₦airaland Forum

BREYZ:
Yes you did. Everytime marriage marriage marriage they won't say something else just pushing young men and women into things they are not ready for at the end of the day you see some commit suicide because they ventured into something they are not ready for. There are lots of things to address in this nation than marriage, Nigeria has turned into something else and only God can help us

This is the sick mentality I am talking about.
The man clearly said "those of you in marriageable age.".
Some of you are prepared to be sleeping with girls every other week but you don't want to get married and you expect God not to curse or punish you and those girls who open their legs for you.

This excuse of not being ready isn't tenable.
Nigeria no really hold you.
Plan yiur life well and thihga will happen.
People are getting married every week with little they have and God is blessing them through that.

Sapiosexuality:
Bullshit. Which guys call irresponsible girls? I think people like you who marry with poverty still choking your neck are selfish. Now how's that for an assumption?

Those guys saying marriage is not an achievement but have several strings of girlfriends they call to bed them.
If you are that type, I don't owe you one single apology.
In fact, you deserve to be scolded.

Some of you are really confused that's why you are saying nonsense against a good advise or prayer I should say.
All this poverty black mail is old and used.

Can you say I am poor when I can afford a phone, buy data and go about doing little things here and there.
I am not poor,I am simply preparing ground for marriage ..it's mostly about priority not about the condition.
My current situation may not be right,now,but it does not mean marriage is not an achievement if I can work towards it.
No condition is permanent.

Farki:
I wish you could take your own advice because there is rarely a day you don't say something idiotic on this forum.

Anyone can put on a suit, pick up a microphone, tell people what they want to hear for money and claim man of God.

Stop yarning dust.
He is on point.
I am a muslim I may differ strongly with the Pastor, but on this matter he is on point.
Some of you who are against marriage or don't wbat to take up responsibilities will rather fornicate your lives away than marry .
Contextually speaking he is on point.

Egoveen:
I choose to remain single till I die.........who marriage help

Better oh.
But make I no see say you talk about women here again.
Na useless girls we no know herself go even dey open their legs girls for una.

Archangels2:
Instead of some guys to catch this and also claim their financial freedom in the process they keep spewing out rubbish above. You nor go marry for this life? After you have messed around with all the ladies what next? Better stop kidding yourselves and grow up.

Are you more knowledgeable or experienced in any facet of life than the man? A father is saying something and you are here talking nonsense.

Sit down, listen to him, plan your life, find your woman, make your money and get married. All these can be done next year. All things are possible to those who believe.

You think these kobo kobo fornicators will listen.
Just go to romance section and see what most of these pigs are saying.
These ones don't just want responsibility but want to keep tasting ladies who themselves are irresponsible.

The youths we have today are very lazy and entitled.
They feel everything should be handed to them without sweating to get it.
And you expect these ones who drink and smoke away their lives and engage in sexual orgies to have the sense to see the sense in what pastor Adeboye is saying.

That's why I feel no iota of remorse blasting them

Mokason288:
And if they don’t?

What should we do to you?

Stop telling people what they want to hear... tell them the truth?

Go to the North 19years old Aboki that is driving Keke has 6 wives

Is marriage an achievement?


I HOPE I MADE SENSE

It is not an achievement for sick disgusting people like you..

You made no sense!.
In fact,you wrote nonsense!
No 19 year old Aboki up north has 6 wives.
You lies can't even save you.

Warmth:
A constant source of income? You are not aware a lot of eligible men lost their jobs this this 2020, and can't pay for their rent.

Lost of jobs don't mean we give up.
One has to keep trying to make sure he has a family.
Its safer and better to have a wife than have girlfriends.
2021 is not far away.

Sapiosexuality:
Marry into poverty and unpreparedness? Guys, never fall for this marriage blackmail when you are neither financially nor mentally ready. That's why we have too many poor families transmitting generational poverty around.

Poverty is temporary stage in life never permanent.

If we sit down to calculate the money some of you guys use in calling those irresponsible girls you call girlfriends is more than a enough to take care of wives ,but no,you wnat hit it big before you take up responsibilities.
When una dey get free access to woman why won't marriage seem like a tall order.

post=97013690:
Can we get an AMEN from all Nairaland eligible Bachelors?
And we are not talking about simps and fvckboys!

We are talking about real men that have a roof over their heads, a constant source of legitimate income and can take care of a woman.

Next year will not pass you guys.
Na so e go be!

I have been to many fora and I will say the amount of grunting irritating lewd pigs called some men will make you puke.
Some idiots who probably had fathers and mothers are trying to down play marriage because they have tasted what their dads tasted without taking up responsiblity.

If they are no longer interested in being responsible men,let them cut off their manhood or not approach women again.
Idiots!

Mokason288:
And if they don’t?

What should we do to you?

Stop telling people what they want to hear... tell them the truth?

Go to the North 19years old Aboki that is driving Keke has 6 wives

Is marriage an achievement?


I HOPE I MADE SENSE

It is not an achievement for sick disgusting people like you.
Probably of many of you vomiting this nonsense had no fathers you can trace you will understand the rubbish oozing from your brains

Sundrus:
u dey mind them. Them don turn marriage into achievement by force. Every goat with akamu as brain wan marry when them know say them no dey fit for such thing.

When you've probably tasted what you dad tasted why won't you see marriage as something not worthy.
Some of you guys are sick but you don't know this.

fati2001:
as far as u can mind ur business.

In a public forum?
C'mon?!.
If you don't want to be called out then leave this space..
You don't go double speaking and expect to get a pat on your back.
If you are not married why lie?!.
I seriously doubt you are married.

[quote author=fati2001 post=97008184][/quote]Sister Fati.
Haba!
Person no fit advise you?
Married and with two kids?
Now,claiming something else?!
Sorry,for intruding..
So long sis.

fati2001:
find the thing that you missed else where!!

I only asked a question based on the information you put out there.
Why lie that you are virgin?...
Or are they other terms for a married woman with kids?
Let's be consistent.
This kind of inconsistency does not suit you.

fati2001:
I'M ONE SO I HAVE THE RIGHT TO DEMAND FOR MY HOLY COUNTERPART... AND I WILL PROUDLY SPILL THIS OUT (I DON'T MASTURBATE AND WILL NEVER INVOLVE IN THAT MESS)... EVEY HUMAN HAVE SEXUAL URGES (IT DEPEND ON HOW YOU CONTROL IT NOT HOW IT CONTROL YOU) ..


NOW WHAT ELSE DO YOU WANNA KNOW?

Sorry for poke nosing oh,but weren't the one who claim to be married with two kids in your profile.
Am I missing something?

Misslilbootay:
I am not a virgin because the guy I dated before made it seem like sex was the only thing that could keep him.
Unfortunately, that is another story of its own.


Recently, a friend of mine came and asked me if sex was necessary to keep a relationship. She told me the guy has given her everything she needed in a man but he couldn't stop asking for sex. She said that she wasn't ready to compromise her faith that premarital sex was a sin but she didn't want to lose this guy as he felt that her refusal to have sex with him meant she didn't love him.

The question I'm throwing now is
1. Can a man stay without sex in a relationship and wait till she is ready. (As in this case, she wants to wait till she is married)
2. Why is sex so important to men in a relationship? Do they see it as reciprocating of love especially when they spend heavily on the lady?
3. Also, most men wants a decent lady. Here is a lady who wants to keep herself for her husband but the boyfriend sees it as she manipulating him. Since you guys want a lady that isn't a borehole, why do you demand for sex when you are not sure if it will work out?

Your intelligent opinions will be appreciated.

My madam,please take this from me
Don't allow any brostitute as they are being called to fool your.
Virgnity is not lack of opportunity, but is indeed dignity, purity, morality and worthy thing to keep for a man who will willingly take care of you as a husband not in useless boy friend.
A man is man when he picks up the challenge to take care of a woman not going through the back door like a licensed thief.
And again,I blame your girls for going into relationship these days. The only relationship recognised by God is marriage.
And I will still ask and I will continue to ask;what has boy friend and girl friend relationship done that makes it better than our fathers and mothers.
Before they claim is for compatibility and knowing each other.. And I ask:
has formication dropped or increased?.
As infidelity dropped or increased?.
As Human sexual trafficking dropped or increased?
As queer sexual tendencies such as gayism,lesbianism, beastiality and other sexaul perversions dropped or increased?
You and I know the results today.
And we complain men and women are cheating but we don't want to or are too stupidly arrogant to go back to the path which our fathers and mothers threaded that bought them pride and safety in their marriages.

hashtagged:
Lol, useless Faggotz, I know your father killed your mother's people and forced her to marry him.

Bastard of a thousand fathers.
Keep describing your useless pathetic life.

hashtagged:
Thank you for telling me that you are a bloody killer

...so,you are afraid like this?!.
Idiot!
When you were running your mouth like tap you never advised yourself to keep quiet.
Talk na?

hashtagged:
See this big pig, try any nonsense and you will be killed useless idi0t

Your boast no pass social media.
You sound like a tiger here but outside, you are as silent as a church mouse.

bigcasava1:
yes we will soon enforce our religion laws in Abia very soon.

Religious law in Abia?
Comedian!
Which religious law as you talking about?. OT or NT?
Even you yourself know that Christianity do not have anything close to what we have in Islām.
Islaamic laws are more broader in scope and intricate in details than even the democracy you people so much love.
In your bid to shame us you will make many laughable mistakes that will make you look very foolish if you even think of implementing any law.
I dare you to mention any country since the beginning of the world that has a Christian law,no.I am not talking about the Vatican, but countries that actually operated codes and ethics enshrined in your religious book.
Just one?!

BobbyZrealist:
I guess the Chechnyan that was shot dead in France was in his fathers parlour?
I guess the terrorists that carried out 911 where in their fathers bedroom?
And I guess the herdsmen killing people in Benue,Plateau and other parts of the country are in their backyard?

U do the most senseless things on earth while claiming divine mandate.
Even Lucifer (Shaytan) will be baffled by such wickedness.
"I am a born fool' agreed.
But it is visible to the blind and audible to the deaf that your sharia law can only be practiced in hell fire.

I don't answer dummies like you because your biasness as made you blind to objectivity.
And anyone who lacks objectivity will always complain like a sissy which you are.

Chii59:
Would Gov Ortom reconcile his daughter with a wife beating husband? I doubt.
The way we romanticise evil.
We forgive polithiefcians, silence rape victims and victims of domestic violence.
We respect and defend sexual predators in our religious institutions... The list is endless.
The Nigerian society is a dysfunctional one.

I quite agree with you that Nigeria society is dysfunctional because busy bodies like you won't learn to shut their trap than be doing the job of an unsolicited judge.

Don't move on with your life and be splitting your hair over what's none of business.

BobbyZrealist:
Sorry to your ancestors ass from gutta jallon.
Scallywag terrorist sympathizer.
Keep your Kano to yourself,maggot.

You are born fool is not an insult just stating fact.
If you were born to insult other people's belief in their own backyard be ready to face the consequence that comes with it

Truthissupreme:
Jihad is a continuous fight against non Muslims till fitna (no more unbeliever)

Abdool you can only deceive your fellow jihadist.

There are tons of passages that shows its a fight against other people faith till eternity

This jihaad is good because it is meant to fish out the stupidity in many of you who were fortunate to be educated.
So,America is now making you fools to be grunting because you are among the blacklisted country.
By the way, who invited you to America.

hashtagged:
Any country with Islam should be blacklisted, I wish Nigeria should split and let those gay paedophile pigs who call themselves Muslim leave us alone,
All countries should take measures to eradicate Islam from their country if they truly want peace cause everywhere Islam goes it's from "Allah Abubakar" to "Kaboooom".
I remember having a friend who became a Muslim and was almost killed when they heard he did not want to be a Muslim again, he told me how every Muslim fantasies about killing non Muslims and how they secretly do it in rural areas.
And OP don't lump Christianity with that piss religion of serial killers and paedophiles

Gay pedeophilia pigs..and I can alniat swear you have a relative who lives in the north and fools like you come online to grunt like hungry pigs without any moral scruple.
Guess what?
We won't leave this country.
You can kill yourself for all we care.
Because of America you are talking like imbecilic confused bumbling idiot.
We no dey go anywhere.
Do you worst.

ChoCho54:
Have you not seen a moniker here called antichristain?

And so?!

advocatejare:
Now you're confessing about how Islam is growing. It's not by preaching to people, it's simply by procreation.



So this is the nonsense you teach to people that make them to be giving birth to children they can't take care of.

That's why you're breeding almajiris in the north who grow up to become bandits and terrorists.

Which region is the most impoverished in Nigeria? Which religion do they practice? What's their birth rate?

And your people in the south are different?
The ones who are breeding cultist, bandits,kidnappers, armed robbers,ritualist, baby mamas and formicators and fornicatress and multiple abortion and baby factories are what?
Progressives!
Aside poverty which we agree is plaguing the north what else are you better at?
Moral wise you are a feather weight.
When you have big log on your eye you are lookomh at the spec in mine.
You get sense so?!

alasane:
Read very well so not to be confused....
May I point out that the Hadith (4:342) has been slightly misunderstood. Please allow me to clarify…

Mohammad never forbade Ali from marrying another woman while he was married to Fatima. It was because as per the tribal order of the day and the social values of the time, a man could marry multiple women, just that Islam put a limit of 4 on it.

So, Ali was free to marry up to 4 women at a time, Fatima included. This would have been in accordance with the Islamic doctrine on marriage.

In the said Hadith (4:342) however is described what had transpired after the death of the prophet. Ali had demanded the hand of the daughter of Abu-Jahl in marriage. At this point he was reminded that the prophet had once said in connection with another of his son-in-laws that the daughter of the prophet can never be the wife to the man who married the daughter of the biggest enemy of Allah i.e. Abu-Jahl. It is worth noting that in its initial years the Muslims had suffered the most at the hands of Abu-Jahl.

In fact within this hadith, the prophet is also reported to have said that “ I do not make a legal thing illegal, nor do I make an illegal thing legal”. So, this hadith is not an injunction nor does it change the established Islamic law. It is merely an emotional appeal from the father of a daughter to his son-in-law because this marriage would cause a lot of distress to his daughters.

You think these ingrates have the mental capacity to understand.
People who call blood wine,flesh bread and you expect them to understand this hadeeth because they are fighting tooth and nail to bring out contradictions.

Cashsteady:
Anambra

Lagos


Rivers


Imo


Edo

This states eehn Dem no just like outsiders especially that anambra if you are a Yoruba Dem fee roast u to death

You obviously missed your pills.

marvin906:
Silence doesn't translate to. Weakness..
But in your case mincing word's with a local dog like you is above weakness but an insult to my person..
So see ya bingo

This pig who takes pleasure at insulting Islaam and Muslims is sounding philosophical like a grunting pig he is ,is at a lost I have put him in his place.

I thought you were well armed to "deal " with Muslims like me.
Next time you show up again in any Muslim thread,be sure I will be coming for you to whoop your irritant ass.

Bloody orangutan!

marvin906:
Silence doesn't translate to. Weakness..
But in your case mincing word's with a local dog like you is above weakness but an insult to my person..
So see ya bingo

This pig who takes pleasure at insulting Islaam and Muslims is sounding philosophical like a grunting pig he is I have out him in his place.

I thought you were well armed to "deal " with Muslims like me.
Next time you show up again in any Muslim thread,be sure I will be coming for you to whoop your irritant ass.

Bloody orangutan!

[quote author=marvin906 post=96721132][/quote]I thought you were as sharp mouthed as you started, sorry for bursting your bubble.
I never knew you were this cool..
Good boy.
Now son,run into that hole your crept out from.