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OBJ's own I understand, however how do u explain that of his kinsmen? . . . na wah ooooh!

I want to believe that Putin got top spot simply for the role he played in diffusing the Syrian crisis!

Another gung ho mission on Syria would've have caused more harm than good to world stability and economy. Heck, it could escalate to WW3, religious war (Syria's proximity to Israel) or at the very least a protracted war with lot of tension around the world. Forbes must have been thinking business when they made that list.

Same should be extended to education sector!

LMAO @ smartchoice! Truth is bitter though. That's why smartchoice drew some ire on here.

@ OP, if a woman you call your wife deliberately withheld such info from you then you need to be worried. Even disengaging her from your life calls for great caution.

Nor mind all these peeps wey dey tell u sey. . . work it out oooh! They won't even come and pay last respect when u kpai b4 your allotted time. . . yes ooooh, that could happen considering the guts she's demonstrated thus far.

Tactfully part ways with her and confirm your paternity regarding the kids!

OPC.NAIRALAND:
This visit is a message.

The mother of market closures await Ladipo if by omission or commission, Ngige is not voted in.

These racketeers need to send bakassi boys to terrorize the community back home and make darn sure everyone takes an oath of loyalty to vote Ngige when they enter that polling booth.
Post bakassi boys to stand where people can see their guns and machettes. They are there to provide security and make sure the election is smooth and not rigged.

If you are a trader in Ladipo and you read me, open your ear. Ngige must enter govt house and you shall make it happen for us. We are together, right, or are we not? We hope for more growth and prosperity in Ladipo market, right?

This got me reeling with laughter. Some of u guys are really crazy!

carefreewannabe: Ask yourself what put them into the position they are in. Didn't they reap what they sow?

What did they sow? The person I'm talking about merely wanted a better life for his family, did I mention they were devout muslims b4 they left for US? Nor lemmie yarn too much for here jare!

Why are posters bemused? Isn't this the norm in western world?

@ op, make that guy relocate or ready to bear more oooh! I can give u stories that would shock u, as I speak a senior colleague is presently bedridden and outta job as a result of over thinking, lost the wife to younger boys, female kids turned into harlots more or less, now dude is back in naija and bedridden after losing his whole family.

Op's high on weed. That looks more like Benson & Hedges than weed.

What I find intriguing is the response mode. You can see firefighters arriving and a ballon already set up in case human effort fails!

Enangson: OBJ, Truely the GodFather of 9ja Politics.

This cannot be over emphasized!

Amaechi's not helping matters with this linen washing in Int'l media.

They should all try to reach amicable compromise behind closed doors. . . adults should behave like adults!

Smart move!

Anyone noticed the shift in paradigm? . . .

. . . maps to youtube!

Just once did he slap me and till date I've never seen a brighter star like I saw that night!

Na God say make I nor blind cos I couldn't see moments after that big bang!

The guy went a bit overboard if this is true.

The fact that the other girl stood by him don't mean she can't cheat on him. . . FACT!

Unguarded statements like this really amaze me. Even if Goodluck wins next election, can he rule for life? We should be careful how we align our ideologies for sake of money.

Oh boy. . . see bevy of beauties. . .

recollects self, uhm ehm. . . whats the question again?

Morale of the story: don't patronise cheap clinics/maternity homes! If you can't afford a standard private clinic, have a trusted family member by your side when you deliver in a Government hospital.

I thought Glo is now responsible for Keshi's salary?

Owing someone 5 month salary and expecting exemplary result. . . this truly is the definition of insanity!

luxanne: Alright, can you please introduce yourself



Yes sis, am packing my stuffs now!

Make up ur mind. . . u want an intro from me or u wanno take ur girls advice and run?

Friends call me Count Dra****

Br3nd4: Ahhh... na wa o.. luxxy seems you're going to be someone's dinner tonight.

Stop scaring her, only want to take care of her since her hubby has gone AWOL!

Shugamania: Thank u.
Oya come enjoy d party.. what would u like to have?

I'm a simple man, luxanne will do me just fine. . . pregnancy and all. . .

luxanne: Hahaha...

*waves wedding band

Hey you, am already married, can't you see my 6 months pregnancy

You this beautiful and ur hubby lets you wander from his sight! I'd never leave you if you were mine. . . between, where's the so-called hubby sef?

Happy married life to the newly wed.

Uhm, is that truly luxanne?

Feel like marrying her right now. . . rushes out to get diamond ring for proposal!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S8tHa0z0I8s

In our quest to reachout to and help those depressed and suicidal prone we seem to overlook something . . . or should I say we tend to concentrate more on adult forgetting that a sizeable number of those we're reaching out to are minors/teenagers.

Me, I'm focusing on minors/teenagers as adults case seems to be well taken care of already.

1) Causes: This ranges from maltreatment to bullying, chaotic/violent family settings, frustration, failure (yes, a minor can actually feel he/she is a failure)

For these kids/minors its often parent failure more than bullying that causes this. Some parents demand high results from their kids/wards which is natural, but what is the parent doing about this?

Moulding your child into a good and upstanding member of the society starts from the moment he/she is conceived. I'm not even that religious but I've seen the power of prayer. . .


You need to take control and start talking to that child even in the womb. Prophesise all good things you want to happen to the child and follow it up.

Show your child love but don't overdo it, you must strike that healthy balance between loving and spoiling your child. As a child growing up I couldn't watch TV and I wasn't supposed to sleep during the day, my whole life was devoted to reading and being a star student. Children emulate a lot so be the perfect role model, you're already creating that image and personality kids will develop into when they grow up.

Beating up his mum and always shouting about every little thing is a no-no (don't think because he's 3 yrs old he doesn't know what is happening). Do not hesitate to use the rod if you feel the child is going wayward but desist from making this the norm.

Gone are the days when our kids must become doctors and lawyers and engineers. . allow that child some breathing space, let him/her develop at their own pace, observe and watch their likes and dislikes, this will help form them into what comes naturally to them.

Avoid comparism, kids have different rate of blossoming and coming into their element, rather nuture your child than get aggressive, if they have a flair for entertainement, don't insist they must become a rocket scientist.

Also avoid putting down your child, infact if you do this you've failed already as a parent.

Bullying accounts for a greater percentage of suicide amongst youths.

Mind the company they keep and watch out for moodswings particularly when they return from school. Encourage them to talk about their day in school and how they get along with their classmates (they'll only open up if you've taken the time to get to know them not necessarily sending them on vacation abroad)

Encourage them in all they do and resist the temptation of always wanting them to be better than Eisten and Galileo put together!

on point as usual!