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Noblecx:7 seater |
Politics of bitterness.... Let them keep on fighting n killing themselves N/B: But please spare the innocent ones |
vizkiz:Lol... Can u pls throw more emphasis on d wild babe thing? |
As first impressions are important, so are first dates. First dates are like the covers of the books and don’t hit me with that don’t judge a book by its cover because nobody really wants to go through the entire book on the first date. And so it’s very important to know what to do and what not do especially if you seek to have a second date. We may have the answers, though! I mean, that’s why we are here. For the purpose of this article, we got speaking to a few women, those in relationships and single women alike and so here’s a few things men should avoid doing on a first date. 1. Oversharing Women feel sometimes men burden them with the labour of going through a lot in their life on first dates and it’s not supposed to be. So know it’s the first date and just talk little details about yourself. 2. Be intelligent Women generally hate it when men on dates do not know basic things, so if possible, do some digging about your date and get to know her. One of the women we spoke to, said her date didn’t know what a content writer did, and he said something else. To be on the safe side, if you don’t know it, don’t assume. 3. Don’t think it’ll end in sex Men need to understand that not all first dates end in sex and as thus, remove all the thoughts from your head. Every damn thing. It’ll make the date go fine and would lead to the probability of a second date. 4. Don’t overdrink Few of the ladies who spoke to us mentioned that men had been drunk on dates before and we really can’t understand how that works really. But if you’re the culprit, first dates are most definitely not the time to show off your drinking prowess okay? Good. 5. Avoid being the comedian A lot of men know women like funny men and as such come prepared to turn everything into laugh fest and this is totally wrong. Forget all the ideas in your head and resist the temptation to make crass and tasteless jokes, and more importantly, prevent your date from the struggle to laugh or blush at your jokes. 6. Avoid weird touches A lot of women love their space and so they hate it when men touch them discreetly on the first date. According to one of the ladies who spoke to us for the purpose of this article, she says “You don’t know me too well and that’s clearly an invasion of space”. So don’t do it. 7. Don’t stare for too long People in the past have gotten dumped at the first date because they were over staring, either at the ladies boobs or ass or even another lady. So, don’t over stare. Nothing at all 8. No phones No phones at dates, because it’s rude. What this means is forget the world, forget your twitter fam, forget to Instagram that food really. It’s the first date and it won’t kill you if you don’t post this one food okay? Very good. 9. No friends Some people still don’t understand how offensive it is to bring a friend on a date and it shouldn’t be. Men, don’t try it. Even if you meet a friend at the date, don’t invite him over. It’s wrong and won’t allow for communication between both parties, which the date is supposed to do. 10. Don’t blow up when she pays Some women are very independent and as such may want to pay the bills, or even go dutch and men need to understand that it’s a thing. Don’t cause a scene, agree on something and leave. Feel free to add yours |
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Looking younger than her age... HBD Funke |
joey150:This is his last season |
comos:Anyway, let the best man wins ![]() |
joey150:I'd still remain a Gunner regardless of wat dat phucking French man does |
comos:Same Ize-Iyamu that raped Edo State when he was the SSG to Igbinedion... And ran to APC wen they took over. When he saw that Oshiomole ain't in support of his governorship ambition, he ran back to PDP... Ize-Iyamu is power hungry... Dan Orbih, d PDP chairman is a criminal. Who are Ize-Iyamu political godfathers? The same Anenih, Tom Ikimi, Igbinedion?? Hell No! Anyway, still searching for the better sinner b/w the two |
KINGinVAHALA:In Oshiomole's first tenure, he preached "One Man, One Vote", "Say No To Godfatherism". But he gas clearly gone against that. Oshiomole did poorly in his 2nd tenure. Obaseki is Oshiomole's stooge n he even bettered his plans by installing Phillip Shuaibu as Obaseki's running mate. Both Obaseki n Ize-Iyamu ain't saints but I'm still searching for the better sinner ![]() |
KINGinVAHALA:Lol. I voted PMB in the last presidential election bt I've learnt to be non-partisan. As regards Edo State election, I'm still undecided Ur table is pretty correct BT Liv'pool finishes above Arsenal this season... Arsenal, 6th position. That doesn't stop me from being a GUNNER ![]() |
abdeiz:Hahaha. U've got to learn to be a lil more patient with women. Most love to form |
KINGinVAHALA:APC VS PDP... Y can't Osaro Onaiwu just win ![]() |
OK. Unto the next one |
coolkris:BTW, I dunno both and I'm not among, so are many guys on NL that ain't interested. So can't be "all" |
A female giving me guys code... How bouh that? ![]() |
Kenya again?? ![]() I love this country |
abdeiz:If u truly loved her, u wouldn't hv bn deterred. U shd hv kept on pushing |
OP, re u having menstruation of the brain? ![]() |
abdeiz:As for d latter, seems u were nt truly in love with her ![]() |
R2bees:Lol... Hv u bn jilted by any girl in d past? ![]() |
R2bees:Lol... U surely gonna win some |
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Every guy has been rejected before. Some get over it and see it as part of the game. Others get so knocked out they decide to stay off the love radar. Whichever way it is, we’ve all been bounced before and the girls normally give a reason for the bouncing. Some of their reasons are harsh, others confusing and the rest, you’ll have to think about it for days. Some of these are very true and sincere, some are said to get you off their backs and others are said to make the rejection a bit bearable. The long and short of all of that is that you get rejected. Below are some rejection lines often used by ladies. 1. I’m In A Relationship This is normally true but at times, ladies say this just to get you off their back and to stop you from trying to convince them to give you a chance. 2. You’re Not My Type This is a harsh one used on very persistent and unstoppable guys. These guys do not know the word NO and will not accept that you’re in a relationship. So the best way is to bruise their ego with this line. 3. You’re Like A Brother To Me This is when you realize you’ve been friendzoned . Girls use this when they don’t want to hurt you wit their rejection. They like you but not sexual or romantic. This is also used on guys whom girls use because of their money. 4. I’m Not Ready To Date Yet Another classic camouflage rejection line. She either doesn’t want to tell you she isn’t into you or she just wants to continue enjoying your goodies but not willing to enter a relationship with you. 5. I’m Waiting On The Lord This is mostly with the church girls. They’ll tell you they have to pray about it and wait on the Lord for a sign that confirms that you’re the one. They also use this because they believe God will reveal their partners to them. 6. I’m Married This is just to get you off her back. They believe once they tell you they’re married, it’ll put some fear into you and you’ll leave them the hell alone. They could also be really married too. 7. You’re Too Old For Me This is normally said to older men, especially those who are older than the apple of their eye by 10 or more years. 8. You’re Too Young When the guy is younger than the lady or when the lady is not one who dates young guys. She could be one of those who date older men. It’s the opposite of point #7. 9. I’m Not Attracted To You Like That This is similar to #3. They say this to kill your desires for ever. Nothing you say or do will change this. 10. It’s Not You, It’s Me This is when she gives you a long list of reasons why she can’t enter another relationship. Truth is, she moght not be feeling you like that but just doesn’t want to say it to hurt you. 11. Can We Just Be Friends? This is a killer. It’s another friendzone line. 12. I Want To Finish School First This is another way of saying she isn’t feeling you like that. She just doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. |
nma24:Ok. Just continue with those qualities. U'd surely get ur dream man soon |
nma24:Lol. You shd hv contacted me... I'd link u to someone. How about that?? ![]() |
Incrizz:Lol. Y do u say so? Explain further ![]() |
Shout out to all the people who are at the “all my friends are getting married” age! Nice ‘saying’ huh? Yeah…saw that on Twitter and thought…genius! Whew inching closer to the 30’s and mid 30’s and everyone asking you when you’re getting married I suppose? Getting married is not the problem, the problem is finding a keeper! A girl who will hold you down at your best and at your worst; one who has the brains of Michelle Obama, the confidence of Caroline Mutoko and the charisma and looks of Julie Gichuru! That, my friends, is the task! If you aren’t sure, here are signs that you’re dating a keeper and need to put a ring on it like yesterday! 1. She has a great sense of humor Laughter is the best medicine. You need to be with someone who is not afraid to be herself around you; one who doesn’t take life too seriously sometimes. No one wants to come home to gloomy-boring-always-annoyed-Jane after a long day of work. 2. She’s a homemaker She will cook for you, clean after you, make sure the house is in order; after all, those are the basic wife duties; to take care of the home. 3. She’s mature Get you a girl who can let loose over the weekend yet watch her drinking limits; one who’s not immersed in gossip and superficiality. 4. She’s kind and compassionate If your girl is rude to waiters for no apparent reason, that’s a huge red flag right there. You should be with someone who is caring and compassionate, it shows that her heart is pure! 5. She’s smart Imagine taking your girl out for dinner with friends and family and the discussions of Brexit or ISIS arise and she asks “What is EU?” God! I’d be mortified. Date someone who can have a meaningful conversation with your friends and family. Unless you’re into the Donald Trump bimbo-blondie type… 6. She’s flexible If I were a man, my ideal girl would be the kind that can switch from gym wear to shorts for a weekend of watching a rugby game, then to a sexy little black dress for date night…a girl who is spontaneous and wants to partake in fun activities with you. She doesn’t have to be sporty, but the kind of girl that’s not worried about breaking her nails when you suggest a weekend of trail biking at Karura. 7. She gets along with your family and friends I don’t think there’s any possible way to be happily married to someone who doesn’t get along with your family and friends cause a majority of the time, your lives will revolve around family and friends. 8. She adds value to your life She makes your life better. Not as an arm-candy, but in the sense that she holds you down; she’s there for you through the ups and downs. She pushes you to reach your full potential, she encourages you, prays for you, gives you the motivation to become a better man! 9. She’s not afraid to call you out when you Bleep up The girl who tells you that you’re spending, driving, drinking recklessly is a keeper. 10. She’s not materialistic Hey, we all want a vacation in Dubai and the latest phone. But the girl you should marry is not driven by material things. She just wants to love and to be loved! Everything else is extra… 11. She’s patient with you She sticks by you through the good days and the bad. She believes in you and is patient with you. This is the kind of girl who will not rush to the divorce court when shit hits the fan in your marriage and will instead try to work things out. 12. You’re comfortable around her You don’t feel the need to change personas when you’re around her. You can literally and comfortably bleat like a goat when laughing and she will think “that’s so cute”, cause she loves the things you hate about yourself and she doesn’t try to change you. 13. You share similar values You share the same beliefs e.g. on how to raise a family. If you have different beliefs, sooner than later, there will be endless tags of war on different issues. 14. She’s great around kids God forbid that the person you’re dating is the kind that sees a child and goes like “get that thing away from me”. Unless of course, you both don’t want kids. 15. You’re sexually compatible Things aren’t awkward in the bedroom. |
So from day one, we know it’s men who always go for the “kill” when it comes to making the move. Seldom will you see a woman make the move, but when they do, they do it subtly to throw hints. These are some of the few hints you might want to take note of, especially in our era. 1. The Use Of Cowardice If you’re with her and at the slightest fright she clings to you for protection, you should know she’s hitting on you. Or she calls you over to her place because she’s scared of darkness or spiders, you should know she’s hitting on you and want you to take it further. 2. Using Help As A Way To Get Close Sometimes you’re minding your own business and she calls you asking if you’ve eaten or need any help with chores. Usually laundry or cooking for you, that’s the green light. She’s always using ways and means to always help you with something even if you don’t need that help. 3. Requesting You Play A Game Together Sometimes she requests you play a game together and such games are usually sensual in a way. She usually comes up with the game which is usually about something to incite your passion. 4. Asking If You Have A Girlfriend When you get the direct question, “Do you have a girlfriend”. Think no further. 5. Asking To Know Your Type If you also get the question, “What kind of girls do you like?”. You should know she’s hitting on you by checking to see if she falls within your category. 6. Telling You How Cute You’re It could be just a compliment but if it’s frequent, then it’s a clear indication you don’t need to look pass. 7. Laughing Hard On All Your Stale Jokes You say something that you know is not funny but it sends her into sparks of laughter then you should know she’s really into you. 8. Always shy when with you When she’s shy during relationship-related conversations or conversations related to togetherness, you may want to look into that. 9. Being modest to your compliments If she tries to be modest when you compliment her about her looks, worth paying closer attention. 10. Suggesting Romantic Stuff If she starts by sharing romantic apps, messages etc., don’t be rude, take notice, she’s throwing hints. 11. Using subtle ways to find out your relationship status If she use several ways and means to find whether you are single or not, don’t ignore this, it’s a sign. 12. Stealing glances If you catch her stealing glances at you or starring at you when you are unaware or busy doing something, it’s a big sign that she’s into you. 13. Doing her possible best to be of help If she’ll go heaven and back to help you when you least can or is more than happy to assist you in your tasks, it’s a sign that she likes you. 14. Being there for you after a breakup She’s always there to give you a shoulder to cry on whenever you face a breakup. 15. Very attentive to you If she’s more than happy to ditch social media and pay attention to your conversations and time you spend together, in this day and age, then she really likes you. 16. change in attitude when you talk about other girls May not make it obvious but if her attitude changes at the slight mention of other girls or your sexual shenanigans, you know she’s trying to tell you, it’s too much information for someone who likes you. |
Following. Hope to be enlightened |
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