honorsam:
When I remember my responsibilities, sleep becomes a sin. I sleep 7 hours only on weekends.

I wish one day I'II also sleep before midnight like normal people. Every day I sleep the next day, even yesterday I slept today.

Deenillah:
10-14hrs on my off days
And
8-9hrs on work days

Kingosytex:
Mine is that bad. Can't even remember the last time I had a sound sleep, I go to bed around 11:40 Pm daily and before 1:30 Am my eyes are wide open.
Someone saw me in the mall just 3 days ago and said that I've not slept for quite some time. Many are really observant.

Skyview01:
Why did you get into a marriage both of you are not financially and emotionally prepared for?

Why bring the poor kids to come suffer when both of you are not ready financially?

I call it wickedness when you have kids without the means to take care of them.

I have no sympathy for you, I only pity the poor innocent kids. Instead of looking for ways to solve the problems you willfully created, you are looking for another man to shift your burdens.

You still will never learn and are always seeking for shortcuts.

MARRIAGE AND CHILDBEARING ARE NOT NECESSARY AND SUFFICIENT CONDITIONS FOR HAPPINESS IN LIFE!

Wizdeen:
Yes, Cost is the main factor boss, the civic and the corolla are both north of 2million at least to get a good nigerian used, the volvo is way more affordable as from research i can see nigerian used for 1-1.5m, I live in Lagos as well so parts and repairs wont be an issue, I see quite a number of them around here kept outside with no threat of theft, and men they look good and drive real good

Samantha124:
I'll never move in with a guy I'm not married to and start doing wifely duties when I'm not his wife.

Sure I can visit him and make something to eat while I'm there because I'll be hungry too.

Queendera:
Personally, i have never liked the idea of divorce settlement.

Yes. Think whatever you wanna think.

But divorce settlement is to me a fraud. It makes the whole marriage thing a thing that people are now afraid to get into.

No one deserves to lose their wealth simply because they got married.

You don't marry a wealthy man and then in 3 or 5 or even 10 years time feel entitled to half of his wealth.

Yes, let the court settle the matter and let the woman get something from the man based on "compassionate" grounds if she had been a housewife.

But a woman working at the same time should pack her things and move on.

You both spent the time to build yourself. You both had your fun together. You both gave birth.

So why give one spouse the idea that they deserve half of what they probably didn't work for?

This is love being bought and sold.

Marriage has been monetized by certain groups of people and men need to start speaking up.

Look around you, some women in the western world now live on child support and they feel "empowered". Such nonsense.

If you are not financially able to take care of the child why fight for custody?

BeanmanX:
Hakimi have made men worldwide happy, if only some men are as sensible as Hakimi, some treacherous women wouldn't be able to use men the way they like.

Rokiat:
At this point ya all just go ahead and declare a Hakimi public holiday.

koladata:
this law will soon be reviewed world wide as its not even helping the women. The fears of losing everything is growing in men and they are running from holy matrimony therefore creating more single women. Apparently some bad women are taking advantage of the system which is also not helping the good women since we can't read minds to know who is coming for the money and not for love.

All the women claiming what the guy did is bad, if he is your son or your brother, would you like it that a woman that signed for better for worse is taking more than half of the wealth she didn't build for a marriage that is not even up to 5years, so what should happen to the mother that carried him for 9months , he should take 1percent abi? or what should happen to his family members that were there through tick and stones and that will still be there when all his wealth has been allocated to a woman who fell out of love to one random tiktok guy.

if women know what is good for them , they should rally for this rubbish law to be adjusted because some kind of money can turn good girls bad. 1m pounds per month is too much , i would divorce any man half way too if i was a lady because i know going forward, my entire life is made without him.

thomaspartey:


Rebecca was the mother of Esau. doesnt apply in the case

Meanwhile, the score line for Hakimi and his wife should be more than 1-0. that thing shook the foundation of the female race

Vinnie2000:


Eyaa. Nigerian Ladies are crying now.

Nigerian women that will have 5million in dier ACC and depend on their Husbands 50k salary.

Nigerian Women that will be Secretly buying Land and building houses while in a Self-contained with their Husbands.

Let Dem Cry and Wail, on this Hakimi's matter.😏

This Guy should be Given CAF player of the Year for this Action. 😎

Wawelexy:
Na Eminem dey make me buy this book then..... I don't hear what that dude says in his rap.... And I remember I bought one just to cram style plus songs because of Bisi... Person don to mumu for this life abeg

BloomingDale:


The house-help gets paid by the wife, meaning that the husband in no way or shape wants to help the wife take care of the house chores, yet expects her to foot some of the house bills and take care of her own personal maintenance.

Since the wife is taking care of some bills, the husband should also learn to fend for himself by doing some some house chores like cooking for himself and the children when the wife is not around or tired. He should have seen that day as an opportunity to treat the children to a Sunday outing and if possible go out of his way to buy the wife takeaway pending when she will be back. These little gestures go a long way.

I bet he is the type of man that spends all weekend watching football and going out for drinks with his male friends, while he expects the wife to slave away all all weekend.

The guy simply does not love his wife. He is just using her as a nanny, cook, house help, sleep partner and child rearer. He is only annoyed things are not going his selfish way.

Heathrow44:



All women are feminists, some are much open about it, others hide in disguise thinking what would other people say, the world is changing and feminism is becoming more and more of a norm, in d future, gender roles may be reversed, as women fight for better pay, they occupy all the plum jobs cos they av brainwashed the men that they deserve gender balance in only "key jobs and corporations "and when they av climbed d ladder and there are more successful men to women , gender roles would be reversed, men would start doing tailoring, Market provisions, doing ashawo, cooking, washing pant and all that,

ravensckar:
Mr. OP, first of all, I sympathize with you on what you're going through in your marriage. May the Almighty God take absolute control.

Secondly, what you mentioned that your wife is doing to you is typical of most Nigerian women. Withholding sex, not cooking or showing you attention. It's their oldest control mechanism to keep their man in check. It's just that your wife took hers too far. Funny enough, there's not a single man in Nigeria whose wife didn't use these tactics on him, the smart ones always turn the tables and the weak ones always succumb. Kindly spend more time with your dad (if he's still around) or some of your guys who are married let them give you the OT.

My advice for you is simple; find your wife's thumbscrew and use it to counter attack (turn the table). I'll tell you a short story, hopefully, you can learn a thing or two from it. My wife for example, when she started her own 'kolomental' back then. She won't cook, she won't clean the house, she won't give her best during sex. It's always one complain or another. The most painful part of it was the food, every other thing I can bear. I sat her down and spoke to her, nothing changed. I sometimes don't eat at home just to express my displeasure. She didn't bulge, rather, she mocked me and told me that I'll die of hunger.
I reported to her parents, nothing changed.

Then, I spoke to my dad about it and he gave me the OT. I started chatting and receiving calls from one particular number. I began to spend quality time outside my house, she still didn't bulge. I took it to another level by subtly making her friends and family members become aware of my new lifestyle. Fear catch Hanty and she quickly surrendered. It was that moment I found her thumbscrew; my wife is very particular about other people's perception of her marriage. She hates to give others the impression that her marriage is going through something. She's that type of lady who doesn't want her friends, family or even the neighbours to ever think that her husband doesn't love her dearly. That was it, I found her thumbscrew and the dick measuring contest was won by me!

Since then, I now know what drives her, what motivates her and what unsettles her. For example, if I want her to knack very well. I'll stop over at her shop on my way back from work, buy her chop chop and we'll both be eating it outside. Gist with her outside, help her sell her stuff and be doing touch & do. You can be sure that night ehn, she will finish me on the bed. And in the same way, if she offends me and I want to treat her Bleep up, I'll just stop over at her shop with a frown on my face or attitude. Instantly, Hanty will start to dey beg.

In summary, every woman has a thumbscrew. Your job as a man is to figure out your wife's thumbscrew and use it to the fullest. If you do that, you'll change the dynamics. And in seduction, he who has the initiative has the power. You need to take that initiative!

PS- marriage, business, sports, & politics are ARTS. To succeed at it, one must learn the intricacies.

juniorstar:

No drop money for upkeep and your wife toiletries you go know say sex isn't free.

myami:
at least you are enjoying free sex

Dizzyyish:
Due to the Female Narcissism and Machiavellianism they possess, they are incapable of loving a man. Even if they were capable of doing so, they would be unwilling to do so because love impedes the effectiveness of their manipulation, and in turn, affects …

Wilgrea7:
Hello everyone,

So I've been thinking about something recently.

The idea behind the Abrahamic religions, is that we are sinners, and by virtue of that, deserve some sort of eternal punishment.

In the Christian religion, we're all born into sin. And even if we accept this Jesus character, we could still commit sin and end up in hell. What I'm basically saying is, it is incredibly more difficult to live a “holy" life, than it is to live a "sinful" one.

It is even further asserted by their Jesus, that "narrow is the way that leads to salvation, and only few find it", meaning most people alive would eventually end up in hell.

So if that's the case, then why would you choose to have children?

Why would you choose to bring more people into the world, knowing quite well, that they'd eventually that the vast majority of them would eventually end up in hell, at least according to your scripture?

If you truly believe in your scripture, then why would you knowing partake in something that would eventually lead to mass damnation?

I await some interesting answers

Kobojunkie:
1. Yes! Except a man be born-again, he cannot enter into the Kingdom of God - John 3 vs 1 - 8 - either through the broad gate which leads to destruction(Hell) at its end or the Narrow gate which leads to True Life(Heaven)- Matthew 7 vs 13 - 14. The Kingdom of God is a Nation not of this world over which Jesus Christ is King and judge- Matthew 25 vs 31 - 46 - and it is in that Kingdom that you will find Heaven and Hell.


2. According to scripture, all those who are not of the blood of Israel were condemned to die from their beginning in Genesis 3 vs 19 - 22. So, they are free to imagine for themselves the "afterlife" they desire.

BigSarah:
when I think of how Atiku and Obi, decided to extend Nigerians contract with APC suffering, I laugh, two mad people, will an Atiku/Obi 2023 ticket kill you.

The chapel won't be closed it'll be put to good use by insects, the budget for the chapel will be looted..

My advice to Christians and members of other parties is, we should keep mute and watch APC and work hard for ourselves to have a better life , I don't advise any unnecessary bitterness, imagine suffering bad government and having anger and bitterness in you.

God forbid

IyaebeTheGreat:
It can never be me, I will feel so bad about myself if a younger guy dare approach me romantically, wetin wan cause that one. Abeg

Divoc19:
I don't pray for a next. Am scared of that package.
I will have success and peace alone with my kids. That experience is done and dusted. Thanks though

IyaebeTheGreat:
Those younger than me won’t even have the guts to approach me. Which kind nonsense is that.

Komu1048:



He married her despite her lack of Ukwu but I’m sure she is more than endowed now. I married my wife without ukwu, but I’m still hoping for when it will come out

Divoc19:
I was in a marriage I almost sacrificed my life, still no joy or peace or love


How do you all make your marriage last.
It's like juju to me. Let's be truthful to ourselves. Please

That union is overrated laikdis

Jennyclay:
This is really beautiful.

God when?

IyaebeTheGreat:
God knows I can’t marry my age mate, If you are not above me in everything then you can’t conquer me. I don’t even know how people date their agemate, classmates, job mates and the rest.

ijustdey:


https://leadership.ng/wife-of-president-elect-visits-aisha-buhari/

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Hendrixky:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pFRNhdxCAKE



We have evidences already