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Romance / Re: If A Man Proposes To A Lady And She Says No, Is The Relationship Over? by Fredoh(m): 2:44pm On Jul 31, 2021
habsydiamond:
but that shouldn't be a straight No. Such must come with some explanations I guess

True but as long as the lady didn't say the famous "No" in a humiliating way.

The issue is most rejected proposals i see (all online, never seen a live rejection) are humiliating.


I usually expect the girl to get the guy off his knees, give him a hug and refuse the ring.
To me that Looks like the "No" for the time being!
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Feel Like Quitting My Job by Fredoh(m): 11:21pm On Jul 25, 2021
ceevee2003:
Hi all, I need your advice. I work for an online university that pays USD equivalent 230,000 as per today's aboki exchange rate. Now, just recently my immediate supervisor was sacked and replaced by an Indian lady who is making the work so difficult to the extent that I hate remembering work. I have been in this job for close to 5 years and I have never felt this bad about the job. Right now I feel like quitting and focusing on my other hustle, although this will mean halving my monthly income. Anyone with a similar experience to share, or advice to give?

Hang on and this too shall pass.

What makes you think we all are in a sweet Romance with our Jobs?

Got to put food on the table!
Religion / Re: Apostle Agochukwu: ''Nothing Will Happen To The Person Who Refused To Help You" by Fredoh(m): 5:04pm On Jul 23, 2021
envoymedia:


https://igberetvnews.com/1396179/nothing-will-happen-person-refused-help-clergyman/

In Craig David's Voice:
... and that's a fact and it ain't right!
Culture / Re: Igbo Names & Their Meanings by Fredoh(m): 8:41am On Jul 23, 2021
Zahymaka:
She asked for meanings

Nneoma -- Beautiful/Sweet mother

Ifeoma -- Nice thing

Amaka -- Beautiful

Nnenna -- Mother of her father [if you believe in reincarnation].

How come I can only "decrypt" female names?



Arhyel: God's Own
Culture / Re: Beautiful Pictures Of Northern Nigerian Women by Fredoh(m): 1:33pm On Jul 22, 2021
Thatssobeyonce:


Well I'm one

If that pic on your dp is you, then i absolutely agree with you. In fact you should be close to the top.
Culture / Re: Beautiful Pictures Of Northern Nigerian Women by Fredoh(m): 1:23pm On Jul 22, 2021
Beauty abound in the north!
Culture / Re: The WAZOBIA Pros And Cons by Fredoh(m): 12:52pm On Jul 22, 2021
theTranscriber:
Tu padre es dirty and verbose!

Oh!
No pun intended
sin insulto
Culture / The WAZOBIA Pros And Cons by Fredoh(m): 12:27pm On Jul 22, 2021
People of different tribes and cultures have their own good as well as bad characters. There's a popular belief, generally speaking, about the three major Tribes we have in Nigeria.
I usually don't believe what people just say until i have a reason to believe. (you know! just like hypothesis testing, the null hypothesis is always nothing happens).
Until i began to pay close attention and was able to see for my self and come to this conclusion that our dear WAZOBIA have the following pros and cons:

YORUBAS:
Pros: Smart and Well Educated
Cons: Dirty and Verbose



HAUSAS:
Pros: Honnest and Content
Cons: Troublesome and Not so Educated



IGBOS:
Pros: Enterprising and Fun Loving
Cons: Devious and Crafty


After all said and done, may we learn how to use our diversity as a blessing not as a curse.
We look forward to a more United, Peaceful and Prosperous Nigeria.

Read and say your mind. You may choose to add or differ but please don't start a fight!
Car Talk / Re: Man Cries Out As Cow Destroys His New Car While The Fulani Herdsmen Look On. by Fredoh(m): 11:07am On Jul 21, 2021
FreeIgbos:
In a sane country, the herdsman herding the cattle would be arrested and made to pay for the damages. But this is Nigeria, a worthless country where the government places more value on cow than humans. The fulani herdsman will simply walkaway and if it the man tries to stop him, he will either pull a knife or threaten him with his AK47. Even the police may even arrest the victim and make him spend more money.

I'm interested in knowing how the issue ended, how the authority resolved the matter.

@OP kindly follow the story and give us feedback here.

Or give us link to a news outlet that carried the story.
Family / Re: Man Walks In On His Wife Feeding Her Lover In Their Home (Photo) by Fredoh(m): 6:01pm On Jul 16, 2021
Bola146:
angry sad sad Game up! Beat the hell out of the mumu man cheesy Break one of his legs and one of his hands wink wink This is how all cheating married women will be caught grin grin grin

For the sake of justice, what about the wife?
Sports / Re: Who Is Your GOAT Again by Fredoh(m): 10:13pm On Jul 13, 2021
After carefully studying the way these two greats play.
I noticed this:

Ronaldo may hit you a lil harder.
Messi gives you orgasm while you watch him.

I had to admit Messi is exceptional.

Me for Messi
My friend for CR7

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Religion / Re: Disappearing Object Phenomenon by Fredoh(m): 5:19pm On Jul 12, 2021
Happened to me too, though mine's not that frequent. only once!

I lost my favorite, beloved black shirt. After some search in my apartment but didn't find it; i just concluded that i must have hung it in the compound and breeze carried it. I freed my mind!
Religion / Re: Pastor Predicted England Will Win Euro 2020 (vid) by Fredoh(m): 1:28pm On Jul 12, 2021
Some people like embarrassing themselves!
Politics / Re: Femi Fani-Kayode On Adam Nuru & The Death Of Tunde Thomas by Fredoh(m): 9:09pm On Jan 04, 2021
Awoo88:
Women get mind sha!!! Some like me no go die!!! Never!!!! The woman go die and i will form a loving father to the kids while one smallie give me my real children. As for the adulterous man, hell on earth for him. No matter his position or connection, he will be at my mercy. I am not talking about about some cheap blackmail. Why would any man die because some pretentious LovePeddler break his his heart? This life dey one kain
That's my point bro.
The man shouldn't have died.
Why does evil prevail over good these days? therefore not encouraging goodness at all.
the soul which sins shall die that's what i subscribe to.
I know its not easy, almost unbearable but mhen i aint gonna be dying for any fucker's sins.
I don't care who seduced who but in my opinion, both MD and the woman share the blame 50, 50. same way they shared the enjoyment 50, 50.

This generation mhen you've got to brace yourself with every tool available to you, DNA test is one of such tools if you know what i mean.
So cheating on him is not enough?
How does she feel the innocent man hustling out his life to take care of a wife (who as far as i'm concern is not his wife) and two children who are not his.
Damn!
Business / Re: What Is Your Worst Business Investment And How Much Did You Lose? by Fredoh(m): 3:41pm On May 29, 2020
Sorry.
I keep saying this, if you're looking for a wife look for someone ready to be a wife otherwise it will end up being a poor investment decision.

Me wey de talk no be say I be woman expert wo
Romance / Re: Boys Get In Here. Your Mumu Must Do. by Fredoh(m): 1:08pm On May 12, 2020
Martinez39:
I know that those who invest more in a relationship are hurt the most during a break up. I also know that women don't really care about the sacrifices you made for them in the past (however great) as they would ready dump you for a higher bidder. However, what I don't understand is that when a girl wants to leave a relationship after establishing a firm grip on a higher bidder, instead of leaving as politely and quickly as possible, many deride/mock/insult you, rub it in your face, and snub you even though there were no enmity from you throughout the relationship.

Usually when a guy and a female are friends, the moment a situation puts her above the guy's status or hard times put the guy below her status, there is this snubbish and rude attitude the girl gives the guy. This is applicable to most women. This is also applicable to many husband-wife relationship. It's just to tell you that women have heart as cold as Russian snow. Ubunja must have observed all these like I did and he might, as usual, shed some light as to WHY. grin

True talk.
They don't invest much in a relationship so exit is always easy.
They are always for the higher bidders.

They don't fucking care how you feel.
The fact that they want you humiliated before leaving for the higher bidder makes me question wether they actually really loved you in the first place or are pretending all along.

Truth is when you don't invest in a relationship just like women, when a richer or finer girl comes around etc.
It becomes easier to be care free even as a man.

Common mhen this is chess not chuckles, sense must be applied!
Romance / Re: Boys Get In Here. Your Mumu Must Do. by Fredoh(m): 12:29pm On May 12, 2020

Indeed disgusting it is for a girl to ask a guy for money ...I don't know where the entitlement mentally came from...like how can you depend on a fellow human like you for money? This is why gals have lost their respect in guys eyes....if you need money,work ,or ask your parents...
Most ladies see it as repayment for wifey duties like cleaning his house,cooking and sex...that is why I advocate both genders should be responsible for themselves financially,domestic wise et Al ..so they don't feel they owe someone a dime.....
Stereotype also contribute to this entitlement mentally from ladies,the society has made Man the sole provider. Let's get rid of all stereotype so humans can be responsible for themselves and free

Well said bro.
Simply put!
Romance / Re: Boys Get In Here. Your Mumu Must Do. by Fredoh(m): 12:27pm On May 12, 2020
MedicH:



Lie. They want iPhone. I have an appointment tomorrow self. She wan buy my iPhone x but only has 100k from olosho business. She intends to make the rest up by... Lol by the time we're done she go explain to me how 100k plus 20mins sex equal iPhone x

Hahaha
This nigga ain't joking.
Life is a jungle I swear!
Romance / Re: What Has Love Made You Do That Annoys You Anytime You Remember? by Fredoh(m): 1:06am On May 08, 2020
Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile smiley
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment where I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou)

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paid salary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent within 5 years was around €125,500+ (54,233,804.62 naira) reason why I didn't not send to my mum is I wanted to make it a surprise for my her (only child)..

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab cry only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...
.
The trauma still lives.. sad embarassed

As I read I feel like flogging you.
It ended up just the way I imagined.
Carry 54m give girl way you never marry?

Bro you don't know women.
Meanwhile keep hating them.

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Celebrities / Re: Daddy Freeze Reacts To Video Of A Wife Who Confronted Husband’s Side Chick by Fredoh(m): 10:45am On Mar 01, 2020
Acidosis:
Too busy to worry my head over those that are destined and cursed to make the wrong choices. You marry a cheat or a dog? Then live with it, it's your choice.

That being said, you don't tell a victim how to react in certain circumstances. There's a reason boko haram go after the weaker vessels, instead of the Nigerian government (the main culprit).

A victim will always go after the weaker one (in this case the woman) to draw attention. It is a social theory and nothing anyone can do about it.

Same reason a married man will come home after a hectic day at work to harrass his family instead of his boss at work. Type all you want, this trend will remain for as long as man exists.

I like smart thinking people like you. I wanna surround myself with your type.

Truth is, our culture has a principle we are abiding by but we mostly don't even notice.

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Sports / Re: Voting Breakdown: Messi Votes For Ronaldo But Not Vice Versa, Both Snub Van Dijk by Fredoh(m): 7:46pm On Sep 25, 2019
mystical109:
Oga if u do it like that, then Ronaldo will win every year. Many fans don't even know what good football is. especially in Nigeria
I dont think so.
Go to messivsronaldo.net or worldversus.com that's almost exactly what you're talking about fans voting.
You can vote as well.
See the result for yourself.
Religion / Re: Russia Intensifies Jehovah’s Witnesses Crackdown With New Jailings by Fredoh(m): 2:48pm On Sep 22, 2019
HRHQueenPhil:
Can anyone explain wat JW did to Russia to get this type of punishment?

Help me ask them my sister.
There are many religions worse than JW as far as I'm concern.
JW are peaceful, they are harmless people doing their thing.
I don't know what they did to Russian government.

The only valid reason for the ban would have been any act that threatens national security or corrupt morals. I don't see JW with any of these.
Common Russia, there more important things to focus on:
Are there still terrorist in Russia? Yes
Are there drug addicts and prostitutes in Russia? Yes
Are there human/child traffickers in Russia? Yes.
Plus many other lethal practices but what's the beef with JW?
By the way I'm not JW.
Family / Re: My Wife Is Slowly Distancing Herself From Me..... by Fredoh(m): 3:00pm On Sep 15, 2019
Charles1888:
I had to create a new account for this

I don't know how to get through to my wife anymore, of which the fault is mine, when we were dating, she showed that she was committed to me and loved me wholeheartedly but I was reluctant to marry her cos she was of age, I wanted someone younger, say under 25, but something important that i have to acquire made me marry all of a sudden and she was the only one available, don't get me wrong, I loved her then, her peaceful and humble soul but for some reason I simply can't understand I felt she wasn't enough, but I was wrong, she was perfect, the best I can ever wish for and more, she is everything,

After we got married, you know newlyweds now, the quarrels about every little thing, it was much then, so this particular incident made me so worked up and angry I made a statement I shouldnt have said, during the heated argument I told her that she was never who I would have married, that she wasn't my specs, she was too old (31 lol) that if someone younger was available I wouldn't blink twice before I'll marry the person.

After saying all that, I wasn't sober about it, she held on to that statement, I knew she cried that night, since then we don't talk, play, gist anymore, we became distant, though I apologised the next morning but things isn't just the same anymore, communication isn't there, she only talks to me when she wants to ask or say necessary things, nothing more, though she still cooks, we still have sex, infact every other aspect is fine except for communication, anytime I come back from work and I'm in the sitting room, she doesn't stay there, she either goes to the room or dinning room, I have begged and begged and I don't want to involve third party cos I obviously caused this, when she got pregnant, she didn't tell me till I saw the strip, when I asked why she said she forgot, and we had plans to celebrate when she takes in, I was sad that day, I begged and asked to tell me anything she wants and I'll do it, I'll make it up to her,,she said she wants nothing that she is fine, I love her, she is my baby, we use to be gist buddies, I missed that and I want it back.

I don't know what to do anymore, it's my fault I know that and I'm sorry I ever said that cos it hurt her deeply, I told her to tell me more evil things so that we will be even, she said she can't that she loves me, we are drifting apart, I can feel it,

Pls help me folks, I came here becos I want anonymous advise, what else can I do to make the hurt go away?

Thank God you've agreed that you've bleeped up.
You are a man and shouldn't be running your mouth anyhow.
As far as I know, women are the ones who say what they don't mean in split second. In your situation the reverse is the case.

Okay I'm not an advocate of third party either.
Your remorse and apology is heard and understood by your wife and it's recorded in her brain. What she can't decipher is why you made that statement in the first place. She's dissapointed and is making her "sick".
Something that only time and changed attitude can heal.

From now on resort to saying nothing negative to your wife again even if she does.
Do her good even if she doesn't.
Strike the gist you used to have even if it doesn't sound that sweet.

With time she'll understand that this man only made a poor choice of words but doesn't mean what he said.

I also recommend you watch the movie called FIRE PROOF.

Good luck bro.

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Romance / Re: Feeling depressed ?? Share Your Worst Regret In Life So Far by Fredoh(m): 1:51am On Sep 02, 2019
Contumely:


I regret being born at all. Not just being born in Nigeria.
Life has no meaning.
I wonder what we are doing in this world.

I regret my curiosity; which has led me to learn a lot especially about God and religion. It led me to deism and confusion.
At times, I wish I could format my memory and remain in ignorance-- bliss.


I feel you bro.

Sports / Re: CR7 Beats Messi To Score 600 Club Career Goals by Fredoh(m): 10:57pm On Aug 03, 2019
cr7lomo:


U c u hypocrites...but when it comes to la liga records, u forget that messi started playing in la liga 5yrs b4 Ronaldo arrived

One thing with internet is that anybody can insult you and there aint nothing you can do about it. SMH
Sports / Re: CR7 Beats Messi To Score 600 Club Career Goals by Fredoh(m): 3:31pm On Apr 28, 2019
roland2rule:


Kindly do well to attach the number of matches he took the two of them to reach their current feat.

Thanks lipsrsealed

Well said bro.
Presently (28/04/19)

Messi club goals=598 in 682 appearances (0.877 goals per match)
Ronaldo club goals=600 in in 801 appearances (0.749 goals per match)

You know CR7 started before LM10 In just 1 or 2 matches messi could catch up with even fewer appearances.

Congratulations to CR7 though.

Source: http://messivsronaldo.net/all-time-stats/
Sports / Re: CR7 Beats Messi To Score 600 Club Career Goals by Fredoh(m): 3:29pm On Apr 28, 2019
roland2rule:


Kindly do well to attach the number of matches he took the two of them to reach their current feat.

Thanks lipsrsealed

Well said bro.
Presently (28/04/19)
Messi club goals=598 in 682 appearances (0.877 goals per match)
Ronaldo club goals=600 in in 801 appearances (0.749 goals per match)

You know CR7 started before LM10 In just 1 or 2 matches messi could catch up with even fewer appearances.

Congratulations to CR7 though.

Source: http://messivsronaldo.net/all-time-stats/

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: EFCC Recruitment by Fredoh(m): 2:36pm On Nov 24, 2017
Hi house.
I submitted my cv in Kaduna, my state of origin is Adamawa.
So just this morning I was told in Kaduna to go to gombe and obviously I won't be able to make it today.

Will they still cv continue with the verification tomorrow Saturday?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: EFCC Recruitment by Fredoh(m): 8:06pm On Nov 23, 2017
I've never seen a stupid recruitment like this. Nevertheless we will go.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Department Of Petroleum Resources - 2016 Graduate Trainee &experienced Hire Job by Fredoh(m): 7:10am On Oct 23, 2017
Drnice:
In addition to that above, DPR must "always" send an "email" to "confirm" your "progress or regret" to the next stage. Also, I found out that those who sat for CBT, were shortlisted based on CV/Resume. And for the interview to take place, DPR must provide panel of interviewers with candidates' documents(including the test scores). However, DPR may have found out that many candidates/applicants were editing their documents. Hence, led to portal closed; to avoid alteration or wrong sorting. Also, would enable HR personnels to easily add successful candidates to selected interview boards. That's my findings.

You make sense.
Because it was almost immediately after I added documents to my portal that they closed it.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Department Of Petroleum Resources - 2016 Graduate Trainee &experienced Hire Job by Fredoh(m): 6:54am On Oct 23, 2017
Magma012:
DPR Oya close my portal zi I'm begging you guys cry

Haha irony of life.
We with closed portals are praying God for an opened one. Here's a man with opened portal praying for a closed one.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Department Of Petroleum Resources - 2016 Graduate Trainee &experienced Hire Job by Fredoh(m): 12:38pm On Oct 21, 2017
And even on their website they have not helped matters concerning OBJECT MOVED, PORTAL CLOSED and EDITABLE ACCESS.

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