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Na wa o.

airminem:
Outcome Of Our Previous Discus ~ He Says That's His Money So He Should Knw What He Does Wit It And The Day I Work Then I Can Claim My Own Money. This Is So Hard To Deal With. Thanks Though

That's gotta hurt but OP, he may not have meant it the way you think, trust me.

You should get a job, not even because of what he said but because it's the wise thing to do. There's a sense of security that comes with "your own money". The fact that two become one in marriage, doesn't mean you are no longer two individuals. He can get mad and say something, you don't expect, doesn't have to mean the end of the world.

I also get the feeling that, you can't help but point out how staying at home has been a huge deal, cos you are caring for the family, if that's the case, then I can understand why the man may be a tad bit irritated. Well, my sister, it's not easy being a mum/keeping a home but, it is what you signed up for, doing it should be wholehearted, with no expectations of being praised, just like no one's watching. Ofcourse we all like to be appreciated, but that's not something you demand, especially not for doing what you ought to do.

Your husband is just cranky, more so, given the present economy, just bear with him. Instead of getting angry or staying hurt, try and have a heart to heart with him, remind him you aren't lazy and why he chose to be married to you in the first place, don't just stay whinning, people with 3 months old kids work, get a nanny or enroll the kid in a creche, it's something you can do, a woman can have it all.

bukatyne:
@freecocoa:

Congratulations

I suppose you are no longer. Feminist since you quoted me, therefore, I accept your congratulations with a heart full of joy.

Thank you.

I definitely will spank him, to remind him he's no pig.

Except he fell into the dirt by mistake, which I highly doubt, given the picture.

wyzoe:
Being a Nigerian, all I can think of is who got the contract for those pink hats

I swear I thought same too, just see better opportunity to hammer.

Kai! I doubt that nyash belongs to a 10 year old, like damn!

The man is a beast.

Some people and stupidity sef.

This one no fit ever get sense again, smh.

She's crazy.

logica:
You who know so much, and cannot post the law stating this to be a crime? Indeed you know so much.

Guess you never heard the law on revenge porn.

Iti.

But this man don grow o.

HML.

I just dey imagine what my mum would have done, was that her son nd she in the group. lmao


Loving parents are the best.

That was just for show, and the bowl neater than most of y'alls plates anyways.

Can't you people read the caption? People can simply not understand simple things, mschew.

moscobabs:
this reminds me of an experience in 1989 in Kaduna when my uncle's wife force me to eat in a potty (Poo) I ate the food and slept outside inside harmattan for offence of beating her daughter o.

I never reported the case to my parent even to the uncle, but I give glory to God almighty today

That woman still alive? You gotta let her know you know what she did.

Damn! some people mean sha but come o, are you sure that was your only offence?

logica:
...and who tell you that one?

A photo you willingly sent, without any form of deception or duress is no longer yours. Feel free to put up the law that makes it a crime if you wish.

Ditto nateevs

You sha don't know nothing.

It's a crime to post nude pictures of someone without their consent, whether they sent the pics to you or not, you better learn that now.

logica:
What is the crime? It can only be a crime if the photo was obtained under false pretense or h@cking.

Who tell you that one?

It is against the law to share such images without consent and you are talking another thing.

I'll bet said friend whose dad was slept with, also sleeps with other people's father, from the look of things.

And to the one posting nudes, modafuker doesn't know he just committed a crime, silky a$$ mofo, mschew.

As for the one sending nudes and sleeping with people's fathers, I say, common sense is the most uncommon thing to you, smh.

wunderkiind:
And your point is SMH.

The 'one man' was the first to do it, in case you didn't know.

Why didn't you do it in your time, and see what would have happened?
Hahaha

What do I have to do with it?

One day, a man would also be the first to birth a baby.

Make una continue.

Catalin:
This bae will not kill me . Abeg answer present for 2017 bride thread. Let's pick a wedding gown for you.

I don't know about the thread though, I know the gown I want and I'd like to use a wedding planner.

I'll try and check in later sha.

cococandy:
You're not serious

But I am.

cococandy:
Now I'm confused.

According to the experts I can't be one since I'm married and not a bitter single lady.

Lol, you are right, marriage cures feminism.

I'm so glad to have joined the league of no-longer-bitter-women.

Something two women did, na him one man do and the whole of Nigeria no hear word again, smh.

Anyways, congratulations to them girls.

cococandy:
is that right?

Hello there.

Still a feminist?

xynerise:
Them know themselves

You no well.

xynerise:
Good to know you have seen the beauty of marriage. It is obvious that most of the so called feminists on NL are just frustrated single ladies . The day a man propose to them,marks the beginning of sabotaging feminism.

Who is sabotaging feminism?

Haba! Wetin happen? Na by force?

That's gotta be photokiosk, ain't no way I'm letting a roach on me.

She's pretty.

Btw, there's nothing confusing about OP's grammar but then again, not everyone understands ......

At your age.

Smh.

Ishilove:
Picture or adonbelivit

Okay na. Just wait.

Ishilove:
Now I know you're pulling our legs.

Yeye, and I fell for it. Mscheeeeew

No worry na, you go soon see pishures.

Ishilove:
Are your ideas feminist? As I dey here so I don't even fully grasp the concept. I just sha know that the idea itself is unrealistic

Lol, didn't you read the title of the thread? They used to be.

I'm not dropping it cos it's unrealistic, just cos it's what my man wants, know the difference.