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Family / Re: why do some ladies already hate their Mother's In-law. by Fredoh(m): 12:13am On Jun 01, 2016 |
Miami11:All these mother in-law complaints, make we hear word I beg. Why are you guys not complaining about father in-law. You see! It's because men are more straight forward. The same you complaining today will become mother in-law to someone in the future and that time, she will discuss your evil on a more sophisticated forum than Nairaland. It all boils down to how girls behave that evolve to what you see as mother in-law issues. Let us all change our attitudes! Peace. |
Phones / Re: Etisalat Follows Suit ; 1.5GB Data Now Cost N1000 by Fredoh(m): 12:25pm On May 22, 2016 |
David25:guy I like the way you think. You are making sense and I don't know why this brother is trying to challenge you that do you think it's akara they are selling? Ankara or no akara you are logically making sense. Subscribing 3. 5g twice is 7gig at 4k so why will a sane person go for the 8gig at 8k? You see this business! Etisalat done Bleep up for that calculation. What I don't like is the way you answered him. When you have fact like that you don't should. You should have proven him wrong to his shame that's all. |
Romance / Re: Can I Ask Her For My Money Back Or Let It Go? by Fredoh(m): 8:29am On Feb 06, 2016 |
Love Machine:Exactly. There are some girls that even if they dash me free, I no go take. People have tastes such that even the notorious one-eyed snake is selective! Lol 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guyz For Everything? by Fredoh(m): 2:02pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
queencalipso:Your sense of justice is still intact. But my dear. A lot of ladies are like that but we're not generalizing. |
Romance / Re: Can I Ask Her For My Money Back Or Let It Go? by Fredoh(m): 1:42pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
Love Machine:Do not let some girls infect your sense of justice. IfIf you loan to a man you'll ask. If you loan to a woman you won't ask. Is that what you're telling me? If she becomes rude when you ask. What does that tell you as her friend. Treat people equally not partially. Use your common sense. |
Romance / Re: Can I Ask Her For My Money Back Or Let It Go? by Fredoh(m): 1:37pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
saraphina:I'm proud to see this coming from a girl. Sometimes I think girls gang up and support themselves whether they are right or wrong. But you proved me wrong! |
Romance / Re: Can I Ask Her For My Money Back Or Let It Go? by Fredoh(m): 1:34pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
Love Machine:There's an inner voice that's telling exactly what to do. Listen to it. Let me ask you. Would you have asked if it were your guy friend? If no. Then why should you ask her? If yes then why shouldn't you ask her? She's a friend. If you can forfeit the money for your friend it's your decision. After all it wasn't a gift. There's a big gap between loan and gift. After all you are a man and should learn to live your life by a code of conduct for loans. Do you care to know this code of conduct for loans? |
Romance / Re: Guys, How Will You Feel If Your New Girl Never Makes A Financial Demand On You? by Fredoh(m): 1:05pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
lifeisabitch:The funny thing is that everybody needs some money to keep life moving. Most guys go and hustle to earn money. But most ladies avoid hustling for money and hustle the guys that have money. Diya ris God! I'm going out to hustle. If I have a girl whose love is not an "emotional blackmail" my instinct as a man will make me spend on her once in a while. But I won't kill myself to the point of taking some responsibilities which rightfully belongs to the father of the girl in question. If I may ask: what is a guys responsibility to his girl and what is a girl's responsibility to her guy? That's a topic of its own I guess! I'm out to hustle! |
Romance / Re: 8 Things Ladies Do That Make Guys To Loose Respect For Them. by Fredoh(m): 11:39pm On Feb 03, 2016 |
coolcharm:You too make sense guy, a lot of them do that shit. |
Romance / Re: Can Money Buy Love?? by Fredoh(m): 11:28pm On Feb 03, 2016 |
dollyjoy:Ladies will never cease to amaze me. They talk about something as if they are sent from heaven. If you check their life. Their life is most likely to be the direct opposite. Unlike men that will show you they need money, want money and say through the nose to get money. Yet most men will not choose a lady cos of her wealth. But ladies will choose a man cos of his wealth. And even when it happens that they did, they still use their lies to say they marry for love. That reminds me of Adam Oshomole wedding. Lot of my female colleagues claimed she married him cos of love. As if they are her friend. 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Where Is The Best Place To Look For A Husband? by Fredoh(m): 10:54pm On Feb 03, 2016 |
eyeview:Don't mind her, they always have a way of plying hoax on you when you prove them wrong. |
Romance / Re: Where Is The Best Place To Look For A Husband? by Fredoh(m): 10:50pm On Feb 03, 2016 |
ourchoice:Ain't no body said it better. Come to think of it, do women also look for men? There used to be a time Only the men look for women. but now the whole thing is changing. Diya ris God! |
Romance / Re: Your Mother Or Your Wife,who Would You Save In A Fire? Explain Your Reason by Fredoh(m): 6:55pm On Jan 20, 2016 |
Gwazah:I respect your thoughts bro. We grew up answering this koan since we were young boys and believe me, I've never looked at it in a more meaningful way like yours. Thanks 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Please Help!!!latest Chat From My Gf(photos) by Fredoh(m): 12:16am On Jan 20, 2016 |
estwhile:Nobody summarizes it better! |
Romance / Re: Please Help!!!latest Chat From My Gf(photos) by Fredoh(m): 12:04am On Jan 20, 2016 |
stuffs4me:My own type of philosophy. See these are students. Who are boyfriend and girlfriend. Whether or not the relationship is sexual. I see no reason why the girl should be shifting responsibilities on the little dude. To the point of telling him "I can't be collecting money from my dad when I have a boyfriend" RUBBISH! so boyfriend is your dad! A student boyfriend for that matter. If they decide to have sex, it's for the "benefit" of the two of them. Remember: Assuming their families are of equal financial status. When a boy and a girl are going to school, the girl is most likely to be given more money than the guy. The guy may have no other ways of getting money except from mum and dad. And this implies that at most times she'll have more money than him. Guy's penis don't spew money girls should know that. Girls are generally greedy, it's all about them them them all the time. Poster. Your natural instinct as a man will lead you to help her when she's genuinely in need and you have. She should be able to help you too when you're genuinely in need and she has it. both in love for each other. That will make both of you feel good and never get tired of each other. Rather than one saying give me this today, give me this tomorrow. If it so happens that you have sex. Nobody should say anybody. You're not dealing with a harlot for goodness sake. |
Romance / Re: Guys, Never You Lend Money To A Lady!!! by Fredoh(m): 10:30pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
ladyF:ladyf, you're one of the few ladies whose sense of "justice" is still "intact". my opinion! |
Romance / Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by Fredoh(m): 10:02pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
400billionman:if you people have sex. it is a mutual satisfaction and no body should pay anybody for that. i cant reconcile the idea of paying a girl money just because you two have sex. she's not a pros selling her pussy for money. and neither are you selling your dick for money. to me premarital sex is bad. but premarital dependence is also bad. out of deep love for each other, you can help each other when necessary. do you know even though most guys will not admit asking girls for money but they sometimes need it and wish they could? some nigerian girls, as soon as you become interested in them they push you responsibility close to that of their father. girls should know that the "pennis" of a guy does not vomit money. it takes working hard and smart, saving, descipline to be a man! peace |
Crime / Re: Should A Woman Go To Jail For Falsely Accusing A Man Of Rape? by Fredoh(m): 2:19pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
nairacoded:the gravity of crime of rape is equal to that of falsely accusing someone of rape, because of what the falsely accused will face: shame, reputation damage, pain etc. and this is what the raped go through in the hands of the rapist. So do unto the liar just as you do unto the rapist. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army Dssc & Ssc 2015 Aspirants by Fredoh(m): 8:06am On Jan 17, 2016 |
Thanks for the info. We'll look forward to that. |
Romance / Re: My New Girlfriend Is Asking Me Money Too Much. by Fredoh(m): 11:12am On Jan 14, 2016 |
Thank you very much guys for the advice and concern. Thank you: spafu, xpac01, oma307, coolh3ad, Ronald4ever, amunkita, dicman, motunsuger, deewhone, ebiz12, cruzita, dealordea, herboshedhe, hamzeiy and ifakiland. Thanks a lot. |
Romance / My New Girlfriend Is Asking Me Money Too Much. by Fredoh(m): 1:39am On Jan 14, 2016 |
Hello guys, I must say "thank you" to all Nairalanders because this forum have been of great help in numerous ways than I can mention. There's is girl I met and we had the chemistry and exchanged phone number. She had a guy by then, 11 months later, I got a job and I feel like I should asked her out. I did and she accepted(maybe because she broke up with that her guy). So the time I visited her when I asked her out, her phone had problem so I decided to get her a small phone to keep the conversation going and gave her small money willingly because she is a student. About three weeks after toasting her, she started asking me for money. The relationship is new and I wanted to understand her even before asking her out. But we don't live close to each other. So I had to ask her out and she seemed to be so enthusiastic about it by pushing our conversation into the toasting thing. To me I feel it's to early for her to ask me for money but I gave her anyway. there was a time we were talking on phone and she made a statement that seemed funny to me. that she was advised my her spiritual father to let go of anybody who will not help her destiny(she seems to be the church type, and this statement kept ringing in my far like a melody). So about 13 days later, she told me that she needed to buy a phone. And she was asking for money again. So I told her I will look into it and see what I can do. She asked me to look into it and reply her. I invited her for Christmas she didn't come(that she's still under her father and I should understand that. That her dad told her not to go anywhere that time will come that she will visit me). All I want is to be together with her under the same roof for like two days at least it will help me in knowing her. I don't intend to sleep with her cos I was hopping the relationship could lead to something serious. So when she asked me for money again I told has I will look into it and while I was thinking and seeking advice(she asked me yesterday). And just by 12 am now, I saw her text that her spiritual father told Iher not to but the phone. That she should invest the little money she has. That guy she wanted to marry, she had some issues with him. And there's this picture I snapped with her when I visited her(I visited her only twice. Once before via toasting and once when I asked her out). I uploaded the picture on Facebook and tagged her. She called me that I should please remove it, that someone called about it and that because of the issue she had with that guy about marriage, that people are beginning to talk about the picture and it's bringing too much tension And that time is coming for me to post whatever I want. Could this girl who claim to be spiritually oriented be a good girl? 1. Her father Told her not to visit anywhere but maybe he didn't tell her not to ask money from anybody. 2. If she loves me what's up with the picture? 3. What is the meaning of letting go of anybody who will not help her destiny as advised by her spiritual father. 4. I visited her only once is it wise to be sending money? 5. She never visited me, I never had sex with her, never even kissed her. 6. I have myself to take care of. Have family members to help and a plan for masters program this 2016. Please I need your advice. |
Romance / Re: My Gf Always Asking Me For Money This Day by Fredoh(m): 12:33am On Jan 14, 2016 |
yusuf2:IHonestly, two weeks and they are asking for money. |
Romance / Re: My Gf Always Asking Me For Money This Day by Fredoh(m): 12:29am On Jan 14, 2016 |
ShyOne:God bless you ma. And I'm so happy that this is coming from a lady. I feel touched cos I'm going through a similar shit right now. That's why I'm awake by now looking at Nairaland. I feel I should create a topic for mine too. Some weeks into the relationship and she's asking for money. Nothing she has done for me yet. Some girls think guys have to pay for sex but I don't belong to such category. Besides I haven't had sex with her but I do believe I should spend on my woman at will. |
Family / Re: Why Are Women Always Ungrateful? by Fredoh(m): 6:10pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
harakiri:Correct! That's their very nature from Adam. And in this 21st century, it's even worst. Who knows what will happen in the year 2115! |
Romance / Re: Women Are Basically Greedy. by Fredoh(m): 10:29pm On Sep 14, 2015 |
@Kc-blast tanks im cool.Hope u're gud? When it comes 2 r/ship most women are greedy.They seen it as avenue 2 get from d guyz and wouldn't want 2 commit their resources as a result of fear of past xperience or there perception abt men that they could be dump d nxt min.they simply want 2 b on a safer side in order not 2 lose @ d end bt these same women would ordinarily be open-handed 2 guy(z) on a pure frndship level.You speak sense dude! |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Access Bank Calling For Aptitude Test (entry-level) (2014) by Fredoh(m): 11:00pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Jimwalex:Sorry for replying your message this late! First of all, I want you to know that what I will share with you is strictly my experience at ACCESS BANK SCHOOL OF BANKING EXCELLENCE and you are at liberty wether or not to use this information for any decision making. To start with, Accessbank training school ruined my life! I have decided to keep quiet about it on Nairaland till somebody talks about it. Let Me Summarize! After they made us look for #2M customers for them. We went to Lagos and did our Medicals on Friday, we were to resume TS on Monday. When we went to TS on Monday we met a woman called Neka, and she was the Almighty in the school- she was the program director! She welcomed us, and ask if anybody's married, obviously nobody! She asked if anybody's is getting married, no body Then she asked me anybody's gonna be a wedding best man, then a girl said her sister is getting married and she's a friend. The woman said "you have to choose between your sister's wedding and this TS. The bottom line is TS is hectic! Officially it's supposed to start 8am and close at 6pm, but I tell you what! There comes a time you will wish to sleep in the school but they don't allow passing the night any longer! The courses are of two types "soft skills and core course" you are expected to keep your all your scores above 65% to remain in the TS and 64.99 is not equal to 65! If you come late the rule says you'll pay 2k, if you skip a day without concrete reason, the rule says you'll be withdrawn! If you skip a gym class the rule says you will be withdrawn! If you score less than 65 in a soft skill, no problem so long as your moving average is above 65! If you score less than 65 in a core course YOU HAVE FAILED THE COURSE and will be given a ONE MORE GRACE TO RESEAT IT, and reseating costs 3k. . . . fast-forwarding . . . You must take a compulsory car "LEASE" ( pls find out the difference between loan and lease) which is kia car. You will be given 43,750 as allowance. Biggest news is that after graduation, the pay is huge. No accommodations for Nigerian trainees. Only for foreign trainees. (Zambia, Ghana etc) . . . after a successful graduation, class toppers may stay at the head office. Class/course toppers may be given a prize for their hard work! . . . Must trainees will be sent to marketing, however, marketing or no marking, the target thing continues. . . . Unfortunately, I became a victim of circumstances and I was withdrawn! As me why! 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Kaduna Electrical Distribution Company Calling For CBT 6th And 7th June by Fredoh(m): 1:21pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
ruhu:graduate trainee. Ruhu, I responded to your mail but you no talk! |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Kaduna Electrical Distribution Company Calling For CBT 6th And 7th June by Fredoh(m): 1:19pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
paulobi:paulobi let's hook up, I'm also for customer-care! |
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