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PoliticsRe: Subsidy: One Round Now Goes For N500 - Commercial Sex Workers Lament by Fredoh(m): 2:24pm On Aug 27, 2023
LegendHero:
Even in my hometown Ibadan, Ibo girls dominate all the brothels across the state. No care for quota system at all.

If you go to any brothel in Ibadan and shout “Shinyere”, almost 5 girls will answer you yes at once.

Same thing is applicable in Kano, Kaduna, Ondo, and even their own Imo state. How I wish president Tinubu can make the short time fee go as low as #50 so that we can run these girls out of business so they can find better things to do with their life.

It is not that easy.
This thing is tied to the economy. The unfortunate thing is that such vices pay people more than many legit businesses.
According to the above report, they were getting 5K to 10K per customer and they can get 7 to 10 customers this will give them roughly 50K per day.

Many people don’t earn that much.
Nigeria’s economy is so bad that many vices pay more than legit hustle.

If their per customer price drops to #50, this drop will be a reflection of the economy not the ashawo business only.

Hence the best thing is to ban prostitution in nigeria while encouraging legit business‼️
PoliticsRe: Subsidy: One Round Now Goes For N500 - Commercial Sex Workers Lament by Fredoh(m): 2:16pm On Aug 27, 2023
Kingosytex:
Let the poor breathe cheesy

I'm still yet to understand the idea behind paying a woman for sex___well, I guess it's because the man approached them.

The energy mostly required to fuel the intercourse comes from the man and psychology has proven that women enjoy sex more than men.
A man loses money, energy, while the woman loses absolutely nothing.

Men are sexually more aggressive than women.
And generally speaking, they have higher libido.
Hence the willingness to pay.
They’re women that reportedly pay men too.
It is a prostitute mentality to monetize sex❗️
FamilyRe: How Do I Set Clearer Boundaries With Friends by Fredoh(m): 1:53pm On Aug 27, 2023
Yampotatocarrot:
Maybe it's me o, but from what I read and me trying very hard to understand what OP was writing, I believe something is wrong with the OP

You asked your friend to go to church with you, he said he doesn't want to go to church... You got angry... Yet, you said you don't want to be doing church things because you want to hustle and make it within the remaining four months...

Wetin come be the problem? He should he shelved his own plans to follow you to a church program when you yourself don't want to go for "church-church" things again?

You never talk wetin dey worry you
Ah toh‼️
FamilyRe: How Do I Set Clearer Boundaries With Friends by Fredoh(m): 8:25am On Aug 27, 2023
DamianDd:
This happened today:

I called a friend of mine so we can go for an all night together at a church we were invited in, he was already in the vicinity so I asked where are you he said said at his pastors house and I'm like where is the pastors house then he started complaining... "abeg I nor wan go that church now before oo" then he cut call, I called this boy and he didn't pick again.
Some friends take friendship for granted.
Your own small.
If this happened to me I won’t be bothered!
I don’t know how old you guys are but e get age wey man suppose reach and he’ll need respect from even friends.
Because at that level man should be focusing on getting the Benjamins not fighting.
Friendship without mutual respect is bound to crash like relationship without symbiosis!

During my masters, I noticed my so called new school friend didn’t like taking responsibilities even for his own wrong doing, Must look for someone to blame. I was a group leader of about 25 people at some point and we all agreed to set up a zoom discussion, I had network issue and couldn’t share my screen📺. My so called friend was the first and only one to laugh out loud at me for all ears to hear just because of some network problems which even our lecturers experience. While other people who were not even friends but classmates tried and suggested an alternate solution to our network problem.
Mind you there are ladies in the meeting.

We were given loads of assignments which I understood better. This guy called me 3 times so I could guid him through. I did guid him and corrected many errors. He solved his, I solved mine.
We met in school the next day, he asked that we should compare our answers. I said ok.

On comparing we discovered that I was wrong on two occasions(there were about 30 questions)
This guy started passively abusing me❗️

He said and I quote:
“Na wa for you wo, look at the way you solved this questions. You solved as if you were not concentrating, what is wrong with you ❓”

Damn❗️
What is wrong with me ? Something no one told me in a long long time. Not parents not bosses.
The way I felt, if I hadn’t done the entire assignment I would have felt better.

I calmly reiterated what he said to me to his hearing and I noticed it on his face, he realized he messed up but of course too big to apologize!

I told him of course I didn’t concentrate because I was busy at work while trying to do the assignment but you are on leave.

These and many other things made me systematically give him distance.



I thought friends are supposed to have each other’s back?
Like I said friendship without mutual respect will not last.
SportsRe: Wrestling Legend, Terry Funk Is Dead by Fredoh(m): 7:45am On Aug 27, 2023
naptu2:
I remember Terry Funk from the NWA in the late 1970s and early 1980s, not from the WWE. This was incredibly bloody and it messed with my mind back then.

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Most of us were not born that time Sir‼️
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CelebritiesRe: Steve Harvey’s Wife, Marjorie, Cheated On Him, Wants $200M Divorce Settlements by Fredoh(m): 7:53pm On Aug 26, 2023
Bfly:
Different era comes with different measures.

This is not the era of marriage. 90% of marriages is defiled. Godly Marriage is supposed to be between virgins.
Let the women marry themselves. You can arrange baby with any woman you perceived to be intelligent and let your gene move on. Any bitch will do that for a fat buck.
Ring is a no no no. Niggas

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Here’s comes a wise man.
If only people know that everything is a function of time. But most people don’t understand.
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CelebritiesRe: Steve Harvey’s Wife, Marjorie, Cheated On Him, Wants $200M Divorce Settlements by Fredoh(m): 7:45pm On Aug 26, 2023
GanagiBitrus:
I've no qualms with her cheating, but going ahead to sue for half his wealth...

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Marriage is a dangerous thing for a man in America and a wealth creation program for women in same country‼️
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CelebritiesRe: Steve Harvey’s Wife, Marjorie, Cheated On Him, Wants $200M Divorce Settlements by Fredoh(m): 7:22pm On Aug 26, 2023
Racoon:
Infidelity is a grievous sin I keep praying everyday that God keep and save me from. I married a virgin and as a virgin myself hence have been trusting God to keep myself.

2 of my class girls in university almost killed themselves because of me but I really bless God for grace. To fall into infidelity is very easy but abeg trust God to help you keep yourself in this evil world.
@Racoon‼️
I can see you never spoil, be on the watch lest you be deceived!!

Talking about Steve and wife.
These are not in the class of piety or virginity as you may expect.

They done spoil teh teh ‼️
EducationRe: Seeing This As The Parent, What Would You Do? by Fredoh(m): 8:37am On Aug 25, 2023
jimfarayola:
Over raw grin grin


I don’t wanna call out their tribes but we know them.

The thing is, every tribe have their own phonetic interference, but some people go as far as writing it the way they say it!
Such people are not adequately educated in that context!
Withdraw your child as soon as possible.

But to be honest the above story never happened ‼️
The first gift 🎁 is having a different covering than the one presented to the boy!

EducationRe: Seeing This As The Parent, What Would You Do? by Fredoh(m): 8:35am On Aug 25, 2023
Olachase:
Even over here in engineer industry we have people with (Master degree) in Engineering that pronounce (cover all) as (cover raw) 😁 😁
I don’t wanna call out their tribes but we know them.

The thing is, every tribe have their own phonetic interference, but some people go as far as writing it the way they say it!
Such people are not adequately educated in that context!
Withdraw your child as soon as possible.

But to be honest the above story never happened ‼️
The first gift 🎁 is having a different covering than the one presented to the boy!
Nairaland GeneralRe: Appreciation by Fredoh(op): 9:21pm On Aug 14, 2023
lifenajeje:
Yes get someone based in any of the countries u can trust
Alright Sir,
Thanks‼️
Nairaland GeneralRe: Appreciation by Fredoh(op):
lifenajeje:
May God heal her ..
Set up a gofundme.
Amen 🙏
Thank you Sir
Gofundme?
I’ll look that up
Thanks!!

There’s no African countries in list of Gofundme registration page.
Christianity EtcRe: Was This Action Of King Solomon Right Or Wrong? by Fredoh(m): 12:51pm On Aug 13, 2023
illicit:
Adonijah was already guilty of death for rebelling against his dad, king David

When King David was dying, he instructed Solomon to put some collaborators and offenders to death albeit diplomatically

So that was it...

King Solomon was waiting for the opportunity...

When Adonijah approached King Solomon's mum, Batsheiba, to talk to the king for him so as to marry king David's last wife.
That was the last straw that broke his camels spine...

It was easily perceived that he wasn't contented with his position/situation and wanted more

Very soon, he might want the throne

So Solomon just carried out his father's last instruction

He wasn't wrong

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Their dad David killed somebody and rapped his wife but that didn’t cost him his life.
It’s the person that wants to marry his deceased dad’s wife that should die?
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Christianity EtcRe: Was This Action Of King Solomon Right Or Wrong? by Fredoh(m): 12:40pm On Aug 13, 2023
SoftP:
Though Adonija’s intentions wasn’t pure,
but that was a humble request which could have been refused,
more also, he politely approached Solomon’s mother first!
but a King does not takes calmly whatever poses a threat to his leadership!

Besides; Solomon does not also joke With anything that concerns his libido,
just like his Father who killed the husband of his mother(Uriah) just to possess her.

It’s hereditary

I swear the whole story makes me wanna cringe‼️
I have a lot to say concerning this story but I rest my case‼️
Nairaland GeneralAppreciation by Fredoh(op):
Dear Nairalanders,
This is to appreciate you for your prayers and support. My sister is fine now. Thanks 🙏
FamilyRe: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Fredoh(m): 7:01pm On Aug 11, 2023
Veecruz:
If women stop bombarding men with the thoughts of sex then the man can breathe. You definitely know the amount of attacks and bombardment a man is subjected to everyday from when he wakes up.

Tvs and radios and movies will do their own while still trying to purge that one out then the real one starts, and from women who have never done it before eg neighbour, neighbou's wife, friend, friends wife. Then in the streets, strange women firing one with sex, almost per every.5 or 10 people, every hour everyday.

The assault is too much.

However, if married men knew sex was death then they should know that it is a fight life and it is not a fight that can be won by gragra.and all that people say, We need God to be in it.

Unfortunately people do not want God so they must fall

And especially you virgin men and those men who have been washed by the Blood of Christ, you have the fatest cow that all women want to eat, so expect the greatest hit.

I agree with most but not all, it’s not about born again or washed by the blood 🩸. These women are interested in money than anything.

30-50 years ago, if you dress like modern Women do, you’ll be called a prostitute even in England. See where we de now!!

Sometimes I wonder what will become of our society if men start dressing and sticking their D’s out.

We just know that’s nonsense, exactly how I see half naked women.
FamilyRe: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Fredoh(m): 6:52pm On Aug 11, 2023
Veecruz:
Sex induction (seduction) is a very wicked thing to do to a man. It is the case of putting a plate of rice and stew outside and expecting chickens not to eat it.

Remove the temptation of sex induction and a good portion of men will be faithful as shown in the past when women were in their proper places and not enticing men. It was in those days that men.were solely guilty. But today, it is actually the women who are guilty as the op has rightly observed.

Today, girls and women are the ones drawing a married man to have sex with them.

Agreed!
The iniquity in this generation isn’t going anywhere, it has just begun.
Prostitutes everywhere!!
Right now as I type, one is sitting in from of me with her lap and breasts wide open while i eat in an eatery.

The reasons cannot be put in one single basket.
Women like cheap life, men life the pcat, unfortunately Nigeria is so rotten that vices such as prostitution pay them more than legit hustle!!
HealthRe: Identical Twins Married To Twins Give Birth To Identical Twins Same Day by Fredoh(m): 1:44pm On Jul 23, 2023
PublicHealthNig:
Source:

https://www.publichealth.com.ng/identical-twins-married-to-twins-give-birth-to-identical-twins-same-day/
[color=#590809] How many twins are there evolved in this story❓4️⃣‼️

God bless the Federal Republic Of Nigeria🇳🇬‼️ [/color]
RomanceRe: Her Ex Still Calls Her Even Though She Is Married. by Fredoh(m): 10:02am On Jul 23, 2023
ahnie:
Is the husband too dumb to change the wife's simcard?
Just asking .

That's the first every sensible husband would do to avoid roaming ghosts from the past aka lord faquard's ghost cheesy
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Too much drama for women affairs!
To the point of changing SIM card just to get some peace!

Is it actually worth it?

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RomanceRe: I'm Going To Kill Someone Today by Fredoh(m): 9:55am On Jul 23, 2023
PatientofYabale:
After everything I did for you, you still cheat on me. Your day are numbered this stupid girl. I will make sure they plan your funeral very well. I paid for her school fees, bought her handouts, buy her almost 39,000 recharge cards, whenever she is hungry I still dey send her token upon the factory work I dey manage. She still dare cheat on me.
You Kon dey beg me for what!!!. If I no kill her make I bend!!!. I will go to work all night no sleep, those stupid indians and Lebanese go dey shout one me like fool, you this girl wey I dey plan my whole future with Kon still cheat me cry cry cry. Omo this thing pain me well!!!, Whenever I want to Bleep you u go dey tell me when we marry. So u dey fool me since all this while. I will never forgive u, until l kill u. Monkey dey work baboon dey chop. Make nobody shaa vex me this night. Because I fit kill anybody right nw. The girl don end my life. I just dey feel like make I commit suicide. My life is meaningless. I love this girl with my whole life
One thing is sure❗️
You have learned your lesson‼️
RomanceRe: Why Do Hausa Fulani Ladies Avoid Premarital Relationship? by Fredoh(m): 9:07am On Jul 23, 2023
purples25:
Eh, then in the dating, sex will enter. Then the man will have the upper hand as the woman is emotionally tied. Is that not it?! Then after eating to his fill, the man will STILL be 'contemplating' whether he wants the lady or not, right? Treating her anyhow, she has no pride or power, she has to wait until our lordship deems it fit if he wants her or not, despite having a good use of her body. Then pregnancy and abortions or a hurried marriage, all indignities on the woman, enter.

See, that dating is only profitable to men. They can use every trick to manipulate women. They can treat the lady and her family any which way after impregnating her. They can use so many women and get so drunk on sex that they come out here to call them names. It made women so available, so easy and cheap for them. Why won't men call women whores when they don't have to work for them? They don't have to be on their best behavior, till their father in law's land or anything. All they have to do is to be visiting eateries and romantic spots with her. Afterwards sleep with her, then start calling shots on the emotionally bound woman. No wonder many men have ditched marriage! No wonder women are valueless, begging these irresponsible men up and down for marriage, accepting anything just to be married! Because dating has made women so plentiful and easy for men.

Dating is only an avenue to use and abuse women to stupor.


Another perspective!!
We see life through our own lenses!!

I on the other hand think that women use relationship to get money from men, to the point of asking their boyfriends to do what they can’t ask their fathers.

To be honest, it’s a combination of both. Life is not a straight line graph!
RomanceRe: Nigerian Doctor Shares Her Battle With Loneliness In The UK by Fredoh(m): 8:48am On Jul 23, 2023
Maria96:
Hmmm
https://www.instagram.com/p/Cu1M-PngolX/?igshid=Y2I2MzMwZWM3ZA==

Many women are too afraid of loneliness!
Why do you sound as if loneliness will kill you?

You have a better life than majority of Nigerians and your problem is loneliness, to the point you went sleeping with a man you know is married.

Well, you sound desperate for attention. Which is a sign a chameleon can take advantage of.
RomanceRe: Why Many Young Nigerians Are Not In Relationships by Fredoh(m): 7:31am On Jul 23, 2023
ecolime:
It's Southern youths that are not in relationships neither are they getting married.

Despite the economic downturn, our Northern counterparts dey wed from age 15 and they birth 5 to 10 kids.

In the next 50 years, Northerners and Almajiris will overrun the entire country just the way Blacks are gradually overrunning France.

People dey JAPA, youths no gree marry, yet Nigeria's population is doubling. Think about it.

I like your thinking‼️
RomanceRe: Why Many Young Nigerians Are Not In Relationships by Fredoh(m): 7:28am On Jul 23, 2023
IyanuDeb:
now you are talking

Gangan! You’ve been identified Sir‼️
RomanceRe: Should I Break Up With Her, Because Of Her Entitlement Mentality (Pixels) by Fredoh(m): 3:35pm On Jul 22, 2023
taylor89:
Orphans with Vagina everywhere

I wish say God created every human with Gbola and pvssy

Make everybody dey Fvck himself all these rubbish would have been avoided

The moment they know they’ve vagina under them boom you automatically owe them money

For TOTO wey even get infection

😂 😆 😂 Most funny thing I’ve heard this morning
FamilyRe: Things We Do Out Of Pity That Backfired by Fredoh(m): 11:52am On Jul 22, 2023
Templee333:
Person wey you give your thing for credit because of say him de lament, when him don hold the money tire you never even ask am, Last last him come use the money stone you and him de tell you say he no de take nonsense. Na wetin i de see everyday be that.
Inside life ‼️
Car TalkRe: Is Toyota Corolla Really The Best by Fredoh(m): 10:44am On Jul 02, 2023
adanny01:
Your assumptions are shallow.

678/60=11.3km/l=26.58mpg

First off, a 2004 Honda Civic has better fuel economy so will do this trip with less fuel. Will it be king if it does?

26.5mpg on a highway on a Corolla is poor, I was expecting like 30mpg considering it is rated 34-36mpg highway. With our bad fuel, bad roads and loading, 30mpg is more appropriate.

The worst I get on my 2003 Honda accord is 24mpg.

24mpg=10.2km/l
678/10.2=66.5l

That means at worst case I will use 6.5l more which translates to N929.50k.

The average cost of buying a 2004 Corolla is 300k more. If say we both go to PH and back once a month that will be 2k times 12=24k/year
300k/24=12½yrs

What I lost in fuel economy is gained in cost price. I also gained in performance. On reliability, that is another subject for another thread.

It still boils down to preference.
I like this guy
HealthRe: How Many Hours Do You Sleep In A Day? by Fredoh(m): 5:56pm On Jun 17, 2023
honorsam:
When I remember my responsibilities, sleep becomes a sin. I sleep 7 hours only on weekends.

I wish one day I'II also sleep before midnight like normal people. Every day I sleep the next day, even yesterday I slept today.
Lol funny.
May God boss Our hustle!!
HealthRe: How Many Hours Do You Sleep In A Day? by Fredoh(m): 5:53pm On Jun 17, 2023
Deenillah:
10-14hrs on my off days
And
8-9hrs on work days
You have no problems then.
HealthRe: How Many Hours Do You Sleep In A Day? by Fredoh(m): 5:52pm On Jun 17, 2023
Kingosytex:
Mine is that bad. Can't even remember the last time I had a sound sleep, I go to bed around 11:40 Pm daily and before 1:30 Am my eyes are wide open.
Someone saw me in the mall just 3 days ago and said that I've not slept for quite some time. Many are really observant.
Yes people are really observant and truth is lack of sleep shows on our faces.

Lack of sleep can make you look older than you should.

When I became deliberate about my 8 hours of sleep, my coworkers observed and told me.
HealthRe: How Many Hours Do You Sleep In A Day? by Fredoh(m): 5:47pm On Jun 17, 2023
I have observed that lack of proper sleep is costing me.
So I set up an 8 hours sleep schedule which I didn’t use to abide by before, but now I do.
Schedule on my phone is from 10:30PM to 6:30AM with a sleep beep and a wake alarm.

Now I feel the difference even coworkers are telling me I look fresh, calm and sweet.

Lack of proper sleep na disease. Inside your hustle try and sleep. Medically, the recommended hours is 8 but must adults don’t get that.
Thank me later.
FamilyRe: Leaving A Marriage Because He's Not Taking Responsibilities, Make Me Bad? by Fredoh(m): 8:27am On Jun 11, 2023
Skyview01:
Why did you get into a marriage both of you are not financially and emotionally prepared for?

Why bring the poor kids to come suffer when both of you are not ready financially?

I call it wickedness when you have kids without the means to take care of them.

I have no sympathy for you, I only pity the poor innocent kids. Instead of looking for ways to solve the problems you willfully created, you are looking for another man to shift your burdens.

You still will never learn and are always seeking for shortcuts.

MARRIAGE AND CHILDBEARING ARE NOT NECESSARY AND SUFFICIENT CONDITIONS FOR HAPPINESS IN LIFE!

We seem to share same ideology Sir, you just said my mind.
I always think that it is unfair to bring children into this world when you know you can’t cater for them. This is not peculiar to the OP, it’s a generic statement. People do that a lot, and eventually hang the burden of huge responsibilities to their children by the time they old and feeble.

Back to the OP, discuss with family, take a brake and discuss the way forward with your man.
There’s no hiding place, he needs to take responsibility!!

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