₦airaland Forum

I would have been happy if his policy can also apply here to help us deport all our evil leaders away from Nigeria.

Sirchiboy:
Why will a struggling man marry a lady with no education or skill or biz.
Just because she has yellow skin.
You went and marry her.
Such men should be executed by firing squad because is their unborn kids that will suffer such untold hardship.
If your dad is in this category please use him for ritual.
He deserve it

The force of attraction and lust is many times so strong that it can override one's sense of reasoning or judgement. You can fall in same dilemma. If u are in their shoes

Danielomisco:
I'm learning here,the other side of the story will be interesting but either ways men need to be really careful with women live very very careful.

The man is also not honest about domestic matters and money according to her. And the lady finds out on a number of occasion. I also noticed another one.. When a relative called... Who narrated how hubby denied to have packed his belongings outside.. Whereas Lady was saying it was a lie

When I told her her man has the potential to be a good hubby being a Christian if she can exercise patients... She says Christian by mouth
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And the lady finds

Nigerian men dey suffer from Nigerian women.
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Only very few Nigerian men are truly wise in dealing with their cunning women

Danielomisco:
maybe her husband doesn't have a clue too

From our discussion, she says her husband is kind of mean... And lady is frustrated.. Seems a broke church man is an angry man.
She says husband has locked her out twice for going to church program. The last one that happened two days ago husband ejected some of her belongings to the verandaa before she came back from program btw 6 and 8pm....

Mopeola:
Read about this and digest it, marriages is not ur mates and also you won't understand how woman behaves until you see how a mad man behaves

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It's like sometimes, a lot of men don't know what they are going into when they decide to give in to societal expectation that they must marry .
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In this case
- The guys source of income isn't regular
- Guy is mean and unappreciative according to the lady cos she supports the home more often than not..
- Jealous and reactive
- poor communication and little gisting bond time...
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I'm like why did u guys now marry each other

Danielomisco:
oh no,sad story indeed.

Really more sad that she's a worker in church
Her husband is like the pastors PA... With multiple designations
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Things are happening o.
And if you see this shy soft spoken fine lady.. U will feel pity... Everything I was saying no enter her heart... She badly wanted an emotional tampoon to lean on, with sex to kill her sorrow..

Danielomisco:
the story please

Met her last month in a Keke on a Sunday.
I don't know how and why I broke my rules where I promised not to collect ladies numbers anymore
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As much as I tried to be focused.. The subtle green light was serious.. She's mature looking, bold and tall.. Immediately I broke the ice, she just flowed into the conversation. At the end I broke my rules and asked for her number.
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I thought she was just the normal working class ladies who want relationship... Until yesterday when she came calling and pestering to come see me for encouragement/succor, I never knew she was married!

And to think this is just a 7months old marriage. And lady is already crying that she wants to go back to being single. I shock.. To even realise lady was too emotionally stressed by the whole thing that she just want an emotional cushion that will be knakking her as coping mechanism. Really crazy

No o, it stops on Peter Obi's table.
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See how long it took you foolish wicked journalists and heartless citizens to start saying the truth.
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But u all can attack Obi for visiting and showing solidarity? E no go better for all of you

You will never understand what it means to fall into grave sexual temptation until you start living a sexually pure life or until you decide to work for God.
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I'm not yet a pastor in full time ministry but I can tell you the truth based on series of temptation I get these days, the work of a pastor is one of the hardest when it comes to standing against sexual temptation.
Yesterday I also perfectly understood why pastors fall for married women or ladies whose marriage or relationship is in crises during counseling.
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The truth is counselling a heart broken woman is a big trap. A big trap that can only take God and courage to not fall into. You will be shocked that the person you are counseling is so vulnerable and sexually primed that the greatest emotions flowing through her at that time is a urge to be touched, cuddled, caressed and knacked. I saw everything last night, and my defence began to crack, wane, weakened and almost dissolved completely while the lady was begging time for me to touch her.
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It was yesterday I realized that deciding to live a holy life or deciding to be a pastor means that you have only signed yourself into continuous sexual temptation. No wonder most pastors fail! I thought I had won the demon of temptation until I experienced the dimension of counseling a broken married lady.
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I won't go into the story. It's a long crazy one. But pastors will understand what I'm saying .... And if you have not counselled a heartbroken woman either married or single... You can never understand. How I escaped without crashing totally is a mystery.

Account123:
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Account123:
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Account123:
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Thanks for your advice thou.

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QuinQ:
But this is NOT what I see. What I see is that the maid snatched the husband, which never really happens. As for being side chick, that's bound to happen because the attraction is too much - maid wants to taste madam's dick and the husband as a man is attracted to what he has not tasted b4 maybe also younger plus the forbidden fruit element

Well I think man may not make the maid the new wife cos of class difference... And taste
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But in the situation where class difference isn't wide it always happen. For instance in certain countries abroad where it's possible for educated immigrants to work as maid short term, if the class difference btw maid and wife isn't too much, man may make maid a wife.... Or it may trigger husband to consider divorce if wife is already a pain in the ass of the husband...
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1. Start reading books like your life depend on it to expand your view and improve your diction..
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2. Start going to the gym at least 3 to 5 times a week..... To build ur physique and a have a better feel of ur self.
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3. Don't rush the idea of making gains over night... Be patient with yourself for one or two years while doing what i told you.
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4. Practise dressing well to improve your self esteem.. Low sense of self can hamper ur will to relate with others
4 join social clubs.... U may feel awkward at the start, but as u start reading more books.... Especially Nonfiction and some fiction... U will gain more confident to communicate and ur words will be more articulate
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5. In the club u join... Try to to provide value.. Don't just be a bench warmer. Volunteers in any events or activity they are doing. Join groups that allow u to afford value.. In the process u will be forced to interact.. Over time ur social anxiety will fizzle out...
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6 About relating with women... I can teach u these.. After u master the above assignment in one to two years..

QuinQ:
All the top Nigerian celebrities and politicians we know, which one has a maid snatched?
None!

The maid may not snatch it formally... The maid might have secured continued favour and sexual intimacy with the man while the wife constantly have quarells about intimacy and lack of attention from her husband. Not knowing someone is already sharing her man with her

EDGEof2MORO:
wear a condom and fvck her to your satisfaction. wetin concern you if she dey fvck alhaji tinubu?

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I have lived long enough in my life to know Sexual Immorality leads to no where. I have had a heart filled life of immorality in my 20s till my early 30s, and I know for certain with experience it's just a waste of life and purpose. So I've practically stopped and embraced a new path and law of living in Christ. I'm a new man Oga..

In times past u don't have to tell me, in fact it won't even take me 3 days or worst case one week to lay her.. But those sex wins lead to no where as one will be locked in that loop and cycle of bedding those demon possessed girls as you will always have them walk into your life cos they are everywhere... With opportunity everyday.. But u have to break that cycle with fasting, prayer and living for God

You will begin to notice how plenty and endless their supply is the day u decide to live life to honour your body, God and stop fornicating. The struggle to live holy life will now be real cos they will dangle their free worthless but seductive articles to your face..Once u can overcome it and resist a number of them, then it will be easier to look away and focused on the principle of purity you have embraced
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I pray God will open your eyes one day just like he opened mine and make you embrace a life of holiness and consecration ofyour body for God to dwell in your holy temple and cause his purpose to manifest in you. Amen

tete7000:
Fornication is sinful irrespective of the background of those involved. People should just hate sin for what it is.

How you don't understand the perspective I'm talking from is amazing.

Trump's policy is not as bad as mainstream democrats media exaggerates

IHate9jerianss:
The OP is sexually jealous of the Moslem men he posted about.
He is upset that the Christian ladies he considers attractive are picking Moslem men those he considers as "the others" rather than choosing a Christian brother like himself.
He probably has never heard of hypergamy.
I am not a Moslem by the way

Lol.. Me jealous of a 23 loose girl?
Oga I don pass da level
If I still one knack her I can.. U know how many times she don enter my room to act funny? Me wey dey advise her about Abj.. Cos I know Abj men have no mercy.. Not knowing she's already swimming in deep ocean

tete7000:
So you are insinuating that her knacking a fellow Cbriatian is not a problem to you, even when thay are not married? If that is your case, then your sense of morality itself is decrepit to use your word.

Christian-Christian is worse enough.. Of course I don't support it
I just feel this kind is another yuck and lack of restraint or boundaries whatsoever

RealityKings1:
It's a life of choices

Same way we have Christian girls who visit babalawo and will agree to have sex with him for the sake of completing a ritual exercise..... Imagine those kind of girls, the level demon level immorality that will allow a Christian girl patronise babalawo and still agree to have sex with him for the sake of securing a jazz.... Isn't there a problem with such choice being made by a Christian girl

Vanity

DonBenny77:
Hunger, blame their irresponsible parents.
A damaged woman will sleep with a smelly handicap for money

She now earns 77k plus 50k from her PPA.. Plus ample time to venture into other hustle..
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I think it's greed plus being too sexually loose

Most girls are promiscuous these days for money, and some for reckless pleasure. But this particular kind by some Christian girls whereby they go for or have fetish for Muslim men is something else that confounds my righteous rationality

I just feel the promiscuity of a Christian gal must be on an obscene spiritual demon level to be comfortable fvcking Muslim men and Alhajis for money and pleasure.

A case in point happens in my compound.. This 23 yr old innocent looking gal just came to this Abj for NYSC. And she's already frolicking with Alhajis.. Kai.
The way immorality disgusts me these days ehn.. This particular kind makes me feel they are too sexually loose and morally decrepit. That's just the bias i have for Christian ladies running after Muslim cockks. .
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Same girl has been trying her best to seduce me. Not knowing I've past that stage of running after ass and free sexxx. Imagine the demon laced kunt where I wud have been chooking my JT.. . Really sad. Your opinion will be welcome about all this

To make the first wife have sense
And to have insurance against old age neglect and abandonment

meobizy:
I just dey fold arms look you.

Dey look me dey deny ur truth... @30+ o