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cruzita:
leave everything to my husband?egbon I'm not lazy ,my mum wasn't lazy neither was my grandma .And besides ,All the women in my family married or not married are all working class ladies with businesses too. I think this should give u a clue why I said that.

Time will tell. Just remember i said this.

You that will marry now and grow fat and leave everything to your husband and be house wife.

We would remind you of this comment.

Nonsense

cruzita:
I concur op ,that's why im struggling and hustling to mould a better tomorrow for myself and generation so that they won't suffer the way i suffered

firstking01:
Proof which claim?, you dnt believe in God let alone the bible being His word, so it will make no meaning to you even if i qoute the bible...i dnt understand why a breathing soul will not believe in the one who lended him breath, smh

Make me believe. Why should I believe in a book that I don't know who woke up to write? Or believe in someone i cannot see?

So make me believe.. prove it or hold your peace and take your religion out of my thread.

firstking01:
No wonder you created such thread, next time limit your assertions to only atheist cos marriage was instituted by God and bride price too

Can you proof your claim?

falconey:
if this doesn't hit frontpage I'll walk from lagos to cape town _naked wearing _penis-ring.


OP thank you, I've been waiting for this kind of thread for years!!!! .

Bro it's been months.. it didn't reach front page.

Oya Start walking..

What I like:

- Legs (Long and sexy. Not fat)

- Portable Breast (Not slippers and not bag of beans)

- Hair (Not brazzilian. Natural long )

- PUSSAY (Shaved and fresh. Not smelly)

Keep quiet Mr man.

I resemble Christian for your face?

Besides my wife was purchased for N250k. That is some people 1 year salary. A lot of money. And she is no longer a slave coz she return it

Thora:
I so pity your wife, am sure she is a slave in your house and have no say to anything because you thought you bought her for #250. Pls read your bible. Bride price signifies the consent of the bride parent to the marriage (Deu 22:29). And the bible also said man those not have authority over his body but the wife does likewise the wife have no authority over her body the husband does. This made them partner (1st corin 7vs 4) So please women are not a sold item. Change your mentality.

firstking01:
Ohh, see this one, you are totally lost if so

I'm an atheist

firstking01:
Mr poster....i dnt wanna believe you are a christian, and you believe the bible??

What does religion have to do with women and their prices?

Monalisa185:
this generation is turning into something else, and to think that this op has a mother whose bride price was paid by his father before she was called his wife..

don't even know what to type again sf, I mean, i just weak....if you call him a broke ass niqqa now, he'll start wailing that he ain't broke... then what do we call this kinda mentality now?

op, no offense, but did your mother return her bride price to your father?

does that make her a cheap item sold to your father?....

if you can provide answers to these questions, then you've won yourself a little sense

Yes my mother was sold to my father. Even in told my mother that and she told me that she returned it to my father and my father happily collected his money back.

So yeah, my post stands.

Oyind17:
so you be married man hope your wife neva fat?

No she isn't. And she would never be

KashyBaby:
I have nothing to explain to u..this ain't ur thread..unless u & that moniker is ONE.

what is this one saying?

I just choose to ignore you. You still dey run mouth

Godfullsam:
@ OP, do you mean your wife returned her bride pride to you and you shamelessly received it from her and even kept the change

Is there nothing like tradition in your place

Well, don't come back here and open another thread telling us how your wife no longer respects you o

Yes I collected the bride price money back. And even used the change to club with friends. Read my post, I am against that tradition that says I must "purchase" my woman. My woman returned it and I collected it because I am not happy purchasing her. Do you understand ?

Besides wife respects me. Money doesn't have to be the pillar of her respect.

Vanquay:
Incredibly stupid_ post...I grew up in a western society and the notion of Bride price makes no sense to me culturally and financially, so what's your fvcking point?

My friend shut up. Save your BS for your b!tch.

Who cares about where you grew up? If you like grow up in the north pole, no one gives a damn. Bride price is of no sense to you but alot of sense to millions out there. So scaling through millions of africans with the bride price mentality, you are lesser than -1

So fvck off

BoiledHead:
Oga this is not a matter of broke. Some bride price is N200. In our village it's just N10 naira. Yes N10 naira. So no one is broke here.

Our women have to gain their full dignity and as long as they are being paid for like op said, even as small as N10 naira, they are still considered "purchased". So the point is parents should stop selling their daughters. I support op here.

P.s you are the one acting like a retard_ here because you did not read and understand.

Leave him. It's his type that will sell his daughter for N50k in the name of bride price.

Mtcheew.

Please let us stop deceiving ourself and be brutally honest for once in our live. Let us remove hypocrisy, self denial, and other nonsense lies we tell our self. Please I believe 90% of us went to school and/or are still in school. Even a JSS1 student knows that an exchange of an item for money, is a business transaction.

What is the meaning of "sold"? "Sold" means according to Urban Dictionary "verb__

give or hand over (something) in exchange for money."

Now take note of "something" in that explanation. In this case, "something" is you ladies!

Please your fada collect N100 naira before handing you over to your husband what does that mean? Tell your self the truth. You are no partner to anybody. You are nothing but an item that was bought by your husband.

And please don't give me that nonsense ".. can you buy a woman" talk. Yes we can buy women because we are already buying them. No amount is too small or big. Even N5 naira it's still a transaction. 1 million same thing. Just depends on how cheap you are.

Moral Lesson: UNTIL YOUR PARENTS STOP ASKING MEN FOR N500 OR KOLA OR GOAT OR ANY USELESS ITEM IN THE NAME OF ILLITERATE SILLY FRAUDULENT TRADITION BEFORE AUTHORIZING YOUR MARRIAGE, YOU REMAIN AN ITEM THAT WAS SOLD FOR A GOAT OR A TUBER OF YAM OR N50,000 THAT HUSBAND PAID. Take or leave it. Truth is bitter.

Many women deny this fact but deep down you know it's true. You are sold by your parents. Even if it's N10. Don't deceive yourself.

Even I used to tell my wife same thing that I purchase her. She usually get angry and one day she just came to me and returned my N250k I used for bride price and marriage rights. Even said I should keep the change. After she returned it, I now give her the full respect she deserves and now she is a queen in her own right because she is no longer my item i purchased. Even she is happier than before because she has been set free.

So until you return the money to your husband, you remain a cheap item sold to him.

For the truth is bitter.. Yet, it must be said

There is a reason for everything.

1. You can cry underwater.

2. Fishes get thirsty because whilst they swim they block their throat in a way they are not actually drinking water. When thirsty they open it again. Ask your biology teacher there is name the stuff is called.

3. Birds build a nest inside trees not on trees. Those who stay on the trees stay to lay.

5. A dog tastes it.

6. I love you doesn't need answer

8. Glue bottle is made to resist the glue

9. Branches are extension s

VickyRotex:
If this is your view of what a woman has to offer a man, then you need to change your circle and way of reasoning. #NoApologies

I asked a question. You haven't provided an answer. I ask again,

What does a woman have to offer the man?

And what does the woman then have to offer the man?

Sex
Sex
Sex
Sex
Sex
Sex
Sex
Sex
Sex
Babies
Babies
Babies
Babies
Babies
Nagging
Nagging
Nagging



Mtcheew

Respect and most ladies are hoes..
Security and most ladies go to night clubs. .
Love and most ladies friendzone guys..

Ladies Brain: Money, Money, Money, Shopping, Maga, Maga, Sex

Abeg make I buy fuel jare.... lawma over to you

daretodiffer:
FreeBSD....you are abominable

May you get what you deserve!

Mtcheew.. fat woman

shamo92:
I try so hard to fathom why somebody can b so senseless.If u have a problem with "Fat" it is a different thing but when you place emphasis on fat women and insult them then you are myopic.Who says being skinny is the in thing?why is that when you go to buy stuffs you never pick the smaller ones?oh by the way I am fat and I am sure I am in all ramifications better than you.PS I am sure your is a FAT helpless woman

Better than me? Just delete this your comment with style.

If you want to go down that lane with me, lets do that. First of all, let us start with your bank statement for the past 6 months. let me bring my own. Lets see who's got the bank! Then we proceed to assets..

Because we dey nairaland, we no dey same level. Get that in your head!

*Waiting for your bank statement*

UIA04:
@op you are evil so your aim is to get someone depressed for attention sake abi

@embolden

No, my aim is to send someone to the gym.

pwettiejay:
Bhet why is the OP ranting? Hope yhur mum and sisters are slim..........in as much as I don't like the word "fat", I don't discriminate nor make them feel bad about their bodies

Are you okay? My mother is slim and i have no sister

Onyezaza:
Haba, since you don't like them fat why voicing out. Op you are mean o, i pity your wife

because they are not good, i have to voice out to prevent other men from making mistakes

Oyind17:
How old are you?

Are you old enough to query the age of another person?

Fmartin:
Op hold ur tongue. Every body gat his choice. Even though am nt an admirer of fat women.

I prefer slim women with small boobs. I dnt care abt her behind.

#am also slim.

Nobody has any choice. Everybody like good tin. Why can't you make the choice for fat women? Why go with slim ladies with small bwess? Because na dem make sense pass.

Fat ladies are trash

KingCheezyPuff:
That last part best not be a insult

If it is? What will you do?

OK it is. . Oya do your worst..

U dey form say u be foreign. Meanwhile na mushin or Agege you dey

I wonder how a girl will be born.. grow up into a teenager. Still grow up into a youth.. grow up into a woman.. grow up into wife and into mother without watching her weight!

And yet you see them fantasising about prince charming. The rich guy with 8 packs.. When their own stomach sef is bigger than our bag of rice. Any guy you see with fat lady dating or about marry has hidden agenda. There is no fvcking love for fat ladies. Even their vagina sef is very ugly and turns someone off. It remain small it should turn to river basin. Most of their bwess are flat and long. Ah ah. Very disgusting. It's not as if someone force them to be fat. Wait first..

1.) Fat women are mostly senseless. They are fat but their brain small. Majority fat ladies don't think. They just think everything must favor them because they know it cannot favor them.

2.) Fat ladies smell. Yes, many of them smell. Some will be fair skin their pussay will be black. Imagine. And they want prince charming with 8 packs.

3.) They make too much noise:- They shout too much in public. Always making noise. Local champions. You see them bullying slim girls.

4 ) They are frustrated

5.) Most cool men don't go to them so they are use and dump


Guys instead of dating fat ladies.. see, goto Lekki for Lagos, Wuse for Abuja, Bodija for Ibadan, Port-harcourt for Rivers.. you will find slim sexy ladies that even your fada will give you award when you bring her home. Not dem fat ladies person go dey carry spit for mouth if you look them

#FreeBSD