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White men see Africans as fools cause they don’t appreciate appreciate their kind, and in context of your post, you mean women?

Lol come to the Uk and see the degrading slangs white men use on their women.

Internet just give some people freedom to be talking outta their asses without proper findings.

Martinez39:
@Emboldened
You have spoken the truth. Love, emotions and desire of sex are being used by women to deal treacherously with many men. Men need to realise that life is more than sex and no having will not kill them.

See I am just glad you guys spread the message on Nairaland.

Application of this knowledge in real life is very very hard but it is discipline that separates the men from the boys.

I give it to ladies. They know how to do their things. They are very creative. Manipulative.

In my own opinion, not many men that agree to the articles on here actually practice it in real life cause it is a hard test. Many of them are not mentally strong for it.

Where is the lie in this?? Lovely article.

To add, you surely wont sleep with every woman. If you act tough and she leaves for a beta, just find another person.

All these love and emotions fanfare bullshit is all in your head. Control your thoughts.

Your mental health is your greatest asset as a man.

Meanwhile, behind the scenes

baby124:
Don’t forget to quote me and review your experience when reality strikes.

A pound on it that if I am going to quote you next, it would be a job offer to help distribute Ubunja’s books in your community.

baby124:
Triggered? You are the bitter one who is triggered and hateful because women have rejected you. You feel hurt because society has disappointed you, you lack love because you never had it. You already don’t have much to offer, so Ubunja’s advice will take you where you are right now and tip you over the edge when it backfires. Don’t forget to leave a review.

Loneliness is the biggest killer of humans. We are social animals and require that connection. Without it your mental state will deteriorate . Find a good woman before it’s too late and just be yourself. Even mad people on the street get life partners

Oops I didn’t see your final line. Another jargon. So sad I will be lonely in this life because I don’t have a woman around me? Just surreal.

baby124:
Triggered? You are the bitter one who is triggered and hateful because women have rejected you. You feel hurt because society has disappointed you, you lack love because you never had it. You already don’t have much to offer, so Ubunja’s advice will take you where you are right now and top you over the edge when it backfires. Don’t forget to leave a review

Here we go again, have me all figured out. Anything more than you say is correct.

Ubunja is a nice bloke, between. Nothing wrong with what he is saying. At some point, if he needs financial help for his project to go viral, I will gladly fund it.

Make sure you do something around your community to improve lives.

Enjoy.

baby124:
You will replace tired until you are left with a pretender who will severely deal with you to the point of death. Continue following rubbish and advising nonsense. Shebi you are a man of steel. Plenty heart breaks and dumping coming shortly.

I wonder why you are trigged. It’s quite hilarious you have me all figured out and the future already sorted. You should Predict the lottery numbers.

If I am to engage the jargons you wrote above, the thing is, men are already getting wiser. We now know the truth. You don’t need a woman to be happy. Everything was planted into our heads from inception. We didn’t question anything. Now we do.

All those fear of being lonely are all a myth. The love thing is another selfish scheme to enrich women. All to benefit women. Only men love. Women are all about what they can gain. Me. Me. Me.

Nobody is going to challenge society. Society is already f ucked. It’s all about looking out for ourselves now. And when we get richer, we will spend money on charities and the less privilege. That is true happiness.

And on your final point, don’t worry I have no problems with women. I already understand them better so why should I have a problem with them? You just have to work harder to win a man like me. I would even let you know from the start that I have all your manipulation fanfares figured out.

Enjoy your day.

baby124:
RoTFLMAO!!! You are looking for experience from someone who has no experience dealing with women? You have lost that woman for good. Move on and learn to use your own head to make judgments instead of relying on copy and paste fairy tales from people who have no experience with women.

Cc themhi1

Unless she’s feeding you which she surely isn’t? No qualms if she is gone for good. Don’t let anybody use manipulation to make you feel bad. It’s all in our heads. Human beings are replaceable. Life is short.

Make sure you focus on building your life and making money. We can’t overly stress this. Key to happiness is believing in yourself. You are the only person you can trust. Women are careless. Don’t invest too much on trying to make them happy. They have too many simps already making them happy. So what about you?

A woman can look hot and have guys and guys ready to give her handouts. You don’t have such luck.

So it’s always you first. Goodluck.

Love this

Your wife expired of cancer?

You are a nonce mate

ImaIma1:
Convenience i guess. Even you...of you have friends and one has a car, which one will you hang with more? Lol

But the car is not the most important thing. There are cases where a car owner loses against a non car owner.

I will hang out with all my niggas irrespective of cars. Why dont i hustle myself to buy my own car? We men dont think like that.

That is why i say men and women are wired differently. Bothers me when guys think a woman can think like that. Lmao.

Waymehn are very very selfish beings who are the lookout for their own selfish interest.

Officialgarri:
If that's their wish, then grant it.
I can swear to it that Nigerians in south Africa are majorly into Fraud and drugs. I didn't read it. I know it with facts.

If they accuse us of such, they are actually saying the truth,
and we ought to cover our face in shame and return home for always embarrassing ourselves everywhere we go.

South Africa is not same as Nigeria where a state will be arrogantly claimed by another set of people from a far different region.

South Africans are lazy and Nigerians have seized the chance to snatch people's girls and wives.

So that’s the justification for the senseless attacks?

Did you read what you wrote before posting.

pocohantas:
There is no value to it, yet guys are looking for virgins?

No value yet guys pay to get laid?

No value yet guys will turn statistician calculating the mileage of a woman's vagina?

No value yet a sexually experienced lady is tagged a slut and her male counterpart a stud?

No value yet the quickest way guys deride girls is to call her olosho or borehole pussy?

No value yet a guy breaks up with a girl and him and his friends would console themselves with the fact that he AT LEAST bleeped her?

No value yet a guy would feel cheated if he does things for a girl he hasn't or wouldn't lay?

No value yet female chastity is more emphasized than the male one?

No value yet a male adulterer can't stand the thought of his woman being penetrated from the warmest orifice?



Keep changing the rules as you go, it doesn't change the average male thinking process.

That’s what the last guy is saying. You girls place value on an over-prized merchandize That simps/weak men will pay a fortune to get.

Make sure you put yourself first and improve your life daily Nairaland men.

Guys like Ubunja are just giving you a reality check. Bitter truth about this world. How it really works. Not what society tells you. The hard truth about life. Learn at your own discretion.

Women are careless. You should never give your heart to a being that is careless. That’s all I can say.

Goodluck.

ubunja:
who needs a smart woman? For what? To work equations at home?

Please.

Cooking, cleaning, opening legs amd having children don't need a smart intelligent goal oriented woman.

Esther Vilar supported what you wrote below. And Ofcourse she’s a woman so she knows better

Dagger79:
So the ladies should just relax and wait until the guys have done all the hard work, by going through all these stages you mentioned just for the them (ladies) to come and enjoy what they didn't sweat for abi

Not surprised the Op was getting to that. Absolute simp.

Make sure you hustle guys for yourself and yourself alone. And then for your parents and siblings.

If you get bored and want to go into any relationship make sure she’s bringing something valuable in return.

Don’t follow the Op’s Misleading advice. He wants you to struggle to become an independent man then become a captain save a h oe.

Cheers.

Martinez39:
Hehehe. Men themselves have foolishly fallen for their ego. They don't want gold diggers yet they take pride in showing off their material achievements and getting the women. Being a slave to their ego creates these sorts of contradictions similar to what we see in women. You will hear rappers and young boys saying "I have made it and all girls' eyes are on me now" with so much pride and self accomplishment. Well it is an achievement if you plan to ejaculate and evacuate but apart from that, female attention and validation are worth nothing. Men just need to grow up.

Retweet.

Bahddo:
stop trying to twist reality. He never said guys should not give their girls anything. He was saying guys should learn to detect when they are being manipulated and listed ways to counter the manipulation. He also replied someone on the thread saying that there should be a balance as being stingy would drive your girl off.

Aunty, pregnancy is natural and is not exclusive to marriage. Your body changes because your body changes (and gluttony) not because you are married. What's more, your pregnancy does not benefit your husband more than it does you.

It's also a myth that wives are slaves to their husbands. It's the picture you ladies try to promote so it would be easier to manipulate the unsuspecting husbands. If anything, majority of their men slave for their families all their lives, never getting any sort of appreciation because "it's their duty."

Imagine having to pay through the nose to marry a lady so you can continue paying through the nose to provide for her and future kids while your kids prefer her to you because she's the one that gets to feed them the food you struggle to provide.

Marriage is far more beneficial to women. Doubt me? Go to churches and see how many of you are praying hard for a chance to become a "lifelong" slave. Ask people in long term relationships and find out which gender is more desperate to tie the knot. Also find out which gender is more likely to be broke and jobless and still get married.

Good write up. You can also read the manipulated man for more knowledge.

Love exists only between a mother and child. Anything else is transactional and bullshit

ednut1:
married or not. Old age is still lonely. Ur kids no go dey your house. Your husband or wife fit don die too

Lol smart man. They will always talk about being lonely when you make a point.

You can have a family and still be lonely. These lots just think life is straightforward. Anything can happen. Your wife could be gone. Anything.

The thought of being alone as you grow older scares the shit out of these weak boys.

Men have grown weak. Just sad. Men prefer the bondage and slavery lifestyle of getting married. Esther was right after all.

Its all mentality. Talk is cheap.

Since this is already a topic as per 'Ladies should be able to provide for themselves', some Nigerian women are already seeing it as a major task and it could lead to frustration and exaggerated ego in the long run - 'Its a privilege i can take care of myself, i am not like other women'

It shouldn't be a task. It should be a common mentality. Basic. Dont see it as a competition with other women.

It wasn't in the norms and culture from Nigeria from the start for ladies to be independent so i can understand the problems.

I was making a point in another thread how, over here in the UK, we do 50/50 on dates and some people thought i was saying gibberish.

Brilliant write up.

GodSaklek:
That's true bro, hiv isn't to get and it's not easy for hiv to get into thr body Just like that unlike other infections, is either the guy has got it before or he has sore on his dick... I remember a story of one girl that I have sex with,she's hiv positive but she hide it from me since she's taken her medicine always,we first started having sex with condom, one day,the condom tear,I decide to continue, since then,we are not using protector, there was a day I suddenly see the medicine inside her bag by mistakes,I started questioning her, that's wen she opened up to me,assume that she didn't take her medicine or she haven't started taken any medication,I would have been infected,... All this happened in 2016,i did several test but nothing, I have done several tests since that 2016 up till today, but am still negative, even I still did a test 2 weeks ago because I normally do it every 3 to 4 months

If she was using drugs, your chance of getting infected is very very low cause her viral load will be low.

Some people just believe HIV is that easy to get. If it was easy, everyone would have HIV.

Always use a condom if you dont trust your partner. Cheers.

Zornes123:
Nairalanders ehn. Una no go kill person. See it requires just one exposure to get this n immediately d codom broke definitely it was in the v jay, even if he pulled out immediately you must have had at least one thrust to know the condom broke. So the guy might be saying the fact.
And about the test level I know of someone who tested positive at week 11 after doing series of test with all coming out negative. About 10 test o withing 11 weeks lol. This one na true story. I pitied the girl. She gt d feeling but last last result show positive. So no go about misleading people with that four weeks crap. Most people go just Dey treat malaria up and down.

What are you on about? Who doesnt know it requires one exposure to get HIV?? I am saying if he was using a condom and it busted immediately he pulled out, it is extremely hard to get infected in that manner. HIV is really difficult to get. Go and read the facts and then quote me.

Your one exposure could be having sex without protection.

Ronaldo24682:
it can doesn’t mean it always will. Check on the other guys thread. He tested negative at week 4 with the same Rapid test. And what do I stand to gain lying about pulling out or not on time. Does that change my status. And again prior to my testing positive I did a test early this year.

Not even expecting you to fully remember events of that day considering the trauma of getting infected. Hiv is not the end of the world anyways. I am sure you are already on drugs, take them.

But what you listed above has so many questions marks.

You either had sores on your dick or when you pulled out, you continued having sex for a while before wearing a new condom.

Kindly confirm this cause getting hiv by what you listed above is 1 in 10 billion.

Not disputing anyways.

Kingsteve:
red pill, blue pill, green pill, purple pill or black pill...I don't really give a fvck!
All I'm saying...why waste time on irrelevant issues such as how to get women and whatnot, when there are better things one can do with his time?

When full blown adult males spend so much time, trying to decipher how to woo women & lay them, that; my friend, reeks of weakness!

Anything you say mate. Cheers.

Kingsteve:
Isn't this almost what I'm trying to say?

Then apparently you know the red pill fact. So why the name shagging?

They are not weak men. Cheers.

Ikpeazukerosene:
The painful part is that when this guy graduated with a First class, it was here on front page. When he finished NYSC, it was here on frontpage in June or July.

Now, his death is also on front page.

Are you serious? This is truly sad

Kingsteve:
They are weak men with misplaced priorities, spending so much time on irrelevant things, when there's so much more to achieve in life.
Pathetic!
Absolutely pathetic!

Misplaced priorities? Nope. They are just protecting themselves and their wallet. You do your thing and let others do their thing.

Though I am not in your country, I have achieved many things than you have. My priorities are on another level and I have taken the red pill long ago. Irony is it’s easy to get women when you finally know the truth.

While I don’t know Ubunja & the other lads I am glad they are teaching NIgerian men the truth about female nature.

Always put yourself first. Work hard. You will always lose money chasing women but you will never lose women chasing money.

Also Op, stop playing the victim card of not cheating bla bla. The world owes you nothing. Your ex girlfriend owes you nothing.

Nobody will give you a shinning medal for being loyal to a girlfriend. Infact nobody cares. Bitter truth. She will be fine. She will probably live long and die someday. Just like you too. So nothing will happen to her.

I hope you don’t make the same mistake twice.