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I remember watching that Don’t Look Up Movie

If something similar like the movie story of a large comet heading towards earth, greed will make that comet kill all of us.

GRIMMJOE:
With money you can buy love, it doesn't matter if it's real or fake.

Cc AlphaAlex

In the end women are still the same old manipulative and selfish breed.

Yes she could love you without having money but that means you are contributing in one way to her fantasy - Tall, Handsome, funny and etc it’s always about her and not you.

But don’t think for a second these 21st century lots wouldn’t be tempted by the rich simps we have out there.

Men will console themselves with the theory that “she loves me and I am broke” but when you dig deep, the same girl is probably digging one random rich guy out there who probably doesn’t give a damn about her.

Hookup culture is even more widespread in that hell hole Nigeria.

Women will always have rich simps! Women will always have men they desire and love (The love is very conditional, manipulative and selfish)

Different men for different roles.

Everything is well placed for the Gender F. They are always gaining one way or the other lol. Always to their advantage. Men continue to think and work for women as usual.

She is never yours, It’s only your turn.

franchasng:
This question should be directed to the ladies only and maybe boys between age 17 to 23yrs.



As far as I know, the only things that scare guys in life are:


1.) Fear of ending up financially poor

2.) Fear of dying young or falling sick and becoming physically incapacitated or handicapped.


Because majority of men don't believe in true love, men believe that women love men based on the man's financial/economic/social status, so to most men, once they are doing well financially and also healthy, they will never lack women to be with, it doesn't matter if the women are there for their money or not cos men already have a predetermined mindset or belief that women's love or affection for a man depends hugely on the man's financial muscle.





When it comes to women issues, the only thing that worries young average guys is how to get a girlfriend for the purpose of curing conji with minimal spending or zero spending not necessarily about love, so when an average young man finds an attractive girl that gives him free access to sex without spending,
that means he has found love, this is how boys think, don't get it twisted lolz

Haha bro why you Dey cast update

Lanre1st:
Hearth breaking Gunners, they may end up not making Top 4.

I'm ready to bet

Arsenal will finish first or second. If you want to bet I have a small token = £5500

He could still be back. Players retire and come back in international football

Jennyclay:
Men & crime are like 5 & 6.

Sentence these animals to life Imprisonment.. Biko.

A few bad eggs.

But men created that phone you using to type this nonsense. Heck the owner of this platform is a man.

You Pmsing again

Amid all the red pill knowledge on this page, summary is �

“Once you have control over this thing, man you have won.”

You lose nothing. You win. You see things clearly. You see manipulations clearly. You decide things. You have a lot of money in the account. You dictate. The positives are endless.

Enjoy.

chigomiced:
The fact that you tend to overspend is an indication that it is a problem...


Using money to cover bad habits is not healthy...


Think generational wealth.
Think sustainable living

Thanks man

chigomiced:
5 things destroy young men's lives:

1) Gambling
2) Eating too much
3) Comfortable paychecks
4) Uncontrolled lust and anger
5) Unlimited access to dopamine (porn/entertainment)

If you can avoid these 5 things, your chances of success go up 100x.

Out of all these my big problem is 2).

If you have the funds to cover that is it a problem?

I just love a bite here and there even though I tend to overspend eventually.

It’s 2022 and this bitch is still mad

SEGUE1:
What has all this BS got to do with my post
It's doesn't even correlate with anything close to what i made metion of

You condoned exploitation of a kind and I gave a piece of my own opinion.

SEGUE1:
Let's take note... Women will only want all these from a man they truly desire
Be it sexually or romantically... Desire is Desire at this point...

When a woman wants to exploit you and you don't bend over backwards for her or agree with any shii she says or does...
She will never be impressed with you, as long as there is no desire
You just imagine a skinny ass bitch with no sexual appeal extremely playing hard to get when you're not even chasing her... Vhatz mard fam!
If you don't let no girl exploit you... She'll never desire you for it if you were never desired in the first place
She'll rather stay on the sideline... Hating... Staying over there and being miserable because you have just commited a crime and you deserved to be locked up for not letting her have her way
Cause she has seen you as a toy she can play with but just imagine how frustrating it can be when you get 2k and it's showing you Call of duty... Arrrrrgggggh!
Yeeah! That's how she'll feel
•SEGUE

Truly men are not valued. Truly men are suffering. Can you imagine this ridiculous take? I can bet a female wrote this?

For no reason should you allow a woman exploit you, especially financially. REJECT IT. Desire or no desire. Feelings or no feelings. Reject exploitation. Many men are suffering this. Don’t be one of them.

Whether you are fat, ugly, short, tall, handsome or whatever spec there is, you don’t need the decision of another mortal human being to decide anything. You don’t need a woman to be happy infact. You ARE PERFECT THE WAY YOU ARE.

Also Pls safe guard your finances especially being in a third world country like Nigeria.

OMOA10:
Ok

Why dont you just win you bets in peace or help people to win for free.

Why must they subscribe over a gamble you have no control over and just down to luck?

All these fraudsters

Truvelisback:
18 was the number i got after reading.

Not possible bro. Kindly try again.

Truvelisback:
I download a java Heart pulse app. I followed their instruct by placing my Left(palm) on my right hand wrist while holding the phone with my right hand. But i do not understand how it works. In the app there is a place to put a number, which i do not. When i pressed 5 button, something snaky starts moving on the screen. When i press stop, a particular number will appear.

Kindly try to follow the instructions and get the reading.

Truvelisback:
I can't feel or detect my heartbeat now. Maybe it's because it is mild.

Do it when you can. Alternatively there are apps on your smart phone that can give you an accurate number by just placing your finger on the camera lens.

Check your app store. Search Heart Rate apps.

Truvelisback:
How do i check my pulse reading?

If you dont have a smart watch, follow this simple tip:

"To check your pulse at your wrist, place two fingers between the bone and the tendon over your radial artery — which is located on the thumb side of your wrist. When you feel your pulse, count the number of beats in 15 seconds. Multiply this number by four to calculate your beats per minute."

You can do that now and give me the count. But the most accurate ones are when you wake up or about to sleep.

Truvelisback:
My heart beat is normal. It's just that, this beating come unexpectedly.

No bro, That is not what i meant. I want to know your resting heart rate.

Check your pulse reading for 10 seconds first thing when you wake up in the morning and tell me what you get.

Martinez39s:
If you give birth to three to four children in Nigeria with average income and you complaining of the economy, you are just another foolish and heartless soul.

Always smart.

Truvelisback:
What is the cause, effect and solution to it?

Common Causes? Stress, anxiety, medications, High blood pressure, Low blood pressure and etc.

Solution? Take your mind off it. Couple of brisk walking (Don't run or jog if you are not very fit) most times of the week will massively help.

Eliminate anything that causes you stress.

What is your heart beat per minute count?

Heart palpitations

LiegeMan:
hello Nairalanders, sorry for the long write-up, it's LiegeMan again.
my name is Mr Omale liegeman and I'm from Kogi State, I thank you all for your kind advice on the other thread regarding my wife's past life and I can assure you all that I decided to put to use some of the advice from here ( yes, I read all the 590+ comments from A-Z) and it's yielding positive result as I've been experiencing happiness as never before in my life, though majority of Nairalanders who contributed in the previous post failed to understand my point of view because I was trying to make the post as snappy as possible. Thank you all once more.

Now, while I was planning ways to work things out with my wife with some of the advice that I gathered here, my Aunty who's married to an Igbo man from Imo state called me that her daughter, who's a student of Imo State University (Imsu) came home during weekend, Saturday precisely, locked herself up in a room and has been crying ever since without food nor water, and has refused to see nor talk to anyone.
I advice them to keep an eye on her so as to prevent her from attempting something stupid, she assured me that they broke into her apartment where she locked up Herself and brought her out.

So on Sunday, being 31 day of October, 2021, I left everything that I was doing in Makurdi and rushed to their village in Imo State, on getting there, I observed that both her hands and legs were tied and when I inquired why, she told me that it was an attempt to prevent her from escaping. I asked them to untie her, she was still crying when I asked her to go dress up that I'll be taking her out, she quickly went inside and dressed up we left the village for Orlu.

When we reached Orlu, we entered into a restaurant, and I started asking her what the problem was, I inquired if it was her boyfriend that broke her heart, she said no, I later succeeded in making her to tell me what the problem was because she's my closest ally.

when she opened up, she told me that she decided to do a little gbaje gbaje, ie do a little runs, she booked an appointment with a man and when she reached the said hotel, she and the Man started romancing and kissing and after awhile, the man started hissing uncontrollably, she inquired from the man what the problem was, he told her that what he wanted to take from her has been taken by someone else, in her confused state, she asked the man what he meant by that, the man looked her into her eyeballs and told her that she's empty, that what he intended taking from her has been taken by another person, he counted the said amount they bargain and handed it over to her and ordered her to get out of the hotel premises. I tried to console her by telling her that the man didn't mean what he said, that maybe his manhood disappointed him, he said those to cover his shame and I also advice her to be very careful because Xmas it at hand, immediately I told her those, she became relieved and stopped crying but I know right inside of me, that what the man said wasn't a joke at all.

when we got home, the news didn't go down well with her mother as tears started rolling down her cheek, she is planning a way to take her daughter to different prayer houses.

Now what exactly is this man talking about, what exactly did he take from her, is it her womb, destiny or what?
please house, any advice for this kid cousin of mine?
or way to find out what has been taken from her and get her liberated.

You travelled from Makurdi down to IMO in this security crisis era in Sh it hole Nigeria.

You better be careful as per your own safety.

Kylekent59:
The way some of you sound seems disgusting. The topic says "willing and able NYSC members." It is not like they are forcing any corps member to join. Let us learn how to comprehend news and not follow legions of uneducated fellows to comment out of point.

You are probably an illiterate.

Didn't you see this?

Those who refuse to join the military services will have to serve in their community without pay.

Read you can't read.

Flairoqy:
If you’re reasonable, weigh your profit & losses whenever you’re doing something, if you lose more than you win then it’s bad for you, it’s nothing new to take risk, risk takers are the game changers, but before taking risk, make sure you’re always ready for the fall out, because 99% of the time we lose on any risk we take, but the 1% chances changes our lives, if you want to quit gambling then it’s a strong will nothing more, gambling isn’t a bad idea it’s not just recommended for financially unstable people, so man pick yourself up by the bootstrap, the hustle continues. Go to school tomorrow like nothing happened, sleep like nothing happened, you can try and get loan since you’re a corper for these loan sharks but make sure you’re paying back month end, fill your kitchen with food enough for the month, eat, work and sleep for this month, live a simple life since you know your state, until you’re financially balanced don’t think gambling will make your way out of poverty.
Stay safe too

Good advice but dont take any yeye loan from any yeye loan sharks.

BEWARE!!!

KMJY:
Straight to the point:
1. After navigating the huddles of the intellectual temple, transversing the valley of industrial action that keeps you in school more than the stipulated year, you graduate and the government and private companies tell a job seeker that:

a. Don't apply if you are above 30 years

b. Only those who graduate in 2017 will be employed. Graduates from 2016 downwards need not apply.

c. Who is your God father? (You must know a senator or any politician for that matter) if not, you stand no chance.

d. You must pay a huge sum running into hundreds of thousands before you are considered. In the process of bribing your way through, you sometimes fall into the hands of corporate fraudsters.

e. No matter how intelligent you were in school, nobody will look at your certificate twice (after all people buy grades in school).

IMPLICATIONS

1. Graduates who came out with First class, second class, upper credit division (poly) students are rendered useless by the system.

2. Some youth go into crime out of frustration just to meet ends meet.

3. The number of unemployed graduates keep piling every year.

4. No future for the youth.

VERDICT
1. Why are our politicians so wicked? Why would they allow us (unemployed youths) to be at the mercy of self-seeking, selfish-centered/avaricious heads of government MDAs? The president cannot claim to be ignorant of the high rate of corruption going on in this MDAs except of course it has chosen to let the youth remain where we are.

2. If at all politicians have hijacked recruitment processes in the country, would it be out of place for government to at least consider graduates who graduated with flying colours from various institutions of learning? The way government treats outstanding graduates in this country isn't fair, I must say that it discourages hardwork since mediocres believe they can manoeuvre their way through irrespective of the grade they graduated with. Personally, I have reached a state of dispondency watching the guys I was coaching in the university backing juicy and lucrative jobs while I am fading out as class teacher receiving a paltry sum that cannot even sustain me for two weeks.

Please tell the president to come to my aid and those in a similar situation as myself!

I will never belittle or mock anybody, but i think you deserve whatever you are going through in life with this sort of mentality.

Though you listed some valid points with the corruption crisis facing Sh*t hole Nigeria which is disaster, still From your writeup and IMO, you sound like an envious & entitled person. Also, you seem proud cause you apparently got a good grade from the University and feel you are better than the next man because of that feat.

If you had the power tomorrow who knows if you would act worse with this discriminatory outlook.

Continue to live in your fantasy bubble, friend.

TWLifestyle:
You people really need to get over yourselves . I gave a guy a whole bike , gave him a job , bought him a phone , employed his daughter yet he still bleeped up. Abegi . Women help men everyday you don't see us coming to cry about nonsense . You people have big mouths and love to moan and bytch about everything. Just so tiring ..

HAHA my nigga

DEMZEE:
Redpill doesn't exist so men wud hate women, it exists so men won't hate women for Wat they can never be to them

Stop explaining to anybody bro.

I saw the thread on reddit. A place full of sad, immature Men with no self esteem.

I wonder who told them the Redpill was created for Men to hate Women

lalasticlala:
ABOKIFX MANAGEMENT DECISION

AbokiFX has taken the decision today, the 17th of September 2021, to temporarily suspend rate updates on all our platforms, until we get better clarity of the situation.

Final rates have been posted this evening but the abokiFX news section and the Crypt° rates section will still be active.

WHO WE ARE

abokiFX was established in 2014 as a research and information service company, to conduct market research and gather data on the parallel market rates.

We also wanted to provide some transparency around the parallel market with the availability of information technology.

abokiFX purely provides benchmark parallel rate information which helps guide our users in almost 200 countries across the world.
abokiFX does NOT TRADE FX, which we have always maintained in our emails and social media platforms.

We do not Trade FX neither do we have the power to manipulate the rates as we DO NOT CREATE the rates.

We are the only entity in Nigeria that has a full set of parallel rates, right from our inception in 2014 when the exchange rate was trading at N166 to Sl.

We collated data for years before we started publishing, as we realised the demand increased for our historical data.

To most users of our platforms, we are just a parallel rates board but to many institutions, ranging frorn IVY league universities, to global businesses and research centres, we area keysource of data, especially, historical data (almost a decade's worth of data on parallel rates).

Companies use our data for their internal and external audits as well as planning and budgeting.

We ONLY publish what we source on the streets of Lagos, hence the phrase, Lagos Parallel Rates. The rates sourced are carefully collated, reviewed and a mean rate is published from the data pool. This explains our three daily updates - * Morning, ** Midday, ***Evening.
Sometimes, rates come in late but we have to wait for the full set of rates before they are published, to prevent volatility of rates.

None of our data source providers know who we are or what their rates are being used for. This is to avoid any manipulation of rates.
Our staff have a daily routine of going to the market to gather rates, as all the BDCs in the country have their rates clearly displayed on their rates board and parallel market rate dealers give the information away freely.
All we do is collate all that information and display it on all our platforms daily.

REPLAY OF 2017 vs 2021

In 2017, Nigeria experienced an FX crises and the Naira depreciated to over N500/$1. abokiFX was accused of manipulating the parallel market rates.

Once liquidity was injected, the Naira appreciated and we published the appreciation which is basically what we do.
2021 has seen a similar scenario with the naira depreciating and we have published what we have been given, which has led some to believe we are manipulating the market. Yet no one can complain about our rates deviating +/- 2% from the parallel market rates when they patronise the dealers in the rnarket.
If we do not create the rates, how then can we control the rates. Our only sources of income have been our API and advert sales.

ALLEGATIONS AGAINST OUR DIRECTOR

All allegations against our director are yet to be confirrned but we at abokiFX DO NOT trade FX neither do we manipulate parallel rnarket rates.

Outside the media allegation, we have not received any communication from any government body and our accounts are not closed as stipulated in the media.

WAY FORWARD

abokiFX is fully functional BUT we will not be publishing any form of rates on our platforms for now. We sincerely hope this suspension will lead to the Naira appreciation from next week. With our decision to temporarily suspend online rate publication, we are aware that there will be limited visibility of parallel rates information which will impact decision making for rnany.

Nice banter

kokanepyramid:
People that are finding it difficult to pay their ward’s school fees in this economy will be the first to advise young men to get married.

Misery really loves company.

I think it’s just out of envy seeing how you are enjoying your life looking fresh. The other day I took leave from work and embarked on vacation out of the country. This married colleague won’t stop yapping about “my being single is why I’m doing all these, that they with kids are planning for September school fees” then ended it with “ you better go and marry and stop wasting time”.

You better remain single and if you want to start a family wait or travel to a better country that works.

Better still, you should give birth to one or two children irrespective of your location. Do it when you are ready. Dont let any bastard force you to do anything. You can even decide not to.

The COVID pandemic with the government hoarding palliatives is enough reasons to be careful with your decisions in Nigeria.

BLOODYSPERM:
Your best relationship ever won't come from the woman you loved or prioritized the most,it's the opposite, never forget this- Donovan Sharpe

Deeeeeeeeeeeep.

Raydos:
All I am saying is that this Private citizens are the ones who grow to become president, Senators, Governors tomorrow!

or do you think president fall from heaven?

You are not intelligent. Very dull person. Your deductive reasoning is equal to a toddler.

No offense

You are suppose to resign.