₦airaland Forum

Forthepeople21:
This is some backwards azz, archaic thinking. If I were a man, I would run from a leech female like you. Marriage and a relationship are partnerships. You help each other with whatever needs it at any given time. The responsibility shouldn’t be solely on one person when there are two adults.
Go back to your daddy for that shxt. If I were a men, these Nigerian leech females wouldn’t get one second of my attention.

I am a man.
I have beard.
And my father never split bills with my mum.
My mum only comes in to help in matters of food and sometimes our clothing but not this 50/50 nonsense modern day emasculated men preach.

Don't get me wrong,if a lady sees her husband is not able to meet up with certain essentials despite his best efforts she can come in and shore up that vacuum not that you now make it a responsibility on her.
You will turn her to something else by doing that. And when she starts splitting bills with you believe me , your respect and awe goes down the drain.

Women naturally look up to men who have something they don't possesses- power,money, knowledge and influence.

And one of it is the ability to provide.
I know its not easy under our current economic realities, but the best way to do it is tell our wives(though I am not married,but hopefully soon) to focus on the needs not wants...
Except you are married to a thoughtless money grubber she should understand how the country is.

A country where I heard kilogram of gas now sells at almost if not #700.

Know this man,when you share that(responsibility) with her you lose her gradually.
Women know this but they won't say it

They are not designed to hustle like men; theirs is to tender and raise children and provide psychological, mental and spiritual support to their husbands.

*modified*

Toks2008:
I love this.

®Jay-Z

"I want a relationship with no gender roles. We both hustlers, we both cook, we both clean, we both pay, we're both romantic & we spoil each other."


What is your opinion?

Personally and religiously ,it's a man's role and responsibility to take of his wife not splitting bills.
I know many will not agree to.this ,but I dont gibe a flying hoot.

I am here wondering the kind of entitled and emasculated men we are raising.

Don't get me wrong,the man should be the sole provider until there comes a time a lady may need to step in .
But the primary role of a woman is to be maintained, cared for and be protected.

Iyaebe:
Hahaha I swear you no just send anybody on this forum,redpillers will come for your head.Drfunmisticglo I'm liking your man oooo,do you mind sharing? Very matured guy.

Wallahi.
Na now I know say some of una no get sense.

Why not but a forutg hand car instead of buying or looking for a new car.
Why nkt but a sxith-hand phone or lap top why bit new sibcr your brwon can nkt decode value.

Some of you are just enabling nonsense lifestyles.

It is utter rubbish.

ChasinGood:

This boy ought to be contending for balon d'or. He's been sensational recently.

This why I don't like reading Nigerian news and comments.
They can blow small thing out of proportion.
Just a few games na ballon d',or.

Bluntguy:
The same religion again? Na so e dey take start o. Sambisa loading.

. You better keep quiet there o.
We all know no religion supports such inhuman punishment.
But again,let's not start this accusation of punishment because we have records of more in your religion that's of you are a christian.

Emily22:
Definitely, something is wrong with this religion...

I remember my father forced this religion on me at a tender age , but after his demise, my mum converted me back to Christianity...

I ll always thank her for that forever

Forever grateful mama

Stop blabbing rubbish!.

So,the actions of some few hot heads now defines a religion?.
Please say something else.
This one no make sense at all.
I work in a place here in Kaduna were Christian ladies and men have worked with us Muslims and no one have abused or even scoff at them and these has been like this for years,yet idiot like you in your small mindedness think Islaam is evil.

You were obviously ignorant about the religion hence your mum dragged you into the darkness of your new found faith.

Should we start tagging Christianity based on the actions of Christain-Western nation dishing bombs to Muslim dominated nations as Christianity?.

Will that not be foolishness?!

Go get a life.

Brandonx:
I don’t understand Are you possessed ? Are you trying to tell what to do with my private life ?
I just don’t get it , do not force Your beliefs on anyone.
It’s absurd, you don’t do that.

It's not about belief my friend.
Itts about psychology.
It's about the way you think.
It's about your habits.

Charmingrascal:
Unfortunately she is not the first to say it and she won't be the last.

Some ladies are allowing their "boo" to film their nudity right now as I type this and some are planning to do it tonight, even many of them are on Nairaland.
A man who loves you will not record your nudity because he will know it is dangerous.
If he doesn't leak it, it might accidentally get into the wrong person's hand and such person might leak it.


If he asks for your nude tell him you want to have his too.

The only sensible comment in have seen so far.

Wetin people wan use nude pics or even pics do I don't understand.

Brandonx:
I’ve said it before there’s nothing wrong in filming sexual moments with your spouse especially if it’s a distant relationship.
It benefits outweighed the disadvantages so madam Kemi should keep quiet �

May God deliver us from shameless people like you.

What benefit could you possibly derive from videoing a private affair.
How?
How does it work?!

saphiere:
I've been a victim.
Exactly. Mine hid the camera. I was at his mercy for years. But God who knew my heart turned things around for me.
Long story my dear. He made me do some unthinkable things to prevent him leaking the video. I was really at his mercies.

I have a very long bitter story to tell my children.
Can you pay her for those times she spent with you and the s*x?

You see this sex some of you refuse to respect eh,it will always humiliate you.
You are very lucky God indeed saved you the shame and humiliation.
Wait till you marry,no.
I love him and I will do anything for him.
I guess a good guy who was decent must have tried wooing you for marriage but you prefer a street dog who came in sheep clothing.

Like I said, since many of you refuse to respect sex it will one day humiliate and shame you.

Most times I don't pity girls who go through this video nonsense,it shows how loose and immoral many of you are willing to go.

A guy who loves you will treat and respect you with envy.
He will keep your affairs private but the world today has made us embrace shamelessness.

Many God not allow deceptive people come our way.

koyyess:
Arabs started the slave trade way before your colonial masters. In exchange, the Arabs raped your women and forced Islam on you.

Do you know your culture before the Arabs invaded Africa? I guess not because you have all turned to zombies by your arab masters who still see you as sh1t. Go there and see if your Arab masters will give any opportunity as a black other than slave roles.

You Islamic slaves are by far the most stup1d of all.

Cattle brains.

I won't insult you,but let me ask,how old are you?

Ammishaddai:
The " facts" you've given so far was the insult that came as the word "swine" . If this is "proof and fact" , then I can conclude that you're just another lowlife terrorist on social media looking for his next target

Yes,calling you a swine is a proven fact that you lack the mental capability to understand, or even comprehend what's being done in Afghanistan and every Muslim country.

And again, you're a SWINE!

Take that to the bank.

MajorOvakporaye:
ONE WASTED HUNGRY HEAD SLAMMER SPOTTED!!!

FUTA JALON WANDERER

Sometimes eh,I just dey pity for your kind.


Me ?hungry?
You can't afford half of what I eat.

Ammishaddai:
This is the typical response I get from terrorists. They call those who don't see life from their own perspective swine .

Yes,we will continue to terrorize you with facts and proofs that your leaky cranium can't to figure out.

slowpoke!

koyyess:
Your own ways or the ways of your Arab masters? You think you sound intelligent. Slave.

You arab slaves need to get a life because it's obvious you have nothing to contribute to the society besides killing, engaging in pervasive crimes and enslaving your women.

Animals.

As if your fore fathers did not sell your other fore fathers for a piece of mirror to their European merchant?
Tell me something else.

You come here mouthing incoherent cacophonous opprobrium and you think you know zilch of my religious history.

Nah.

You know nothing man.

You know nothing!

The history of Arab is different from the history of Islaam.
But I don't expect ignoramus like you to know that since you choose to swim in the ocean of ignorance.

MajorOvakporaye:
You are the biggest fool I have seen on this forum. You are not just a fool but a condemned one for that matter! You are just as cursed as the Islam itself! Keep deceiving your wretched self, head slammers are known for marrying underaged girls, they kill themselves up and down, kidnap their mothers and fathers for ransom, yet they still spread across southern Nigeria doing begging job

O girl, no let me reason your matter o.because you go run commot for here.

All you said is clearly what brainwashed mushrooms like you love to spill.
No be today na.

FYI:I am original NIGER DELTA guy from Edo state straight up.

So,when unexposed idiots like come online to advertise their unmitigated stupidity it leaves me gobsmacked like an ugwu leaf being tossed by the blistering harmattan wind.

Scratch that.

You don't even sound well enough to understand what is going on,you only see and speak what you've been feed with like a train dog who is colour blind.

Get well soon.

koyyess:
Just look at 1diotic lalalama creatures applauding this negative development. Yet, they can't stay and enjoy the extra curricular bombing and killing activities their brothers take part in at the north. Is it not in your culture?

You think segregating women will quench your design in fvcking mannequins, animals and your fellow mallams?

I don't blame you people. I blame the stup1d women who continue to open leg and collect decayed $perms only to shoot out animals that will enslave them. Just one drop of poison in your alcohol kettle and all of you would have been gone s long time ago and Afghanistan won't give a sh1t about you animals.

Why are you this pained eh?!

Is it because we choose to adopt our own ways?

Why are you pained?!

Talk of intellectuals,no country,no tribe,no region can claim exclusive right to it.

So,I ask a gain with the temperament of a youth:wetin dey work you?!


I can bet my last kobo that you do not know anything about Afghanistan history to be advertising your ignorance on broad day light.

In Saudi Arabia as we speak there are segregated learning and no one is complaining except for loud mouths like you.

Go get a life!

Ammishaddai:
Another terrorist spotted

Lol...

Brainwashed swine!

Ibkhaleel001:
Muhammad is the most popular name on earth...Muhammad is the greatest personality ever...Muhammmad is the greaters

You are not far from a terrorist
Because you close your eyes to the real act of terror
While lives are brought to ruination.
Hypocritically musing

The first University on earth is founded by a muslim woman!

University of Al Quaraouiyine

It was founded as a mosque by Fatima al-Fihri in 859 and subsequently became one of the leading spiritual and educational centers of the historic Muslim world. It was incorporated into Morocco's modern state university system in 1963 and was officially renamed "University of Al Quaraouiyine" two years later.

Because of chastity and modesty Muslim countries have the lowest rate of sex assaults and rape cases anywhere on earth!

The rob or gown you were when you graduate is from Islamic world....

We gave the world modesty and good dressing when celebrating success not your naked ways...

The first hospital ever was by the Muslims of Iraq...

Muslims contributed to the development of Astronomy, mathematics and physics

Did i even have to educate you on all this?

Stop the lies and hatred jare

Delusional half baked illiterate

My brother, stop explaining anything to these block heads.

They don't deserve your precious time.

They are unteachable so no nerd wasting your time trying to educate these block heads.

Someone who has obviously never travelled out of his domain thinks he knows something when he is just a shark in a pond.

MajorOvakporaye:
I have always known that the backwardness of head slammers is follow-come

I agree,our backwardness does not give room for gays,homosexuals,fornicators,drug addicts and stupid and imbecilic people like you.

If backwardness means not following your stupidity I will rather drown in that backwardness.

dynicks:
MOHAMMED REALLY PLAYED A HARD ONE ON THESE PEOPLE BEFORE HE LEFT EARTH!!

MUMU +MUGU

Ammishaddai:
Afganistan is now the first nation on earth ruled and controlled by terrorist ,all because someone somewhere is not going to benefit from the war-torn country

Mumu!

TarOrfeeek:
Sentinel Forensic.


But small Nigerian Army is making you fear.

See the long publication you put out.

If you have proof they did,why not prove it, but you decide to whine and cry like a toddler whose candy has been taken.

Cry cry baby.

MajorOvakporaye:
Forget that thing, na terrorist the guy be. Head slammers are all terrorists

I agree they are terrorist ,just like criminal herders are killing terrorist in the south.

Dem swear for you!


It's very easy to be foolish,but your stupidity leaves me speechless.

Sirjamo:
The same way they lied against Sadam that he had nuclear weapons, twenty years after invading Iraq and killing millions of people, not a single nuclear weapon have been found.


You go to people's country under one useless pretence, destroyed the country, killed many, displace many more, destroy their lives, when they fight back, you call them terrorists.



America is the biggest terror organization in the world.

You think the idiots on nairaland calling Taliban terrorist are normal.

How can you come to my house and attack but when I fight back you call me terrorist for not accepting you "dirty" and "abominable" way of life.


I don't really blame Americans I blame those who refuse to use their brain to see what American and the rest of the Western world truly are.

richidinho:


I dont know why i see any pantami news as a terrorist news

You're obviously suffering from negative brainwashing.

Emmanuel224:
I hope ur still a virgin Mr man or r u married?

No,na your sister deflower me.
Another idiot!

killALIEN:
You just said nothing with that jargon you wrote up there. What a complete waste of a time and space you are. May "allah" the deity you serve continue to drown you in his dungeon.

Its almost 4am there in Nigeria. Go hit your skull to the ground in your clownish manner.
Hopeless allahwakubany Terrorist!

FLAWLESS FINISHING!

Aboks:
Islam is Slavery

Take note all you head slammers

Yeah we rather become slaves to Allah than become slaves to our desires where the likes of Boma,Tega and Nedu's wife are your reference without shame.

Go get a life idiot!

pocohantas:
I must commend this man. It takes a lot of strength to do this, though some people would like to think it is weakness.

This must be why the Bible commanded the man to LOVE. When man loves his wife, na that time people go say the woman dey control am.

Last last it takes two simps to make a marriage last. I wish them peace, after all their divorce won’t benefit me in any way.

Keep quiet there!

This is the kind rubbish idiots like you promote.

killALIEN:
Are you supposed to be naively stupid or be sensitive enough to scrutinize the aforementioned religion and ask yourself if you aint gullible to be related to such mentally abusive irrational clownish passage called islam.

A thing like you keep mouthing rubbish thinking they you are intellectually virile not knowing you are suffering from uncoordinated, uninhinged and unmitigated imbecilic and unrefined idiocy with an incredible knack for stupidity that melts out cacophonous rambling like a oaf suffering from chronic epileptic fits.

You should be contesting as an Olympic champion for brain dead guinea pigs.

Calling you an idiot will be like singing eulogies for idiots.

You are nothing but a smelly dotard and a rejected toe rag.

A reprobate!

A nothing!