liveyourlife007: You know someone that his Life has spoilt will be looking for people to join him.
I see married men as miserable humans, especially the struggling ones. Funny enough they will be looking at you singles as someone that's not responsible. That's someone that still depends on his parents to send garri, plantain and Beans to feed his family.
Tueh.
It's just that we are living in an archaic society. All we need is a companion, like in the movie with thesame title. An emotional support robot that we can just have sex with and discard at the end, since sex is the main reason men are falling for this scam called marriage.
One elderly modaphoka was telling me that his family responsibility was too much on him. That he is not able to take care of his family as he likes to. And because of that, he wants to die and join his ancestors. Mhen, I felt genuin compassion for this modaphoka.
Fast forward a month later, he was calling me irresponsible for not getting married!!
ewedunamala: Na lie ooooo. Go and learn handwork. For men/ women, please go to training school in Ghana and learn argon/ combination welding. Hot cake
Learn one year plumbing in a renowned organisation and have your certificate. With two years experience, you have opportunities outside with salary above some nurses in USA.
Learn truck driving in a reputable organisation offering certificate training and share your dollar with me when you travel outside.
Learn epoxy decoration and other fittings skills for building.
AI and machine learning and becoming a guru
Etc.
Thank me when you buy GLK
I’m into ICT, but I wanna learn truck driving. You talked about offering certificate, do you have a company that train and offer certificate? I’m based in Kaduna.
bigpicture001: My problem with this story is that sh only started to date you when u travelled out..
Sh didn't let u reach your destination and started a string push to move over there.. not as a wife, but as a free and single female whom u never dated in real sense of dating..
And when it failed, it's all about u marrying her which still leads to travelling...
Why didn't sh start something doing since 2019, why didn't she seek for a job since 2019. Why didn't she consider you datable until u travelled....
Why is the talk of marrying her only after all effort for her to travel failed...?
immortalcrown: Her desperation for marriage seems to be the secret of her love for you.
Marry when you are willing and capable, not because you are being pressured.
She is waiting on you for marriage because she has not found another man that meets her requirements. But you might think that she is rejecting good men for your sake. A woman who is desperate for marriage goes into it with a man not because she loves him nor because he loves her. She goes into the marriage because he is ready.
If she is yours, she will not be able to find another man until you are ready to marry her. If she finds another man now that you are not ready, she is not yours. Don't ask her to wait for you. What if she waits and you later choose another person?
Xavia follow this advise. Or if she really loves you make she “marry you na”
She’s the one desperate, you’re the one to plan and marry her!!
Natbrowny: Now someone will find this gal. And our male celebs and governors will dash her millions. She go act small nollywood movies and boom. She's made it. Even probably act as vixen for Burna or Skibbi
Once u r a guy, the world is leading you 5-0 handicap.
Soon mayb we go begin waka with dicks so e go easy for sugar mummies to dey quick locate us base on the size dey see and want
Dpsychologist: You have followed me to this thread again with your emotional responses.
So a woman who works and contributes to her family as she should do, now means a man is relying on her salary
Please of you don't want to be contributing to the family due to the way the world have changed, you can just be a stay at home mom, doing all the house chores. Cos I don't see why you will b working and earning and not what to atleast contribute to the running of the family.
Simple things an adult should do is what women are seeing as if they are doing a favor.
This starts right from relationship. You claim you are in love with a man, he spends on you but if though you are working, you keep all the money to yourself saying it's the man's duty to provide, is that not unfair or petty.
We have uncovered case where a married woman was sick and instead of her to spend her own money to treat her self she refused.
Allowing the husband to run helter skelter trying to borrow loan to fix her health. This woman end up dying unfortunately. The husband gets to find out she has 1.5million naira hidden. What kind of stinginess is that, even her own life she prefer to hide her money so that the husband will keep spending his money than to spend hers.
As for the aspect of house chores. You are making it look like some impossible work to do.
Magnetic010: Men are the biggest problem to themselves...Their are a lot of young girls who are jobless, or earn less than 500k a year, who came from poor or very poor background but meet them and talk to them; they will tell you they want a man who has this, that and many more...she doesn't want to settle for less, she wouldn't even date a guy without a car...where do you think she gets that audacity from?....Men...she knows that there are men out that willing to go above and beyond just to get her.
I have been in hospitality business for years now and bro I cannot even begin to tell you what I have witnessed...I have seen guys send 200k to girls just for her to agree to go out with them...I have seen guys buy a higher model of phone for girls just for her to leave who she is currently dating....
After all these madness and waste to get girls..what do you think will happens to their mentality? They become entitled...they feel it is their right to get everything from a man, the world revolves around them.so why expect her to give you her money, or care about your struggles when society and other men have made her understand that she is Queen and only thing she deserves is the "soft life".
Succinctly put!! No truer words have been spoken since the homo-sapiens parted way with the apes 🦍
As I love PPP reach, E pain me that I’m seeing and hearing this.
I don’t believe this story. Man na man!!
Naira has devaluated so much to the point that we think it’s always been like that. Check out every Mike Tyson’s fight at the peak of his career how much he was earning in pounds back in the 80s/90s. £24M was no small money in the 90s. How many people in nigeria 🇳🇬 even had £24M not to talk of giving it away?
tunjijones: Men have really marginalised women in the past. But I think there shd be a balance to this stuff else in the nearest future men will be endangered spices
Some women in those advance countries, the work they do is to marry rich men and divoce them just to steal half of their wealth.
Try taking advantage of the lacuna in the law. Believe me, sooner or later, this will be adjusted!!
twosquare: That's true. Went to supermarket to get some things and possibly a Valentine card for my spouse.
That of "Happy Valentine to my wife" was sold out. The one with "Happy Valentine to my husband" was still in pile.
That was actually a visual fact again that men are least appreciated.
SMH.
Women don’t give a shit wo. In fact some don’t want men to be appreciated.
That aside, Saint Valentine was a 3rd century Catholic bishop who helped and ministered to persecuted Christians. Valentine is not about romance, but 9ja People no go gree.
Bergavis: The value of pi is already established and bound to be $314,159.00 for each pi
I wish this is true cos I have a tiny little 100 pi. But bro, stop dreaming!!
I have some experience in crypto and if you do the math, it’s impossible for pi ATH to reach that amount in our lifetime not to talk of starting from that amount.
I’m ready to bet my life on this!! You people are clouded by wishful thoughts and desires but not logic!!
Jasswill: I saw the site too ...the are charging 3k for Q&A......I think we can give it a try, there's alot of discouragement from peple that wrote the Test last year Sha.....
That discouragement should be interpreted as a signal to go in adequately prepared and with full force.
Jazzman01: Not to discourage you or anyone but it is a quite difficult job to get. You have to be exceptional to get it. I don't know if their questions may change but that of 2022 was crazy.
Thanks man. That too is a helpful tip. Do you have the 2022 past questions?
Valoromega: I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave. she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.
She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.
I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues
I used to have a girlfriend that behaved like that. She would threaten me with ending the relationship on any given opportunity.
I tolerated it for a while because she was a small girl, though I was older but I was still young then. After I got tired we ended it.
She reported me to her Aunt who was a friend and my neighbor to beg me. She also begged for forgiveness.
The issue now is. We are now well mature and very due for marriage. But I’m scared of marrying her because of such matters as the above.
I have a feeling that even in her matured self, that tendency may still remain.
Blitzking: We must cashout this bull run you think say to stake and DCA for bear market na joke.
I feel you bro, DCA in bear 🐻 market no be beans at all, you’re investing when people are saying Crypto has crashed and sometimes it makes you wanna ask yourself whether you’re doing the right thing. Now that your time for harvest has come, BAT 🦇 is telling you that you shouldn’t convert your hard-earned USDT to NGN‼️😂
Romance › Re: Why Does Society Picture Single Men Who Clock 30 As Irresponsible Men? by Fredoh(m): 10:58pm On Oct 07, 2025
