan was in d bedroom doing d needful. |
Family › Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Fourwinds: 12:20pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Chinum: I guess I'll have to summarise my point to you. If Op must condemn the act objectively, he has to condemn both parties involved. I just helped him out with the part he left out.  yeah.!! u have it |
Family › Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Fourwinds: 12:01pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Chinum: And when the lady discards the boy, who is she throwing him to. Having drained him materially, psychologically n physically. Who is the unfortunate lady dat would end up with a low sperm count ridden man thanks to stds from indiscriminate sex.
Who will end up with such a man dat his idea of women is now so twisted dat he sees all women as nothing but pests to be crushed n manhandled. you are even supporting what OP is saying but dis time u are looking at it from d boys perspective. In most cases it is d boys dey blame because dey feel d boys initiated d idea of co- habiting. So in essence what OP is saying is dat it should be condemn outrite. whether it affectives d boy or d girl |
Family › Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Fourwinds: 9:44am On Apr 13, 2015 |
martyns303: I wanted to open a topic to discuss similar issue but since there is one already, I would like to talk about it here.
OP please don't be angry, let me use this opportunity.
Am in this situation right now. My GF of 4yrs is in her final year, she stays off campus and pays N150,000 annually. I paid for the place and help set it up as in furnitures to electronics, she practically have everything.
I also have my own place, a self contain, very big and spacious, am also paying N150,000 annually, I am a graduate, I don't have a job yet but I make do on the side, am currently on a course and I know once am done a job is not far fetched.
The problem now is my rents had expired, mine expires 3 months before hers, instead of digging out N300,000 to pay for both of us, one of us had to move in with the other as we have other things that will require expenses. She can't move in with me because my place is far from her school and will require around N500 everyday for transport, so I decided to move in with her. It wasn't an easy move, beside overcoming the social thoughts from people like the OP, we also incured a lot of bills doing the actual moving, as she had to move her stuffs to her family home, while I moved my stuffs into her place.
We both know it is inappropriate to be living together when we are not married, but we just had to make do. This is her second semester in final and I am most likely to leave the country in 3 months too.
Now here is where I need advice from matured NLs, by matured I mean people who actually take responsibility for themselves and maybe others. I am in my late 20's and I intend marrying this beautiful woman of mine, but a few things have changed on our financial expenses since I moved in. Prior me moving in, I give her around N7,000 per week, I know the next question will be what of her parents, she was raised by a single parent (mom) dad is late and the mom really tried. Now I am spending close to N3500 per day, I asked her how we can cut down on expenses, and we came up with a plan, we bought all the food items we need, filled the gas and every corner where money may go in, then I gave her N30,000 as our feeding for the month, but am still making expenses that are fast draining my pocket.
She is very disciplined, I think we just both don't know how to manage ourselves yet, I would really appreciate advice from married and single NLs who have been in my shoes to please help me with advice, because I believe we may soon be having financial issues, and once there are financial issues in a relationship other things may follow. young man, u tending on uncertainty. U cannt win a girls heart by all dese financial display. One, save for dry season because if dat girl goes hail-wire u will have a shock absorber. Two, cut down on ur expenses. What im thinking i don't pray for such |
Family › Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Fourwinds: 9:28am On Apr 13, 2015 |
aflyingbird: I don't agree with cohabitation of any sort and have never done it nor will I ever do it. But to say a person loses their value because of it, really? If that's the extent if your education then I pity you. Some idi000ts here, even the females, are agreeing with the op. Too much ignorance and mediocre education is ruining Nigeria! if a guy ask u for sex, don't u have a choice to close ur legs?? It is only foolish, for one to concede to sex with all kinds of excuses. D question is....was d girl forced to go to d guys house or was she forced to open her legs?? Dese are questions begging for answers |
Family › Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Fourwinds: 9:17am On Apr 13, 2015 |
swaggzo: TELL HIM MORE.
WE NEED TO DUMP THIS MENTALITY OF. . OUR LADIES LOSING VALUE WHEN THEY SLEEP WITH DIFFERENT GUYS.
WE MAKING THE GUYS KINGS AND THE LADIES.. LIKE SLAVES. remember, a girls legs are not forced open except when raped. Please can u tell me who opened dose legs if we don't need to blame d girls  |
Family › Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Fourwinds: 9:14am On Apr 13, 2015 |
swaggzo: WELL SAID RAPMONEY, WELL SAID.
BUT LIFE IS ALWAYS BETTER WHEN WE MIND OUR OWN BUSINESS.
WE WILL MAKE MORE PROFIT IF WE DO, INSTEAD OF POKING AROUND, INTO OTHER PEOPLE'S MATTERS. dere are certain things we don't have to mind our business. For example, if d girl a guy is co-habiting eventually marries d guy, den i don't have a problem with it even though dey have sinned...leave dat to God. But when he discard d girl, who is she throwing her to  I will mind my business if u marry a woman and u decide to bang her all thru d nite even if it require screaming ok |
Family › Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Fourwinds: 9:04am On Apr 13, 2015 |
pretty050: Why should the woman take all the blame. They are both living a sin. "Wall mongers and adulterous (fornicators in this case)God will judge " even if both are to be blame, if d woman no open her legs, how will d guy entre d place  It takes two to tango. A guy can demand and d girl can say no....simple |
Family › Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Fourwinds: 8:59am On Apr 13, 2015 |
shadowgwalker: true talk @ op... I think they got no value, most of them finally rush into marriage coded and finally crash it down.
kaî!! imagine when you get kids and one man that fyiok the Mother in the past school days comes out boastfully (maybe to revenge broken heart) and starts giving the child gist on how she fyioks in her school days... ewww!!! dats d dignity alot of girls don't watch out for. Dese guys will say it boldly outside. I know some girls and women about deir sexual exploits. Not dat i slept with dem but people around me, telling vivid account how dey went about laying dem. I always show contempt for such ladies. What ladies don't know is....guys move on and u are at a lose |
Family › Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Fourwinds: 8:45am On Apr 13, 2015 |
javaprogs: There we go again, we the guys/men are the major perpetrators of these abnormalities. We play on the emotions of these beautiful species (females), we instigate several random request such as cohabitation; most times, out of love, fondness and trust they do as we wish regardless of how obscene the request seem. Verily, 90% of these said cohabitations are instigated by guys/men, then afterwards we come here to condemn. Cohabitation is morally wrong but not illegal. Most females end up finding themselves in these situations because they think with their emotions rather than their heads. On the other hand, guys instigate it b'cos as such points, they think with their manhoods and not their heads.
Everyone, one way or the other contributes to everything going wrong. Cohabitation is immoral because it goes against certain ethics and norms but not only the ladies are to be condemned for the act, although I agree that they are worst done by it. Guys are greatly responsible, either by instigation or by agreeing upon it when as the head of a relationship he should be to able to coordinate his affairs responsibly, duly and fairly.
Please folks, do not judge anyone because he that sineth not, let him cast the first stone. These females are emotionally and mentality incapable of not falling into this cohabitation thingy, but if you and I as men, can prevent it, then it can redressed and we can help these beautiful species restore some of their lost pride.
Cheers d question is,,,,are d girls ROBOTS  Have u not heard about girls who preferred to die Dan been raped. How much more someone instigating and asking for Cohabitation |
Family › Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Fourwinds: 8:36am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Blebleswag: Same they wil do to ur sisters, cos she's bn jumpin 4rm peter2james, fryingpan2pot etc. Or if u dnt hav sisters, then to ur girl child/children look at u. U are a girl.!! I read very well what d OP has said. Something dat should be condemned among youngsters. Go and read d Bible, it is dere. Y should someone pay a bride price when she has completely given herself up to be used by one nonsense boy. It applies to every female whether she is my sister, cousin or niece. Girls should better use deir brain ooo. |
Family › Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Fourwinds: 8:28am On Apr 13, 2015 |
takoi: There is no doubt that you are sex starved and that no girl will ever agree to visit talk less of cohabiting with you. Rubbish!!!! U must be in dat train. Someone is saying d truth, u are here condemning him. Tell what is wrong with his statement. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Slams Iweala & Will Force Ministers To Declare Assets by Fourwinds: 8:23am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Happywoman: I dey laff everything about dis woman na happiness oooo. Shoki Shoki Shoki!!! |
Politics › Re: Buhari Slams Iweala & Will Force Ministers To Declare Assets by Fourwinds: 8:19am On Apr 13, 2015 |
tit: this fool talks again! How is he going to make governors declare assets apart from what is stipulated in the constitution? Does he think he has power over the governors! he did not talk about governors declaring assets. Don't miss quote him. He was referring to dose he will appoint |
Politics › Re: Buhari Slams Iweala & Will Force Ministers To Declare Assets by Fourwinds: 8:14am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Sweetguy25: I don't understand?
How did he slam Aunty Ngozi?
Ngozi is the best finance minister Nigeria has ever had for the past 30 years. and yet d Naira is falling freely like when Angel Michael dealt a blow to d devil's blocus and fell freely |
Politics › Re: 3 Parties Call For Cancellation Of Rivers Election Results by Fourwinds: 8:00am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Matttthew: Rigging must take place since mama peace have decided to stay down at pH to act stewpidly. Abajoo.! Wen GEJ was asked where is PEJ, he was smiling Lalastically. So d woman was in Okrika performing d needful. Well dats d remaining stronghold she has left. All hell will be let lose....i understand |
Politics › Re: Ajimobi Wins Oyo Governorship Election, Breaks 2nd Term Jinx by Fourwinds: 7:35am On Apr 13, 2015 |
NaijaTweets: You comment when you don't know what happened!!!
APC won in Oyo state only through RIGGING, BRIBERY, MAIMING OF PEOPLE, & BOX SNATCHING.
Ask those who know what is going on and they will tell you.
Oyo state people never voted for APC, & I don't know where those figures came from.
There is the possibility of internal problem in the state. i should ask who!! If u were on ground all u need is take pix secretly, name d polling unit and post it. INEC number was given publicly on Channels TV for anyone to call dem if u smell something fishing. So please don't come with assumption |
Politics › Re: Oshiomhole Floors PDP, Wins 21 Out Of 24 House Of Assembly Seats by Fourwinds: 7:22am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Skillbobralph: elections are not only rigged by snatching ballot box. APC wasted billions in just house of Assembly election, in my unit, vote and show the agent, you will be given 2k and one bottle of wine. only God knows where Oshiomole will see money to work in Edo state. Giving each unit 5 million naira is intimidating. only intelligent people voted for there conscience but majority voted for money and wine.
congratulations to APC, I hope they deliver freshly. u try. Next time use ur head. We know wetin happen for presidential wey soldiers no use name-tag. Dey have lost d centre, we can see how dey are behaving now. Im not surprise about d out come. We know how PDP wreck dat state during Lucky Igbeinedion reign. So u want us to return to dat era abi |
Politics › Re: Bola Tinubu Kisses Wife, Remy So Deeply And Passionately (Photo) by Fourwinds: 10:56pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Cutesexy1: Is she really into that kiss,look at how strong and emotionless her face is all dese girls d way u people analyse kiss., dey make fear.!! any way kissing is to girls while ......is to boys |
Politics › Re: Ajimobi Wins Oyo Governorship Election, Breaks 2nd Term Jinx by Fourwinds: 5:29pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
driand: I just changed my signature check it out and hit like if you concur dat ur signature is not decent. Don't be tribalistic here. Dere is nothing wrong with an Ijaw man ruling Nigeria. It is d personalities of d individual dat matters. It was out of Benjamin Jesus Christ emerged |
Politics › Re: Ajimobi Wins Oyo Governorship Election, Breaks 2nd Term Jinx by Fourwinds: 5:23pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Johnpaul2k2: Apcheat
Ride on nonsense.!! Dis was keenly contested. Check d results urself local govt. By local govt. Unlike d outrageous results we are getting from S/S and S/E |
Politics › Re: Oyo Governorship Election Results From 27 Of The 33 LGA's by Fourwinds: 3:51pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
efilefun: Atleast he's better than that TURA ambassador that kept straffing all LAUTECH students Chai.!!! do u mean it.!!! so dat man is konjinasing some young blood in LAUTECH.  kai akwei Bura tanshi |
Christianity Etc › Re: He Took Holy Communion And Had Sex After Church, Any Repercusion? by Fourwinds: 3:29pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
tunnary: God is 2 merciful dats y dere are things u don't deliberately do. dere are instances persons have knock down passagers with vehecles which we know it wasn't deliberate and u see d driver looking sober. but here is a hell nothing boy swimming in sex after communion. nonsense like PDP |
Christianity Etc › Re: He Took Holy Communion And Had Sex After Church, Any Repercusion? by Fourwinds: 3:23pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
podosci: people have had sex in churches without repercussions do u think repercussions are felt instantly. it will be later when he has lost memory of d incident. disvis not d time of Moses when it is done instantly |
Christianity Etc › Re: He Took Holy Communion And Had Sex After Church, Any Repercusion? by Fourwinds: 3:15pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
softapple: Just want to know if there are any repercusion in what just happend, he went to church and took holy communion and immediately after church service, he had sex with a lady (church choir) that has a boyfriend at home. tell d boy or man to slap himself to begin with. dat boy must be very very stu..pid. who force him to take holy communiin.  I don't blame him. It is because d Law of Moses is not in use any more....I mean instant death |
Politics › Re: Sokoto: Tambuwal Leading In All 18 Lgas Declared By INEC by Fourwinds: 3:08pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Nonybb: [b]Nigeria is not ONE. The South are voting PDP while the North are voting APC. When do we further wait before this lie called Nigeria is exposed. APC is a gang up of North east, west and central with South-west and partly some core southerners to return power back to the North; with Northern Oligarchs and Born-To-Rule theorist in the make-up to plunder Nigeria further. The South-East have been politically conquered in this gang up, making us a third class citizen. How many of you are still hearing of Boko Haram?
Whether you like it or not, whether it concerns you or not; you have been plundered and conquered by the hausa core gambari Born-To-Rule Mentalist. Anytime soon that power goes off from the North, another Boko Haram similitude would rise up. An Hausa man must be ruling us for Nigeria to remain at peace. That is why the popular sayings goes this way "If you want peace, prepare for war". Their war instrument was Terrorism, and the peace they are willing to offer is that they would be at the center and governing. We are their children and exist at their pleasure. Nigeria is fake. I am beginning to lose hope. I can never advertise Biafra but they are pushing me to the button[/b] Go and Sit down somewhere. Jonathan failed simple. I'm from S/S. let me alite his failures if u don't know. 1 immediately he was elected we expected d fight on corruption to be menumental. dis was further disgusting when Faruk lawal and Otedola were openly washing deir dirty pants in d open....what did Jonathan do.  ? 2 d increase in fuel prices. instead of dealing with Cabals( fraudulent fuel importers,l he decided to turn to d masses who were struggling to survive. 3 Boko haram menance became unbearable for Nigerians and my president was busy handling d situation with kid glooves. what he should have done long time ago., is what he did he six weeks. 4. d governor forum.....16 became greater dan 19.... in history of Mathematics., I have never seen dis before. U don't act foolishly because u don't like someones face. I will stop here |
Politics › Re: Sokoto: Tambuwal Leading In All 18 Lgas Declared By INEC by Fourwinds: 2:52pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Oziddy: See as other states dey release free and fair results yet that tyrant in the person of T A Orji wants to boycot Abian votes that all went to APGA, he will not live to see us jubilate this victory.
APGA is massively leading PDP in 6 LGAs announced so far. 11 more LGAs to freedom. ha.!!! T.A Orji is a disgrace to human development and Civilisation |
Politics › Re: Sokoto: Tambuwal Leading In All 18 Lgas Declared By INEC by Fourwinds: 2:42pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
feyif: If U Are Sitting Down There And U Think Pdp Will Win In Sokoto, Then U Are Sitting Down On A Long Thing Chai.!!! dat long long thing na D'Banj thing oooo |
Politics › Re: PDP Leads In Cross River - The Nation by Fourwinds: 2:24pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
nacosprof: . Edo state is now for PDP with greater expectation performers, infact all SS, SE. We dn't one religion party "APC" God forbid for my state to fall to PDP. after wasted years of Lucky Igbenedion whose alien to development. abeg go sidon. Ruling a State is a serious business not all dis Cosmetics PDP offers |
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